Getting a man to like you is one thing, but getting him addicted to you… That is a whole different endeavor! Are you finding yourself ready to embark on it? Perfect, because we have the greatest tips to help you keep him wanting more and more. All you have to do is read below to find out what they are!
Get To Really Know Him
The first step in getting him totally addicted to you, in a long line of many, is getting to know him the best that you possibly can. You want to make him feel like you are interested in him and everything about him. He’s going to appreciate the effort you put into finding more out about him. Feel free to ask him deeply personal questions. He’s going to love that you are so intrigued by him!
Don’t Make Him Feel Badly
Even when you might find a time where you are extremely mad, agitated or upset with him, try not to let it show. Of course there will be times when you are displeased with him, but taking it out on him will only push him further away. Try to talk to him like a rational adult. Don’t be petty and try to blame everything on him, make him feel crappy about himself or be rude.
Use Active Listening Skills
The most important thing in gaining someone’s attention is letting them know that you actually listen to them. Remember the small details that he tells you. Try to be all ears for him whenever he needs someone to talk to. Be his shoulder to cry on, his hand to hold when he is scared and be supportive of him in the situations where he needs someone. Soon you will be the only person he will want to turn to when he finds himself needing someone to lean on.
Mirror His Body Language
This is just simple biology. Men find you more attractive when you mirror what they do. This applies to women, too. It shows them that you are truly in tune with one another. This will only make him more attracted to you in the long run.
Invite Him To You
Be open and inviting. Keep your stance lose whenever you are around him. It will draw him into you. Use your body language to your advantage. He may not realize what you are doing, but it will work, we promise. Try keep your posture strong and firm, but everything else should be loose and inviting. Keep your arms down at your sides. Crossing them or holding them will make you appear more closed off to him.
Be A Warm Person
You will want to be inviting with your body language and with your attitude! These things go hand in hand with each other. You can’t make one work without being successful with the other. This means having a positive and caring attitude towards him. He’s going to dig you for it.
Be What He Needs Emotionally
Figure out what makes him emotionally tick and use it to your advantage. Does he need someone to help him cope with family troubles? Be that person for him. Does he need someone to stand by him as he does something difficult? Be there for him! Whatever he needs emotionally, be it! It’s necessary when you are trying to get a man addicted to you.
Be What He Needs Physically
To truly get him addicted to you, you will need to be his emotional support and be everything that he wants physically. This whole thing will never work in your favor if you can’t be what he needs in both areas. This means being open to keeping up (or down) with his sex drive. It also means trying to be open with doing the things that he likes in the bedroom, instead of just brushing them off.
Spice It Up In The Bedroom
You can also take the initiative to try to get things heated up when it comes to being intimate with him. He is going to love that you are going the extra mile to keep things new and exciting in the bedroom. Men like it when women take things into their own hands! Give it a shot, he will truly appreciate it.
Spice It Up Digitally
Even if you have never been much of a sexter, now is the time to start. You’re on a mission to get him fully hooked on you, right? So now is the time to start thinking way outside of the box. That means ditching your regular flirting and trying out different things. Surprise him with tasteful, yet naughty texts. If you feel comfortable, you can even send him teasing photos.
Note: Please be cautious of who you send photos to and what your age is. There could be severe repercussions if you are not careful.
Always Bring Your A-Game Visually
You want to give him the appearance that you are always looking your best. This doesn’t always last in relationships, of course, but for now we want to make him believe you always dress your best! This is going to make him want you more and more everyday. Go out and buy a new outfit to dazzle him with. You can even tell him you bought it just for him. Always make sure, as well, to smell your best. There is just something about a great smelling woman that men cannot resist.
Make Time For Him
Even if you are a super busy person, you will get him more addicted to you if you go out of your way to make time for him. Keep room in your schedule for him at all times. This also means not giving your attention to other men. There’s nothing that is more of a turnoff to men than realizing you are messing around with someone else in your spare time.
Show Him Your Intelligence
Contrary to prior belief, men find women with intelligence to be invigorating and addicting. Show off your smarts, but try not to make him feel stupid at the same time. You want to be his equal when it comes to brainpower! This will make him want to challenge you and spend more time with you. He will certainly be more intrigued in you.
Be His Intellectual Soul Mate
Intelligence and intellect go hand in hand. Be his match when it comes to both and he’ll be falling for you harder than ever!
Enjoy The Things That He Enjoys
Men and women alike are always looking for a partner that shares common interests with them. Find out what your common ground is with him and use it to get him totally addicted to you in no time! Try doing some of the hobbies that he likes with him. Even if you are unsure about them, go and give them a shot! You might end up not liking them, but he is going to love that you were willing to give them a try anyways.
Don’t Be Clingy With Him
A great way to turn him off and ensure that he isn’t addicted to you? Being clingy. Don’t do it. It’s a good way to push him away. Men like women who focus on them, but don’t make them their sole focus. Being clingy comes off as extremely desperate and unattractive.
Let Him Have His Space
Although he is going to want you to spend time with him, too much time can be poison to any relationship or bond. Giving him space is a good way to show him you are not clingy and that you can be fine on your own. Try to take space for yourself. Find your own hobbies to go do and let him do his thing. Okay it for him to have his guys nights and you go have girls nights. Independant woman are much more sexy than women who obsess over their men at all times.
Keep Conversation Flowing Smoothly
Letting your conversations die out is a good way of showing him you don’t like him. However, if you can keep the convo flowing smoothly all the time, he will certainly feel like you two are a match made in heaven! Keep things interesting. Running out of things to talk about is bound to happen at some point. So what are you supposed to do if that happens? There are a few options. Try playing conversation games with him to peak his interest. Ask him a lot of questions about himself. This way he will feel inclined to ask questions about you, too. It shows him that you have interest in who he is and will make him want you more.
Be Proud To Be With Him
Show him off! Don’t be afraid to let others know that you have an interest in him. Shutting him away from the world might make him feel badly and definitely won’t give him the idea that you are his perfect match. The more you are proud to be with him, the more he will be proud to be with you.
Don’t Be Overbearing
There are going to be things you feel stubbornly about. But it’s extremely important not to overwhelm him with that stubbornness. Try to avoid being bossy and telling him what to do. Even if you don’t agree with what he is doing or how he is doing something. Give him the chance to do the things he wants, the way he wants to. He will love that about you and it will make him more addicted to being with you.