What’s more romantic than sending your boyfriend a text about how much you love him? A handwritten letter, of course!
With technology making life so much easier for us, handwritten letters have become a thing of the past. We hardly ever pick up a pen to write to anyone anymore because it’s so much easier to tap away at our phones.
But there are times when a handwritten letter means so much more: when you’re writing a note to someone you love.
So for all you ladies out there who just want to make your man smile or cry or just cheer up during a tough time, here are some sweet letters you can write to him. It wouldn’t hurt if you try to write it on some girly stationery to give him something to treasure for the rest of his life!
When He Wakes Up in the Morning
Send him this sweet and loving message in the morning to brighten up his day:
Every day, the world feels brighter and more beautiful because you’re in it. You’re the sunshine that lights up my world, and you’re the calm glow of the moon that watches over me in my slumber. You’re everything I want and more, and I couldn’t be happier that I get to wake up each day with the knowledge that you’re mine.
When He’s at Work
Your man does whatever he can to provide, and it’s always important to make him know how much you appreciate what he does.
With each hour you put in at work, I know that you’re doing it to build a future for us. You’re a hardworking man, and someday you can become the father that our kids will look up to. Your perseverance will show them the value of hard work, which they’ll carry with them through the years. And even when some days are tough and your boss is giving you a hard time, I hope you think of me and how much I appreciate everything you do.
When He’s Tired
When your man comes home tired and dejected, a sweet love letter might help him forget how tired he is, even for a moment.
Baby, I wish I could be there to help you relax. I wish I could take away all the tiredness you feel and replace it with joy and happiness. I wish I could help soothe your mind. But in the meantime, while we’re not in each other’s presence, I hope this letter is enough to lift your spirits. Always remember that I’m thinking of you every moment of the day. And if only thinking about you could help you feel energized and awake, I’m sure you’ll never feel tired again!
When You’re Fighting
Even when you’ve locked horns with your man, that doesn’t mean you don’t love him. Use this letter to try to reconcile with him:
Nothing pains me more than knowing you’re mad at me. I know we’ve both done something wrong, and this shouldn’t have become as big as it is. But let me be the first to say that I’m sorry for what I said and did. I was impulsive and immature. I wasn’t thinking clearly. I wish I could take back all the things I said, but I can’t. So the best that I can do is try to erase them from your mind by replacing them with sweet words instead. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me, and I wouldn’t know what to do without you. You’re everything I’ve wanted and more. So please, let’s not keep up this fight when we could be spending time loving each other instead.
When He Needs Reassurance that You Love Him
Every once in a while, your man also wants to hear you say how much you mean to him.
You have no idea how you’ve changed my life. I used to feel so alone and afraid in this world. I didn’t believe I could find someone who could truly love me for who I am. I never thought that I could find that one person who can revive my faith in everything. And yet here you are, the pillar of strength that keeps me going, the light that guides me towards a better future. You can’t imagine how much of an impact you’ve made in my life. I can only hope to do the same for you. I want to be that person for you if you’d let me. I love you so much that I won’t stop until I’ve made sure that you’re the happiest man on earth.
When You Want Him to Feel Good About Himself
Your boyfriend might not be the type to focus too much on how he looks, but trust us when we say that a compliment about his appearance can brighten up his day.
Hey there, hot stuff. Do you have any idea just how sexy you are? You’ve got the smile that can light up a room, and the sense of humor to keep it lit. You’ve got such deep and soulful eyes that I can drown in whenever I look into them. You’re so big and strong that just being around you makes me feel safe and protected. I never thought I could be so lucky to be with a guy whom I can compare to a Greek god. And yet here you are, in the flesh. You have no idea how wonderful you are inside and out.
When He’s Feeling Jealous
He might not admit it, but your boyfriend might feel a little jealous sometimes. Maybe he thinks you’re getting a little too close to your coworker, or he thinks one of your friends is trying to flirt with you. Whatever the root of the issue may be, this letter will reassure him that you’ve got eyes only for him.
When I first laid eyes on you I knew that you would change my life. And now here we are, together and happy. You may think that there are other guys out there who want to catch my eye, but they’re in for a hard time. Don’t they know that my heart and soul are already locked to yours? Can’t they see that none of them can hold a candle to your flame? Have they no idea that they can’t even begin to compare to you? Maybe they’re all blind. But let me tell you this: no other man can snatch my love and affection from you.
When You’re Feeling Jealous
Admit it; you get a little jealous too sometimes. Maybe you’re overthinking that text you saw him reply to or you just don’t like this new girl in his friend group. One way to tackle the issue in a way that won’t blow up into a fight is a sweet letter that will make him feel how much you want him.
When we first got together, I knew I would be dealing with a big problem for the rest of my life. After all, it’s impossible that no other woman would find you as attractive as I do. I knew from the start that I’d need to be vigilant because some other woman might catch your eye the way you’ve caught mine. And when I think about you wanting to be with another girl, a part of me dies. I feel like it’s the worst thing that could happen to me. You’re my world, my everything, and I won’t give you up. I can’t bear the thought of you being with anyone else but me. And I’ll do everything I can to make sure that I’m the only one in your heart. Because losing you is like losing everything that matters to me.
When You’ll Be Apart for a While
Before you head off to wherever you’re headed, leave your boyfriend a sweet handwritten love letter to read while you’re away.
I hate it when we have to be apart. It’s the most unnatural thing. When we first met, I knew that I had found my soulmate, and yet here we are being kept apart by circumstances. But I just want to look at the bright side of this. When this is over and we can be together again, we can say that this made our relationship stronger. We can say that even distance is no match for the love between us. We can tell everyone that we’re stronger than those few miles between us.
But as reassuring as that may be, we still need to face the fact that we’ll be apart for a while. I miss being with you and being around and kissing you. I’ll miss the sound of your laugh, and the way your head tilts back when you can’t hold back. I’ll miss holding your hand as we sit around and do nothing.
I’ll miss it all, but that just makes me look forward even more to the day that I get to see you again in person. So until then, here’s a letter to get you by. I love you and I’ll see you soon.
When You’re Feeling Lonely
When you’re lonely, writing a letter to your boyfriend about how you’re feeling can cheer you up. It gives you something to think about, and it will make you look forward to how he’ll respond.
Babe, I’m feeling a little down today. I don’t exactly know why, but it’s just messing with me. I’m just writing you a little letter to cheer me up. It’s like how you can cheer me up by just listening to what I’m saying. When I write to you, I feel like I’m talking to you too. I feel like you’re there listening even though you look like you’re not. And then you’ll give me a kiss on the forehead and tell me that it’s all going to be okay. So that’s what I want to hear from you now. Tell me it’s going to be okay, babe. Because whenever you say it, I know it’s true.
When He’s Headed for a Night Out with the Boys
We know you don’t want to be the spoilsport girlfriend who won’t let her man go out with the boys. But you don’t want to be that naggy girlfriend who texts him all night long either. The best compromise? This sweet letter he can read when he opens his phone.
Having fun, babe? I know how important a night out is to you, and that’s why I completely understand why you don’t want to go. Don’t worry, I’m not going to be reminding you about what not to do because you’re a big boy and you know right from wrong. I just wanted to remind you to stay safe, and don’t drink more than you can handle. Who knows what trouble you might end up getting into if you drink too much. And if your designated driver is way too smashed to drive, insist on taking a cab. I worry about you, not because I don’t trust you, but because I want you to be safe all the time.
So for now, put down your phone and go hang out with your guys. Tell them I said hi and to take care. Give me a call when you get home. I love you.
When You Just Feel Like Telling Him You Love Him
Love letters don’t always need a special occasion. Sometimes, the sweetest letters you can write are the ones that are totally random. These pleasant little surprises just drive home the fact that you love him 24/7 and there doesn’t need to be an occasion for you to show it.
You’re the best, most handsome, most wonderful, most hilarious guy I’ve ever met. I don’t know what I did right in this world to deserve someone like you. But I feel like the universe aligned just right to bring you and I together. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me. You’re my first thought in the morning, and my last at night. You’re that happy little song that’s stuck in my head, and that funny joke that puts a smile on my face each day. You give me hope, and you give me strength.
I love everything about you, and I keep loving you more and more each day. I never thought it would be possible for anyone to be this in love, but here I am, head over heels in love with you and falling even deeper each day. You’re my best friend, my pillar of strength, and my beacon of hope. You’re everything I’ve ever wanted in this world and more. I love you, I love you, I love you.
Never underestimate the sweetness of a handwritten note. You don’t need to be a great poet or a great writer to come up with something to say that will make your man swoon. Just write a letter the same way you would say something to him in person. Because after all, that’s what got him to fall in love with you, right?
We hope these letters were able to inspire you to write something sweet for your boyfriend today!