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Can Straight Men Wear Women’s Clothing Out in Public?

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Yes. The easy answer to this is yes. As long as you are not violating any laws (such as nudity laws), you can wear whatever you want in public. If you want to walk around in a clown costume every day, then that is your choice.

While it might be legal, most people are not discussing the legality of a straight man wearing women’s clothing in public. When this question is asked, they generally want to know if it is “weird” or socially acceptable. Personally, I think that you should be able to wear whatever you want without anyone thinking about you differently. I also am personally confused as to why you exchanged clothes with large pockets for the tiny, useless pockets that come with women’s clothing. If you want to exchange comfortable, functional clothes for the non-functional, fashionable women’s attire you see in magazines, have at it.

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The real problem that guys run into is how other people will react. There is a real chance that some people will not treat you the same when you wear women’s clothing. This is not necessarily a bad thing though. Back when I was more of a hippie and not aware of how cultural appropriation worked, I had dreadlocks. Immediately, I noticed that other people avoided me when I had dreadlocks. I quickly realized that this was actually a good thing. People who judge your ‘locks were not people that I wanted to be around, so my new hairstyle basically filtered out the world. If you are wearing women’s clothing, you will probably experience the same effect. Some people might stop talking to you, but those are probably not people you would really want to be friends with anyway. If donning female attire makes you happy, forget about those people.

There is another reason why this might not really be a problem. In the last few decades, men’s and women’s clothing has grown increasingly similar. Remember the emo styles that were popular a few years ago? If you missed out, one of the emo options was for guys to wear skinny jeans or women’s jeans. This was an actual, official style. If an entire style for guys could be based on women’s clothing, why not just wear ladies clothes?

In many cases, no one will even notice that you are wearing women’s clothes. If you are wearing a sultry dress, people might notice. If you are just wearing a sweatshirt and jeans, most people won’t realize that you aren’t wearing men’s clothing.

Fight Inequality

Women still have a long way to go to fight for equal rights and equal pay. As recent scandals in Hollywood and politics show, even obvious sexism like sexual harassment or assault are still extremely common. When it comes to clothing, Western nations need to give men equal clothing rights. Women can already wear traditional men’s clothing—button-up shirts, jeans, slacks—without anyone noticing. Wearing pants has become so popular that it is the default clothing option for women.

While women get to wear traditional male attire, men have not been given the same option. How many times have you thought that a skirt would feel nice on a hot day? If you are like most guys, you have probably wondered how much cooler and breezier a skirt would be. As a skirt wearer, I can tell you that it is an excellent option when it is hot out. Why can’t men access women’s fashions in the way that women can use men’s fashions?



Be a rebel and wear a skirt. Show the world that they are being hypocrites in only approving one gender to wear certain clothes. More importantly, get people to start thinking about gender roles and stereotypes. There is absolutely nothing that says that skirts and high heels are only for women. We have two legs like guys do, so why can’t both genders wear what they want? In the case of high heels, high heels were actually designed for men at the French court. It was originally a male style. Once women copied it, the men stopped being as interested.

The entire way we dress is based on how we are raised and our culture. You can easily see this by looking at different cultures. In some cultures, women and men wear long robes or different kinds of veils. In many European nations, nude beaches are a popular option in the summer. The entire way we dress is determined by our culture, but you don’t have to listen to these restrictions forever.

Ultimately, straight men can do whatever they want. If you feel more attractive with a kilt or skirt billowing around your knees, have at it. It is not your problem if other people judge or disapprove. They have issues—you’re just wearing a skirt. If it makes you happy, go for it.

10 COMMENTS

  1. Thank you Courtney!
    I’m a hetero man who wears dresses more often than pants. Wherever I go. I first added skirts and dresses to my wardrobe because I wanted to. Very badly.
    As you might expect I was very concerned about how people would respond to me, especially parents of little kids. I shouldn’t have been. If anything, people treat me better when I’m in a dress or skirt than when I’m in pants.
    As for the reaction of kids and their parents, most kids are oblivious, a good number of the rest are appreciative and the ones who have laughed at me were admonished by their parents!
    If anything, my journey has brought out my prejudices more than other people’s.
    One time while wearing a skirt in a store I noticed a woman in a long, full skirt and a hijab giving me what I took to be very disapproving looks. I chalked it up to a her having a rigid notion of proper gender roles. Later, I saw she was struggling to get through the entrance door so I opened and held it for her. She immediately lit up like Times Square in appreciation of getting some help. As she passed by me she said, “Those sure are some pretty legs you have there!”
    Clearly, I was the one working off of a false stereotype and she was just having a bad day and a minor act of common courtesy was all it took to restore her outlook on life!
    So Courtney, men can wear whatever makes them feel good in public and so long as they feel good about it themselves so will nearly everyone they meet!

    • Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. It is great to hear that you have received positive reactions to your actions that are based in kindness and compassion. Feel free to continue to share your kindness and compassion with the world. Have a great day, David!

  2. I agree that the way you are dressed is based form your culture and life style. I say if you feel comfortable in you clothing, then wear your own personal styles. I also agree that if other people do not like your personal chooses then you do not need them in your life.

    • Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Please feel free to share more of your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Tom!

  3. Great article. I have been wearing skirts to local dances, in the privacy of my home and in friends properties as well and only had a very few negative response. This is my life and i will do what makes me happy. I am a normal heterosexual sexual man who is not a transgender, transvestite or gay. I also wear dresses and satin nighties to bed. I have a satin fetishism and that’s it. Skirts are more comfortable than trousers. Most people don’t mind as long as it does not break the law. Skirts rock. Women can wear mens clothes so then men can wear money’s as long as it’s not bras.

    • Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. It is great that you are willing to share your thoughts and feelings. Please feel free to share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, David!

  4. Thank you Courtney, a great article.
    I am also a straight guy who wears dresses and skirts whenever I can – I just find them so much more comfortable than pants/trousers, and I just love all the different styles available.
    I go out as a man wearing a dress or skirt, I am not trying to impersonate a woman. My wardrobe consists of far more womens clothes than it does mens clothes, including shoes and boots, and I am proud of it. I just find mens clothes so boring.
    Whilst I do order some of my dresses, skirts and other items of clothing designed for women through the internet, I do also love to go clothes shopping in person, and one of my favourite stores is Long Tall Sally in Chiltern Street, London. Whenever I visit the shop – and I will most definitely be wearing a dress or skirt, I receive absolutely fantastic service. I am always offered the opportunity to try on any clothes I am interested in purchasing without having to ask.
    I did feel a little apprehensive at first when I went out wearing a dress or skirt, not knowing what sort of reaction I would get, but in general I receive positive comments, particularly from women. I was travelling on the tube in London on one occasion wearing a pretty summer maxi dress when a woman came and sat next to me, immediately saying ‘you look fabulous and I love your dress’ – how good that made me feel! We then went on to have quite a long conversation about why men should be able to wear dresses, without being ridiculed.
    Yes, there will be occasions when you get strange looks or you can sense that people are talking about you, but my reaction to that is to display an air of confidence – after all, I am not doing anyone any harm by wearing a dress, skirt, high heels or any other items of clothing or footwear traditionally regarded as ‘feminine’

    • Thank you for your response–it is always great getting feedback from readers. It sounds like you are also quite an advocate for any other guys out there who would like to have more clothing choices, but are afraid of what people might think. Thanks for commenting, Tony!

  5. I agree!! I love wearing bras/panties/slips/dresses/leggings/
    blouses/lipsticks/perfumes/lotions/makeup/wigs. It feels and fits so much better on me then my boy clothes. I’m not gay/transsexual or into guys. If people think otherwise or scrutinize then you need to forget about them and do your own thing.

    • Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. It is important to feel comfortable and secure. Please feel free to share with our community in the future. Have a great day, Petey!

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