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12 Physical Signs A Woman Is Interested In You


It’s not exactly easy to read a woman. It is even harder to know whether or not she is interested in you.

Except when you know exactly what to be on the lookout for.

Like any of these 12 following signs that giveaway her true emotions in a split second:

Pay Attention To The Hair

You might overlook what she is doing with her hair. That is not something guys tend to focus on consciously. Of course, you are always subconsciously aware of what’s going on there. Men are attracted to certain attributes on a woman biologically speaking. One of these attributes is their hair. Men are attracted to a woman’s hair almost before being attracted to anything else.

A woman with interest in you will always be playing with her hair. She will twirl it around her fingers when she is trying to flirt with you. She might run her fingers through it downwards repeatedly if you are making her nervous… In a good way that is.

Then there is the infamous hair flip. When a woman is feeling extremely confident around a guy she will flip her hair as a way of showing off and exuberating that high self esteem. Men are, usually, attracted to a woman with a strong confidence level. It makes them appear more sexy.

And her flipping her hair shows just that.

You may notice that every time you hang out she is doing something different with her hair.

This is her way of trying to put her hair on display for you. It’s a subtle way of fishing for compliments from you.

She will do different things to it and make it look it’s best just to hear you say, “Wow, your hair is so cool today!

However, you should be concerned that she dislikes you if you notice that she does things such as pull on her hair aggressively, starts plucking it out or even starts braiding rapidly. These are all signs of discomfort and negative anxiety.

You may also notice that a woman who doesn’t like you will not go to any extra lengths to do anything to her hair. She will leave it drab and dull without a care in the world, because she does not give a hoot what you think of it.

Is She Leaning In?

You will notice that a woman who likes you will lean into you while you are talking. She wants to give your conversations an intimate atmosphere by closing the space between you. This is her way of letting you know that she’s focused entirely on you and what you have to say.

She Crosses Her Legs A Lot

Women tend to cross and uncross their legs a lot when they are into someone. She wants to cross her legs to make her appear more feminine to you. She will then uncross them occasionally to draw your attention back to her legs. Legs, as well as hair, are one of things that men look at most when deciding if they find a woman attractive to them or not.

What Are Her Eyes Doing?

When it comes to body language the eyes are one of the most important things to be on the lookout for. What are they doing? Whatever they are doing will definitely give you an idea of whether she is really digging you or not.

She will keep eye contact with you a majority of the time. This is a way of getting you to focus on her and what she is doing at all times.

She might even go the seductive route by looking you up and down slowly. This is her way of saying, “I’m attracted to you. Every part of you.

She may look upwards to give her a more cheeky look. This is a way of getting you physically attracted to her as she is to you.

When a woman likes a guy she will also bat her eyelashes frequently. Batting eyelashes is an age old flirting technique used by women.

What will her eyes be doing if she isn’t into you?

She will not put any effort into trying to get you to hold her gaze. Instead she will do what she can to avoid eye contact with you. She will focus her line of vision on something else while the two of you are having a conversation.

Her Breathing Changes

That’s right- Even a woman’s breathing can give away whether she has a crush on you or not. When you are around her, you might notice that her breathing gets more shallow and quickens.

Essentially you are literally taking her breath away.

This happens because she is nervous and is so focused on you that her breathing will change entirely.

Her Posture Gives It Away

It might sound strange to you, but a woman’s posture gives her away entirely.

When she is interested in you, you will find that she arches her back purposely. Not only does she want to appear taller and more confident, but this is actually going to help her push her chest outwards towards you. This will attract a man to her more often than not. She knows that and that is why she is doing it.

She will keep good posture when you are around her.

She knows that slouching doesn’t appear attractive. So if you do find that she is slouching a lot and does not arch her back often, she probably isn’t as interested in you as you previously thought.

This might be less common is people with smaller sized chests. Instead of back arching they will just ensure they are displaying decent posture.

Her Feet Meet Yours

We all know that playing footsie with someone else is a way of flirting with them. A woman might be interested in you if she is constantly playing footsie with you. She might also take her shoes off so that her feet can actually touch you.

If she likes you she may also dangle her shoe from the end of her foot.

Obviously women do not play footsie with people they do not like.

She Is Always Laughing

As long as she isn’t laughing at you, you can be sure she is probably harboring some feelings for you if she is laughing all the time. And we mean all the time. At everything.

She wants to make you think that she finds you really funny, because it will make you feel pretty good about yourself.

She’s trying to build up your confidence by doing so.

This means that she will be giggling at all of your jokes and at every attempt you make to make her laugh.

Is She Touching You… A Lot?

You might find her brushing her arms with yours. Or you may feel her place her hand over yours at dinner. These are signs that she really likes you. The more her crush develops on you, the more touching she will do to you.

She may place her hand on your knee or move it up your thigh teasingly. She could even go as far as touching the back of your neck or your chest.

If she is touching you a lot, all over, there’s a good chance she is extremely interested in you.

When a woman doesn’t like you she won’t waste time touching you.

By initiating physical contact she is letting her boundaries down with you. She will not get intimate with you like that if the two of you are simply friends.

She’s Using Her Knees To Talk

Woman use their knees to let someone know they are into them. How? You will find her sitting close to you every chance that she gets. When she is next to you she will let one knee drop far enough over so that it is touching your knee.

Keep an eye out to see what else she might be doing with her knees. When she has a crush on you she might let her knees apart and drop them back together repeatedly. This is another way for her to draw your attention to her legs.

When she isn’t into you she will keep her legs from even brushing yours at all and she will keep attention away from intimate areas like that.

Her Lips Are On Display

A woman will use her lips on a guy that she likes anytime of the day. It’s one of the most prominent ways to identify whether someone likes you as more than a friend.

When she has interest she will often bite her lip while the two of you are having a discussion. She will also lick her lips every now and then.

Men are very, very attracted to a woman’s mouth. This is one of the key factors in deciding whether they want to pursuit a girl.

Women tend to use that fact to their advantage. Her flirting techniques will involve her mouth a lot of the time.

So it’s important to pay attention to what she is doing with it while you are around.

A tell tale sign is when she uses her mouth seductively. Such as when she is eating a popsicle or a sucker.

This turns men on and she knows it.

So there’s no doubt that she likes you a considerable amount  if she is exhibiting this type of behavior in front of you.

She Is Flashing Her Smile Often

Even if she is a smiley girl, if she likes you she will be flashing those pearly whites at you constantly. You will never fail to make a smile appear on her face. She will do this when she has feelings for you because she wants you to know that you make her happy. Smiles are inviting to people. If she was always scowling, then it might be safe to assume that she doesn’t like you very much nor is she interested in a romantic relationship.


  1. I am curious if this is a general knowledge of female interests, I am looking at dating a Macedonian woman, and wondered if it’s true with ALL females?

    • It would be beneficial to separate cultural stereotypes from your ideas about women. Each culture has a different influence on each person. Treat each person in your life as though you had no stereotypical notions about their behavior. This will help you in your future relationships. Have a great day, Lance!


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