Ever want to tease your partner while he’s otherwise occupied? We’ve all had the urge! Not only can this be incredibly fun, but it can result in some great time spent together once you actually have some alone time. Turning on your partner, or your potential partner, without being obvious is an art form. If you’re too obvious, it can cause some unwanted attention from authority figures or people that you’re not trying to catch the interest of.
But, doing it the right way means that you’re in for a treat when you and your partner are finally able to be together. Turning on your man while he’s in class can be a great way to distract him, have him thinking about you all day, and connect with him on a fun and intimate level. If you’re lacking in ideas, try out these tried and true ways to turn your partner on while he’s in school.
1. Show a little skin
The important thing here is to leave enough to the imagination that he can’t help but think about you all day. Whether you’re meeting him before class, or just sending him a picture with a little more than usual showing, you’re going to want to make sure that all of the important parts are covered!
But, make sure that he can see enough skin that he’ll be driven to distraction thinking about you for the rest of the day. Wearing a low-cut shirt, or make sure that your shoulders are showing. You can even send him a full body picture in a nice dress or shorts – whatever you do, make sure that it’s something he won’t be afraid to open in public.
2. Show some confidence
Nothing really turns a guy on faster than a woman who has a lot of confidence. If you’re texting your partner during class, don’t be afraid to tell him exactly what you want the minute that you’re together again. Or, if you’re sending him a picture, make sure to highlight your best features.
Don’t just send him a picture with a little bit of skin showing – make sure that you’re looking your absolute best. Wear your favorite shade of lipstick, or have your hair done just the way you like it. Showing him that you’re confidence will be enough to get him thinking about you all of it’s own, not to mention being a huge turn on.
3. Flirt with him
Via text or one-on-one, flirting is the best way to get a guy thinking about things he shouldn’t be during class. If you have class together, pass him notes when the teacher isn’t looking with risque or flirtatious things written in them. But make sure not to get caught!
If he’s in class and you’re waiting for him, go ahead and send him a flirtatious text or two. You want to start slow – don’t start by getting down and dirty right away. Even guys like a little build up, and you’ll be surprised by how much he’ll be thinking about you if you tease him for a while before going in for the kill.
4. Use your words
You want to make sure that the words you’re using communicate exactly what you want. Don’t let the conversation drop off! This means answering with more than just an emoji. Use your words to explore different ways to turn him on. Words are more powerful than a lot of people give them credit for.
With just a few choices phrases, you’ll be able to make him stop thinking about his course work and start thinking about you. Don’t be afraid to take charge, either. The best thing you can do is to tell him exactly what you want – guys are so used to making all the decisions when it comes to this stuff, so turn the script and take charge.
If you don’t get to see your partner as much as you’d like because he’s in classes all day, these are some great ways to make sure that he’s thinking about you even when you’re not together. He may pretend to be shocked that you’re trying to turn him on while he’s in public, but guys love a little surprise and change to the usual as much as girls do.
When you show him that you can’t stop thinking about him, even while he’s in class, that will make him feel appreciated, attractive and loved. A guy who feels good about himself is going to do his best to make you feel good, too! Make sure that all of your flirting doesn’t accidentally embarrass him, though! You want to do enough to tease him and get his blood pumping, no making it impossible for him to stand up without a book in front of him!