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100 Questions to Ask Couples


Date nights are really important for couples. It’s easy to get sucked into your daily routine and forget that you and your partner actually need time to connect and communicate about whatever is on your mind. But there are going to be days where you’ve run out of things to say and Game Of Thrones isn’t coming on until next, so, you conversation topics are a little limited right now. But don’t worry, you don’t have to cancel date night out of fear that you’ll have nothing to talk about. This is actually a great opportunity for you to find some new questions to ask to your partner – questions that you don’t actually know the answer to. You may think you know your partner, but ask them some of these questions and you’ll be surprised what their answers are. So, next time it’s date night, before you head out the door, take a peek at this and remember some of these questions!

  1. What did you think of me when you first saw me?
  2. What’s your favorite memory us dating?
  3. What’s your favorite thing that I do for you?
  4. What reminds you of me?
  5. What’s your favorite sexual experience with me?
  6. Which movie best describes us?
  7. Would you say you’re more like your mom or dad?
  8. Do you ever think about having kids?
  9. What do you like the best about my body?
  10. What’s your favorite thing that I do to you in bed?
  11. What part of the day are you at your horniest?
  12. Do you like hugging or kissing me more?
  13. When did you know that you want this relationship to be serious?
  14. Have you dreamt of me lately?
  15. When I talk to someone attractive, does it make you jealous?
  16. What was our first kiss like for you?
  17. What’s your favorite thing to do with me outside of the bedroom?
  18. What part of our relationship do you think we need to work on?
  19. Do you believe in soulmates?
  20. What you’re favorite sexual position?
  21. Do you ever think about us having sex when you’re at work?
  22. Do you feel safe around me?
  23. Has there ever been a time when you didn’t feel safe around me?
  24. Do you feel neglected by me when we hang out with friends?
  25. What’s the deal breaker for you in a relationship?
  26. When did you first find me attractive?
  27. When do you think it’s the right time to get married?
  28. When do you think it’s the best time to have children?
  29. What did you learn from your parent’s marriage?
  30. Do you think you learned affection from your parents?
  31. What’s your favorite part of your body?
  32. What’s your favorite book?
  33. What’s your favorite movie?
  34. What was your biggest dream as a child?
  35. What’s your favorite memory of your mother?
  36. What’s your favorite memory of your father?
  37. What was your dream career when you were a child?
  38. If you could choose another job, would it be different than your childhood dream?
  39. Which person before me had an impact on you?
  40. When did you first have sex?
  41. What was your first time having sex like?
  42. Did you like high school or college?
  43. Where’s the one place you want to travel to?
  44. Do you believe in God?
  45. What was one of your happiest moments?
  46. What was one of the most angriest moments?
  47. What question have you never asked me but wanted to?
  48. What’s your favorite part of your personality?
  49. What part of you do you wish to change?
  50. Did you collect anything as a child?
  51. Who did you go to talk to when you needed advice?
  52. Who do you have a better relationship with, your mom or dad?
  53. What do you love to do in your free time?
  54. What are you most proud of?
  55. When did you ever feel the most scared?
  56. Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
  57. If you had to be on an island with one friend, who would you choose?
  58. What do you think about long distance relationships?
  59. Do you think it’s a good idea for couples to be business partners as well?
  60. Which one of your friends are you most similar to?
  61. What’s your favorite season?
  62. If you won $1000, what would you spend it on?
  63. What were you like in high school?
  64. When was your first kiss?
  65. Who was your first crush?
  66. Do you think of yourself as an introvert or extrovert?
  67. If you could pick an age to be, what would it be?
  68. If you could have a superpower, what would you have?
  69. Would you want to see your future?
  70. What’s your hidden talent?
  71. What do you think makes you unique?
  72. Why did you choose to be with me?
  73. Are you an pessimist, optimist or realist?
  74. Do you think I’m a pessimist, optimist, or realist?
  75. What was the most rebellious thing you did as a teenager?
  76. Who’s your favorite person in your extended family?
  77. What was your favorite date that we went on?
  78. Do you wish I could read your mind?
  79. When was the last time you cried?
  80. If you could save one thing from your house during a fire, what would it be?
  81. What’s the perfect day for you?
  82. Do you have a secret hunch about how you think you’re going to die?
  83. Have you ever wanted to be famous? How would you want to be famous?
  84. What would you do in your life if you were to all of a sudden have a billion dollars in your bank account?
  85. Do you believe that everything happens for a reason or that things just happen?
  86. If you could re-do one thing in your life, what would it be?
  87. What is your biggest pet peeve?
  88. Do you find yourself energized or drained after hanging out with people?
  89. If you could tell yourself one thing to your younger self, with only a sentence, what would it say?
  90. What is the thing that makes you feel the most alive?
  91. Do you usually follow your head or your heart when having to make a decision?
  92. When it’s been a long day, what’s the best way to unwind?
  93. What is one thing about me that you find confusing or hard to understand?
  94. What are your thoughts about public displays of affection?
  95. Is there something you wish we did together as a couple that we don’t do right now?
  96. Is there something that I know that you’d like me to teach you or vice versa?
  97. Is there something you tried but you’re happy that you’ll never have to do it again?
  98. What do you have a tendency to procrastinate on?
  99. What factors do you think makes up a healthy relationship?
  100. If you were fearless, what would be the first thing that you would do?

Phew, we’re done! That was 100 questions! Went by pretty fast, right? Now, you have a huge variety of questions to choose from and they’ll be able to fill your date up with interesting conversation. You won’t have to worry about having nothing to talk about now, if anything, you won’t have enough time to finish asking every question you want an answer to. Remember some of these questions the next time you’re out for dinner, it’ll be interesting to hear what your partner has to say!


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