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Should I Tell Him I Miss Him?

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Missing someone isn’t easy. And wanting to tell them that you miss them is even more difficult. Especially when you are not so sure it would be such a good idea or not. Sometimes it is simple. Sometimes you know that telling someone that you miss him is a great idea. You would have no problem calling or texting them right now and letting them know how you feel. Unfortunately, there are people that you do not feel that comfortable just blurting it out to. We get that those situations are super tough. They can really toy with your head and even your emotions. But before you get yourself all riled up about it, let us help you decide the right course of action. We can  help you decide whether or not you should tell him that you miss him. We know a good situation from a bad one. Don’t believe us? Take a look for yourself and keep reading below.

Should I Tell Him I Miss Him

A Good Situation

We all know that couples, even if they are not committed, will have no problems telling one another that they have been missing them. This is totally normal. You should not be scared to text or call him and tell him that you miss him if the two of you are in a mutually good situation. What would a mutually good situation consist of? We are glad you asked! A good situation is one where both of you are totally into one another. You talk on a consistent, if not almost always, daily basis and you have a bond growing between you. This does not have to mean that you two are dating or even exclusive. It just means that you both feel the same way about each other. Has he told you sappy things before? Or made advances for a more serious relationship? Does he let you know that he likes you or he misses you? In this case, sending him an ‘I miss you text’ will do no harm, because he probably also misses you. This is a great way even to strengthen your bond, because it will let him know how you feel about him. And it might even open up a doorway where he will tell it to you back!

A Bad Situation:

Yes, sadly there are times when it is not okay to send a text or call him to tell him that you miss him. Like if the feelings between you are not mutual. Meaning you already know that he just isn’t that into you. If he has made it clear in the past that he does not have the same feelings, telling him that you miss him might just end up making you look a little desperate. We know that probably isn’t the most pleasant thing to read, because we know that you are missing him. However, it is the truth. You want to save yourself the embarrassment. Do you two not talk often? Has he told you he doesn’t like you in that way? These are signs that it would be a terrible idea to let him know that you miss him.

There are other bad situations where it would be a no-go on the I miss you type of feelings. Like what? Well, if the two of you had been dating and things had ended badly. That would not make for a proper setup for saying these types of things to him. If you two were totally unhappy in your relationship or if he was a bad guy to you, don’t do it. We especially suggest not sending an I miss you text or giving the person a call if he was abusive. We know that sometimes you might miss someone, even if they were a horrid person to you, but hold back. We know you are strong enough to not do it. Don’t subject yourself to his awful behavior ever again. Do not open the doorway for communication or letting him back into your life in this situation. This situation would be the worse one. And no, you should not tell him that you miss him!

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A Neutral Situation:

What’s a neutral situation? It can be classified as a situation where you don’t really know what the heck is going on between you and him. This is a common thing when two people are first starting to get to know one another. You might have been talking/hanging out for awhile, but you are not sure where you stand relationship-wise at this point. It can be utterly confusing. We get that. Which is why we added this situation into our list. So what are you supposed to do if you are not sure how he feels? We say…. Go for it! Nothing is good or bad yet, so go ahead and let him know how you feel. The worst case scenario is that he does not feel the same way yet. But he might appreciate you telling him that. You never know, he might also be missing you, but wasn’t sure how you felt. So by telling him, you are letting him know your feelings and opening a gateway into this type of discussion!

Good luck!

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