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40 Flirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask a Girl


Would you rather is a fun game to play with your girlfriend or a girl that you like. If you have just started dating, you can use would you rather to get to know her better and find out what she thinks about things. If you are just playing with your crush, it will give her a hint that you are interested. To get started on ideas, try out these 40 flirty would you rather questions to ask a girl.

1. Would you rather go out for fine dining or order some pizzas and soda?

This is a good way for you to figure out what type of date she would like. Is she more of a casual girl who likes to cuddle at home? Or the type of lady who likes to get dressed up and hit the town?

2. Would you rather walk on the beach with your toes in the sand or take a dip in the water?

This is just a fun question to ask her. It could also bring up her opinion about swimming—some people are uncomfortable around the water, especially if they never really learned to swim. Before you plan an ocean getaway, it would be a good idea to find out if she even likes being around the water.

3. Would you rather dance under the moon or in a club?

One of these two options is extremely romantic, while the other is the more typical nightlife option. Her answer to this question will show if she is more of a party-er type of girl or a romantic at heart. Plus, it will give you hints about what types of dates you should plan in the future.

4. Would you rather go watch a movie or go watch the sunset?

Again, this is another would you rather question that is designed to help you get to know her. If she is just your crush, this type of question is a safe one to ask without being too direct about your feelings. Of course, if you want to give her a hint that you like her, a more direct question would be a good option.

5. Would you rather watch a fireworks show or go watch a musical?

A fireworks show could be very romantic, but she might be interested in musicals and the arts. If your interests in life are too divergent, you may need to find a different partner.

6. Would you rather cuddle under the stars or cuddle under a blanket?

Basically, would she like to have a romantic evening out on the town, or would she rather curl up at home with you. This is a flirty question that will hint about your feelings without blatantly telling her that you like her. From here, you can either scale up or down your questions based on how your crush responds.

7. Would you rather talk to me on the phone or through text messages?

This is a good answer for you to know. If she hates texting, don’t be surprised when she rarely texts you back or seems uninterested in having long texting conversations. Likewise, don’t expect her to pick up the phone or enjoy it so much if you keep calling her and she hates talking on the phone.

8. Would you rather ride bikes together or take a long walk?

This is less of a flirty question and more of a way for you to figure out what type of dates she would like to go on with you someday. A bike ride along the beach would be super romantic, but a long walk or hike through the forest could also be a perfect date. Figure out what she likes now, and you will have plenty of date ideas that you can use in the future.

9. Would you rather go to a photo booth or take silly selfies?

They might be rarer today, but there are still photo booths at many malls and festivals. You’ve seen them before online—the pictures come out in strips of four pictures and generally have the same designs as Snapchat.

10. Would you rather go water tubing or water skiing?

Honestly, both of these options sound amazing. Now, you just need to find the perfect sunny day to go on your adventure.

11. Would you rather sing to me or play me a song on guitar?

Obviously, you can change the guitar aspect of this question based on what instrument she actually plays. If she tells you that she cannot play any instrument, you can always spice this question up by asking her if she would rather sing for you or dance for you.

12. Would you rather kiss me on the cheek or kiss me on the forehead?

If you are asking your crush this, and wait for the answer. Whatever she says, wink and tell her that she should do it. If that does not give her a hint that she likes you, nothing will.

13. Would you rather go skinny dipping or dive in fully-clothed?

This flirty would you rather question is designed to see how wild your crush or girlfriend is. If you are dating, your girlfriend may say skinny dipping anyway though since a) swimming in clothes is awful and b) you have probably already seen her undressed.

14. Would you rather kiss me in public or kiss me in private?

I think most people would probably choose to kiss in private, but I could be wrong.

15. Would you rather go surfing or jet-skiing?

Both activities are extremely fun. One involves actually swimming and getting in the water, the other is like the motorcycle of the ocean. This question is mostly just for fun, although it could always lead to a conversation about the things that you both enjoy doing for fun.

16. Would you rather give me a peck on the lips or french kiss?

If you are playing this game with your crush, use this question. It will show her that you obviously like her, and it will get her thinking about your lips and kissing you. If she did not like you before, it will get her to start thinking about it.

17. Would you rather me cook you breakfast in bed or have a candlelit dinner?

This would be a hard question to answer. Breakfast in bed is convenient, romantic and implies you stayed the night with her. A candlelit dinner is picture-perfect romance and something you always see on romance movies. Which one do you think that she will choose?

18. Would you rather ride a bike and sit on my handlebars or a motorcycle behind me?

Personally, I think most people would go with the motorcycle, but I could be wrong.

19. Would you rather hold my hand or put your arm around my waist?

This is just another way to get her thinking about holding your hand, being close to you and potentially liking you.

20. Would you rather dress up for a night on the town or stay home in sweats?

You might want to add something like, “stay home in sweats, cuddle and watch movies together”. Otherwise, just wearing sweats would seem rather boring in comparison.

21. Would you rather go to a concert together or make music together?

If you are both musicians, it sounds like a match made in heaven. Being a musical duo would be an amazing way for you two to get to know each other and grow closer. It would be a lot of work though, so a concert would definitely be easier to do.

22. Would you rather go hiking or whitewater rafting?

This is also a good way to see if your crush is interested in outdoor activities or is a secret adrenaline junkie.

23. Would you rather cuddle with me or make out?

Both options are good. If you are just getting to know each other though, she is probably going to say the cuddle option whether that is the truth or not.

24. Would you rather go camping in the mountains or have a movie night in?

If you want to plan your first date or a romantic evening, you have to know what she likes.

25. Would you rather go out for ice cream or make a sundae bar at home?

Tough choice.

26. Would you rather see me without your makeup on or with your makeup on?

Some girls can be extremely uncomfortable about being around anyone without their makeup on. If your girlfriend is like this, her ability to be around you without makeup is a sign that she feels comfortable with you.

27. Would you rather drink liquor at a party with me or drink wine over dinner?

This is a good way to see if she is still in the partying and clubbing mindset or if she is starting to mature a bit. Plus, it is an easy way to tell if you are dating an introvert or an extrovert.

28. Would you rather take a shower with me or a bath with me?

If you really want to spice things up and flirt heavily with her, then ask this question. Other than just telling her that you like her, there are few ways to be more clear about what you want with her.

29. Would you rather have a snowball fight or a water balloon fight?

This is just another fun question that you can use while you are flirting with her.

30. Would you rather get smacked on the butt or kissed on the cheek?

Don’t be surprised if she just chooses a kiss on the cheek.

31. Would you rather see me in a bathing suit or in workout shorts?

Guys don’t have nearly the number of options for sexy attire as the ladies do, so you really have to find out what she thinks is the most attractive option and stick with it.

32. Would you rather cook dinner with me or have me cook dinner?

Some women think that a man cooking is one of the sexiest things—especially if he can cook well. While the saying is that the “way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, the same applies to women as well. If you can cook amazing meals, your crush or girlfriend is going to love you.

33. Would you rather pass notes or send text messages?

Passing notes is so old school, but there is something so wonderful about seeing the person’s handwriting.

34. Would you rather explore outer space or explore the depths of the oceans?

This is just a fun question.

35. Would you rather go on a date with friends or just you and me?

This is a good question to use with your crush. A group date would take the pressure off of her to find something to say, and it could make her feel more comfortable. If she is already fairly confident and comfortable around you though, she may just want to go on a date with just you.

36. Would you rather kiss on the first date or wait a few dates?

Remember her answer.

37. Would you rather slow dance to a romantic song or grind to a fast beat?

There is no right answer to this, although it would be good for you to know.

38. Would you rather me wear boxers or briefs?

Again, remember the answer to this one.

39. Would you rather french kiss me in front of my parents or see your parents french kissing?

Both of these answers sound like things you should avoid in real life.

40. Would you rather draw pictures in the sand or look for pictures in the clouds?

Mix up some of the more flirty questions with options like this one.

Now, you are ready to play. With these 40 flirty would you rather questions to ask a girl, you can get to know your crush better. Learn what she likes before you start dating her. Plus, the way she responds to the flirty questions will help you know if you may have a chance with her or not.


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