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How To Know If You Are Attractive


We all get down on how we look sometimes. We may even be insecure enough to constantly be wondering, ‘Do they find me attractive in anyway?’ It’s not always the easiest to get an answer to that. Especially if the person in question isn’t as straightforward as we’d like them to be. Lucky for you, there are a few things to keep your eyes peeled for that will let you know whether or not they find you attractive. Read below to find out what they are!

It’s All About The Eyes

The eyes are the gateways to the soul. Or so they say. But they, whoever they might be, are totally, 100% correct! The eyes giveaway a lot of detail about someone. They can almost tell you exactly what is on someone’s mind. If you know what to be on the lookout for, that is. Like where there eyes are focused at all times and what else they are doing with them when they are around you.

What do people do with their eyes when they find someone attractive?

There are a few different things you might catch them doing. Like they may constantly ensure that they are making eye contact with you. You won’t find their gaze wandering off to anyone else’s eyes. This is especially true if you are surrounded by other people. You can be sure they are liking you quite a bit if they keep a constant gaze on you. They might also use their eyes to look you up and down. What does that mean? It means that they find you physically appealing. They are ‘drinking’ in all of your features repeatedly by doing this. It’s a sexual cue that people do, usually, when they are sexually aroused by someone.

You may find them to be the type that winks. When someone winks at you, it definitely means that they find you attractive and like you as more than just a friend.

These are just some of the many things people do with their eyes when they like someone or find them attractive physically.

And The Lips

And just like the eyes giveaway someone’s feelings, their lips will also do that. Lips are another thing that you should always be paying attention to when trying to figure out if you are attractive to someone or not. It’s surprising, but we do more with our lips than we even realize.

You might catch someone who finds you attractive to be licking their lips more often than not. When you lick your lips, even without realizing it, it means that you are very interested in what you are looking at. It is exactly the same reason you may catch someone licking their lips when a delicious plate of food comes out. They want to devour it.

Now of course food and you are two different things. But both are pleasures that share a spot in the same part of the brain. Which is why the lips do the same thing for both.

You may also find that someone who finds you attractive tends to keep their lips parted when you are around. It’s not something that we tend to realize we are doing, but it is often a sign that someone likes you in more of a sexual way. Therefore, they find you very arousing.

And Hand Placement

What someone is doing with their hands is super important to pay attention to when it comes to figuring out how they feel about you. If they don’t like you at all, you will notice that they keep their hands to themselves. However, if they find you very attractive, they are going to have a hard time keeping those hands by their sides. Instead they will definitely be making subtle moves to try and touch you as much as possible.

How could they touch you if they like you?

You may not realize it, but even the simplest of ‘accidental’ touching is a strong signal that someone likes you. Such as brushing of the arms, placing a hand on your knee or holding your hand even just for a moment.

They may place their hand on the small of your back. This is a strong sign that they find you attractive and would like to be more intimate with you.

They may do something as small as slightly caress your arm or leg with their fingertips. Or even just brush hair out of your eye or tuck it behind your ear.

Any of these are strong signs that the person finds you very attractive.

Listen To Their Tone

It sounds silly, we know, but tones are everything when it comes to what someone feels towards you. Obviously if they do not like you they will have bitter, low and slightly irritated tones towards you. When they are happy and friendly they will keep a pleasant tone that’s slightly uplifted.

But when someone has feelings for you or finds you attractive their tone will be very distinct.

Men will take on a deeper tone. They do this to try and appear more masculine. They will also keep a more seductive tone to try and seduce you.

Women will subconsciously make their voices more upturned. Meaning they will go up a couple of pitched, as well as add up turns at the end of their sentences. They want to come off as more feminine. They will also add more of a sultry vibe when they speak.

Watch How They Stand

Surprisingly how someone stands gives away how they are feeling towards you. Bet you didn’t even think of that, did you? Well good thing we are here to let you know! When someone has an attraction towards you their posture will change entirely. A friend may stand next to you with a slouch, because they feel totally comfortable letting themselves go when you are around. However, when someone likes you it’s a whole different story. There are a few different things you might notice. That is if you know what to look for.

You might find that a man who finds you attractive will stand with their shoulders back and chest puffed up. He may also have his feet pointed towards you at all times. You can figure this out by positioning your body in several different spots. Keep an eye out to see if his feet stay pointed at you no matter where you move. This is a definite sign he has a physical liking for you.

A woman will stand with her shoulders back, too, but she does this to make her breasts appear more prominent towards you. She will also keep her chest pointed towards you wherever you go.

Each of the sexes will do some of the same things. Like keep their feet positioned at least a foot apart. They don’t want to seem closed off to you, which is why you won’t catch them standing with both feet together. Both sexes will also have their pelvic area pushed out a little towards you, to draw your attention there.

Lookout For Verbal Cues

Yes, there is going to be a lot of physical signs and body language to keep your eyes peeled for, but there is also going to be some verbal cues to pay attention to. When someone has an attraction for someone else they usually drop hints. Even if they are extremely subtle. They might tell you how lonely they are or they might even go as far as to tell you that they think you look super nice today.

There will be something, because eventually they will out their attraction for you.

They might flirt with you in other ways. They could compliment your physique. They may tell you how strong and sexy they think you are. Whatever it is, you will know it’s a verbal cue of attraction when you hear it!

They Get Nervous

The last sign, but still a very common one, is that someone who finds you attractive will get nervous when you come around. This is because they are worried about embarrassing themselves and blowing their shot with you. They might fidget frequently when you are nearby. This includes playing with their hair or consistently straightening out their clothes. This just means that they are doing their best to look good for you. You might see a woman reapplying her makeup or going to freshen up in the bathroom often.

Men might play with their hair to make sure it’s all in the right place.

If you catch either doing these things, then you might consider that they like you as more than just a friend!


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