If there’s one game every couple should play, it’s definitely the 21 questions game. Not only is this a really great way to start a conversation if you can’t think of an idea, but you will also learn SO MUCH about who they are as a person. This can help you know for sure if they’re the one for you or not.
If you’re unfamiliar with how to play this game, it’s the easiest thing in the world. All you do is ask them a certain question and they answer it! You get 21 questions and then they get 21 questions. You could go ahead and ask them the same, lame 21 questions everyone asks, OR you could ask some of these questions that will reveal the most about them as a person.
- If you had the chance, would you rather go back in time or take a trip into the future?
This is a really fun question to ask your crush that can help you see just what they think of their past life. You’ll discover if they have any regrets in the past they would like to change.
- What game did you like the play the most as a child?
The things we like as children have the ability to shape us into the people we are today. Finding out their favorite game can tell you a lot about what they enjoy.
- Would you rather have a second house on the ocean or in the mountains somewhere?
There really are two different types of people in the world and determining if your crush likes the ocean or mountains will help you discover more about their personality.
- If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you want to go?
The world is a vast and exciting place. Find out just where your crush finds most interesting. Do they like where they are or are they the adventurous type?
- What’s the one food you could eat anytime, anywhere?
Everyone has this one food they LOVE no matter what. Finding out theirs can help you win their heart.
- If you were able to buy and own 3 cars, which would they be?
I think a lot of people have three dream cars they’d love to own. But perhaps your crush isn’t very materialistic. This question is a great way to find out.
- What would your dream house look like?
This question will really reveal just what your crush wants most in their adult home.
- What’s something that makes you the angriest?
This question is an obvious one. It’ll help you understand their deepest dislikes.
- What’s something that makes you the happiest?
Another obvious way of finding out the true joys in their life. They’ll also really like talking about this topic!
- Would you rather be really rich but nobody knows who you are, or be famous, but not as rich?
Some people think being famous means being rich. However, this question will reveal just how much your crush likes to be in the limelight.
- What do you think is more important: truth or happiness?
Some people say knowing the truth will lead to happiness. Find out how your crush feels about this important topic.
- Which song describes your life the most?
If you really want an inside look at their life, asking this question and then listening to the song will tell you everything you need to know.
- What would your idea soul mate be like?
Find out if you have all the qualities they’re looking for by asking this question. It’ll tell you just what they value most in a partner.
- If you could have one superpower, what would it be?
Do they want to be invisible so they can escape from the public? Or do they want to have super strength and save the world?
- Do you think you’d be the superhero or the villain?
Obviously, if this person is a villain, they’re not a very good person. However, you can find out just what they’d do with their powers with this question.
- If you had the ability to change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
This can tell you everything you need to know about their insecurities and whether or not they’re happy with who they are – something everyone wishes to know about the people they could possibly date.
- Would you rather be really smart but unattractive or really attractive but really dumb?
Sometimes people put value in the wrong things in life. Find out where your crush puts theirs.
- What would you do if your parents hated the love of your life?
Find out just how much your crush’s parents’ opinions mean to them. This can also help you see if they’re really close to their parents or not so much.
- If you could transform into an animal, which would it be?
This is a fun question that will also help you understand the true nature of your crush. You’ll also be able to figure out what their favorite animal is by this, as well.
- If you could choose one profession that you were guaranteed to succeed in, what would it be?
This would be their absolute dream job no matter how good or bad they are at something. Personally, I think most of us would do something crazy and amazing if we knew we couldn’t fail.
- If there were ducklings stuck in the drainage on the side of the road and you were running late to work (and your boss said you can’t be late 1 more time or you’re fired), would you still stop to save the ducklings?
This will tell you just how great (or bad) of a person they are. Even though ducklings are seemingly insignificant in comparison to a job, those who would save them are the better people.
This game is such a great way to get to know your crush in a way that doesn’t make them feel like they’re being interviewed. Next time you want to talk to them, suggest playing this game!