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12 Signs Of Body Language Attraction


  • People Talk With Their Eyes

Yes, the number one thing that gives away whether a person has feelings for you or not is their eyes. Eyes speak much louder than even voices do. Unless the person in question is a professional poker player, it’s going to be easy to identify their feelings by paying attention to their eyes. How so? Well, what are their eyes focused on at all times? If they are attracted to you they will have their eyes on you almost every second. But studies say that not only will they lock eyes with you and hold eye contact, but they will keep their gaze focused on your face. Sometimes their stare might stray to other spots, if you catch the drift.

However, most of the time their look will remain on your eyes and mouth. This is because they want to pay attention to you and show that they are listening. They also will look at your lips often, because they feel sexually attracted to you.

Not only will you, quite literally, catch their eye. You will also notice that women who are attracted to someone are constantly batting their eyelashes. Women do this because it brings a male’s gaze up to focus on the woman’s eyes.

Men might use their eyebrows, instead of just their eyes, by raising them often. This is the

equivalent of a woman batting her eyelashes.

You might also notice move their eyeballs up and then down slowly. This is a way to get a man aroused. You might catch a man doing this as well once in awhile, to show the woman that he is sexually interested in her.

  • Pay Attention When They Walk With You

When someone likes a person, they will always be by their side or directly in front of them. This is especially true when they are walking. They will stick close to the person that they have feelings for. They will almost be close enough to touch the other person. They may even let their arms bump into each other. They will also keep at the exact same pace as the love interest.

  • They Will Also Speak Through Posture

When someone feels a strong attraction to another person, they don’t tend to let their guard down very often. This means keeping good posture until they start to get more comfortable with someone. You will find them standing tall as a tree or as if they have a steel rod in their back. They also do this because it is a great way of displaying confidence. Both men and women find it attractive when someone is confident in themselves.

You may find that a man with an attraction to a woman will stand tall and puff his chest out. While a woman with an attraction to a man will stand with her shoulders slightly pushed back. This helps her to push her breasts out and draw attention to them.

You will certainly never find someone who is attracted to someone slouching.

  • You’ll Notice They’re Mirroring You

When a man or woman is attracted to someone they will, most times, mirror the other person’s body language. When the person leans in or out, they lean in or out. If the other person takes a step back or forward, so will the man or woman who is attracted to them. This shows that they are listening to you and paying attention to you. Or as they say, in tune with one another.

  • They Might Hint With Their Lips

Lips are a major factor in identifying whether someone holds attraction for another person or not.

It’s common to see lip licking. Not the kind that you might see when someone sees a tasty piece of pie, but the very sensual kind. This means the tongue will move slowly around the lips. Almost in a delicate fashion.

You will also notice that their lips are always formed in a small smile of some sort. Not like a smirk, but just a pleasant upturn. This allows the person they like to know that they are in a good mood when they are around them.

Lip biting is also a common sign of body language attraction. This definitely means that they are more sexually interested than romantically, but could indicate both. The lip biting will not come

off as they are nervous.That would be more of a gnawing motion. This may mean that they are definitely not interested in whomever they are speaking with.

However, if you see them biting in a slow very sensual motion and only once or twice, you can be sure this is a signal of attraction.

  • And By Touching You

Touching is everything when it comes to knowing whether someone has an attraction or whether they don’t. They will use touching as a major indicator of their feelings. This means that they will always have their hands on the person that they like. Whether it’s brushing their arms against the other person’s or having their knees touch slightly.

They may even go as far as to cup the back of the person’s neck or caressing their arm gently.

  • They Will Give It Away With Their Body Direction

This is often a sign that people forget about. You will notice that someone who is very attracted to others will face them at all times. They will ensure their feet are pointed at whoever they like. When they sit, they will also point their knees in the direction of the person that they have feelings for.

You may also notice that they will have their palms and wrist facing outwards at all times when they are with the person they adore.

This is a vulnerable position. Which means that they have started to let their guard down a little more. When a person does not like someone, they will keep their wrists turned inward, as well as their palms. This means that they are much more reserved.

  • And With Where They Put Their Hands On Themselves


Science tells us that women and men both do things with their hands that show they are attracted to someone. They will often place their hands on their necks or somewhere else with a lot of nerve endings because they are aroused by the person. Even if they don’t realize that they are doing so.

  • They May Signal With Their Hair

Hair also plays a major factor! You will notice women will play with their hair when they have a crush on someone. They will gently braid it, twirl it with their fingers or even run their fingers through it. Women will also do the ever so famous ‘hair flip’ that you see in movies and on t.v. It’s a very real move and women use it all the time. This helps to attract men’s attention to their hair, which is one of the most important features to display when trying to find a partner.

Men will also use their hair when they are speaking through body language. They will tousle their hair and run their hair through their fingers. You may also see a man with interest in a woman brush her hair out of her face or tuck a strand behind her ear.

These are not things that people do when they are just friends with someone.

  • They Will Definitely Speak With Their Legs

Yep, that’s right! Even legs give away when someone likes somebody else. Especially when it comes to females. Females will use their legs often. This is because it is one of the most looked at things by men. Legs are a turn on, what else can we say?

A woman will frequently cross and uncross her legs to help draw attention to them. This is usually done while sitting next to the man she has interest in.

A man will sit with his legs a little spread apart. This makes him appear more vulnerable to women.

When someone is sitting still with their legs closed or crossed the whole time, you can be sure they are not romantically interested in anyone near them.

  • And With How They Look

Well, let’s just say when a person is attracted to someone, they definitely don’t go around looking like a slob. You will notice they are always dressed the best they can be. Women will put on perfume and men will wear cologne.

You may also notice a woman frequently straightening out her blouse or checking her makeup. She may even reapply makeup in the bathroom or in a compact.

A man will ensure he is always wearing his nicest clothes.

These things are usually done right away, but start to fade when a relationship is formed.

  • And They’ll Let You Know With Words

Attraction makes people act a little differently. So you may notice that when a woman likes someone she will change the inflection of her tone to sound a little more feminine.

A man may make his voice sound a little deeper without realizing it, to appear more masculine. This is something that people do to draw the opposite sex into them more.


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