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The Best 50 Flirty Texts For Him Which Work


Texting is the ultimate modern day form of communication between young lovers. But because it is used so often, texts can get more and more boring over time. Running out of conversation is inevitable when you’re talking to a guy that you’ve caught some pretty hefty feelings for. As much as you like him, sometimes you just can’t think of things to keep saying. It’s understandable. It’s also totally normal, so don’t feel bad. That’s why there are helpful articles like this, written just for you, to help you keep the conversation flowing smoothly always. Not only will you not run out of things to talk about, you’ll raise the flirt factor in your relationship with these cute, quirky and steamy messages. Never let the spark go out with these 50 flirty text messages for him and why they work so well!

Things to Remember When Texting Him:

Make sure you always check your spelling and grammar before you send a text. Some people might be less concerned about it, but you don’t want to turn him off of you by talking like a fourth grader.

Keep it simple. In other words: Don’t try too hard. You might scare him off if you come on too strongly. Especially if you two are just getting to know each other.

Be mindful of your timing. Get an idea of what his schedule looks like so that you are not texting him flirty texts at inappropriate times. Figuring out the best times to talk can also benefit you by ensuring a response from him. If he’s busy, he might not respond to you and you may not like that feeling at all.

Don’t be too hard on yourself if he doesn’t respond right away or you don’t get the response you were expecting. It’s hard to identify what people really mean over text. So this is your reminder to not jump to any conclusions!

  • I wish I could be your mirror, so I could look at your handsome face every single day.

What a better way to flirt with someone than by giving them a compliment such as this one!? You’ll raise his confidence slightly while letting him know how attractive you really think he is. He’ll eat it right up!

  • Alert! I have a problem! I can’t seem to get you off of my mind! Send help.

This flirty text gives a bit of urgency to how much you can’t stop thinking of him. He’ll surely blush when he opens this text message and maybe even chuckle at it’s dorky adorableness. These kinds of texts are crucial when you’re trying to keep things interesting between you and the guy you like.

  • Your outfit was so sexy today. I love it on you!

If you had already seen your man today, this is the perfect text to send him out the blue. It will reassure him that you love his style and the he dresses himself. Talk about a real confidence booster! Who knew you could make someone feel so good with one simple text?

  • You’ve already been on my mind today and I just woke up.

Everyone likes to know how much someone thinks of them. It makes them feel really good to know that you have been thinking about him just as much as he is probably thinking about you. This kind of relates  to the whole he’s the first thing on your mind in the morning and the last thing on your mind before you fall asleep statement people make when they really like each other. This is just a much faster to say it.

  • Do you have a to-do list yet today? If so, put me on it.

Want to turn up the heat a little bit through these flirty text messages? Then this is the perfect text for you to send to your boo! He will feel special knowing you are thinking of him in the more intimate way and it will definitely turn him on a little bit.

  • You looked so good the last time I saw you that I forgot what I was going to say.

This will more than likely give him butterflies! It’s such a cute way to say how attractive you find him. He will like the fact that he has the ability to literally make you speechless in his presence.

  • There should be a picture of you under the word “perfect” in the dictionary.

A classic way to flirt with someone is by telling them that you think their name should be next to a word like ‘handsome’ or ‘perfect’ in the dictionary. Classic, but classy nonetheless. Not only is this a flirtastic text, it’s also extremely cute.

  • All these miles between us and I still feel you here next to me.

If you and your man are far away or in a long distance relationship, then this is the perfect message for you to write and send. This text lets him know that no matter the distance, you still feel really close to him. Can you say, “Awhhhh”? Because we know he sure will when he opens this one!

  • Can you please empty your pockets, I have a good feeling you’ve stolen my heart.

Want a funnier way to let him know he can call you yours? This is the perfect flirty pick up line to send him! He will love it! That’s a promise.

  • I can’t wait until the next time I see you. I’m shaking with anticipation.

This one is romantic, but also gives him a peek at your physical desire for him. It’s not a dirty text, but definitely holds a hint of naughtiness to it. So, feel free to send this one to him at work. We’ve deemed it: Work safe.

  • I just got out of the shower and thought I’d give you a text to let you know I miss you.

Looking for something that brings out a little more physical desire between the two of you? By sending him this text you’re putting a certain image in his head. You’re also telling him that you were thinking about him in the shower, which makes it that much more intimate. Whew. Things are getting steamy with this flirty text!

  • I was talking about you earlier today and couldn’t stop thinking about you after that.

He’s going to adore the fact that once you started thinking about him that you couldn’t stop. It will give him the ego boost he needs.

  • I can’t sleep because I can’t stop daydreaming about you.

Who doesn’t like to hear that they’re the reason you can’t fall asleep at night? We know he’ll enjoy it, that’s for sure! Guys like feeling like they are in your thoughts at all time. It will make him feel closer to you.

  • Don’t tire yourself out too much today, we have a big night planned!

Aye, aye, aye… This is one of the most flirty texts you could send to him. You might be wondering why, because it seems so innocent. But to him you could have something naughty planned or you could just have a romantic date night planned. The fun is making him guess what he needs to save his energy for. He’ll love the anticipation.

  • I had the most amazing dream with you in it last night.

The key to this one is making sure you don’t tell him what the dream was about. Whether or not you really dreamt about him, you can still send this text as a flirt tactic. When he asks, “What was it about?” You can say something sly like, “Take a guess” or “What do you think it was about?” It’ll peak his curiosity in all the right ways.

  • What are you wearing right now?

Even if it’s work uniform, he’ll be motivated to play this game with you and tell you he’s in his underwear or something that’ll get your imagination going. Warning: This might get a little R-rated. It’s best to only send texts like these if you’re comfortable getting extra flirty with the guy you are texting.

  • Do you believe in love at first sight or should I come there to walk by again?

More of a pick up line that can be used on a guy you just started talking to. It doesn’t really work that well if you two have known each other for an extended period of time. This will generate an ‘LOL’ type response and maybe encourage him to send you a cute, flirtatious pick up line in return.

  • I don’t think I’ve ever had as much fun as I did with you the other day.

Want to make the guy you like feel really good about himself? Send him this text! It lets him know that you really enjoy spending time with him and will give him confidence in the bond you share with him.

  • Hey there, handsome.

If you are looking for a subtle, yet flirty, text to send to your crush then this is the perfect one for you. It lets him know you think of his looks and gives him a hint that you like him as more than just a friend. However, it doesn’t give too much away and gives him the chance to make the first move with you.

  • Don’t forget to dream about me tonight when you close your eyes.

Make sure he knows that you want to be the girl of his dreams with this cute text.

  • I think all you’re missing today is a little vitamin ME.

Are you the type that enjoys the cornier forms of flirting, such as quirky pick-up lines? Then number twenty one is just the right fit for you. This is a great way to let him know that you want to see him. It also holds a little bit of a seductive vibe to it.

  • Have fun tonight! You’re going to do great and look great doing it, as usual!

This is a great text to send if he has an important event, meeting or party. This way he knows that you remember the things he tells you and that you have confidence in him no matter what he does. A perfect flirty text for budding relationships or for those of you in long term relationships.

  • I’m trying on this new bra/blouse/lingerie. Can you give me your honest opinion on it?

Spice things up with this hot, flirty text message for him. This will ensure he asks for a picture and then you can really spice things up by sending one of your new clothing item. He’ll definitely compliment you and enjoy the visual!

  • I’m all alone waiting for you… Come keep me company as soon as you can.

Urgency in your desire to see him is important when getting more and more intimate with someone. Especially when you’re trying to do it over a text message. There’s no way he won’t get the idea that you want to see him a.s.a.p if you send him this text.

  • How did you get so good looking? Please, let me in on your secret.

Nothing will make him feel better than a sweet compliment such as this one. If this doesn’t make him blush, then what will?

  • I found my cheerleading outfit, it still fits.

It’s probably better to send this text if you actually own a cheerleading outfit, were previously a cheerleader or if you’re willing to go and buy a cheerleading outfit. However, you can use other uniforms and outfits in place of that one if you don’t have anything to do with cheerleading.

  • This text is good for one kiss, as long as it’s used within 24 hours at the door!

Want to be a little cuter today than you usually are with him? Try out this text filled with the ultimate sweetness. It’s a great text if you guys haven’t made plans recently, but you want to.

  • Come on over, I have all your favorite things- Including me!

Cheesy, but definitely one of the cuter texts we have on this list!

  • You’re always on my mind at 2am.

They say that the important people in your life are on your mind at two a.m.  Let him know that to you, he is that important person.

  • I’m on this mission to stop thinking about you. A.k.a: Mission impossible.

We can hear him giggling at this one right now! This is an awesome flirty text to send if you want him to know he’s running through your head all the of the time.

  • Oh, I’d love to hear your voice right about now.

He will be overjoyed that you want to talk to him in person or over the phone. It creates a much more intimate atmosphere for the both of you to enjoy together, too.

  • I’m having very N.S.F.W thoughts at the moment!

Can you think of anything flirtier to send him than this? Don’t specify on what the thoughts are, make him guess them! It’s a lot of fun and a bit of naughtiness, without too many details, comes into play.

  • You look amazing right now. I know this because you always look amazing.

Not confident enough to get ultra flirty? This is a great, yet simple, text to send to the guy you have feelings for.

  • Hey what’s your mom/dad’s number? I want to call them to thank them for giving me the perfect man.

Obviously this is a joke, but it’s going to make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside!

  • How are you not exhausted from running through my thoughts all day and night?

Another classic take on pick up lines, but so worth sending him! We promise!

  • Want to come play?

Let his imagination come alive with this short, yet super flirty text message. You’ll peek his interest and have him rushing over to your place in no time. Be sure that you really want him to come over before you send this text. It’s definitely an invitation.

  • How is my favorite person doing today?

Maybe the two of you don’t know each other well enough to get too flirty, but that’s why we’ve put subtly flirtatious texts like this here for you to use.

  • Where have you been hiding all of my life?

This text will definitely make him think that you have never met a man as perfect as him before in your life. Even if it’s not true, it’s important to make him feel that way. Talk about a confidence boost, eh?

  • I like being friends, but how would you feel about adding a few benefits?

This is the perfect message to send if the two of you are just friends as of right now. If you feel yourself itching to try to take things between you to the next level then this is the perfect one for you to use. It’s a sultry way of letting him know that you want to take things to get a little more physical without putting too much pressure on commitment.

  • All I want is to be in your big, strong arms once again.

If there’s anything he will certainly love, it is compliments on how strong you think he is. It will raise his confidence while letting him know you were wishing you were with him at the same time.

  • Not being with you is the hardest thing I’ve had to endure so far!

A perfect thing to say to him if you have not seen each other in a long period of time or are in a long distance relationship. Although this text is more sappy than it is flirty, it still fits into the category. You will let him know that being apart is difficult and he will love that!

  • Hey you! Stop thinking about me.

Even if he didn’t say anything about thinking about you, it’s okay to send to this to him. That’s what makes it so flirty!

  • Send me a picture so that I can show my friends angels truly do exist.

He’ll be thankful you think so highly of him and, who knows, you may even get a cute picture of that handsome face you like so much.

  • I want you here with me. So. Badly.

When you send this he will definitely get a seductive vibe from it. Can you believe it’s so easy to flirt with someone over text with just a few simple words?

  • It looks like you’ve been hitting the gym lately.

Even if he hasn’t been working out this will bring up his self-esteem. It’ll double it if he has actually been hitting the gym lately, too!

  • Talking to you makes me feel so good.

Letting him know that talking to him gets you in a good mood will also make him feel good in return. Guys love hearing that you’re enjoying your conversations with them. Saying things like these are important in keep the flirt factor alive.

  • I’m sorry to bother you so early, but I just couldn’t resist texting the sexiest man on Earth.

What’s a better way to start a conversation with your crush in the morning than by sending him this adorable text? Not only will it make him feel good, but you might be the first thing on his mind in the morning and then he’ll continue to think of your compliment all throughout the rest of the day.

  • When I got your text I smiled like a fool for a good half an hour.

Not only will this text make him smile, too, it’ll let him know how much you love talking to him. Even if it’s just through texting.

  • I heard the new, ____ movie is great. I really want to see it, but I need a date…

Nervous about asking him out on a date through texting? This text makes it seem like you are laid back, but still want to spend your time with him. In other words, you’re not going to coming on too strongly.

  • I’m watching Netflix, but have no one to chill with. Want to change that?

Feel like inviting him on a more personal date? Then this flirty text is just for you you! How can he say no to a little old fashion ‘Netflix and chill’?


  1. This is amazingly helpful. Its my first time flirting with someone and this helped me so much and boosted up my confidence

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  2. I’ve just tried the «Do you have a to do list this weekend? ’cause I wanna be on it». Very anxious to read the answer to that. Fingers crossed!

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    • You shared your thoughts and feelings with this person, and they shared themselves with you. You are now aware of their feelings. Since this relationship is not viable at this time, you can now make a decision about what you want for your future without this person. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Mel!

  3. Wow, that’s a huge collection. Sending flirty text is one of the best way to make for an interesting relationship and also for couples to get closer to each other. Not only flirty texts will make men smile, it will also make them go crazy for their girl .With so many text ideas I don’t see how anyone can not find the right words to text their boyfriend or husband.

    • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. We always appreciate when out community members share their insights and experiences. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Shifu!


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