One of the biggest things all women want to know when they meet a guy they really like is how to make him fall in love with them. We all want to know just what to do in order to make this person fall for us because it’s easier than doing so many things incorrectly and risk losing someone we really like.
The trouble with this is that guys are all different. You can’t just do the same thing with each one in the hopes of making them fall in love with you. In fact, you have to get to know someone thoroughly before you can ever hope to make them fall in love with you.
Therefore, my first tip is to make sure you know who you’re trying to make fall in love with you. Get to know them thoroughly before you begin any of my below tips because you never know what’s going to work well for you and what’s going to completely fail.
That being said, there are things you can do to make a guy see you for who you are and make him fall in love with you. Here are the best ways to make a guy fall in love with you and stay in love with you.
- Be Yourself
Nobody is going to fall for someone who is being fake. It’s very easy to tell when someone is being insincere with their personality and their interests. You never want to change who you are in order to make someone fall in love with you. When you are completely yourself, someone will fall in love with your ability to be you in any situation. So don’t ever forget to just let loose and be who you are because that’s what guys fall for the most.
- Have Confidence
Insecurity is a huge reason many relationships fail and may guys don’t fall in love with girls. When you don’t even love yourself, how do you expect someone else to love you? It’s something that may girls struggle with but understand that in order for a guy to fall in love with you, you have to be able to fall in love with yourself. This means letting go of you insecurities or working to make them better so you can show this guy just how amazing you really are by displaying an attitude that says just that. Be confident and he won’t be able to resist you.
- Make What’s Important to Him Also Important to You
This is SO important when making a guy fall I love with you. Something that many people fail to do is making the things that are important to their love interest also important to them. If there’s something that is so significant to the guy you like, you should automatically make it important to you. By doing this, you’re showing him that you care about him more than just what’s on the surface. This trait is a huge reason people fall in love with someone else. You just have to be careful not to make this seem fake or he’ll be more upset than in love.
- Highlight His Manliness
Men love feeling masculine. It’s so important to them, in fact, that if a woman seems too “manly” or makes them feel like less of a man, they have a hard time falling in love with them. They need to feel manly and needed and if you really want them to fall I love with you, accentuate their manliness any time you can. Ask them to open the pickle jar or move something heavy or reach something too high for you. By doing these things you’re reinforcing their manliness and it’ll make them fall in love with you more and more.
- Accept His Faults
By this, I mean if he has little weird quirks and habits that may not be very “attractive”, let him know that you like him no matter what. Guys have insecurities just like girls do, they just don’t show them as often. If you reinforce the fact that you like him no matter what his faults or flaws are, he’s going to fall for you more and more. Knowing that you don’t care about the little things will show him that you’re more complex and less shallow.
- Appreciate His Efforts
Guys may not always do things in the same ways women do when it comes to showing you how much they care, but they still do things. Even if he does something completely wrong and not at all in the way you wanted him to, appreciate his efforts anyways. When a guy feels like he’s not being appreciated for who he is or what he does for you, he’s not going to fall in love with you very easily at all. Therefore, if you acknowledge his efforts and tell him how much they mean to you, he’ll be more likely to fall for you.
- Get Along With His Friends
This is crucial if you wan tot make a guy fall in love with you. His friends are sometimes more important than his own family and if you want to make him fall hard for you, the best way to do that is through his friends. Get his friends to like you and actually get along with them. There’s not much that makes a guy more happy than to see his girlfriend fitting in and getting along well with his friends. Hell, if his friends like you more than they like him, he’s definitely going to fall in love with you.
- Take Care of Him
The truth about men is that they like women who remind them of their mother. Now, not in the way they look or anything, but in the way they’re cared for. Genetically, men seek women who are good caretakers because their DNA suggests that the woman would then be a good mom. So really, they may not even realize they’re falling in love with you for this reason, but they are. So be caring toward them and they’ll fall in love for you very easily. Make them food, help them feel better when they’re sick, and just be kind of like a mom to them in the way you care for their health and needs.
- Look Great
As shallow as this may seem, guys are very visual people. They fall for girls who are well kept and look great. If you look like a slob all the time it’s only going to suggest that you don’t take very good care of yourself and that’s not a very good trait to have if you want a guy to fall in love with you. So make sure you’re showered and well groomed whenever you see him and he’ll be more likely to fall in love with you. Another tip is to small amazing so he always associates you with a certain smell.
- Don’t Nag Him
Nagging is annoying and it will only drive the guy you like further from you instead of making him fall in love with you. Nagging and complaining is sometimes necessary in order to get a guy to do what you want, but they also hate it. So if you’re trying to make a guy fall in love with you, avoid doing this when you can. Instead, choose different ways to persuade him to do what you want. Tell him he looks sexy when he does the dishes or how you find is so much easier to relax and feel good in a clean environment. This will make him want to do those things on his own.
- Laugh Often
There’s nothing cuter, sexier, or more pleasant to look at than a girl who’s always laughing and smiling. There’s just something about seeing a girl really happy that makes guys fall for them. If he sees that you’re laughing and having a good time, he’ll always associate a great time with you and this will make him fall in love with you.
- Be Close With His Mom
It’s true when they say that if you get along with his mom, he’ll fall in love with you. A guy’s mom is like his holy grail. Most of the time, she’s the most important woman in his life and if you even want a chance to be the next most important woman, you have to get along with and even be close with his mom.
- Be Positive
A negative person will never have anyone fall in love with them. If you’re positive and always have a brighter outlook on life than him, he’ll find it contagious and want to be around you all the time. If he sees how much more positive his life is with you in it, he won’t want you to leave it.
- Never Stop Flirting
Even if you’re in a relationship with someone, you can’t really make them fall in love with you unless you keep the flirting alive. This not only shows that you’re attracted to one another, but it’s what makes him see you in a loving light. Keep flirting with him and he’ll soon fall in love with you.
- Let Him Have His Freedom
Many women make the mistake of thinking that being around their man ALL THE TIME will somehow make him fall in love with them. I’m here to tell you that’s completely false and actually a terrible idea. Men need their space in order to even be happy. If you’re constantly smothering him with affection all the time he’ll get annoyed really fast. Give him his freedom and let him have a life to live. Spending time away from each other is what makes them miss you and want you more.
Getting a guy to fall in love with you is no easy task. Firstly, you have to know who he is and what he likes most. Then, you can use these tips in order to make him fall hard for you.