Awkward silence is the bane of every single man’s existence. You’re there with your crush, and she’s staring at you, waiting for you to say something.
In that sort of a situation, even motor mouths find themselves tongue-tied. Well, worry no more, with this list of flirty questions you can always have something to ask your crush.
1. How soon do you want a guy to call you after a date?
This is one of the age-old debates, and it can’t hurt to get your crush’s input. If she answers this question honestly, you know exactly when to call her after your date.
2. Have you ever given a guy a fake phone number?
This question tries to get her to be a little honest about her past. If she says she’s given out fake numbers, then you have a mission, making sure you get a real number. Of course, if you’ve already gotten the real number then you know you’re ahead of the game.
3. What is the first thing you notice in attractive guys?
Get her thinking about the sort of things that turn her on. Hopefully, you have the sort of qualities she’s looking for.
4. What was the first thing you noticed about me?
Try and see if you’ve made a good impression or not. Even if things don’t start on the best foot, you can still turn them around if you play your cards right. The hardest thing to overcome is indifference.
5. What is the best date you’ve ever been on?
If you ask her about her favorite dates from the past and you pay attention, you’ll have an easier idea coming up with date ideas in the future.
6. What is the worst date you’ve ever been on
Every human being is united in cringe, talk and laugh about bad past experiences together. Plus, if you know what she doesn’t like in dates you can steer away from her turn-offs in the future.
7. What does your dream date look like?
Let her run wild and describe a truly perfect date. This gives you a sense of what her heart really desires. Once you know what she wants you can figure out how to give it to her.
8. What does your ideal man look like?
Hopefully, she describes a man that’s something like you, but not you exactly. If she’s willing to tell you things you might not want to hear then you can trust she’s honest with you.
9. What does your perfect relationship look like?
It’s never too early to learn what she values in a relationship. Look to see if her values are compatible with your own.
10. What would you say to a guy to make him attracted to you?
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book. It’s a bit of roleplay that allows her to try and seduce you without the normal pressure. She might just be acting at first, but even so, there’s a bit of truth in every act.
11. What is the oldest man you’d be willing to date?
Most women like older men, but there’s always a limit. Find out where your crush draws the line.
12. What sort of clothes do you like your boyfriends to wear?
Another chance to get to know her type. See if you match that type, but don’t feel like you need to change yourself too much.
13. Were you born with it or is it Maybelline?
OK, this is a silly joke. But hey, if a girl likes you she’ll laugh at silly jokes. Besides, it’s a playful way for you to tell her she’s beautiful.
14. Have you ever been skinning dipping?
Skinny dipping is a miracle topic, it’s playful enough to be appropriate, but she’s talking about being naked, so there will always be a sexy undercurrent.
15. Have you ever flashed someone?
Another nudity question. Get to know what sort of a girl she is. Party girls all have a flashing story and even some of the most straight-laced women have to let loose from time to time.
16. Have you ever kissed a girl
Another sexy question. Find out if your girl experiments in college. Of course, you might find out that your crush isn’t actually interested in you since you’re not packing the right equipment. Better to find out sooner rather than later
17. Do you like getting massages?
Some women love a good massage, and others hate the thought of a strange person touching them. It’s good to find out which type your crush is sooner rather than later. If she likes massages, you can follow up by asking if she’s feeling tense.
18. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
Learn what your crush is proud of. If she’s proud of some part of her body then she’ll be more likely to believe it when you compliment her on it. Remember, pretty girls are more self-confident than they might seem at first.
19. What is your favorite thing about me?
If she likes everything about you, then you’re in. If she has trouble coming up with a single answer, then you might have to rethink your approach. Either way, you learn about her tastes and where you stand.
20. What is your favorite non-sexual thing to do with a man?
Find out how to seduce her without pushing things too far physically. When you know what she likes, then you can help her out by fulfilling her desires.
21. When you’re sleeping with someone, do you steal the blankets?
This question gets her thinking about you and her in bed. Oh sure, it is phrased innocently enough, but if there’s chemistry, then her mind will go there. You also find out what to expect if you ever get the chance to spend the night with your crush.
22. Were you a good girl or a bad girl in school?
Find out if your girl has a wild streak. No matter the answer you’ll have something to tease her with.
23. How long have you been single?
First of all, this helps you find out if she is, in fact, single. You don’t want to take these things for granted. Second, it lets you know if you might be a rebound fling. If you’re ok with that, then make your move, if you want something more you might hold back a bit.
24. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex?
Another question to get her thinking about sex. If she’s going through a draught currently then it might help her see you as the solution to her problem. Of course, you might also find out she isn’t that sexual. That’s also good to know.
25. Where is your favorite place to be touched?
Every woman has that one spot on her body that goes directly to her heart. Once you find her weak points, everything will go much more smoothly.
26. What do you do when no one is watching?
Try and build a more intimate connection with this question. Consider sharing a private habit of your own, just make sure it isn’t too gross.
27. Truth or dare?
Find out whether she’s more comfortable being totally honest or physically uninhibited. There’s a reason people play this game with people they want to kiss.
28. Do you prefer men in boxers or briefs?
Get her thinking about you in your underwear. Hopefully, she likes what she imagines. This also gives you a chance to change before you get down to business if it turns out she isn’t big on your current underwear.
29. What does love look like you?
Go beyond surface level flirting and help her get in touch with her deeper feelings using this questions. It will also help you find out if you’ll be compatible or not. Be warned, asking this question too early can open the door for trouble. Use the L word carefully.
30. What would you do if I kissed you?
If you aren’t sure if she’s feeling you or not hit her with this question and find out where you stand. It’s a bold move, but sometimes you’ve got to make big risks to get big rewards.