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12 Signs You Are A High Maintenance Woman


Do you often hear that you are high maintenance from others? Especially boyfriends or lovers? There may just be a few reasons someone would say something like that to you. Or there may not. So find out if you are or aren’t by reading these 12 signs that you are a high maintenance woman!

You’re Obsessed With Yourself

Sure, most women check their reflections frequently, but you will almost be always checking yours. You may even carry a little compact case around just in case you need to pull it out at any time. You are always worried about your make-up being spot on and you might even reapply it every time you check the mirror. This is something that a lot of high maintenance women tend to do when. This is because they are constantly worried about their appearance. They need to be on point, especially looks-wise, at all times. When you walk into a high maintenance woman’s house, you will probably find a mirror in every single room!

You Demand All The Attention

And when we say demand, we mean demand. A high maintenance woman will always commands the attention of every person that surrounds her. When she walks into a room she steals the attention of everyone else, even if it’s just for a moment. Yes, any beautiful woman can do that, but not everyone likes it. The thing about these women is that they totally thrive off of it! The attention and admiration they steal away is exactly what they wanted when they stepped foot in the building!

You will take any place by storm with your confidence. You would rather die than show any sort of insecurity, even if you have a few. People might feel a little intimidated by you because when you walk it looks as if you literally have a backbone made of steele.

You Ride A High Horse

Ever heard the phrase, “Get off of your high horse”?

If you are a high maintenance woman, you will hear this phrase told to you often. What does it mean? It means that you have an air of superiority about something and someone thinks you are being a tad bit arrogant. You don’t care though, you will still think that you are right no matter what the case. You may even feel a little smug that someone thinks they could be right over you!

You’re Always Bringing Your A-Game

It doesn’t matter what you are doing, you will always be at the top of your game while doing it. Whether it’s your appearance or an activity, you will always be trying your hardest and usually will be succeeding. You pour your heart and soul into everything that you do because you want to be the absolute best that you can be! That even means being better than the people you care about. Most of your family members might be a little scared of playing games with you, because you get too competitive. And when you lose? You are the sorest loser that they have ever met.

Some might call you an overachiever, because you have to be the best at almost anything. You will knock down any competition in your way without a second thought.

Everything You Do Is Expensive

Does your boyfriend always complain that you cost him too much money? You might be just a bit high maintenance if he says it more than a few times. You refuse to stay in a cheap motel or eat at a small fast food chain. Nope, you are the type of girl that indulges in the finer things in life. No matter the price tag.

You must have the most expensive plate on the menu and you always buy bottled water, because tap water- Can you say ew? Everything that you purchase is off the top shelf and the clothes you wear are all branded by well known brands or designers. You have to follow the latest trends. You catch yourself almost copycatting the top models and celebrities. Because, you have to look just as glam as they do!

You can never just take public transportation either. That’s for the weak. You’d rather spend big on a long taxi ride or Uber than pay a cheap fare anywhere. People can’t even mention a Subway or train around you, because you act too standoffish about it.

Everything has to pass a certain rating on Yelp. Anything too low and you can forget it.

You Are Kind Of Needy

Being high maintenance makes dating you hard at times. This is because high maintenance women are often very needy when it comes to romantic relationships or even friendships. You are always calling, texting or Snapping your boyfriend because you need his attention to be on you at all times. You want someone doting on you 24 hours a day.

Nothing Gets Past You

You have a sense of detail that even surprises you. You pay attention to everything and anything in your sight. You live for the details! Even the smallest one. You can spot a mistake on a sign from miles away and you know when someone didn’t try very hard making something. Let’s just say that all your friends want you to be their wedding planners, because you have the best eye to detail there is out there. Sometimes this can be annoying to others, because they don’t do things as perfectly as you. However, you’re always there whispering in their ears what needs to be fixed. You can kind of come off as a control freak because of this and it’s certainly not everyone’s cup of tea.

Nothing Gets Passed By You

Then again, if you are a high maintenance woman, nothing will ever be good enough. No matter what. Even your boyfriend. You might catch yourself thinking that you could do better. You could have better clothes, a better man, better this or that. It does not matter what it is, you think it could better or you could do better. This might lead you to ruin your relationships with family, friends and romantic partners. Nothing will ever quite get an A+ from you. Everything is B- or worse.

You’ve Got A Routine

That you follow every day to the exact minute. From the moment you wake up until the moment you put on your night-time sleep mask, everything has been pre thought out. Doing this leaves no room for mistakes and ensures you feel calm at all times, because you always know what the next step is going to be.

You even have a bedtime and it’s usually pretty early.

Because a queen needs her beauty sleep, right?

Your Idea of Relaxing Isn’t That Relaxing

Nope, because how can you relax when everything has to be absolutely perfect? You simply can’t. Your partner may get fairly agitated with you on vacations and at events, because everything has to be planned, as well as super expensive. Also, you demand the best of everything when you go out. This means, no matter the price, bottle service at the best club in town or a fancy jacuzzi in your 4 star rated hotel.

You’re Only Worried About Yourself

As in you are a tiny bit selfish. Although you may care for others, you will always put your happiness in front of anyone else’s. If you want something, you go get it. No matter who it might hurt in the long run. You will not stop trying your hardest to achieve something, even if it means hurting someone that you love a little bit. Of course there may be a once in awhile miracle where you think of someone else’s happiness, but that is once in a blue moon.

You Need V.I.P Everything

Sitting in general admission at an event? You’ve probably never even heard of such a thing. When you go anywhere it’s going to be the V.I.P experience. Festivals are out of the question, as well as concert, unless you have that golden ticket. You need all of the luxuries that come with the higher price tag, but to you it’s always worth it!


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