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Mind Games Women Play On Men


Women are known for their amazing abilities to do many things in life, but one of those things abilities they seem to have is playing mind games on men. Relationships are tricky for both sexes, but they get even trickier when one party starts playing these kinds of games with the other party. This can really make things more difficult, but more importantly they make things confusing. When women do this they make things confusing for the men. This can lead to frustration from the male side. This leaves men struggling to find answers. Which is probably the exact reasoning for you being here reading this article right now! You are probably curious as to why women play mind games with men and why they do so in the very first place.

It’s good to be asking these kinds of questions, because once you get the answers you can grip a better understanding for when it happens to you again.

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Why Women Play Mind Games

Before we dive into the different types of mind games that women like to play on men, we must first talk about why they play these games at all. Is it because women hate men? We might think so at first, but the opposite is actually true.

Women don’t always realize that they are even playing mind games with someone. Sometimes they just come naturally.

There are also times that a women likes to play games with a guy to test the waters. She is just trying to feel you out as a person and decide if you are compatible with her. This could mean one of two things or both of them. These two things are: Sexual compatibility and emotional compatibility. So you might think that she is playing games with you, but in reality she is simply taking your for a spin before committing to you intimately in either form.

Or she could be playing games with you because she doesn’t like you at all. Maybe you were slightly offensive to her and now she has her heart set on getting you back for doing so. That may be her cue to be cruel with a mind game. However, this is very rare and is usually not the case.

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We can sometimes misconstrue a woman and say that she is playing mind games, but she might actually be flirting with you. Occasionally it can appear that way.

The last reason that a woman might be doing this to you is because she herself is insecure. She might not know how to handle what is happening between the two of you and finds herself automatically resorting to playing games in regard to your relationship.

Mind Games Women Play

Now that we have discussed some of the reasons that women play these games, we can move on into talking about what kind of games they prefer to play!

  • Hard To Get

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This is the number one mind game that women like to play on men. It’s actually a favorite! But try not to get utterly offended if she plays this game on you. This game actually implies that she has feelings for you. Just because she plays hard to get doesn’t mean she doesn’t want you to eventually get her. This game is played to test how far you will go to be with her. It is also a small way of her making sure you know she isn’t easy in any way, shape or form! She’s a girl you have to work for and she wants the world to know it.

  • Bait And Switch

The bait and switch game is more of a torture than a fun game. However, some women like to do it on a daily basis. She’ll ask you things like “do you think my friend is cute?” and wait for you to answer. She’ll make it seem like you can be honest with her by putting up a bubbly facade. However, if you answer “yes” she then switches to a negative attitude and really gets on your case. This is also something they do about how they look, the work they do and things they said! They will bait and switch in a second. So be weary of that too bubbly persona they put on at times.

  • The Jealousy Game

The jealousy game is definitely a least favorite for men. But women like to play it! Women like to think this game is harmless, but men beg to differ. How is this game played? A woman will go out of her way to purposely make you jealous just to get a rise out of you. They don’t actually like the person they are flirting with, but they just want a reaction for you. This can put a strain on your side of the relationship. But it doesn’t strengthen her faith in you when you act jealous.

  • Playing Stupid

A woman will do this when she needs you to do something for her. She might act like she doesn’t know what she’s doing. This cute approach usually gets a man to do it for her!

These are just some of the games that women love to play on men! Messing with their minds has never been easier than with these. Now you have some answers to why they do this and what to be on the lookout for. Good luck!


  1. I’ve been married for 36 years and my wife recently told me that first seven years she was trying sabotage our marriage what gets me is let her come and go not have a job I have a job I worked away I worked at home I did everything tried to please this woman and now she thinks I’m just Butler what should I do

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She has disrespected you and have explained that she is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Strengthen your relationships with your family and friends at this time. Have a great day, William!

  2. av met a girl we’ve exanged contacts we had a little chat and she asked a favour from me which I did when I asked if she received my favour she dint respond to my text I kept quet for at least one weak when she text back to say Hi! idint replied bt now we are playing mind games though she is playing hard to reach but she always pass through my job to greet but no much even texting to each. does she loves me any more if yes advise me what to do next to win her.

    • It is possible that she may have been interested in developing a relationship with you. Her feelings may have changed over time. If she is ignoring you, then allow thoughts of her to fade. She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you by not speaking with you. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Felix!

  3. i work in a bank doing cover for other worker there and I one morning got the biggest shock off my life which I didn’t see coming my way . now ive been hear a good while . I was up stairs doing my job when the workers and the 2 managers where having a meeting . I was suddenly called out and the women manager said to me don’t you love me I know it wee pet . I was in total shock to be honest . my reply was yeah sure I was still standing there not knowing what I had walked in to then she procceded to tell the workers that she knew I was in love with her and that she was in love with me to . then suddenly an worker said some it which I didn’t hear . her reply was you mind your own business . ill talk to you later about that . I don’t really know what to think off it all as I don’t be there all the time in this place I’m confused and sorta angry that she put me on the spot in front of all there workers to

    • It is possible that she is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Her behavior was inappropriate, as it could harm both your and her career. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Speak with your coworkers about your position so they are aware. If you feel as though it would be beneficial to speak with her supervisor, then do so. Have a great day, Gerard!


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