You Forgot What A Brush Is
Personal hygiene is one of the most important factors in whether you are attractive or not. Of course, attractiveness doesn’t depend solely on that. There’s a lot of different things that decide it, but we will get to those types of things later! You’ve totally given up on being attractive if you forgot what a toothbrush is. That means you are not brushing the standard two to three times daily. You might be walking around with something called Halitosis. That’s when your breath is chronically bad due to poor oral hygiene. Not brushing your teeth often enough can cause staining, too. And if you are skipping the flossing then you are adding a whole different level of unappealing. Not flossing can also cause discoloration, bad smells and plaque build up.
So maybe you brush your teeth regularly, but are you using your hair brush the adequate amount as well? Not brushing your hair or taking care of your eyebrows can make you appear a lot uglier than you actually might be.
This doesn’t mean that you have to keep up with yourself to impress others, but good hygiene is super important to feel good and be healthy! Letting yourself go is never a good idea.
Showers Are Minimal In Your Life
It’s okay if you are the type of person that only wants to take a shower or bathe every other day. This is especially okay if you have a low labor job, but if you skip it everyday and only do it like once a week, you may start to smell pretty badly. You may have grown oblivious to this, but others around you will definitely take notice of it. Not showering, especially as an adult, will definitely give you some sort of stench. You might notice that people stop wanting to hang around you. Or that people move away from you when you come around. This is just something that happens when you stop taking care of yourself. No one wants to be around the unbathed person. It makes them look bad, as well as makes them extremely uncomfortable.
The Mirror Is Your Enemy
Do you dread going into the bathroom and catching a glimpse of yourself in the mirror? That might just back up the fact that you have now let yourself go… A little too much. If you can’t even stand to look at yourself, there is definitely something not right going on with your appearance. Of course we all get a bit insecure at times, but if you have stopped looking at yourself entirely, you might have gotten too a level where you are too unattractive… Even for yourself.
You Stopped Trying With Your Clothes
Once in awhile it’s totally fun to wear pajamas when you go somewhere. It kind of makes you feel like cool. But if you start wearing pajamas every time you go out anywhere, you may start to appear as if you are just plain lazy. Sure we all have those pajamas that we wish we could wear every single day because they are just too cute and too comfortable. However, we don’t do it, because it’s not proper to dress that way. Especially if you have an important event, dinner or something else. Maybe it’s okay to go get something from the gas station, but any more than that and you look like a slob.
So maybe you don’t wear pajamas all the time. Maybe you switch it up with sweatpants every other day. We hate to break it to you, but that is not any better than constantly wearing pajamas. Wearing ill-fitting clothes constantly can give you the appearance of looking unattractive.
And They’re All From 10 Years Ago
And when you do switch out your sweatpants and pjs for something else, is it something from your high school years or from before your 6 year old was born? These are definite signs that you’ve fully given up on your appearance. Everyone deserves well fitting clothes that are from at least the last year or so. Treat yourself, it’s worth it. And you’ll appreciate how you feel and look much more if you actually put some effort into what you are wearing. It’s good for your body as well as your mental health.
You Think, ‘What’s Makeup?’
Some people never wear makeup and that’s totally okay, but if you were the type of person who used to wear makeup, even just a little bit, and suddenly you stopped, it might be because you have let yourself go.
And, ‘Skin care, never heard of it!’
Just like it is crucial to take care of your teeth and your hair, it’s equally, if not more, important to take care of your skin. Not washing your face or, if you do wear makeup, not taking your makeup off can cause a lot of skin problems for most people. Doing so may give you red splotches, acne or dark spots like crazy. This can all be contributing factors to whether or not you appear attractive.
Your skin is one of the first things that people look at when they see you. Although not everyone can have good skin even if they take care of it, it’s still important to care for it as much as you possible can. Because if you don’t it will look much worse than if you do.
You’re Always Getting Tips
Getting annoyed that people are always on your case about how you look? Do you find that your friends are constantly giving you advice on what you can do to make yourself appear better? This can be frustrating, but there might be a reason why they are doing this. They might actually just be trying to help you out, because they are concerned that you are no longer taking proper care of yourself.
It’s hurtful when you’re friends diss on something, especially when it comes to your look. But try to take everything with a grain of salt, because they might just have a point.
There may even come a time when your friends stop trying to help you out, because you just won’t listen. They may even stop hanging around you, because you have become a more of a burden to care for than a fun person to be around.
You Didn’t Think Your Tattoos Through
Of course we all tend to make mistakes in our lives, but if you keep making the same one over and over it’s going to become problematic. So if you’re slapping on random tattoos and piercings that are quite ugly, you might start to come off as a bit unattractive to the rest of the world.
You’ve Given Up Getting Hit On
So it’s been awhile since someone has looked your way, has it? Getting hit on doesn’t happen to everyone all the time, but it should be happening to you every now and again. When you’ve let yourself diminish, it becomes less and less frequent. This is because people are no longer finding you to be attractive to them.
Or Doing The Hitting On
And then you find that you are so down on yourself that even you have given up on the idea of finding a date. You see a cute person across the room, but your confidence levels hold you back from going up to them and asking them for their number. This is one of the major signs that you are finding yourself to be unattractive. Nerves definitely get the best of everyone, but if you can’t speak to one single person that you have a crush then you might be unattractive.
You’ve Forgotten What The Gym Is
Not everyone is made for that workout life, but there are subtle ways to take care of yourself. Even something like going on a walk or doing some gentle yoga. However, if you forgot what a gym or a workout, even a small one is, it could be because you’ve just simply stopped caring about yourself. This is more so true if you used to be a gym buff and now you don’t do anything.
There is more to being attractive than just your physique. Your attitude and how you present yourself is very important to coming off as a decent person. No matter how attractive you might be physically, no one will find you attractive if you are a rude person. Being arrogant or overbearing is not complementary to you in any way and it doesn’t make you appealing to other people.
Along with being rude, if you are loud you might just be unattractive to some people. Learning how to talk in a calm and collected manner is important and makes you appear more attractive to people.
You Don’t Know What Manners Are At All
Not having any manners can make you come off as unattractive as well. Proper etiquette makes people seem more elegant and endearing. Phone manners, dinner manners, guest manners, etc. These are all things that you will want to work on to be more attractive to others, even though it might not bother you.
Nothing Makes You Happy
Being consistently negative can also make you seem very unattractive. No one wants to hang out with a constant debbie downer. When you are always gloomy, it can make others around you feel gloomy as well. This might make you appear less attractive in your personality and push people away from you. Try lightening up or at least keeping some of that negativity to yourself and you’ll see people start to find you more appealing.