Kissing is fun, exciting, sometimes sloppy and just all around pleasureable. Well, if you know what you are doing that is… Some of us might be a little inexperienced when it comes to locking lips with a guy or we might have experience but still need a little advice on how to do it to the best of our abilities. And that is totally okay! There is no need to feel embarrassed if you do not know how to kiss a guy properly just yet. We all start somewhere, don’t we? There’s no need to rush. Over time everyone gets better with things. Whether it’s cooking or crafts or kissing! Practice makes perfect! And there has never been a truer statement when it comes to getting intimate in any way with someone.
So where are you supposed to start so that you can practice and get better? By following this guide on how to move your lips while kissing a guy below. This is the perfect instructions for any beginner in the kissing game. Go ahead and take a look to get started!
Preparation For Kissing
You might think that you just dive right into kissing. Which might be true for most people, but if it is your very first time or one of the very first times that you are doing this, you might want to take some time to prepare. You are probably wondering what you could possibly do to prepare yourself for kissing. First, you should mentally prepare to kiss. You want to make sure that you are comfortable with this and especially that you are comfortable with who you are kissing. Never let yourself feel pressured into kissing someone when you simply don’t want to. It’s okay to not want to have your first kiss or one of your first times kissing with someone that you are not familiar with or not attracted to. It’s definitely not worth it! In that situation it is much better to wait.
Once you have mentally prepared yourself for the kiss, you can move on to physically preparing. There isn’t much to do when it comes to this and usually when you kiss you will not always be expecting it to happen. So that means you won’t always have time to prepare. But a great way to prepare, if you know the kiss is going to be happening, is by doing something to your lips called exfoliation. Exfoliation means that you will scrub the dead, dry skin off of your lips. This helps new skin underneath come through and will be smooth as ever for locking lips!
How can you exfoliate? Try using a clean toothbrush. Put some water on your lips and gently scrub them with a toothbrush for 30 seconds. Then apply chapstick to lock in moisture.
Or you can use a sugar scrub. This is just a tiny bit of sugar and water. Scrub on your lips for 15-20 seconds. Then apply chapstick.
Keeping chapstick on you can be of use if you know that you are going to be doing a lot of kissing.
Before The Kiss
Now that you have prepared physically and mentally for a kiss it’s time to get ready for the actual kissing part of it all.
How do you do that?
When you are with your kissing partner the time will seem right to start kissing. That is the time that you want to face your partner and start leaning in.
Your kissing partner should also begin to lean in towards you. You should at least meet fifty percent of the way.
Maintain eye contact the entire time, until you reach the kiss. Try not to stare too intently. You don’t want to freak him out. Don’t forget to breathe and make sure that you blink!
Once you finally hit the kissing part, you can close your eyes and let your lips take over from there.
Different Types Of Beginner Kisses and How To Do Them
Pecking: Pecking is the most common first type of kiss that there is. It’s usually the first kiss that you have with a new partner, but that isn’t saying it can’t turn into a full blown makeout session fairly quickly. To start this kiss you just keep your lips closed and let them meet your kissing partner’s. You won’t do much motion with this type of kiss, but you can let it last as long or as shortly as you’d like. That is totally up to you or partner.
Plain Making Out: Making out is the next type of kissing that we are going to discuss. This is a much heavier type of kiss that you can do with someone. How do you do this type of kissing? It comes easily over time, but it might be a little confusing at first. You will start out in a pecking position, but quickly you will place your upper lip between your partner’s lips and start making movements. These movements should be like you are taking a drink from a cup. They should follow this motion. Your lips will switch places. So your partner’s upper lip will end up between your two lips and this will go back and forth. Be sure not to keep your mouth open too wide as you might swallow them whole. Also be sure not to let your spit slobber all over them. Messy kisses can be nice, but some people are a little grossed out by them.
French Kissing: French kissing is like making out. So do all of that, but you will want to add in some tongue action. This is a more advanced type of kissing and should be taken in stride. It should also be done with someone that you really like and feel comfortable getting intimate with. All you need to do is let your tongue touch his tongue and continue the making out motions. Don’t keep your tongue in there the whole time. You will want to bring it in and out. That way your partner doesn’t feel like there’s too much tongue!
And that is how to do beginner’s kisses and how to move your lips when kissing a guy. We wish you luck and hope that you have a good time!