When you dream about getting married, the exact interpretation depends on your thoughts. If you are starting to think about the long-term potential of your relationship, it only makes sense that your subconscious would be testing out a potential marriage in your dreams. This type of dream is particularly common after you have been dating someone for a few months and are starting to get serious. Depending on what happens in the dream and how you feel in real life, the exact interpretation can vary.
I Had a Dream That I Married My Boyfriend. What Does That Mean?
A dream that you married your boyfriend typically means that you are starting to grow closer as a couple. Instead of seeing yourself as an “I,” you are starting to think of your relationship as a “we.” Your identity is changing as a couple and starting to develop a common ground. You may be letting go of some of your past self to make way for your new life as a committed partner.
Keep in mind that this dream is probably not foretelling the future. You could be getting married some day to your boyfriend, buy a dream that you married your boyfriend probably relates more to your subconscious feelings and your changing emotions about the relationship.
Dreaming About a Healthy Marriage
Think about how the marriage is like in your dreams. If you are happy and enjoying the marriage, it shows that your relationship is going well. Even though there may be arguments from time to time, you are committed to the relationship and see it as something that has a potential to be something more.
If you dream that the marriage is in trouble and plagued by arguments, you may need to rethink your relationship. There may be disagreements or hurt feelings that are making you doubt the strength of your bond. This does not mean that your relationship will ultimately end, but it is a sign that you may need to put more work into the relationship if you want it to last.
Dreams About Cheating in a Marriage
When you dream that you married your boyfriend and he cheated, it shows underlying trust issues. It means that you do not feel like you can trust your boyfriend to do the right thing. It may also mean that you suffer from a low self-confidence and self-doubt about whether you are worth the other person. You may be afraid that you do not deserve a happy relationship, so you dreamed that your husband was cheating on you. This type of dream may also just show your fears of commitment because you are naturally afraid that you will commit only to find out that you made the wrong decision.
A dream that you married your boyfriend can also represent something else. Marriage is a major transition in life. It is quite common for a dream about marriage to represent a new transition or change in your waking life. It may also symbolize that your old life is turning into a new you. It may represent an increased commitment or sense of harmony in your waking world.
A Proposal: If you dreamed that your boyfriend proposed to you, it may symbolize a rite of passage. At a very basic level, it may be a type of wish fulfillment. You may be hoping that this relationship is the one for you, so you dreamed that your relationship was taking the next step.
An Arranged Marriage: If you dreamed that you are about to have an arranged marriage, it typically shows that you feel like you are being forced to do something. This could be in your relationship or in another area of your life. Sometimes, you may feel forced as you transition to the next stage of your life because a part of you wants to hold onto the past.
Elopement: If you dream that you are eloping with your boyfriend, it shows that you may be trying to break free from your normal problems. You want to escape from these problems instead of confronting them, so you dreamed that you ran away to get married. This type of dream shows that you are having problems as you struggle to balance your emotional, spiritual and material life.