Making someone go crazy about you is no easy task! It takes time, strategy and lots of effort! But if you think you have the patience, follow these simple steps and have him going nuts over you in no time!
- Be Confident
There is not a thing in this world that a man finds sexier in a woman than her confidence. This doesn’t mean that you should go full-speed ahead and cross the border into arrogance. Being arrogant is a good way of blowing your chances with this dream guy you’ve been after. Although he will find himself more attracted to you if you are confident in yourself, you want to make sure it’s not overwhelming. Humbleness is important when trying to woo someone. You have to take the best of both. Be humble, but be strong in yourself. This means that when you walk into the same room as him, act like you own the place! Keep your posture straight, your chest raised and your eye contact game stronger than ever!
Of course you don’t want to be going around ranting and raving about how amazingly good you are at this or that. However, it’s okay to verbally give yourself a pat on the back once in awhile. Let him know that you have faith in your abilities to accomplish your goals. Men like a woman who aren’t afraid of a challenge every now and then. So take that challenge head on and let him know you can handle whatever life throws at you!
- Be True To Who You Are
When you are trying to develop any relationship, it’s important to be yourself. Hiding who are in the beginning will only cause you problems if things ever escalate between the two of you. You want to maintain a true image of who you are. You definitely want him to fall for you because of YOU. Not because of some fictitious persona you made up in order to impress him. Most guys will see through that type of facade. If he doesn’t right away, he will eventually for sure! Letting your personality shine through will ensure that he gets an idea of what you are all about. He will go crazy for you, but only if you are really you! That’s a fact.
- Be Honest
Like we mentioned before, basing a relationship (even a non-existent one) off of lies is a big no-no in the dating game. It only paves a road for disaster in the future. No one appreciates being lied to. Be straightforward with what you are saying and mean it at the same time! He will find your candor in life charming. There’s nothing a guy loves more than an honest, down-to-earth type of gal, right? So why risk blowing it all by lying to him. It doesn’t matter what you were going to lie about, just don’t lie at all. There’s no reason for it and it will only drive him away in the end.
- Be Respectful In Every Aspect
Having respect for yourself is one of the most important things you can do when trying to make a guy crazy about you. He will like the fact that you don’t get down on yourself or even put down other people. There’s nothing more unattractive than someone who doesn’t have respect for themselves or others. There is no man on Earth that will go crazy about a girl that treats other people, especially him, like crap. This means don’t go around degrading him or putting him down, even if you mean it in a joking way. At least not this soon! This will only lead him to feel like his self-esteem is low when he is around you. That will make him associate you with negativity and ultimately he will want to avoid being around you.
It’s especially crucial to have respect for the people that he cares about. Dissing on his friends or family will only make him proceed with caution when deciding whether or not he wants to take things to the next level or not.
- Be Expressive
Staying quiet as a mouse is good in certain situations. Like when you are in a class or dealing with someone that you don’t like. When it comes to men, it’s totally the opposite. The last thing he is going to want is to be with someone who has no personality, expression or anything cool to say to him. You have to keep his interest by putting everything you have into being expressive around him. Let him know who you are. Tell him what is always on your mind. He will like the fact that you have more to you than meets the eye. It will be a pleasant surprise to him to see you be vocal and expressive. No one likes bland anything, so be sure you are doing everything you can to spice it up!
- Be Assertive
Being assertive is important. You want to set boundaries and show that you can take charge when need be. However, you don’t want to overdo it and come off as someone who is constantly on a bad power trip. You will end up turning him off if you become too overwhelming in this area. Being too bossy or ordering him around all the time is definitely something to avoid. No one likes to be controlled by someone else. If you don’t expect him to be controlling with you, you cannot be controlling with him.
But showing you confidence in your ability to handle situations on your own will absolutely come off as super sexy!
- Be Well Groomed
This one should be a given, but in case you need a reminder we will tell you anyways! It’s not easy when you are trying to get someone to fall head over heels for you if you are acting and dressing like a slob. At this point, you want to dress to impress! Right now you are trying to make good, lasting impressions on him. When he thinks of you later, when you are not around, you will want him to remember a well groomed version of you. The last thing you want is him cringing when he thinks of you in your ratty pjs! That’s not saying that you can slack off every once in awhile, but try to get him to see that you take really good care of yourself. That’s attractive to men! The visual part of wooing him is almost as equally important as mentally and emotionally wooing him.
He’s going to love seeing you in clothes that bring out your physique. He will also like to see your face made up once in awhile. Especially if the two of you have something private planned.
That way when you show up he will think, ‘Wow, she did all that just for me?’ And you’ll be on his mind more often from there on out.
- Be Subtle
What’s more of a turn off than being harassed by someone who is acting desperate? Desperation is a bad look on anyone. And you may actually be feeling this way, but it is best to not let him see that! Act like it doesn’t bother you if he isn’t reciprocating your advances right away. Playing hard to get is sexy and guys love to play that game! It will make him go mad for you in the end! Overpowering him right away will only make you appear clingy and annoying. Don’t do it!
- Be Vulnerable
Opening up to a man is one of the key things you can do in making him go crazy for you. He will love that you are putting your trust in him. Letting your guard down isn’t easy, so when you do it for him, he’ll take notice! Don’t pour your soul to him right away! Don’t drop all your baggage on him at once, but every now and then drop a little bit of personal information to give him a peek inside of your mind. And as you open up to him, he will be more inclined to open up to you in return. When he does this, it makes him feel a stronger attraction to you, because he feels like he can tell you anything. It’s foolproof!
- Be There For Him
What will he appreciate more than you trying to be there for him? Probably nothing. Giving him a hand to hold in a tough situation or a shoulder to cry on when he’s hurt is going to get him nuts about you! When a man is deciding on being with a woman or not, he takes how she is there for him into consideration. Why would he waste his time with someone who doesn’t want to be there for him? That doesn’t make for a very good partner.
You also want to make sure he knows you are there for him, no matter what. That way he will not turn to another woman for comfort.