If you want to develop a more intimate relationship, these romantic questions can help. They can help you learn more about your boyfriend while upping the romance in your relationship. If you have run out of things to say, try these 25 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend to spice things up.
1. What are you wearing?
If you want to make your boyfriend turned on, this is an easy way to do it. For bonus points, add a winking emoticon or a heart after it so that he really gets the hint.
2. How much do you love me?
This romantic question is a good one to ask if you want to know where the relationship is going. It is also a good message to send if you are about to surprise him with a special surprise or romantic dinner. If he didn’t love you as much before, he certainly will afterward!
3. Will you come upstairs when you get home?
This is exactly the type of message your boyfriend will love to receive. When he gets home, you can be waiting in the bedroom to surprise him with a very relaxing, enjoyable end to his day at work.
4. Do you still remember our first kiss?
It is easy for the romance to gradually die after you have been dating someone for an extended period of time. Questions like this will help remind him of the excitement and passion of when you were first together. If you need to rekindle your romance, follow this question up by going to the same place where you had your first kiss or your first date.
5. How long do you see our relationship lasting?
The best relationships are based on strong communication. If you want to find out where your relationship is headed, the best way to do so is to just ask him. You should probably wait at least a few months into the relationship before you do this though because a sudden question about commitment could scare a guy away if you just started dating him.
6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?
Hopefully, he will be completely devastated to find out that you were in an accident. At least, that’s the way he would feel if he is genuinely interested in you.
7. How do you want your eggs?
This is an old pick-up line, but it still works. The implication, of course, is that he will still be at your home in the morning for breakfast. If you want to ask him to stay the night, this is a sly, cute way to do so.
8. What is your opinion on marriage?
You should probably wait until you have been dating for at least six months before you bring this topic up. Otherwise, he may be frightened away by the sudden urge to commit.
9. Am I perfect in your eyes?
When you are with the right person, your imperfections are what make you perfect in their eyes. Separately, you are both imperfect people. Together, your imperfections complement each other and make you perfect for each other.
10. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?
You can fill in the blank on this one with anything that he really loves. This could be sports, his car, video games or anything else that would be hard for him to give up.
11. What about me were you first attracted to?
If you want to rekindle some of the early passion of your romance, try this question. Be prepared for him to ask the same thing of you. If you want him to feel flattered and well loved, make sure that your answer is a good one.
12. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?
Hopefully, he answers with a yes. If he is comfortable around you and loves you, he should be able to talk about just about anything with you. Earlier on in the relationship, he might not feel this way yet. Later on, he should.
13. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you?
This is a big question. Would you be loyal to your boyfriend if your favorite celebrity tried to sleep with you? This question is also similar to the celebrities list from an old Friends episode. In the episode, all of the characters made a list of the five celebrities that they would sleep with if they got a chance, and then one of the characters told her boyfriend that he could only sleep with anyone on the list.
14. What’s is the craziest thing you would do for me?
This could provoke a very interesting answer. To what extreme would your boyfriend go to show his love for you?
15. What do you love about me the most?
If you needed a quick ego boost, this question is a good one to ask.
16. Do you see us ever getting married?
Does he think that your relationship is going to go anywhere?
17. Would you be my lover in the next life?
This is just a cute question, although it takes on a deeper meaning if either of you believe in reincarnation.
18. Are you thinking what I’m thinking?
This also happens to be a good way to see what he is thinking about, although you shouldn’t be surprised if he responds with a sexually charged answer.
19. Do you remember the day we met?
This is a sweet way to remind him of how he felt when he first met you.
20. How can I prove my love for you?
You could also ask him how you could be a better girlfriend. Good relationships are all about communication, so make sure that you keep the dialogue open.
21. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?
The answer to this might not be the same one that you think.
22. What song reminds you about me?
If you want to have a throwback to the 1990s or 2000s, make him a playlist or burn him a CD.
23. Will you be with me no matter what?
This is a good way to find out if he will always be there for you.
24. I’m waiting for you . . . 😉 Are you ready?
If you were planning a romantic evening, this is a good way to give him the hint.
25. Where would our dream honeymoon be?
If you like to dream about the future together, this is a good question to ask.
Pick your favorite romantic question to ask your boyfriend and see what happens. At the very least, you will get to learn more about him and how he thinks. Some of these questions can also help you figure out where you relationship is headed in the future.