If you’ve ever talked to a hot girl before you’ve probably heard them complain about how hard it can be. To be fair, there are challenges to being hot, but they’re rarely as difficult as the problems people face when they’re stuck on the outside looking in.
Don’t you want a guy to work for your affection? Do you want to go outside feeling good about the way you look? That’s what we’re here to help you achieve. We don’t want you to sell your soul to attract a man, but if you take the right steps, you can improve your self-esteem and romantic prospects.
1. Eat better
The modern world doesn’t make it easy to eat healthily, but if you want to look your best, that’s what you need to do. Less processed food and more fruits and vegetables. Try and cut back on things like sugar and fat.
Eating well is about more than just losing weight, although that is important. A good diet will also give your more energy and help clear your skin up.
2. Don’t starve yourself
Too many people think that going without food is an acceptable diet. You need food to survive, starving yourself forces your muscles to start eating themselves. Men want girls that are healthy; they don’t really want to feel bones poking into them when you cuddle at night.
Poor nutrition can also lead to poor skin and premature aging. Even if a crash diet cuts down on the pounds now eventually, it will lead to issues that will leave you looking anything but hot.
3. Get moving
Exercising is a must if you want to be hot. And exercise isn’t just about lifting weights and running on a treadmill; you can get exercise in throughout the day by walking instead of traveling via machine. Go to the gym when you can but also look for any chance to get your body in motion.
Exercise may seem tiring, but it will actually provide you with the energy you need to take further steps on your journey. Besides, exercise will help you get healthier, and that’s always a good thing. Our bodies weren’t meant to stay still all day.
4. Be positive
Hotness isn’t just about how you look; it’s also about the feelings you create in others. People want to be around girls that are positive. If you are always sulking and frowning, then people are going to walk the other way.
If you are having a good time, then people will want to be a part of your life, so try and find the positivity in life instead of faking it. Still, if you feel you can’t find a smile in your heart, you can try and fake it until you make it. It’s worth a try if there’s a chance you’ll be able to get more enjoyment out of life.
5. Focus on making the most of what you’ve got
You should definitely take steps to improve yourself but don’t get too caught up in the future. If you spend all day focusing on what you don’t have, you can miss out on the chance to appreciate your life for what it is now.
Try and look as hot as you can today and don’t stress too much over what you don’t have at the moment. Tomorrow will be another day, work towards it while enjoying what you have. Remember, perfection isn’t actually achievable. In true self-improvement, the journey is just as important as the destination.
6. Take your makeup game to the next level
Guys like to say that they prefer girls without makeup, but they don’t know what they’re talking about. The fact is that men don’t understand just how ubiquitous makeup is. Women wear makeup because it makes them look hotter.
It might not be fair but that’s the way it is. If you want to look as hot as possible you need to get good with makeup. This doesn’t mean that you have to spend hours a day perfecting your look, but you can really improve your style by putting a little thought into the makeup you use.
If you don’t know anything about makeup, then consider asking a friend for help. People who spend a lot of time doing their own makeup are often eager to show off their skills on others. Still, if you can’t find someone to help you in person, there are plenty of video tutorials online that can show you the way to go about things.
7. Improve your wardrobe
You should be wearing clothes that fit your body. You might not be happy with the body you have, but that doesn’t mean that you’re helping things by wearing clothes that obscure your curves. No matter what your body is like you will be more attractive in clothes that fit you.
Once again you should be ready to ask for help if you don’t feel comfortable buying new clothes yourself. You probably have at least one person you know who would love to give you a makeup.
If you don’t then you can still go to stores and ask to see if the people working there can help. If the day is slow, you can probably find someone who will give you special attention and help you find clothes that compliment your body shape.
8. Put on bright colors
Our eyes are naturally drawn to bright colors. That’s just basic science. If you want to stand out, you need to consider wearing something like bright red. That’s why red lipstick is so popular; it draws the eyes to your face. Of course, you don’t have to wear red all the time, consider other pastel colors that are colorful without being too overpowering.
9. Learn the line between sexy and over-the-top
Dealing with society’s rules can be a pain. Men worship images of guys wearing next to nothing, but when they see women walking down the streets in those sorts of outfits, they start talking all sorts of BS. It might not be fair, but you should still try and learn how to work the rules around you.
You don’t want to look desperate. Give them a little hint of what you’ve got but don’t give too much away. Guys may say they want things to be easy, but we all appreciate things more if we have to work for them.
So don’t be afraid to flash some flesh but don’t go overboard, you always want to leave him wanting more. Look at the hot girls around you and follow their lead.
10. Get some sleep
Being hot takes energy, and you won’t have the energy you need if you don’t get a good night’s sleep. You should aim for eight hours, but every little bit helps. You should also try and avoid caffeine and digital screens before bed to improve the quality of your sleep and get more energy from every minute you spend in bed.
11. Learn to dance
They say that the way you move on the dance floor reflects the way you move in bed. There is some truth to that; both activities use many of the same muscles. If you want to show men that you’re fun to be around you should take up dancing.
Dancing is a fun way to lose way, grow your muscles, and look sexier. It’s also a good way to meet men and get up close and personal with them. Take up a form of partnered dancing like salsa, and you’ll find that it can be better than speed dating.
12. Smile more
You might hate it when dudes come up and say you’d look more attractive if you smiled, but they’re not exactly lying. Sure, you might not want to attract them, but smiling will help you attract the right men too.
You should also consider the type of smile you’re doing. Take pictures of yourself smiling and see if you’re doing it naturally or if it feels like you’re forcing it.
If your smile looks forced to try and come up with a memory that puts you in the right mood and keep coming back to it when you need to smile. Finding the right smile can take practice, but just remember that it is possible to improve your smile.
13. Work on your teeth
How do your teeth look? Are they crooked, brown, or generally hard to look at? Even the most beautiful face can be ruined by messed up teeth. If you’ve got serious problems, you need to make a trip to the dentist or orthodontist to get things fixed.
It’s not just about making you hot; poor dental hygiene can negatively impact other areas of your life. If things aren’t so bad, you should still consider improving your dental care. Flossing, using mouthwash, and investing in whitening strips can all help improve your smile.
14. Start doing yoga
Men love a flexible woman. It can come in handy in so many ways. If you can show a guy the way, you bend you’re definitely going to look hotter in his eyes. Besides, yoga also helps you lose weight and tone your muscles. You’ll be sexier on every level.
Still, the best thing about yoga is the way it helps you improve your physical and mental health. Many girls have joined to attract men but ended up doing it for themselves.
15. Figure out how to hold your liquor
Alcohol has been called “the social lubricant,” making interactions between strangers go a little more smoothly. Many women feel a little more fun and sexy when they drink because it lowers their inhibitions.
Guys do enjoy when a girl starts letting loose, but as with anything, there is a line you don’t want to cross. When you start slurring your words and stumbling around you go from hot to problematic. Besides, you don’t want to attract the sort of guys who are actively searching for a drunk woman to go after.
If you want to get drunk, that’s fine, but consider cutting back when you want to look your best. Getting blackout drunk with your friends is a lot less risky than taking your chances with puking in public.
16. Practice taking a good selfie
These days being a hot girl is about more than just looking good in person, it’s also about looking good online. Many guys might spend more time looking at your pictures online than they do looking at your face in person.
If you learn to take a good selfie people will think you’re more attractive. It may seem strange, but that’s just the way of the modern world, and it’s better to go with the flow.
Practice different angles. If you hold the camera up, you’re going to avoid the double chin look. You should also be careful with light, don’t use the flash. You should also look into filters. Consider an option that subtly clears up your skin; you don’t need to publish high definition photos that show off every pore on your skin.
Be true to yourself
We’ve suggested a lot of changes in this article but please don’t take this the wrong way. You can make all sorts of tweaks without changing the core of your personality. Whether you’re in pajamas or a little black dress you should still have something deep down that makes you who you are.
Don’t feel like you need someone’s approval. Being hot can be great. But if you have to sacrifice your personality to achieve hotness, then it will be a hollow victory.