We all wonder what the best way to win a guy over is. We might think chasing after him is all that we need to do, but some of us prefer to play hard to get. And that is totally okay, because more times than none hard to get is an effective game that we always seem to win. But we can only win if the guy is interested in us in the first place, correct? Correct.
So that brings us to the question: If I stop contacting him, will he notice? Will he come after me? Like we said before. This all depends on whether or not he is digging you in the first place. Does he like you? Or are you just friends? Or are you not even friends, but more like acquaintances?
These are important things to consider before you disappear from his DMs and go off the grid. You never know what’s going to happen unless you put some pretty careful thinking into it beforehand. What type of thinking?
Well, if you are asking then it is definitely a good thing you came to us, because we know just how to help you out!
To truly decide whether or not he will notice when you stop texting/calling/talking to him you must first decide if he likes you or if he doesn’t.
Signs He Likes You
There is a good chance he will notice when you stop contacting him if he exhibits any of these signs. When a guy likes you he will not want you to just go away. He’ll most likely chase after you. Which is what you are aiming for after all, is it not?
He Initiates Conversation: When you like someone you tend to find yourself wanting to talk to them almost constantly. We know that for a fact. That’s why when two people are crushin’ on each other they can’t seem to set their phones down for even a second. So keep an eye out to see who is starting the conversations. Does he send you good morning texts? What about goodnight texts? That means he actually cares about you enough to check in with you at all times of the day!
He Talks To You Daily: Just as he will be talking to you first, he will also be chatting with you on a daily basis. When someone has feelings for another person they want to talk to them every single day. There is not a day that goes by where they won’t feel the urge to pick up their phone and shoot their crush a quick (or long) texts!
He Flirts With You: Flirting, of course, is the most important thing to keep your eyes peeled for when deciding whether a guy likes you or not. When he is flirting with you on a consistent basis then there is a good chance that he would miss you if you stopped talking to him!
He Uses Body Language In Person: If you can’t identify any verbal or digital flirting don’t fret! You can still be on the lookout for flirting via body language. Sometimes guys can be pretty hard to read. So you really have to know what to look out for. Read his body language. Is he making eye contact? Winking? Leaning in towards you? These are all positive signs. And the best sign is if he is constantly touching you or trying to be near you when the two of you are around each other.
Signs He Doesn’t Like You
There is a great chance that he just simply won’t give a fudge if you stop contacting him if he shows these signs. He’ll just move along to the next girl, because who knows if he was even that interested in the first place at all?
He Doesn’t Ever Initiate Conversation: When you find that he is never the one to ignite the conversation then it might be time to start worrying. If he doesn’t like you he won’t make any effort to talk to you daily. And when the two of you do talk he is going to keep whatever he says to a minimal because he does not want to lead you on in anyway.
He Barely Responds: His texts will be as short as possible. You’ll get a lot of one word or two word texts in response to your paragraphs that you seem to send him.
He Hangs Out Or Talks To Other Girls: If a guy is hanging out with other girls or talking with them then there is a good chance that he couldn’t care less if you stopped talking to him. If he really cares about keeping you around, he will keep his focus on you and only you. Because when you stop talking to him it won’t phase him, because he has other girls that he can put his attention on instead.
He’s Always Busy: When you are talking to him do you often get the “I’m busy” response? That might be a negative sign that tells you that he doesn’t really want to talk to you in the first place. Therefore he won’t really care if you stop talking to him in the end.