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120 Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend


There are times when you will find that you and your girlfriend are ravenous for some great conversation with deeper meaning. It’s always fun to get a little more intense and it definitely keeps things more interesting. To maintain an exciting relationship you have to dig deeper below the surface. Get the gears in your heads turning and working by asking, as well as discussing the follow 120 deep questions below to ask your girlfriend!

Deep Questions That Relate To Her

  1. What would you say that your personal philosophy is?
  2. What is something that you would never change about yourself, both physically and mentally?
  3. What does a absolutely perfect day and night look like to you?
  4. Are you a people person? Why or why not?
  5. Do you believe materialistic items are more important, less important or equally important to experiences?
  6. Do you believe in the term, “Don’t fix it if it isn’t broken”?
  7. What do you think is the most shallow thing that a person can do?
  8. What is something that you think is universally rude and uncomfortable to do in public?
  9. What would you like to do with your organs when you pass away, would you donate them to science or no?
  10. How do you think you help the broken system, such as poverty?
  11. Do you believe in protecting the environment or do you think that it is a lost cause?
  12. Do you ever have trouble speaking in public? If so, why do you think that is?
  13. What age are you absolutely dreading and why?
  14. What is one thing that you have done that you wish you hadn’t?
  15. Who do you wish that you could be more like right now and why?
  16. What word do you think really, truly describes who you are as a person?
  17. Do you think that you were born in the wrong decade? Which decade would you rather be in, besides this one?
  18. Do you believe that you were someone else in a previous life?
  19. Do you think that winning the lottery would be a good thing for you or a bad thing for you?

Deep Questions About Her Life, Past and Future

  1. What are some of the ‘demons’ in your closet?
  2. What is one memory you wish you could crawl back into for one day?
  3. Who is someone in your life that you want to be like when you are older?
  4. What secret haunts you to this very day?
  5. What was the hardest thing that you ever had to get through as a kid?
  6. Are you a child of divorce?
  7. Do you think that you were raised the right way? Why or why not?
  8. How do you want to raise your future children? What things would you do differently than your parents?
  9. What will you fight for until the day that you die?
  10. What is the earliest memory that you have? What age were you?
  11. When in your life do you think that you were at your most happy?
  12. What is something that you saw someone do that changed the way you think on a certain subject?
  13. Do you think there was something from your childhood that traumatized you?
  14. Have you ever felt like giving up in the past? Why?
  15. What is one memory that you wish you could erase from your mind permanently?
  16. What is one memory that you hope you never, ever forget?
  17. What did you dream about doing as a career when your were a child?
  18. What was one dream you’ve had that was absolutely crazy?

Deep Questions That Relate To You

  1. What scares you most about the relationship that we have with each other?
  2. If you could change one thing about me and the way I treat you, what would you change?
  3. Do you think that we can lead a long, happy life together? Why or why not?
  4. Do you think that I would make a good father, if we ever had kids?
  5. If we could only do one activity together for the rest of our lives, what would you choose for it to be?
  6. Where would you want to runaway with me to, if you could pick any destination in the world?
  7. What do you really think about the relationship we have together?
  8. Do you like the time we spend with each other, or should we do something differently?
  9. What is the most romantic memory of us you have?
  10. Do you think I have an irrational fear of something?
  11. What is my favorite way to unwind? Do you think it really relaxes me?
  12. When was the first time you looked and me and realized that you were in love with me?
  13. Was my first impression on you a good one or a bad one?
  14. Have I changed a lot since we first started dating? If so, explain.
  15. What is one thing I do for you that you are truly grateful for?
  16. What do you think our children would be like? Would they be more like you or more like me?
  17. Do you think that our communication with each other is good or bad?

Deep Questions Regarding Politics and Religion

  1. What religion do you consider yourself, if you are religious at all?
  2. How did you become the religion that you are today?
  3. What do you think happens when we die? Is there an afterlife or is there nothingness? What about reincarnation?
  4. Do you believe that people being executed for crimes should still be allowed today or not? Why or why not?
  5. What are your thoughts on gay marriage?
  6. Do you consider yourself Republican, Liberal or Libertarian? If none of those, then what do you identify as?
  7. How do you think that the people’s tax dollars should be spent?
  8. Do you think churches should be tax exempt?
  9. Are you pro-life or pro-choice? Why?
  10. What cause do you think needs the most funding out of all the other causes there are?
  11. Do you think the way the education system is set up is okay or does it need refining? Explain.
  12. Do you think that all politicians are corrupt?
  13. What are your thoughts on atheism?
  14. Do you think that people should have the right to end their life when they are terminally ill or do you think it should remain majorly illegal?
  15. What is one law that you think should be revised? Why?
  16. What do you think about the prison system; is it working for us?
  17. What is something that should never be talked about with strangers when it comes to politics?

Deep Questions For Critical Thinking

  1. What is something that you think most people are all commonly scared of?
  2. Do you think that environment has a lot to due with how someone turns out when they are grown up?
  3. Why do you think there is a war between poor people and rich people?
  4. Do you think corporations are evil?
  5. What do you think is really in the food we are fed?
  6. Do you think that racism is still  a big problem? Why or why not?
  7. What is intimacy really about? What really bonds people to one another?
  8. When does someone become a bad person?
  9. Do you believe in evolution? If so, do you think that we are evolving quickly or slowly still?
  10. What is the most vital thing someone can do to improve their character?
  11. Do you believe morality is learned or innate upon birth?
  12. How do you think that war is affecting us? Where do you think most war stems from?
  13. What do you think would most realistically cause an apocalypse?
  14. Do you think that people need human interaction to remain sane?
  15. What behaviors do you think reflect on someone’s trauma?
  16. Do you think that humans will ever actually live on another habitable planet or not?
  17. What impact do you think the digital age is having on current and upcoming generations? Is it good or bad? Explain.

Deep Questions About Love and Romance

  1. What are some boundaries in a relationship that should never be crossed?
  2. How do you think cheating affects someone who is being cheated on and aware of it?
  3. Do you believe that love can last forever or do you think that people eventually just ‘settle’?
  4. How would you describe a perfect relationship?
  5. How would you describe a poisoned relationship?
  6. What makes someone a good partner?
  7. How important do you think physical connection is between two people vs. the mental connection they share? Which one trumps the other?
  8. Do you think that age matters in a relationship or is just a number?
  9. What do you think that two people must have in common to connect with each other?
  10. Do you believe there is such a thing as, ‘Love at first sight’ or do you feel as if there is only lust at first sight?
  11. Do you think sociopaths are capable of actually loving someone or are they just pretending?
  12. What is one sign that a relationship is dead?
  13. Would you leave me if I were in a very serious accident and needed a lot of medical care or would you stick around to take care of me?
  14. What do you think is something that you should never have to compromise on in a relationship?
  15. How would you handle codependency in a relationship? Do you think that it is healthy or unhealthy?
  16. What is something that you should always be able to rely on your partner for?
  17. Do you think that long distance relationships are really worth it? Why or why not?
  18. Do you think it’s okay to settle down at an early age or should people get more experience before making a choice?

Deep Questions That Are Very Serious

  1. Do you think that suicide is an okay thing for someone to do if they really hate their life?
  2. If today was your last day alive, what would you choose to do all day long?
  3. What do you think is the difference between living and existing, if there is one?
  4. Do you think someone can truly learn from their mistakes?
  5. What do you want to remember when you are laying on your deathbed? What do you want to be proud of yourself for?
  6. What impact do you want to leave on the world? Why? Do you think that you will achieve leaving that impact?
  7. What do you think is a sign that it’s time to let go of something?
  8. Do you think there is anyone out there that would take a bullet for you? Is there anyone that you would take a bullet for?
  9. What is something that is holding you back in life? What can you do to change it?
  10. What resource is being wasted the most?
  11. What advice would you offer to your 10 year old self if you could?
  12. Do you think that we create the reality we live in?
  13. Why are people afraid of losing things they don’t really have?
  14. Do you think family is important in today’s world?
  15. How can we combat terrorism?
  16. Do you think that people actually have souls?
  17. Do you think there is life on other planets in the universe?



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