Let’s be honest… Trying to understand a girl is hard enough to qualify for it’s very own category in the Olympics. Women are some of the most mysterious creatures on this planet and trying to decode them can be ever so tiresome. Not only do girls speak a completely different language from men, they speak an entirely different body language, too. So trying to figure out whether they really like you or not can sometimes make your brain hurt. If you’re having a difficult time trying to understand that special lady in your life then you’ve come to the right place! Not only do we have experts breaking down each and every way for you to tell if a girl is interested in you, we have their research right here for you to read. Now you can finally stop asking yourself, ‘Does she really like me?’ Reading the signals below will give you a clear-as-day idea as to whether she fancies you as more than just a friend.
Sign #1.) She’s always touching you.
Whether it’s subtle or bold, if you find her sneaking a touch here and there it could be one of the many giveaways that she has feelings for you. If you find her arm brushing yours when you’re standing next to each other, it could mean that she wants to feel closer to you. Keep an eye out for if she puts her hand on your arm, thigh or knee when you two are conversing. Playful poking, rubbing of the shoulders and hugs are also good signs. It’s going to be rare to find a girl who wants to touch you a lot if she doesn’t really dig you romantically. Be careful for handshakes, playful punches or pats on the back. Those are some signs that she might not be into you as more than a friend.
Sign #2.) She laughs at all of your jokes.
And we really mean all of them. No offense, but we highly doubt that everything you say is worth a laugh. That’s why our research indicates if a girl is constantly cracking up at even your worst jokes, she’s probably crushin’ on you pretty darn hard. Girls don’t usually waste time laughing at just anything. Giggles are especially difficult to earn when she isn’t really interested in you. Try out a corny joke and if you find that she’s laughing instead of grimacing, she probably likes you.
Sign #3.) It’s all in the eyes.
They say eyes are the windows to the soul… And they’re right. One of the most important things to consider when you’re decoding her body language is her eyes. It is a good sign if she maintains eye contact with you throughout the entire conversation. It’s even better if you find her looking you up and down a few times or batting her eyelashes often. Then it’s pretty safe to say that she finds you physically attractive. Also keep a look-out to see if when she smiles it reaches all the way to up to her eyes.This is a signal meaning you are truly making her happy and she isn’t just smiling to be polite.
Sign #4.) She flirts with you.
Do you find the two of you constantly making playful comments? Does she like to tease you? Do you like to partake in playful banter with each other? These are all different ways that you can tell if she’s flirting with you and if she is, there’s a good chance she’s digging you! Flirting is the ultimate signal given to initiate a relationship.It’s what creates the stepping stones that begin the transformation from just friends into something more.
Sign #5.) She’s always freshening up.
Most women take great pride in their looks. So when they are trying to impress someone, you’ll find they are always constantly adjusting themselves in various different ways. Some of these ways would be: Reapplying makeup, fixing her hair, smoothing her clothes out or even chewing gum to keep her breath fresh. If you see her doing these types of things frequently then you can be positive that she’s trying to maintain a pleasant appearance just for you.
Sign #6.) Leaning In.
If you find her leaning in while you’re talking then she’s definitely taking a great interest in what you do and say at all times. Women will usually direct their body towards the person they’re most interested in. This is their way of closing themselves off to any competition in the room. She is also trying to get as close to you as possible because it creates an atmosphere of intimacy.
Sign #7.) She plays with her hair.
Men are naturally attracted to a women’s head of hair. It’s just biological. A girl who is interested in you may start touching her hair, twirling it around her fingers or she may even start braiding it. This could be due to the fact that she’s showing strong intrigue and is trying to draw you into her. Be weary hair pulling, hard twisting or if she’s frantically running her hands through her hair. These could be negative signs indicating that she’s stressed out, uncomfortable with you or just out-right bored.
Sign #8.) Her Tone.
Women will use a higher pitched voice when they’re attracted to a man. They will do this to appear softer and more feminine. Inflections at the ends of her sentences are also strong subconscious indicators that she likes you.
Sign #9.) You notice her posture is really good.
Standing up tall while around you and arching of the back to make the chest stick out are great signs she’s trying to impress you. Women who are flirting with you will do this often as it shows off her figure better for you to see. However, if her posture starts to worsen over time it could be a sign that she is no longer trying to pursuit you.
Sign #10.) You’re rubbing off on her.
Do you find her mimicking your gestures? Is she starting to say some of the same words or phrases you say? When a girl finds a guy she likes she starts to display some of the same behaviors as him. Pay close attention to when she repeats your body language, gestures and words back to you. Sometimes it’s so subtle, you’ll miss it entirely. But if she starts to mirror you in these ways she’s definitely been paying close attention to you. This is a tactic use to make the person of interest more comfortable around her and feel like they have more in common.
Sign #11.) She’s blushing.
A rush of blood flowing to the face is a natural human response to many different situations.This is called blushing and it’s one of the best non-verbal cues that a girl likes you. Blushing is what happens when your heart rate elevates. Sometimes it’s in response to times of shame or embarrassment but if she’s blushing outside of those circumstances then it’s a whole different story.
Sign #12.) She does the hair flip.
Hair flipping is a definite mechanism women use on men they like. When a girl is aroused by a man she will flip her hair sexily over her shoulder and flash her eyes down then up in a teasing manner.
Sign #13.) You notice she’s using her mouth.
Women use their mouths to attract men in many different ways. Lip licking and biting are two sure sign she’s trying to get your attention. Another is when she maintains eye contact while eating food items seductively. You may also find that if she’s intrigued she will show off her tongue in subtle ways.
Sign #14.) She’s checking for your reactions.
Do you notice her checking to see if you laughed at her favorite parts in a movie? Does she look to see your face when someone is talking to both of you? When a girl finds herself liking someone, she will constantly be checking to see his reactions in every situation. She wants to know what you’re thinking, because what you think matters to her.
Sign #15.) Listen to her breathing.
When her breath quickens, she’s signalling that you are getting her aroused. You may literally be taking her breath away… In a good way, of course!
Sign #16.) When she puts her hand on her face.
Girls tend to use their hands to display their faces to their love interests. Face framing is a tactic used to draw your attention into her best features. Some examples of this are when she cups her face or she puts her fingers near her lips.
Sign #17.) She sways her hips.
When a women walks towards you or away from you while moving her hips from side to side, she is more than likely trying to be on display for you. Slight twisting of the hips, small thrusts or when she puts her hip to one side are all signs of display, too. A long time ago men would use a woman’s hips as a primary determining factor for mating. Sounds primal, right? It definitely was. And although that’s not how it is today, it’s still something most men take into strong consideration… Even if they’re doing it subconsciously. This leads women to use their hips in a seductive manner to get your attention.
Sign #18.) She’s always sitting close to you.
If she’s hardcore into you she won’t leave any space in between you when you guys are sitting together. If she’s finding ways to be closer to you it’s you’re sitting down she will rarely leave any space between the two of you. Sitting closely like that is a her telling you she likes touching you and wants to feel close to you.
Sign #19.) Be mindful of her legs.
Women will use their legs in a lot of different ways to project their interest in a man. Some examples of when she’s using her legs to appear more attractive: Drawing her foot in circles on the ground slowly in a seductive manner, pointing her toes towards you and away from you frequently, crossing and uncrossing her legs subtly and dangling her feet when sitting down. You may also see her caressing her thighs slowly.
Sign #20.) Head Tilting.
Yes, even an itty-bitty, barely noticeable head tilt can be a huge revelation in whether a girl likes you or not. When she truly digs you she will tilt her head to one side often. This is a way for her to seductively display her neck to you. She will only do this if she’s really comfortable around you. The tilting can also indicate she is letting you know that she’s truly intrigued by what you’re saying.
