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What Does It Mean If A Girl Stops Texting You Suddenly?


Finally getting to text the girl that you like is always an amazing feeling, isn’t it? But when she stops texting you all of a sudden it kind of puts a huge damper on that amazing feeling. It sucks majorly when someone you like just disappears from your life. This tends to make us start overthinking things and we get too deep in our own heads. What did we do wrong? Did I say something weird? Does she hate me?  she stopped texting me should i text her

We ask ourselves these types of questions, because we simply do not understand why she stopped responding.

But do not worry, there is a probably a reason that you can identify… With our help. Because we have a list of all the reasons there possibly are! Find out reasons why a girl stops texting you suddenly by continuing to read on.

Reasons Why

She Ghosted You:

Ghosting is something that happens more often than realize. And we don’t realize that it usually exists until we ourselves are ghosted. Ghosting is the act when someone disappears from your life without a trace. They don’t tell you that they are going anywhere. They just leave you hanging. Yes, it’s a pretty crappy feeling when someone does that to you, but it happens all of the time! She might just have thought it was better to stop texting you, but didn’t have any reason why she should tell you. This is probably because the two of you didn’t know each other that well. She just didn’t find anything in common with you or found you to be not her type and wanted to move on. Sorry, buddy.

She Got  A Boyfriend/New Love Interest:

There’s a good chance that if a girl stops texting you abruptly that she found someone else. We are sorry to bring light to the fact that you might not be the only guy that she has been texting. She may in fact have been texting more than just one guy. She could have been casually dating, but she might not have told you. Girls (and guys) don’t always tell the people they are seeing or talking to that they are seeing/talking to other people. This is because they know that someone would be upset about it and if she hasn’t decided who she likes best, she isn’t going to want to scare them away. However, she might have finally decided who she likes when she stops texting you. And unfortunately if she’s not talking to you anymore then it obviously wasn’t you she liked the most.

She Lost Your Number/Got A New Phone:

This doesn’t happen all that often, but she might have lost your contact information or broken her phone. If the two of you aren’t friends on social media, she might not have a way to tell you that she lost your number or got a new phone. However, if you do have each other on social media then she might just have done it for any of the other reasons on this list… Besides this one.

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She Is Just Super Busy:

We hate to say it, but the world does not revolve around you. Especially when it comes to girls you don’t even know that well. They might have gotten caught up in something else. She might just want to take time to focus on something else in her life. Things like her career or her passions might come first. Maybe you were too big of a distraction to her and were interfering with her ability to concentrate on something that she finds important.

You Said Something To Piss Her Off:

Think carefully about the conversations that you have had with each other. Can you think of anything that you said that could have potentially made her angry with you? She might have been upset by something that you said to her. She could have gotten offended. You never really know! This can happen. And if she doesn’t know you that well, there is a good chance she would take something pretty personally and find it easy to walk away from your conversations indefinitely.

You Got Too Perverted:

Or you may have said something creepy to her. You may have been trying to be too sexual with her when she isn’t ready for such things. Dropping constant pick up lines or saying dirty things can be a major turnoff to some women. It’s pretty important to take things slow and usually a good idea to wait until she initiates that type of thing. That way you can be sure she is comfortable with it.

You Were Too Pushy:

Being too aggressive is a good way to get someone to stop texting you suddenly. She might have just gotten fed up with the way that you were acting towards her. Repeatedly trying to ask her out when she isn’t reciprocating is always a bad idea. It’s a recipe for disaster. Asking her to constantly send you nudes is also a no-no. And these are sometimes the reasons why a girl disappears from your DMs.

She Thinks You’re Unoriginal:

Believe it or not there is probably more than one guy hitting her up. She might be hearing the same pick up lines over and over. This can be ultimately tiring. She could have just decided she was tired of it and started deleting the people repeating these things. You being one of them!


    • If she ignores you, then she is unwilling or unable to nourish this relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Do not attempt to reach out to her at this time. If she reaches out to you, then share your kindness and compassion with her. Have a great day, Jen!

      • Yes she reach out again then I thught she wanted meet yesterday ..tell me about busy grandma do medicure but then today sudden cold and busy again lo I really no get it ..

        • If she wants to meet you, then attempt to see her. If she canceled, then she is busy. She may be unable or unwilling to nourish a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If she reaches out to you, then share your kindness and compassion with her. Have a great day, Jen!

  1. I recently stopped texting a guy I really like because he was not putting forth any effort. I found myself always reaching out to him and waiting for his short response. I told him many times that he has my number and that h going silent shows his lack of interest. Playing hard to get and being an ass come very close to each other.

    • It sounds as though you are interested in developing a relationship with this person and you are concerned that he is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you as well. His behaviors has informed you of his thoughts and feelings. Determine what you want for your future. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Aleksandra!

  2. So we are just meant to ignore them and wait until they message and then run back like a puppy dog….don’t think so! Have some self respect and move on, rather than play childish mind games!

    • Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Relationships can be nourish or not nourished. Please feel free to share more of your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Ross!

  3. I recently went on a data with someone who is always busy and we talked the day after for quite awhile too on the phone, then i sent her a message on social media and she has yet to respond to it and it’s been almost a week. This is confusing.

    • It is possible that she enjoyed your time together. She may be busy or have another reason for why she has not reached out to you. Allow her time to determine what she wants for her future. If she reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with her. Have a great day, Cesar!

  4. I’ve been texting this girl for about 3 weeks. FaceTiming, texting, calling, hanging out often. We kissed one day we hung out, but the last time we hung out it was an amazing day and she seemingly passionately made out with me before saying we’dhsngout sgain In two days, she has barely texted me claiming she’s busy and that something personal has come up. Though on social media she appears fine and posts videos of her with her friends. What do you think of this?

    • It is possible that she is busy. She likely has friends that she wanted to spend time with. If she ignores you, then perhaps determine what you think is appropriate for your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Johnston!

  5. I am a student and I want this girl from my class. I make her laugh and all that, we play together… but now I have no clue what should I say to her when I try to approach with a text. I don’t think being like, “Hey” or “How are you today?” would help. Can I get some help with topics I can start talking with her? Thank you!

    • The two of you share a strong social connection. It is possible that she is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Ask her about her day. Perhaps see if she wants to spend time with you. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her a chance to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Alex!

  6. There’s this someone always look at me and he smile at me first. But thats when he has a girlfriend. After i found out he broke up with his gf, i texted him and confessed my feeling. But he rejected me. I thought all the looks all the stares from him and he followed me (without im noticing but i noticed that) anytime we had event together in the university. He shows interests even my friend assures that. Why is the rejection? Afraid of heartbroken again?

    • There are a variety of potential reasons for his behavior. He had just finished a relationship, so he may not have wanted to establish a new relationship. It is possible that his feelings for you have grown since you shared your thoughts and feelings with him. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide if you believe it is appropriate to share yourself with him again. Have a great day, Sg!

    • He is just coming out of a relationship so I wouldn’t rule this one out yet. You were wise to share your feeling. I would consider doing something different and write him a letter by hand and send it to him. He may not respond but you have a physical heartfelt document he will remember.

      • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. You are right, it is always beneficial to share your thoughts and feelings. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, C!

  7. Hi I’ve been seeing this girl for 18 months now, things have been great and been txting and going out and having fun every week but I left her on Monday morning and everything was fine but been nearly a week now and I haven’t heard from her!

    • The two of you have not spoken in a week. This may be because she has not reached out to you. If you have not reached out to her, then she may have the same feelings and thoughts that you have at this time. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Your relationship will be strengthened if you spend additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Daniel!

  8. We should sometimes stop vicariously living what they’re going through it’s unhealthy and it’s going to make you miserable in the long run.I recommend to go out and create some fun on your own.

  9. Hi my crush and i were talking just fine we were laughing alot and there is alot of teasing too. But just only awhile ago, i teased her by calling her stupid and she blocked me on whatsapp. I asked her y she block me and she replied ‘did i?’
    Then when i asked her what did i do? Can u unblock me? She left me on ‘seen’ on instagram. I read ur page and u mentioned that she may be playing hard to get but im relly unsure if thats the case just 2weeks ago i confessed to her and she said she didnt like me like that but we could still be friends. Can you help me pls?? Asap. Thanks

    • You insulted her. She blocked you because you chose to use a term that often causes many people suffering. You then spoke with her about your thoughts and feelings. She explained that she is interested in being your friend, but not a romantic partner. You are aware of the status of your relationship. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. You may strengthen this relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Kendrick!

    • Insulting her is why you got blocked. As far as the friends thing, there lies the problem. You have romantic feelings for her so being friends is going to be hard because you are always going to wonder what it could have been. If you don’t want to be friends then don’t because once romantic feelings are involved it is hard to overcome then and you shouldn’t have to suspend your feelings. However, if you do decide to go the friends route don’t get friend zoned, don’t make yourself too available.

      • You are right, it is never beneficial to insult someone. We always appreciate when members of our community share their insights and experiences. Have a great day, C!

  10. There is a girl who is in my couching classes , it’s almost 7months of couching , I dont know if she has a boyfriend and she never told me about this , I like her got number from her . me,her and her friend usually go out for a coffee in break ,she talks to me , sometimes she comes closer to me , we have little eye contact also , we were texting normally and all the sudden she stops replying , what should I do ?

    • The two of you share a social relationship. There may be many reasons for why she stops speaking with you. If she is not in a romantic relationship, then determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If she doesn’t want to maintain this relationship, then respect her wishes. Have a great day, Kr!

  11. So, there’s this girl I really, really like and she liked me back…supposedly. So, we’ve been texting for about a year now, and suddenly, she stopped talking to me. It’s almost been a week since. During this, I’d tease her and she’s tease back, I’d flirt and she’d flirt back. I admit, I stepped over the line, but it’s kinda been like that for several months. Thinking back now, she probably got sick of it. After reading the reasons, I realize that I fucked up on my end and that she’s also busy. But, there will be times where she’s active and texting but not me privately. Then, when I do try to talk to her, she leaves me on “read” a lot. I also know that she’s been texting other people and probably found someone else she likes. Sure, we interact in person and she does react like she used to when she sees me…sometimes. I just…don’t know. Do I bring it up or not? Will she just leave me on “read” again? I don’t know…maybe I’m clingy or something. Any advice..?

    • You have read your texts and realized the mistakes that you made. You may have crossed the line, and she is likely busy. It seems that you are aware of the reasons for why she is not responding to you. Ensure that this experience guides your actions in the future, as this will bring you many benefits in the future. Determine if you believe whether or not it is appropriate for you to reach out to at this time. If you do, then apply your knowledge to your behaviors to maintain a respectful relationship. Have a great day, B!

  12. Please help, I’m in deep confusion! I have been texting this girl for almost two months now, she started with this hard-to-get, taking-hours-to-reply attitude but I still kept on pushing. I showed her a lot of care and concern and asked her to hang out with me one weekend and she agreed. Since then, we’ve been chatting well and I thought I finally got her. I recently asked her for a second hangout and she accepted immediately. I was happy. But all of a sudden, she has gone back to her previous attitude. What’s going on???
    P.S.: We haven’t had out second hangout yet.

    • There may be various reasons for her behaviors. It is possible that there is another influence in her life. You should read out to her. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings, and give her an opportunity to share herself with you. You may want to ask to see her in person again, as this may give you a better chance to understand her feelings and behaviors. Have a great day, Femson!

  13. I used to chat this girl almost from last 3 months. We dated once. We watched movie together. After the date i confessed my feeling on chat that i like her( which is the worst mistake) she rejected me without hesitation. She said i am good guy but she too introvert and all. After that i continue to chat with her always replied her messages quickly. One day she texted me that she need 20000 ( its too much) I asked y she replied can’t tell me in reply i said then i can’t give you without the reason. After that she deleted my number ( she didnt blocked me) just before deleting she put the dp of some romantic song. After that i begged her that why she deleted my contact. She said she don’t wanna talk me n e more stop texting her or she will block me. I asked if it is related to money chat or she love someone else in reply she said yes she love someone else bye. What sould i do now? I unfriend her from every social platform even block her. But i love her so much help me

    • The two of you went on a date and maintained a relationship for three months. You shared your feelings with her, and she informed her of her feelings as well. She explained her reasons for not being interested in maintaining a relationship with you. She made it clear to you that you should not contact her or she will block you. Her question regarding money is a sign that this is someone that you should not maintain a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future without her, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Rehan!

  14. I’ve been talking to a girl for almost 3 months now. We have been on multiple dates, been intimate and have talked every day up until yesterday when she didn’t respond to some texts I sent. As of today she hasn’t responded either. I know there could me many reasons why she hasn’t responded but I guess my questions is how should I handle it in the meantime? Thank you

    • There may be various reasons for why she hasn’t responded to you. If you are able to speak with her in person, then share your thoughts and feelings with you.

  15. So, I’m a male freshman in high school (15 years old). I met this girl about a year ago and we confessed that we liked each other. We used to text really consistently (many times a day) up until about three months ago. We went on one date last summer, but nothing else has happened since then. She claimed that she was too busy to go on dates for a while, but recently told me that the real reason was because she felt like she wasn’t really ready to do that yet, and she was worried about ruining our friendship. We don’t really see each other much, since we don’t have any classes together in school and we rarely see each other outside of school (except for the occasional group hangout that we both go to). Up until around Christmas, we were texting daily. However, the school musical started after winter break and she stopped texting as often, although it still happened relatively often. In the last 2-3 weeks, it’s gotten really infrequent, where I text her nearly twice as often as she responds to me. Even when she does text me, it’s almost always about homework. I’m worried that this is for a reason other than just being busy, since I know she’s consistently texting other people and even texting in group chats that include me. She also doesn’t seem to be as interested in me as I am with her. I got her gifts for her birthday (which is in early-mid December), Christmas, and Valentine’s Day, all of which she seemed very thankful for. However, she has never gotten me a gift, which I don’t really mind, but is that an indicator that she isn’t interested in me anymore? I’ve also started developing feelings for another girl recently. Nothing has happened with her yet (I don’t even have her number) but should I try to do something with her, or continue trying to text the other girl? Has she stopped texting me because she’s busy, or because she’s lost interest in me? Sorry this is so long–I felt like there was a lot I needed to say.

    • Her decision not to get you a gift may be related to the status of your relationship. It seems that the two of you are not maintaining a romantic relationship, so there may be no reason for her to purchase anything for you. Speak with her about what the two of you want for the future of your relationship. If this relationship has concluded, then you can attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with someone else.


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