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She Has A Boyfriend But Talks To Me Everyday

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We make connections with people on a daily basis. And that’s great! Usually there is nothing wrong with that at all. However, sometimes we might find ourselves facing technical difficulties with those connections. Like when you are talking to a girl every single day, but she has a boyfriend. This can definitely put a damper on your relationship. Whatever relationship you have, that is. Which is the confusing part. What type of relationship do you have if she has a relationship with someone else? This is a complicated matter, no doubt about that. However, we are here to help you figure this whole ordeal out. What could push her to want to chat with you on a daily basis when she is already spoken for? Why does she prefer to talk to you about certain things rather than talk to her boyfriend about them? What is really going on here?

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Surely these are all questions that are currently running through your head.

But there is no need to worry, because we are going to give you a few reasons as to why she might be doing this.

Just keep scrolling to see what they are!

Reasons Why She Is Talking To You While She Has A Boyfriend

You Are Her Best Friend

Although it isn’t traditional, she might actually proclaim you as her best friend. Yes, men and women can be best friends and still be in relationships with other people. It happens, quite literally, all the time! You just might not realize that this is what is happening. Have you ever heard you call you her best friend or say something along the same lines? If not, ask her what she feels like the relationship you two have is. You two may not be on the same page with that kind of stuff. But talking about it is definitely the right way to go. That way you can clear up whatever mess this is by knowing what she thinks!

She’s Using You As A Crutch

She might be using you for the things she can’t use her boyfriend for. Like comfort or compliments. This happens when someone is in a relationship where they don’t feel fully, 100% supported at all times. She might not be getting what she needs or wants from her partner. So now she actively searches out other people to do those things for her. And this task has fallen on your shoulders. She might be talking to every single day for this reason. Of course, this means that she is in an unhealthy relationship and should consider other options… Such as breaking up. But you can’t dictate her life like that by any means. So it’s best to let her know that you are not comfortable being her emotional support crutch and see where it goes from there.

She Has Feelings For You

There is a chance that she might have feelings for you. She could like you as more than just a friend. Yes! Even if she is in a relationship. She might not be ready at this time to let go of her boyfriend. But she does not want to let go of you either. This can be a tricky situation. You should talk to her about it and see where she stands at the current moment. You do not want to wait around too long for her to make a decision. Because the longer it goes on, the trickier it can get! She should be able to be mature and break things off with her boyfriend if she truly likes you.

She’s Having An Emotional Affair With You

Or she has no intentions of ever breaking up with her boyfriend or you. This could mean that she is purposely having an emotional affair with you. This would be an affair where she talks to you daily and gets emotionally involved with you. However, there are no physical aspects to the relationship at this point and usually there won’t be. This can be a tough one to maneuver. Telling her how you feel about is the only way to figure out what the next step is.

She’s Just Being Polite

Are you the one who is starting conversation with her every day? She might only be responding because she is trying to be polite to you. She cares about how you feel and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by blowing you off. Try not talking to her for a couple of days first. See if she initiates conversation. If she doesn’t, then she was probably just replying to be a nice person.

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She’s Playing The Field

You might not be the only person she is talking to at this time. She could have a boyfriend, but she could also be developing relationships with several other people as well.

She’s In An Open Relationship

Or she could be a participant in an open relationship. So even if she officially has a boyfriend, it doesn’t mean that she isn’t allowed to talk to or even see other men!

20 COMMENTS

  1. Hi,

    I’ve told my friend how I feel and told her too leave me alone however never worked.

    She has a boyfriend but iam doing all his work he suppose to be doing.

    Don’t know what to do.

    • Your behaviors are not the responsibilities of your friend’s partner. You are sharing your kindness and compassion with your friend, as you should do if you are truly her friend. Do not allow your behaviors to burden her with your desires. If she is in a relationship, then do not attempt to harm that relationship. If they naturally end their relationship and she reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with her at that time. Have a great day, Stephanus!

  2. She has a boyfriend but keeps on telling me things about her relationship and she also told me that she is kinda not getting happiness from her boyfriend, that am the only one that gives her the happiness she has been searching for, but we are just friends and it is a long distance friendship. What should I do cause I have fallen in love with her.

    • The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. She is currently in a relationship, so do not attempt to harm her relationship. Be certain to continue to share your kindness and compassion with her. If her relationship ends, then perhaps attempt to visit her in person. You may find opportunities to nourish this relationship in the future. Have a great day, Deuces!

  3. Me and ex split up after 5 years , she now has a boyfriend , she didnt talk to me for 2 months and she wanted nothing to do with me , as time went on she finnaly got ahold of me and we started talking again, its been 5 months we talk everysingle day , ive even made some trips to go see her while her boyfriend was at work and we had sex multiple times , she says she wants us back togiether but she wants to know that things arent going to go back to how it was before ,arguing and fighting all the time , i feel i changed , but , were do i go from hear i need some advice. I want here back , she even tells me she loves me everytime we get off phone , and goodnight sweet dreams , she puts all the effort into talking and texting me , any help would be appreciated

    • You and your partner ended a five year relationship, and you are aware that she is currently maintaining a new relationship. The two of you speak frequently, but it is certain that you should not nourish this relationship as long as she has a romantic partner. If her currently relationship ends and she reaches out to you, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. It is appropriate for you to continue to share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, John!

  4. Have to disagree on the emotional affair bit: they often do become physical. And if the bond becomes strong enough, they will leave their current SO for the affair partner.

    • That is definitely true. While some emotional affairs remain just emotional affairs, they can also morph into a physical relationship as well. That’s why it is so important to avoid these kinds of situations to begin with.

  5. Hello there web admin i find myself in a very complicated situation. There is this girl who always hits me at school last year and i showed that i love her by blowing a kiss.Starting from July she said that i am her boyfriend and started hugging me all the time. I never did the deed of asking her out. Now i saw some pictures of her and her boyfriend or maybe ex boyfriend on Facebook. I would like to know what should i do in this situation i am in and if i am shy to ask her what should i also do?

    • It seems like she assumes you are already dating, so why not just ask her who the guy is in the pictures? While it could be an ex-boyfriend, it could also be just a friend, cousin or brother. I wouldn’t worry too much about being shy considering you already know that she likes you, and she seems to think she’s your girlfriend already. Good luck!

  6. im 16 and so is this girl, we’ve only known each other for a couple months but we’ve been getting closer recently. Today i just found out she has a boyfriend but she still continues to talk to me and she asked me to hangout with her next week (WHICH IS TECHNICALLY VALENTINES WEEK) she told me her boyfriend is okay with us texting because we text EVERYDAY and most of the time i dont start the conversation on purpose and she ends up starting it first. Yes i kinda do have feelings for her i admit that but i dont want to get in the way of her relationship cuz im not that type of person. Im not really sure if i should still continue to be friends and stay close with her or just cut her off because i rlly dont want to be in the way of her relationship and i dont want to catch strong feelings for her since she has a boyfriend. I dont really know what to do 🙁

    • You are aware that she has a boyfriend, so you should not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with her. It is appropriate for you to maintain a friendship with her. If her relationship ends and she reaches out to you, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time.

  7. thank you for responding, we might hangout this week but just as friends. Im not gonna force anything, im just going to let it flow. But usually when she talks to me shes pretty touchy and acts pretty silly around me. She also said she would be pretty upset if her boyfriend told her to stop talking to me. What is that supposed to mean?

    • Her behaviors indicate that she is interested in you, though it seems that she knows that she may be inappropriate at times. She is maintaining a relationship with someone else, so do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with her. It is appropriate for the two of you to continue to nourish your friendship. If her romantic relationship ends, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time.

  8. Thank for responding again, sorry i dont mean to ask too many questions but im just so confused. sometimes i feel like she likes me more than a friend but sometimes i know she doesnt. We still text everyday keep in mind and sometimes she will say that shes lonely and single when she told me she has a boyfriend. Last December i told her i had feelings for her and she told me she didnt feel the same and we both agreed to not make it awkward in school. I know she might jus be too friendly but a part of me is telling me that she sorta has feelings for me. Sorry for typing a lot on ur website, im just confused and dont know if i should keep our CLOSE friendship or just cut her off because she has a boyfriend and i dont wanna make it show that im trying to get at her when people knows she has a man

  9. I met this lady on Facebook & we got talking. It went on for sometime now ,we enjoyed each others company on d phone and asked her out, she didnt really come out straight with an answer buh along d line she told she has a bf buh she’s scared cause d guys mother doesn’t really like her ,I’d tried to advice at a point and stopped. I also tried to reduce communicating with her(for my sanity) ,buh this lady never stopped calling and all that.
    Till this day she still always communicates with me ,anyways I call her less – buh she seem to be too involved on my matter even when I am trying to find a way out of this whole thing I find myself .
    I only want a relationship that ll lead to marriage buh this is d wen I av found myself, am sort of confused -she doesnt want me to go either

    • It seems that you are interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with someone that will last a lifetime. You may feel that she is not interested in the same thing. Because of this, you will need to address your concerns with her. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well, as this will help the two of you reach a mutually beneficial decision.

  10. d calling and all that.
    Till this day she still always communicates with me ,anyways I call her less – buh she seem to be too involved on my matter even when I am trying to find a way out of this whole thing I find myself .
    I only want a relationship that ll lead to marriage buh this is d wen I av found myself, am sort of confused -she doesnt want me to go either

    • It seems that you are interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with someone that will last a lifetime. You may feel that she is not interested in the same thing. Because of this, you will need to address your concerns with her. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well, as this will help the two of you reach a mutually beneficial decision.

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