If you are going to give a girl a compliment, you need to do it the right way. An overly sexual compliment to a girl you first met can immediately turn her off. In general, compliment her clothes, her personality and her intelligence are generally safe bets. If you are going to compliment her looks, do it in a way that makes her smile and does not offend her. To get started, try out these 40 best compliments for girls.
1. I like the way you move.
This compliment is especially good if you are at a dance club or somewhere where you are actually watching her move. It is also ideal because it implies that you think that she is sexy without you actually having to say it and potentially offend her. Perfect!
2. You always make me feel so comfortable.
Every woman wants to hear that her boyfriend can relax around her and wants to be around her. This is just one of the many different ways that you can show her that you like being around her and that she makes you feel comfortable.
3. My friends like (love) you.
For your relationship to work, your friends have to like her and her friends have to like you. She intuitively knows this, so she will be happy to hear that your friends like her and accept her as your partner.
4. That ________ looks amazing on you.
Before your date, she probably spent a decent amount of time trying to find the perfect thing to wear. She had to find something that she looked amazing in, but was not too dressed up or under-dressed for the date. In addition to showing that you appreciate her efforts and find her attractive, this is also a way of showing that you noticed what she has done.
5. I would rather be with you than my friends tonight.
Every woman wants to hear this compliment. Some guys end up spending all of their time with their friends and view their relationships as a secondary priority. This compliment shows that you prioritize both her and her relationship.
6. Roses are red…
Roses are red and similar love poems can easily be modified into cute texts or love notes for her. If you are just about to ask out your crush, you could try a modification such as: Rose are red, violets are blue, I think you’re pretty and want to date you. Will you go out with me?
7. How could I exist without you?
The best relationships have a balance of personal independence and interdependence. As you date, you will gradually learn to depend on her more and more. This type of compliment shows that you love her and think that it would be impossible to live without her at your side.
8. You are more gorgeous than movie stars.
If you want to make this compliment more poetic, you could also try telling her that she is more gorgeous than the rising sun or a star-filled sky. This compliment wins bonus points because it is a classier way of telling her how attractive she is without devolving into how her legs, rack or anything else looks.
9. I love talking with you.
Girls are stereotypically known as talkers, so some dates may be a little self-conscious about how much they talk. Plus, she is probably nervous about what she says around you if she is attracted to you. This compliment helps to defuse that tension while letting her know that you genuinely like to talk to her.
10. I can see so much warmth in your eyes.
If you are going to compliment her looks, complimenting her eyes is always a safe bet. The eyes and face are generally safe things to compliment as you get to know her.
11. Your _________ is so cute.
Cute implies pretty and tiny, and many girls love to be thought of as thin or petite. Insert just about anything into the blank and she will love hearing it.
12. You have such good taste.
This can apply to her taste in just about anything, but you do not have to get too specific if you do not want to.
13. You are so smart.
Many, many guys have probably told her how hot she is or how much they like her figure. Switch it up by complimenting her intelligence. She knows guys sleep with attractive girls, but only date girls with personality and intelligence, so this will make her feel hopeful about the future.
14. I can’t keep my eyes off of you.
This is an easy way to show her how attractive and beautiful she is without you having to directly say it.
15. I love your smile.
Along with eyes, the smile is another safe feature to compliment as you get to know your date.
16. Your ______ has rubbed off on you!
Fill in the blank with whatever fits.
17. Your lips are so soft.
If you are uncertain about what to say before or after a kiss, this is a good thing to choose. If you say it before you try to kiss her, it will make her pause and realize that you are about to kiss her—which is good news if you want to avoid awkward misses and kissing the wrong spot as she turns her head.
18. I can’t stop thinking about last night.
After the date, she may feel awkward about texting you first because she does not want to look needy. If you want to get the conversation going and show her that you would like another date, this is a good text to send. Plus, it will make her feel relieved because she does not have to wait days to figure out if you genuinely like her and want to date again. Obviously, this message could apply after the first night you sleep together as well.
19. I am so proud of you.
If she genuinely cares about you, she will care what you think. Knowing that you are proud of her will make her feel happier and more confident.
20. I miss you.
When you have to be apart, it can be nerve wracking. You and she may wonder if the other still cares or is still interested. Simple compliments like this show that you care and miss her presence at your side.
21. I can see the world in your eyes.
While it may sound cheesy, this compliment could work. At the very least, she will end up smiling at the cheesiness of it.
22. You are my everything.
It might be simple, but it still works.
23. You are the most gorgeous woman that I have ever seen.
This will make her feel beautiful and will really help her warm up to you.
24. Being with you completes me.
As you continue to date, compliments like this will help her know that you are committed to the relationship and it will reassure any worries about the relationship that she may have.
25. You make my dark days brighter.
If you want something more poetic, this is the compliment to use. It helps you tell her that she is the bright spot in the day and the one person that matters.
26. Your confidence is so attractive.
Confidence is extremely sexy. Plus, many ambitious women have been derided at some point in their life for being too confident or ambitious. Compliments like this show that you care about the integral aspects of her personality and like her for who she is.
27. You are the first thing that I want to see in the morning.
This is a beautiful, simple compliment to give her.
28. You light up any room that you walk into.
If you feel happier around her, messages like this are good ones to express that feeling.
29. I could listen to you for hours.
If you love talking to her, let her know it!
30. Never change the way you look; you are so beautiful.
The media has a habit of telling women that they need to look younger or more beautiful with the latest hairstyles, make up and clothes. Hearing that none of that other stuff is needed will be a relief to her and make her feel more comfortable being herself around you.
31. Everyday with you is worth celebrating.
A good follow up to this message is to ask her on a date somewhere nice.
32. You are such a positive person.
If you do not feel comfortable complimenting her looks yet, then this is a good way to tell her that you like her personality.
33. You make me want to be a better man.
There is an old Rumi quote that goes something along the lines of, “I love you not for who you are, but for who I am when I am with you.” When you have found the right person, it makes you want to be better just to deserve them. This is a natural desire and one that she may also share.
34. You look prettier than a picture.
If she put a lot of effort into getting ready, this is an excellent way to show it.
35. I think you are perfect just the way you are.
If your girlfriend needs a boost in confidence, this is a good way to tell her that you like and appreciate her for who she is.
36. You make my world stand still.
This is an extremely poetic way to say that you are interested in her and love her.
37. If I had a million dollars, I would quit my job and spend every second with you.
This is a nice way of telling her that you love spending time with her and would love it if you could spend even more time in her arms.
38. I love the sound of your laugh.
Hopefully, your relationship will keep her smiling and laughing for years to come!
39. You are so good at ______.
You can insert just about anything into the blank. Whether she is amazing at cooking or a wonderful writer, this is a great way to show that you pay attention to her and appreciate her for everything that she does.
40. You take my breath away.
While this may be a fairly old compliment, it is still applicable. When you are attracted to someone, it can feel hard to breathe or speak when you are around them.
These are the best compliments for girls that you can use on a crush, a current girlfriend or a lady that you are trying to pick up at the bar. No matter what you need it for, these compliments are sure to make her smile and feel admired. If you have any other compliments that have worked for you and are not on the list, leave them in the comment section below this article.