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Does She Love Me? 15 Signs She Actually Loves You


If you think you know just what a girl’s like when she’s in love, think again. You may not have a clue as to what it feels like to be loved by a woman. There are a tons of different ways girls show how they feel about a guy. You can’t expect to know just what a girl’s thinking and feeling just by the things she does, however. So keep that in mind.

BUT, there are a lot of different signs she’s really in love with you. While many girls will definitely tell you they’ve fallen in love, some are far too shy. In that case, you’ll want to know how to read the signs that a woman is totally in love with you. These are the top 15 ways a girl shows just how much she cares.

  1. She supports your passions.

This biggest indicator that a girl really cares for you and might even love you is if she supports your passions. Even if it’s not something she’s typically into or interested in, if she’s there for you, cheering you on, she loves you. It takes a lot of time and effort to actively support someone else’s passions. Therefore, if she’s putting all of that time into yours, it’s because she wants you to be happy and successful with the things you love.

  1. She wants to get to know your friends.

Your friends probably know you better than anyone else. If a girl loves you, she’ll want to know them just as well and seek their approval. Most of the time, a girl doesn’t really care too much about a guy’s friends when she’s not planning to be around for a while. So if she’s calling them up and joining you when you spend time with them, it’s because she loves you.

  1. She’s pleasant with your family.

This is especially true if your family is important to you. When a woman is in love with you, she’ll go out of her way to make sure she gets to know your family well. If she’s kind and understanding with them and plans to attend your family gatherings, it’s definitely a sign that she’s in love with you. Women don’t get to know just anyone’s family if they don’t actually care.

  1. She compliments you all the time.

Now, it’s one thing to tell you she’s attracted to your body and looks, it’s a completely different thing if she talks about how much she loves your mind and your drive and even your ambition. It’s the type of compliment she gives you that will tell you if she’s in love with you. When she compliments your qualities and characteristics over your looks, she loves you.

  1. She’s passionate about you.

This is something that you’ll notice over time in bits and pieces, not so much a big “ta-da” moment. When a girl is passionate about you, she cares deeply about you and your well-being. Meaning, if you’re sick, she’ll take care of you. If you’re upset, she’ll be there for you to vent. If someone does you wrong, she’ll get just as angry as you are. Her deeply caring about you in this way is what shows you she’s in love with you.

  1. She’s patient with you.

I think we can all agree that men can sometimes be really slow when it comes to picking up hints. They’re even a little scatter-brained when it comes to remembering certain things. Something that shows whether or not a girl is in love with you is if she’s patient and understanding when it comes to those things. If she’s relaxed when you mess up, you best bet she loves you.

  1. She’s eager to discuss the future with you.

This isn’t just about her discussing marriage and kids with you. In fact, it may not have to do with that at all. When a girl talks about making plans for in the future with you, she’s showing you that she wants to be around for that long. She’s basically giving you a huge sign that she doesn’t see herself leaving or being with anyone else. If that doesn’t prove she loves you, I don’t know what will.

  1. She openly communicates with you.

Communication is actually a very hard thing for most people to do. Not everyone is naturally able to talk about what they want and how they feel with ease. So if a girl is opening up to you and telling you things she doesn’t tell anyone else, she loves you. And if she’s just communicating in a way that can help your relationship, it’s a definite sign she’s in love with you.

  1. Your arguments are had with the intention of fixing the issue.

Every couple goes through fights. That’s just a natural part of sharing a life with someone. You won’t agree with everything they do or say and it can lead to some irritation between the two of you. The thing that shows she loves you, though, is if she argues with you with the intention of solving the problem. If she’s just fighting to fight, that’s not love. But when she wants to fix something, it just shows how much she cares.

  1. She doesn’t try to change you.

This one is extremely true and something not many people realize. When a woman loves you, she doesn’t try to change who you are and what your values are. However, sometimes it may seem like a woman is changing you when she’s really just trying to make your life better – for your own good. The thing you have to remember is if there’s a distinct part of who you are – like a personality trait – that she’s trying to change, it’s not love.

  1. She does the little things for you.

The little things go a long way when it comes to whether or not a girl loves you. A major sign she’s in love with you is when she does small things every day that shows just how much she cares. Like when she makes coffee for you when you’re running late, brings home your favorite treat, or even if she cleans off your car on a snowy day. These are all things that show she loves you.

  1. Her friends have taken an interest in you.

If there’s one way to tell just how much a girl cares about you, it’s how her friends treat you. If she’s confessed to them how she feels about you, they’ll react to it. So you know she’s told them she loves you when her friends jump at the chance to talk to you and get to know you more.

  1. She’s not judgmental toward you at all.

Love is blind. That’s something we all know. And while this doesn’t mean that she can’t see anyone else when she’s in love with you, it does mean that she doesn’t see your flaws as deal breakers. When she’s not judgmental toward you and instead is very open-minded with your interests and qualities, it just proves how much she loves you.

  1. She compromises with you.

Love is all about the give and take. You have to sacrifice certain things so you can have others. This is definitely true. When a woman is willing to compromise with you on the important things so you both can get as much of what you want as possible, she’s definitely in love with you. Women don’t just give up what they want and need very easily. So if she’s going through the trouble of actually compromising and coming to an agreement, she loves you.

  1. You just feel it.

Love is a very powerful feeling not just within yourself, but from someone else. You can easily feel if someone is in love with you by the way they treat you. They will show you in the little things they do and just how they talk to you in general. If you feel love coming from your girl, then it’s very likely that she does actually love you. Just don’t assume that physical affection is the equivalent of love. There has to be more than just that.

Knowing whether or not a woman loves you can completely change your life. If you’re unsure if your girl has fallen for you, these signs prove she has. Now make sure she knows just how you feel, too.


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