Relationships will always go through some rough patches. Sometimes, these challenges will test your relationship to the point of breaking. But when your love is true and pure, you want to remind your partner to hold on and fight for your love.
In times when you feel like your partner could use a little encouragement to still keep fighting, these letters might be your saving grace.
For When You Did Something Wrong
Dear Sweetheart. I know that I did something to upset you, and for that I am incredibly sorry. What I did was hurtful and wrong, and I didn’t mean to hurt you. I want you to know that I acknowledge that what I did was wrong, and because of that, I am willing to do whatever it takes for you to forgive me again. You know how much I love you, and that I would never willingly do anything to hurt you. It’s just that there are times when I don’t think and I do things on impulse. However, don’t think that this is me trying to make excuses for what I did. I truly am sorry, and I hope you find it in your heart to forgive me.
For When Your Partner Did Something Wrong
My Dear. I am writing this letter to you because we both know we’re going through a rough patch in our relationship. I’m not one to point fingers here, but we both know that we are both to blame for what happened. For my part, I am sorry for inciting you to do what you did. But I hope you acknowledge that what you did wasn’t right either. In a relationship, we should be able to put our love for each other above our pride. And in this case, while you might still be hurt (as am I), I want us to put our differences aside so that we can move on from this. Our relationship is worth more than this momentary lapse of judgment, and I hope we can use this experience to make our relationship stronger.
For When You’re Moving Away
To my love. Soon we will be living apart, and I want you to know how much it hurts me that we won’t be able to see each other as often as we do now. But I want you to always remember that this is for our own good. We move away so that we can embrace new opportunities that can bring us a better future. In the meantime, let’s use all the technology we can to always stay in touch. I’ll always call you when I’m off work/school, and I hope you also do the same. Things may feel a little different now that we’re not together, but I promise that this is all temporary. Before we know it, a year has passed and we’ll be back to our same routine with new stories and experiences to share. Keep in mind that no matter our distance, I will always love you.
During a Big Fight
They say that if you want a relationship that feels like the most amazing thing in the world, you have to treat it like the most amazing thing in the world. But in this case, I know that it doesn’t feel all that great. Babe, to be honesty, I hate it when we fight. I hate the feeling that you’re mad at me and I in return, can’t help but be hurt about this whole situation. Babe, you are my entire world. I can’t bear to think of a life without you in it. Even if we’re fighting right now, I want you to know that I love you and that you’re the best thing that ever happened to me. I love you, and I want us to get through this.
When There Has Been a Misunderstanding
A beautiful relationship does not depend on how well we understand someone. It depends on how well we avoid misunderstanding. We’re both just new to this, I know, and misunderstandings may be common. But I hope that with each time we get into an argument because of a misunderstanding, we use the experience to never let it happen again. I’m sorry that I didn’t understand what you meant, and I’m sorry that sometimes I don’t communicate what I need. Our relationship is worth more than our misunderstandings. But there’s one thing that’s crystal clear to me and it’s how much I love you – never misunderstand that.
A Letter to a Jealous Lover
Babe, I want to write you this letter because I can sense how jealous you sometimes are of my friends. Let me take this moment to remind you that none of them compare to you. I’m not attracted to any of them, and if any of them are attracted to me, I don’t care. I only want you and you alone, and there’s no reason for you to be jealous of anyone else. I love you above all else. I want you to remember that.
A Letter about Your Own Jealousy
They say that jealousy is love and hate at the same time, and I guess I agree with that. I love you more than you can imagine. What I hate is that there are times when I know that people can see how wonderful you are. Imagining all these other people hurts because in times of insecurity, I wonder if you turn your eyes to them. I wonder if it ever crosses your mind to be with them instead of me. I know that you’re loyal and faithful, but I can’t keep this voice in the back of my head from nagging me to keep you locked away from the eyes of others. But you know I won’t do that. Instead, what you’ll see are tiny bursts of my jealousy. And I’m sorry if it bothers you, but I just want you to know where my jealousy is coming from. I promise I’ll try not to be as needy and insecure because I know that you only have eyes for me.
When Your Relationship Is Being Tested
My love. When our relationship is being tested by things beyond our control, I want you to remember just one thing: I love you. They say that love isn’t the answer to everything, and I agree with that. But while love might not be the sole thing keeping our relationship strong, it’s what keeps us fighting through all the obstacles we face. Babe, I love you, and this love is stronger than anything life throws at us.
When You Need Time Apart
We both know that saying, “I need space” is never good news. But for us, I think it might be a good temporary solution to our problems. Our relationship is far from perfect, but that’s not from a lack of trying. However, I think it would be good for us to spend some time apart. This is by no means a breakup, but instead a way to gain some breathing room from all the chaos we’ve been through these past few months. Let’s take this time to miss each other and realize how much we need each other. And even though we’re apart, the love we have for each other will never change.
Reminding Your Partner of Your Love
Babe, I just wanted to take this time to remind you of how much I love you. Our relationship has been experiencing a few low points recently, but none of these situations can change how I feel about you. I love you so much. And even if we fight and wish we could just change everything, I wouldn’t give us up for all the problems in the world. Let the world come at us, but our love will still remain strong. I love you.
Remind your partner just how much you love them by sending them a letter that hammers home the idea that your relationship is truly worth fighting for.