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  1. JoAnn
    January 7, 2018

    I been talking to guys. Meet online one guys went on date with. Other guy just been talking on phone. Shared with both of them fraustred that my job messed my check up. I was upset about it. Next day nither one reach out to me. I know only one day. Should I call? Wait see if reach out to me. I just got out of 4yrs bad relationship. Is it too soon to date. We broke up 5months ago. Or is it blessing these guys had not called. Because don’t care about my feelings.

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      January 8, 2018

      If someone in your life shows you that they are not interested in speaking with you, then they have shared their thoughts and feelings. They may be unable or unwilling to speak with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. You may find benefit in developing a relationship with someone that you spend time with. Have a great day, JoAnn!

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    • lacey
      February 2, 2018

      Call and apologize for ranting. When people mention money it makes some feel you’re hinting at a loan.

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      • Web Admin
        Web Admin
        February 3, 2018

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Please feel free to share your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Lacey!

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  2. Black pearl
    February 5, 2018

    I have been dating this guy for two years he cares and lives me by his actions but sometimes when he goes and play gigs and different cities and not to mention he works for the military… I have never been to any of his shows but he always say that he will bring me to one of his shows. He calls but there have been times I don’t hear from him until he is on his way home. How do I handle this should I ask questions or let it go!

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      February 7, 2018

      Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Determine what you believe is acceptable for this relationship. It is possible that he is highly busy. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Pearl!

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  3. Tyija Rochelle Williams
    May 16, 2018

    I have been dating this guy for 10 months and i told him i needed a break because i was becoming to obsessive with him. I would get mad at him for not texting quick enough and he said we dont have to text everyday. So i said lets take a break and he sent another message saying who gets made for one day of not texting. He hasnt texted me since that and i never replied to him. Its veen 3 days should i text him. Are wait untill he texts me.

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      May 17, 2018

      The two of you are no longer speaking. You have not attempted to speak with him for three days. Allow thoughts of him to fade at this time. Learn this lesson from your relationship. Determine what you want for your future without him. Ensure that you act with kindness and compassion. This will bring positive people into your life. Have a great day, Tyija!

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  4. Precious
    June 6, 2018

    My guy came 2 my working place I asked him of his phone, he refused 2 give it 2 me I told him dat if he don’t give me dat phone I will not pick his Cal dat if I pick his Cal I should not be able 2 conceive, dat was on Thursday, leta on dat day he called I refuse 2 pick his Cal,friday he called u refuse 2 pick so he chatted me up on Saturday, begging gave me reason dat y he did not want 2 give me dat phone is cos of my colleagues, so I was seeing reason with him , so on Sunday morning we chatted very well he told me dat he was going 2 church wen he comes back he will Cal but he did not chat nor Cal me, on Monday morning I text him I need card ,he did not respond out of anger I text him, am tired of d relationship, let’s move on with our life ,dat wen am ready 4 marriage I will marry dat I want 2 focus on my school Nd future now dat. Tired of his relationship, he now resend d msg back 2 me let’s move on with our life, he now said I have moved on already, I said 2 him tnx dear ,wish u well , he now said am in imo state dat y I was not able 2 send d card 4 u .I said 2 him k no problem have heard u, since on Monday he has not called or chat me, am worried does it mean he has move on with his life. I need u advice

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      June 8, 2018

      It sounds as though this relationship has been influenced by outside social relationships. This person may not be interested in nourishing a relationship with you, but it is difficult to determine his feelings. Decide what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Precious!

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