There comes a point when you start getting to know a girl when you have to begin asking a lot of questions. Otherwise, you may end up only getting to know the parts about her that she thinks about first. She won’t always just blurt out every little thing about who she is.
That being said, you also have to know the RIGHT questions to ask her in order to get the information out of her in a sneaky way. If you think you might like this girl and want to know for sure if she’s the one for you, asking these questions can help you get to the bottom of your feelings.
However, you also have to keep in mind that there are certain questions you should NEVER as a girl – no matter what. They can ruin your chances of getting her and even make you look like an ass. Here are the best questions to ask a girl and some you should steer clear of.
21 Good and Cute Questions to ask a girl
If you’re trying to get to know the real her, these are the questions you should be asking. Make sure to vary these from time to time so you’re not playing 20 questions with her and making her feel like she’s being interrogated.
- What are your secret skills?
The honest truth about everyone – not just girls – is that we have little skills that don’t get used often or that no one hardly knows about. The fact of the matter is that we LOVE to tell people about them. So ask her in order to get to know what she’s really good at.
- What was your favorite toy when you were a kid?
Our childhood can tell us an awful lot about who we are now. This is why you should always ask a girl what her favorite toy was when she was little. It’ll help you discover what kind of things she puts value in.
- What is the best gift you’ve ever given someone?
This is a perfect way to find out if she’s someone who considers money presents to mean the most of if she prefers to give gifts that are emotionally meaningful.
- When you were little, what was the most embarrassing thing that happened to you?
The things that happen to us when we’re little can play a huge role in what we still find embarrassing or weird. Asking what made her embarrassed when she was little is a perfect way to uncover what she gets embarrassed by now.
- If your house was on fire and you had to leave right away, what’s the one thing you would grab?
Some people are materialistic and others put more value in memories and emotionally meaningful things. Find out what this girl values most by asking this question and determining whether or not she would grab her laptop or some old photos.
- Where’s the one place you want to visit before you die?
Some people really feel the urge to travel in their lifetime. Find out if the girl you like is like this because it can show you just how adventurous and spontaneous she is.
- What did you want to be when you were little and do you still want to be that?
Everyone has big dreams when they’re younger but those dreams often fall flat when they get older and reality catches up with them. If your girl wants to be the same thing she did when she was little, maybe she’s more dedicated than you thought.
- If you were stuck in an elevator for 4 hours and had to listen to the same song on repeat, which would it be?
This can either tell you what her favorite song is or the song she finds the least annoying. Either way, it’s a really good way to figure out her taste in music and whether or not she gets irritated easily.
- What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?
We’ve all had horrible jobs in our lives. Mine was a desk job in a corporate office. You can learn a lot about someone’s creativity levels and how good they are dealing with people based on their most hated job.
- What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten?
The advice we receive during our lives help shape us into the person we are. Therefore, if you want to know this girl on a deeper level than most would, asking this question will show you what her past problems were and how much she took the advice she got.
- What game was your favorite when you were a little kid?
We’ve all played so many games in our youth and they can help show you what we find entertaining. If she liked to play a creative, problem-solving game or a more physical game, that tells you an awful lot about who she is.
- If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
If you want to know where she sees herself in the future and if she’s truly happy where she is, asking this question will do just that. Find out how compatible you are with her based on this.
- What do you do when someone annoys you for no reason?
Some people have a lot of patience while other have very little. This can help you see where she falls and how good of a person she is. Some bad people might just tell them to shut up and good people would ignore them. Which is she?
- Would you go with me to….?
Throw this question in there to see just how far she’d be willing to go with you. Ask her if she’d go to the movies with you or if she’d take a road trip. Her answer can tell you how she feels about you.
- What lessons have you learned from your past relationships?
Everyone’s past relationship has shaped them in some way. If you want to find out how she is in a relationship now, ask this question to see how much she’s learned from others.
- What would you say is one thing all guys need to understand about girls that they never seem to?
If you want to know what is important to her and what you should be paying the most attention to when it comes to her, ask this question. She may not know it at the time, but she’s basically giving you exactly what you need to win her over with this question.
- Who is your best friend and why?
A girl’s best friend is sometimes a reflection of who she is and what she needs in her life. By finding out why someone is her best friend, you’ll learn what she needs most in those around her and it can help you be just that.
- If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be, if anything?
Everyone has something they don’t like about themselves. However, if you ask this question you’ll get a sense of what her confidence level is like and that can help you in your behavior toward her and what you should compliment the most.
- What’s the worst pickup line a guy has used on you?
This will be sure to make the both of you laugh out loud. If you want to know what NOT to do to win her over, asking this question will give you exactly that and a good laugh at the same time.
- Does your name have any specific meaning?
Some people are named a specific way because it’s what their parents saw for them while others names mean absolutely nothing. If you’re lucky, you can learn a bit about her parents and therefore, learn more about her.
- If you had to jump into a pool of something other than water, what would it be?
I think we’ve all had a dream of jumping into a pool of Jell-O or pudding. Asking her this question will give you a peak at her creative side and maybe even tell you what her favorite food or drink is.
10 Questions Should Never Ask A Girl
Girls can be on their guard a lot when being asked questions. Sure, we may choose to just not answer some, but they won’t make us really mad. The questions that make us angry and will have us never talk to you again are these.
- How old are you?
This is especially for girls that are a little older. Never ask a girl this because we don’t like to admit when we’re older than we want to be. After all, age doesn’t really even matter, does it?
- How much do you weigh?
This is just a HUGE no-no when it comes to asking girls questions. Girls weights really don’t even matter that much because she could be a really muscular girl who weighs a lot.
- How much money do you make?
Unless you’re getting married, you don’t need to know how much someone makes in their job. This is just a rude question to ask and literally makes no difference in whether or not you like her.
- How can a guy win you over?
She’s not going to give you the key to her heart. You have to earn it. So don’t just ask this question.
- Are your boobs real?
If you ask this question, just prepare to be slapped across the face. This is rude and horrible.
- Are you going to pay for this?
If you asked her on a date and then ask her this, she’ll be pissed.
- How many guys have you been with?
DO NOT ASK THIS QUESTION. It has no relevance to if you like her or not and it doesn’t matter.
- Do you think I’m attractive?
This is you just fishing for a compliment. If she’s on a date with you, she likes you.
- Are you on your period or something?
If this is in response to her being cranky, you better get ready to see her ANGRY.
- Are you sure that guy is ‘just a friend’?
This is you being jealous and she’ll be mad you don’t trust her. If she says he’s a friend, he’s just a friend.
Girls can be complicated people to ask questions about. But if you just stick to these ones, you’ll know all you need to about her.