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What Does It Mean If I Keep Seeing the Same Person in My Dreams Every Day?

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When you keep seeing the same person in your dream every day, it can be disconcerting at first. Initially, you might think that it is nothing, but then it happens again and again every night. Depending on how you view dreams, you may view this as a sign or nothing at all.

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Does It Mean Anything If You Keep Seeing the Same Person in Your Dreams?

In some cases, it may mean nothing if you see the same person every night. At their most basic level, dreams are just electrical brain impulses that occur at random. Random images and thoughts are pulled out of your memories to construct a dream story. According to one theory, these random thoughts don’t even make a dream: you do. In this theory, humans create the dream story when they wake up as a way of making sense of their dreams.

Some psychologists do believe that dreams may indicate things. Since a dream is made by your subconscious mind, it could indicate your thoughts, feelings or desires. In many cases, a dream shows that you are focusing on something for one reason or another. If you keep dreaming about the same person every night, it may be because you are concerned about them or worried.

Often, you will dream about the things that you think about the most. Some people try to think about the same thing (like a crush) every night before they go to sleep because they want to dream about them. Even though you may have never dreamed or thought about the person before, you had a random dream with them in it. Because of this dream, you wake up thinking about them and continue thinking about the dream the next day. Because of these thoughts, you end up dreaming about them over and over again, even though they may not have been someone you ever really thought about that often.

What Do They Mean?

There may be a reason why that person came up in your dream initially. Think back to when they were in your life. What did they represent? Did you tend to feel safe, angry or happy around them? In some cases, the person represents a feeling that you want or had in your life. You may keep dreaming about them because your subconscious wants you to have that feeling again.



In other cases, the person represents a quality you want in your life. For example, imagine that you continue to dream about a former crush. You don’t like the crush or think about them anymore, but you keep having these dreams. In this scenario, your subconscious mind may have chosen that crush as a placeholder for someone you would like to meet. You may want a romance in your life or love and affection. Your subconscious chose the crush at random to fill this role because you do not have someone else in your life that could fill it.

You May Just See That Person a Lot

Dreams are pulled from your thoughts and memories, so you are more likely to dream about a place or a person that you encounter frequently. If you normally spend your day at school, many of your dreams will probably be located in a school or a school-like setting. If you see someone frequently, then they are more likely to be in your dreams. If this is the case, there is no reason to read too much into your dream because it may just be because of your daily life that it occurred.

According to noted psychologist Carl Jung, dreams are a window into the unconscious mind. In this theory, the dreams are a symbolic form of what is going on in the unconscious. If you are obsessing about something in your normal life, you may have dreams about the same topic. For example, if you are worried about getting fired or not being good at your job, you may dream about successful friends and feel envious about them. If you want to get a promotion, you may dream that your boss asks to talk to you.

 recurring dreams about the same person

What Should You Do If You See the Same Person in Your Dreams Every Day?

If you keep seeing the same person in your dreams every day, stop to think about how you see them. Do they represent a certain feeling or event? What happens in the dream? What was going on in your life when you originally met that person? Is there a normal time when you see that person in your dreams?

What If the Person Is a Stranger?



During your REM dreams, you will often see two or three different people in your dream. Up to half of these people may be unfamiliar to you. Sometimes, you will see the same stranger in your dreams over and over again. Statistically, strangers in a dream are more likely to be male and they are more likely to behave aggressively. Often, strangers in a dream turn out to be enemies or threatening characters.

If you keep seeing a threatening stranger in your dreams, you may be worried about something. Perhaps you feel like there is some threat to yourself or your family nearby. You may feel like you need to escape from that situation or person in real life, so you keep dreaming about a threatening stranger every night.

It is important to look at the situation that develops in the dream. A threatening stranger has a far different significance than a reoccurring dream about a kind grandmother. Look at what happens in the dream. Are you running from the person or greeting them openly? Do they bring you a message or protect your from harm? The circumstances of the dream and what happens are often just as important as who is in it. By looking at what occurs in your dream, you will be better able to interpret its true meaning. In the end, a dream’s meaning is what you decide it should be.

108 COMMENTS

      • I am reliving finding out about my late husbands affair every night 5 years later. It is killing me! I experience all the pain, in my chest and psychological and it’s so bad I’m scared to go to sleep. What can I do to stop it?

        • Allow these thoughts to fade from your memory. The negative aspects of these thoughts are not beneficial for you to dwell on at this time. Allow these dreams to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. This will ensure that no one thinks about you the same what that you think about your late husband. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Ann!

  1. I have been dreaming of the same person for 24 years. Different scenarios but same person. Happens to be an old friend and crush. Due to my appearance, I wasn’t his ideal mate. 15 years passed and we were reacquainted through social media. I was dealing with the loss of my father when we had a meeting. Prior to meeting I would dream of kissing him. During our meeting my dreams came true. Problem help was engaged to be married andrea said he was only getting married so he could have a family. Now 8 years later he’s married with children but I’m still dreaming of him. Lately, it’s every night. Maybe I have to wait 7 more years before my dream comes true again! Wish it would stop though, I’m still single and hope to be with someone in the present?

    • As he is currently in a relationship, there is no reason for you to attempt to establish a relationship with him. If his relationship naturally ends, then you can reach out to him and share your thoughts and feelings. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Gonjabebe!

    • Comment: So I had a random dream of a guy who is doing the same course as me and in the dream I was being a supportive girlfriend before that dream we haven’t spoken much so it was weird and then started to make small talk with him to kinda get to know him since I didn’t know anything about him besides his name at that stage, I then stopped dreaming about him but this week I have been dreaming about him every night but I still don’t know much about him and I’m always his GF and we finally kissed in the last dream and he stated that he has been waiting a long time for it to happen.

      • This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with someone. The person in your dream may be a placeholder for someone in your life or someone that you have not yet met. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. If there is someone in your life that you want to reach out to, then do so. It is always best to speak directly and honestly with people about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Caylynn!

  2. I keeping dreaming about an ex almost every night and I don’t know why, I don’t like him as a person anymore. In my dreams he’s always trying to do sexual things with me and I always tell him no but we end up doing them anyways. Is there a way that I can get him out of my dreams?

    • Your dreams may be reflections of your previous emotional concerns and worries about your partner. He is out of your life now, so be sure to keep him out of your life. Allow your dreams to fade. Let them influence you to take positive action in your life. Look inward and determine what you want for your future at this time. Have a great day, Brooke!

  3. I’m in a situation where I dream about this person occasionally. I haven’t seen this person in months because as far as I know, she was temporarily transferred to another location. I didn’t work with her before, but in my field it involves me seeing employees entering the premises. I also tried maintaining my distance from her because of my current status of relationship with another person for years. Usually what I dream of this person are usually not good. For instance, last night I dreamed about her, from I remember, I felt as if I wanted to with her and for some reason it felt like she was waiting for me to make the move. I didn’t because I knew I was in a relationship. Somehow I would feel empty afterwards, whether it’s in my dream or in real life. I feel like my mind is playing tricks on me.

    • It sounds as though this person is unavailable to develop a relationship with you at this time. If this person is in a relationship, then allow thoughts of them to fade. If they are available, then reach out to them. Speak directly and honestly with this person about your thoughts and feelings. Allow them to share themselves with you as well. Have a great day, Bruno!

  4. I’ve been dreaming about a crush that I considered “my first love” for about 6 years now about every night. It disturbs me now because I’m in a great relationship but I still continue to dream about him. In the dream it’s always the two of us in a group of people. We never acknowledge each other initially and before the dream is over something is always bringing us together. About 2 years ago we tried to be together again (we were on and off for a bit before that) and it seems like he changed almost completely and wants different things in life than I do. My concern is why is this still happening when I’m at a good place in my life?

    • You are currently in a relationship. Allow thoughts of this other person to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. If your current relationship naturally ends, then reach out to this other person. This will benefit you at this time and in the future. If you continue to have these thoughts and want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak with your current partner about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Rhai!

  5. I recently started seeing someone again that I was with for 7yrs. It started off great but as months in things started slowing down tremendously. For the last 6 months I have dreamed about this person over 15 times. And the dreams are with other women.He’s in my dreams frequently. So my question is am I dreaming of the reality that is actually going on in his life and my dreams are trying to let me know that someone else in his life?

    • Your dreams are reflections of your concerns and fears. It is possible that you have seen signs in his actions that cause you to have these thoughts. It is possible that they are reflections of your own similar feelings toward other people. It is unlikely that these dreams themselves are signs that he is cheating on you. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, Trina!

  6. i met my crush 3 years ago and I remembered the way he smiled and looked at me when ever we saw each other.. 2 years later we ended up in same class and got to know more of each other. We flirted back and forth and after high school somehow we stopped talking Since then I never got the chance to tell him I really liked him. I try to forget him but once I try to erase him , he comes back in my dreams kissing me and hugging me. There was a scenario where he kept trying to come back into my life but I rejected him. What should I do?

    • If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. If you want these thoughts and dreams to fade, then allow them to slip away. Take this time to determine what your want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him the opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Nena!

  7. I keep dreaming this girl. I courted her 4 years ago but she busted me.And now this present years 3 nights i dreamt here started when she went to another place for ojt. And that’s what bother me so much because she appear in my dream 3 nights straight. What does it mean? I never thought her daily but she just appeared.

    • This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional attachment toward this person. Look inward and determine what you want for your future. If you do not think that there is a reason to reach out to her, then allow these dreams and thoughts to fade. If you want to develop a relationship with her, then speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Cole!

  8. I recently started seeing someone who is just a class fellow i have no feelings for him neither he is my crush nor i love him. I never thought about him but still he comes in my dream daily.

    • Your dreams and thoughts and reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with someone. It is possible that this person is a placeholder for a stranger or someone that you may know. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. This will bring positive people into your life. Have a great day, Fizza!

  9. Hi there. Ive been dreaming about my ex for quite a long time now. Not everytnight though, only when i had one.We havent seen each other in like 8 years. I broke up with him in college because he cheated on me but i believe i already forgave him for that.When im awake i dont think of him at all. I dont plan on seeing him either when sometimes he asked me to. it’s just pointless and I dont love him anymore,belive me. Also he got a girlfriend and that is not nice, isnt it?. 🙂 Im just wondering why while im dreaming, I felt like i still love him so much. That we’re still dating and im happy. Im single since btw. And that’s by choice but maybe also i cant find someone right for me. What do u think is happening here?:)

    • If he is in a relationship, then do not attempt to develop a relationship with him. You can always be his friend, and ensure that you treat him and his partner with kindness and compassion. If their relationship ends and you want to develop a relationship with him again, then do so. At this time, it would be best if you allowed these thoughts and feelings to fade. Focus on the moment. Have a great day, Jihyun!

  10. I’ve been having a lot of dreams about the girl I would call “the one that got away”. She used to be my best friend but we drifted because of my current girlfriend. She always appears in my dreams and we would be in some sort of romantic set up. We would always be in a relationship whenever I dream about her. Does this mean anything? I am currently in a 5 year relationship and I have not spoken to this dream girl in about 2 years.

    • You are currently in a relationship. Allow these dreams and thoughts to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. This will help your relationship. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. There is no reason for you to reach out to this other person. Have a great day, REM!

  11. I’ve been dreaming about my ex-husband several nights a week for months. I do not think about him when I’m awake. We had a very troubled marriage. In my dreams we are not a couple, we don’t argue and there’s nothing sexual. I’ve been trying to get to the bottom of this. The only thing I’ve come up with so far is that The feelings of stress anger and sadness that I felt when I was with my ex are similar to what I am going through right now raising two sons who both probably have ADHD.

    • Dreams like these are reflections of your previous emotional attachments. It is also likely that these are manifestations of the difficulties that are influencing your life. You will find that benefits are to be gained by treating everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Take this time to reduce stress in your life. This may help reduce these dreams. Have a great day, Mel!

  12. I dream about my ex every night even though he has remarried. I think about him nonstop everyday Andy dreams about him seem so real. It’s been a year since we split but he left me with many unanswered questions. What could my dreams be telling me since I still have some love and care for him?

    • He is remarried. Do not attempt to establish a relationship with him at this time. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. This dream was a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. Allow these dreams and thoughts to fade. Continue to treat him with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Tiffany!

  13. I’ve been getting dreams of this guy who is a very close friend of mine. It started in May (so it has been 5 months now) and in that dream we made out so a few days later I told him about my dream and I felt that I had a desire for it so my dream became a reality and we really did make out in real life. I’ve never had actual feelings for him that way because we were just basically bestfriends and I’ve known him for years so I didn’t really think he was my soulmate or whatsoever. Still after that, I kept continuing to see him in my dreams and and it got more intense and whenever I couldn’t get to see him in real life I would feel really upset. I know he does not want a relationship or feel the same about me as he hasn’t shown much interest in seeing me lately so I kinda want it to stop because it’s putting so much pressure on me to the point where I start doing uneccesary things just to get over him/stop dreaming bout him and somedays I forget about him but then again a dream will suddenly appear and I start to think of him all over again.

    • It sounds as though you are physically attracted to this person. It is clear that you are emotionally close with him as well. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Dezreen!

  14. for the past couple of months i started dreaming about a guy i haven’t seen nor talked to in about 12-15 years. we were i guess “best friends” for a few years but after middle school we drifted apart. now as of recently i keep dreaming about him. in the dream its always the same- we’re dating, in a relationship, or i’m trying to get his attention. does this mean anything?

    • This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional connection with this person. If you are available and willing to establish a new relationship, then take this time to determine if you want to reach out to this person. If you do, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Dani!

  15. It was already 19 yrs that we split but why all of this years my ex always showed up in my dreams.I am married already but why he always appear on my dreams and my husband not even once.I think I still love him I don’t know why.We had a communication just last month after we broke up and he said he had still the same feeling as mine but apparently he cut our communication again without even saying goodbye and saying any explanation.He was married also but separated already for more than 4 years.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Focus your emotional energy on your current relationship. You will find that thoughts of this other person will begin to fade. Attempt to spend additional time with your current partner. Have a great day, Lhyn!

  16. I have been dreaming about this particular guy who was my high school mate for about 3years now, sometimes we would be in a relationship in the dream and sometimes not, sometimes he would want me in the dream and I won’t and vice versa. Although he is in a relationship right now and also far away from me. I’m really confused because I don’t want to keep seeing him in my dreams but he keeps appearing. I’m single right now and I don’t know if this means anything.

    • If you do not want to have these dreams, then allow them to fade. If you are able to influence your dreams, then go to sleep with a mind that is ready to remove him from your dreams. You may want to begin by making an effort to remove these thoughts from your mind. If you do have thoughts about this person, then take a breath and focus on the moment. Have a great day, Lami!

  17. I always keep on dreaming about this former crush in elementary. Ten years have already passed. I dont think about him but it is quite weird that he often appears in my dreams. I agree though that it might have something to do with this “In this scenario, your subconscious mind may have chosen that crush as a placeholder for someone you would like to meet.”

    Thank you for this!

    • You have made a great determination. Because of that, you will find benefit by treating everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. You may find this other person in the future. Thank you for sharing your positive comment. Have a great day, Anon!

  18. For the past months, I have been dreaming about this guy, whom I was in love with. We felt the same way with each other almost 14 years ago. We have gone our separate ways because of an unknown reason. Afterwhich, I have never thought of him again. Just this year, I have dreamt of him numerous times already. This month, I dreamt of him twice. In my dreams, he keeps on asking me why I left him (in which I didn’t) and that he wanted us be together again. I swear I never even think of him during the day but he comes in my sleep at night. Does this mean anything?

    • Allow these dreams to influence you to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person again, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you want these thoughts to fade, then make an effort to reduce these thoughts and dreams. Focus this emotional energy into your waking world. Have a great day, Jerica!

  19. I have been having dreams about my ex-crush. We have been separated for around 3 years because I moved to another city. I’m pretty sure he was interested in me too, but we were too shy I guess. I was devastated when I had to move away from my hometown. When I had finally settled in the other state, I suddenly started having dreams about him. Every single one of them were about us being reunited, a different scenario each time, but we still got reunited. At first the dreams would seldom appear, but this year onwards, he appears alot. Also, I heard from an old friend that he moved abroad. What should I do?

    • This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional connection with this person. If he has moved abroad, then he may be interested in developing a long distance relationship or friendship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to reach out to him, then find him on social media. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Seoyeon!

  20. Since last two days I have see only one face of my likely closest one ,I can’t reveal ,but she is not my love and all ,I have see her faces and there was a dream sequence too ,so how to tackle them , because we didn’t talk with each othersince 6 and months
    So,I want to know Why these things happen again and again.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you don’t want to develop a relationship with her at this time, then allow these thoughts to fade. If you want to develop a relationship with her, then speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Nakul!

      • Thanks, But I have a question that I am not sure she will talk to me or not , and also , my friends one is girl and boy ,they wants to go with me to discuss her and tell problems of mine .Is it right or it will hit me back wrong.suggest me ,then I will decide.

        • If you and the person that you are interested in developing a relationship with are both available and willing to nourish a relationship, then reach out to her. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you feel that you need to speak with someone else as well, then do so. Take this time to determine which course of action that you want to take. Have a great day, Nakul!

  21. For the past 3 years I have been dreaming about a guy I never seen before but in my dream he likes me and he does a lot of things to get my attention and he even tries to kiss me , but I never met this guy before what does it mean ?

    • This person may be a placeholder for someone else in your life. He may also be a reflection of a stranger. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. Allow this dream to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Nikki!

  22. I dream about someone that I don’t even know. In reality, I’ve never seen this guy. But when he’s in my dreams and I want to take him with me. But I can’t.

    • This person is a reflection or placeholder of someone in your life or of someone that you have not yet met. Allow this dream to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. This will help to bring positive events into your life. Have a great day, Chelle!

  23. I have a friendship that has clear romantic undertones. He thinks our age gap is too much, so we’ve never gone out. However, he always comes into my dreams (pretty much every night). He always protects me within the dreams, but nothing sexual or particularly romantic usually happens.
    We’re so close in real life that he asks me what I dream about. It’s always awkward because I can’t exactly tell him that it’s himself! Are these dreams a strange occurance or normal??

    • If he has explained that he is unable or unwilling to establish a relationship with you at this time, then he has made his feelings clear. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Allow his words to influence your decision making process. Have a great day, Confused!

  24. Ok so, every night for like the last week I’ve gone dreaming of the same two people, one which is my best mate and one is my ex but when I dream of them they are flirting in different ways each dream and they aren’t even dating so I don’t know what is happening.

    • These dreams may be reflections of your emotional attachments with these people. Allow these dreams to influence you in a positive direction. Allow thoughts of your ex to fade. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. This will help to bring more positive people and events into your life. Have a great day, Osiris!

  25. Hi there. I may already know the answer here, seeing that a similar story has already been brought up. Anyhow, I have an ex that I haven’t seen for 8 years now. Our relationship was rocky, he cheated, so we were on and off for only about 4 months (typical high school relationship) He left me hurt and confused as he and his family abruptly moved halfway across the country. Ever since, we’ve stayed in contact (as friends) because what the heck, I knew I’d never see him again, so what’s the harm? Eventually, we both started dating other people. I still found myself turning to him though to help me through the rough patches in my current relationships. He gave great advice, never tried to get me to break off things with the current guy. My relationship ended and I began a new one. At first he kept in contact with me. Just friendly talk with occasional compliments. I always felt bad keeping in touch with him while being in my current relationship so I showed my partner the texts and kept him in the loop. My ex has now stopped all contact except for occasional “likes” on my Instagram posts. But throughout all of my relationships I still dream about him a lot. Always dreams where we’re together and happy. Some sexual dreams, but mostly just this awesome bond going on that I never wanna lose. I’m afraid he could be my soulmate. And I’m terrified to bring this up to my current bf of 3 years which I love, I’m afraid he is going to propose soon. And I feel like I can’t give him my 100% if I don’t find out if there’s still something between me and my ex… please send help.

    • Allow these thoughts of your ex to fade. This person is important in your life, but they can remain your friend. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. . Focus your emotional energy on your current relationship. This will help you bring positive energy into your partnership. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Kaitlin!

  26. hi.
    it started like 3 to 4 months ago when this “someone” keep appearing in my dream. he was my childhood schoolmate and i like him before. we haven’t seen eah other for about 10 years or so. both of us are married with kids.
    i am just curious why he keep appearing in my dreams. it happens atleast once a month and i have no idea why. i have not been thinking of him nor been in contact with him for so long.
    in every dream, it’s like we are developing a relationship with my current situation, my child is even in my dream.
    almost a decade had passed, but i was thinking, maybe because upto now, i still didn’t get the answer whether he liked me back that time or not?
    could this be the reason?
    how can i stop having this kind of dreams?
    thank you

    • This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person,t hen reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jeannie!

  27. I have always been dreaming of my crush even if I don’t think of him anymore… And it is disturbing because I am having my exams but I keep thinking of him… What should I do in this case??

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachments to this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you don’t want to establish a relationship with him, then allow him to fade from your thoughts. Have a great day, Thuan!

  28. My husband and I are married for 15 years. We separared over a year ago. We still communicate but every night he’s in my dreams. Last night we had a passionate kiss in my dream and I was fighting this girl because she kept throwing herself at him. In the dream also we was talking to another married couple about holding on to the marriage. It’s confusing but it felt so real.

    • This dream may have been a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. It is possible that the two of you are incredibly close, and this experience certainly may have felt real. Continue to monitor thee experiences. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with this person about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, Will!

  29. Hello, I very often see my husbands elder brother in my dream. Whenever I see him in my dream I have a very bad feeling in the dream, he us alwsys doing something wrong n sees me in a wierd dirty way, which I never like n feel threatned to in the dream. In obe of my dreams I could see all my spiritual books that I use regularly tied up in a odd manned lying on the bed, he was standing there with a wierd dirty smile n trying to indicate me that I will not let happen what u want. Then in another dream he was trying to physically assault me, I tried to get away, when I was with other family members he was thretning me with his looks. I tried to run away from the house n he was running searching for me, n there were many people he had put behind me I was running from place to place. What do these dreams indicate, they are disturbing me a little. Whenever I see him in a dream, I feel thretned in the dream.

    • Take this time to determine if his actions have influenced these dreams. If you find that these dreams are not based in reality, then allow these dreams to fade. They may be manifestations of fears that are unrelated to this person. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. If you have reason to believe that he is threatening toward you, then speak with your husband about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Priya!

  30. Hello, so this is the third night in a row I dreamt with my sister, she has appeared in my dream more than that but this time it was in a row randomly without me thinking of her. In real life, I haven’t seen or talked to my sister a little past a year due to some family problems. She’s in a relationship with a controlling guy who we think is putting stuff in her head. In these dreams, I’ve been seeing her alone without the guy or her kids(whom I miss so much) and in my dream in my head I want to ask her what happened to the guy but I never end up asking her. The three dreams happened in different scenarios.

    • Your dreams of your sister are reflections of the emotional connections that you have with her. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. It is possible that you believe that she is interested in leaving him at this time. Support her if you are able to do so. Have a great day, Taliah!

  31. I’ve been dreaming about a girl I used to crush on. We stopped communicating when I decided to move on with my life. 3 years later I still think about her sometimes. Well now she’s coming in my dreams non stop and it’s getting annoying because I don’t want to like her. We never used to talk in my dream, but in my recent dream she held my hand and it’s bothering me.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Take this time to determine if you want to establish a relationship with her. If you do,then speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you don’t want to, then allow these thoughts and dreams to fade. Have a great day, Silva!

  32. I’m a highschool senior and there’s this one guy in my class. I’ve been dreaming about him for the past couple of months straight, let me keep you mind that I’m gay. In every single dream I have, he always asks me out and we date and/or get married. I don’t understand it, I’m not even attracted to him, but every night he seems to take control of my dream. It’s nice, but makes no sense.

    • Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Determine if this person is interested in developing a relationship with you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Annie!

  33. I have been dreaming about my ex-husband every night, for about two weeks now. It is always a different setting, but always the same story line. He shows up randomly, for no reason, whatsoever, and we just “decide” to get back together. Literally, it just happens, no conversation, no discussion, and the dream continues with me just “knowing” we’re back together (I don’t see him much in the dreams, he’s usually working or away). But in all the dreams, I have the same feeling of “why are we doing this?” “What just happened?” or “I guess this is what it is.” Needless to say, I’m becoming somewhat annoyed.
    We have been separated for almost two years, currently going through divorce. We have very little contact (only when it comes to the kids) and we don’t see each other at all. I don’t love him anymore, and I most definitely would never consider a reconciliation. The only reason I can come up with, is that we’ve been having issues lately, regarding his responsibilities with our children. I would like to know a way I could make them stop, considering I don’t like the feeling I have when I wake up from these dreams, it’s a mix of angry/offended/annoyed.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachment toward this person. Allow these dreams to fade. Allow them to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. There is no reason for you to reach out to your ex at this time. Have a great day, Perla!

  34. Hi, so there was this guy I used be friends with. I remember we were always in the same class ever since pre-school until elementary. I never had a crush on him at any point. It was just simply platonic between the two of us. I have not talked to him for 8 years now. So, as mean as it may sound, I no longer consider him a friend. I was thirteen when I moved to another country, and so I have already established a new life without him and the other people I used to be friends with, as we never had a deep relationship. The thing is, I would often dream of him more than dreaming of my crush/friends combined. I don’t even think of him AT ALL. And somehow, my dreams of him would always portray the two of us being in a sweet/romantic relationship. I find it really weird. I’m a psychology student and right now I have no idea what my subconscious is trying to do or tell me.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you don’t, then allow these dreams and thoughts to fade. Have a great day, Janine!

  35. I keep having recurring dreams of a man I don’t know. The dreams themselves are always different but the man is the same. They usually feel like he wants a relationship with me. I feel like the dreams have been getting more sexual in nature. They are always very vivid and I feel strange after I wake up (like it’s an old memory not a dream). I’m currently in a relationship and I feel bad because my last dream I cheated on my partner.

    • Allow these dreams to fade. There is no reason to be concerned about your actions in your dreams. Allow the memory of this dream to influence you in a positive direction. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. Treat him with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Joice!

  36. My situation is really weird and it scares me. I used to have a major crush on this guy like five years ago. And three weeks ago, i has this horrifying vision of him (I don’t really call it a dream because I was fully awake when it popped into my head). And every single day from that night on, I’ve continued to have these visions of him being in danger or killing himself. I have a very strong feeling that he’s my soulmate but the thing is I haven’t had these strong feelings about him in a couple years. And all of a sudden, I can’t stop thinking about him. These visions keep coming and I can’t stop them. I have no form of contact with him but it’s driving me insane that I don’t know if he is okay or not. Again, I don’t really call them dreams because I am fully awake when I am having these visions but I don’t know why I’m getting them. ***note: some of these visions feel like they actually happened but I’m unsure if they did or not

    • These thoughts are reflections of your previous emotional attachments with this person. Take this time to determine if you believe that you should take action. If you feel as though you should reach out to him, then attempt to contact him. If you are unable to find or reach him, then there is nothing for you to do. If he is your soulmate, then the two of you will meet when the time is right. Have a great day, Nusrat!

  37. Hi, so I had an dream with a celebrity from a show I watched MONTHS ago(never dreamt of him before even during the series). In the dream, we were discussing starting a serious romantic relationship, he gets murdered. Years pass in the dream and stressful events bring up that pain of loss. Long story short, I figure out who a suspect. Woke up with anxiety, it felt so real. A few days pass, something stressful happened to me and had another dream with multiple guys. One I tried to help but almost got raped, but just stripped me to humiliate. Second I messaged because I was traumatized. Last saw this particular celeb again and i greeted him he comes to me and kisses me multiple times on the cheek and i turn my face, kissing him. His eyes widen and storms out. His co stars were like “why doesnt it just happen already” but my guess he wasnt ready but I felt i was..
    If that makes sense? Idk but I wake feeling its so real with that guy its confusing and stressing me out, lol

    • Allow your memories and dreams influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Take this time to determine what you want with your relationship with this person. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you are unable to contact this person, then allow these dreams to fade. Have a great day, Debby!

  38. I always dream about my daughters father, our perfect life and future.
    Last night, I dreamt about a different man, who I had a crush on and we tried to start a relationship, but we were separated. I don’t think of him anymore and don’t understand why he would pop up in my dream? We haven’t seen or spoke of one another in a few years. Once in a while I will have a dream of him. Each dream is us meeting, dating, and getting married. I am really confused by this? Last night’s dream was a dream in a dream. I was dream of my daughters father, then that dream person of me was dreaming of the other. The old flame was looking for me and talking about me with everyone to find me, I told him how I felt about him and he said the same, we dated and got married. I woke up from that dream confused by it, then woke up from that? It was like I was watching it all?

    • Allow the dream of this other person to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. Spend additional time with your family. If you notice that you think about this other person, then focus that energy toward your partner. Have a great day, Amanda!

  39. Its not nightly, but I dream of someone. I don’t know who he is but I know he has blue eyes and blonde hair. I never remember his fave but I always remember how he makes me feel. When I wake up I always feel lile I’ve met my soul mate. So am I just hoping subconsciously?

    • This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with someone. This stranger may represent someone that you have not met yet or someone that you may already know. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Allow these dreams to influence you to treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Manda!

  40. I’m feeling very frustrated with my dreams lately. I have been having reoccurring dreams about my first love for a few months now. We were on and off for 4 years all throughout high school, it’s been 5 years since then. We have been in contact a few times, the most recent was when me and my current boyfriend took a break for about a month. During that time he expressed that he still had feelings for me, and I still have feelings for him too. Life got in the way (he lives a few hours away now) and we never got to meet up in person again. I got back together with my current boyfriend and things have been going great. But I still keep dreaming about this other guy, probably 4 or 5 times a week. A few days ago I woke up and realized I had composed a text to send him in my sleep, but it was just a blank new message, I had not typed anything out. Is this my subconscious telling me to reach out him? Do I need closure? Part of me wants to contact him, but I am afraid, not of rejection but of hurting the man I’m with now. I just don’t know what to do.

    • If you currently have a boyfriend, then do not seek to establish a relationship with someone else at this time. If you want to end your current relationship is not secure, then do so. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Anon!

  41. I keep having dreams about a person I almost had my first relationship with 5 years ago. I went out on a date twice with him before he broke my heart indirectly which abruptly distanced me from him. There was no resolution between me and him. I just cut him off without explaining anything to him although he tried to contact me a few times. We left each other with unanswered questions. It was pretty much unresolved and open ended. I never saw him ever again and it’s been 5 years. I was really hurt and heartbroken for years until I found my boyfriend 2 years later. My boyfriend is the most amazing person I know and everything I ever wanted in a person. We’ve been in a strong relationship for over 2 years and I can’t imagine life without him but why do I still have dreams about the person when I’m completely over him? In fact, I dislike him more than anything. In my dreams, he tries to get back with me and asks me why I left him and in the latest one, I even thought of leaving my boyfriend for him. I woke up feeling so confused.

    • Your dreams about your ex are reflections of your previous emotional connections with that person. You are currently in a relationship. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with your currently partner about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Amy!

  42. I keep dreaming of my boyfriend, and it’s been going on for so long, I don’t know why or how to make it stop, I think the dreams I remember the most or dream the most about are when he’s either dying/dead/hurt or when he’s cheating on me or has cheated

    • These dreams a reflections of numerous influences that you have in your life. Perhaps allow this dream influence your actions to reduce your consumption of dramatic media. Take this time to determine if these dreams are based in reality. Speak directly and honestly with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. Allow the negative aspects of these dreams to fade. Have a great day, Moon!

  43. I keep having a dream about my old best friend, things with us ended badly but it happend almost a year ago and I’m still dreaming about seeing her and us making up even though I know it’s never going to happen and reaching out to her is not an option at all and I want the dreams to stop but they won’t it’s driving me crazy honestly

    • You have made the determination that you do not want to nourish this relationship. Allow these dreams to fade. If you think about your ex, then allow those thoughts to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. There is no reason for you to reach out to this person. Have a great day, Lily!

  44. I keep almost having a dream about my best friend that every time we see each other we like talk and hang out but that would use to happen. Then later on in the day my dream it just started getting romantic like yesterday on the 10th of November he grabbed me into a dance and we were singing as well and it ended with him hugging me from behind. We don’t really see each other at school because we have no classes with each other but when we do we say hi and talk for a bit and go to our classes. Today I had a dream that a random guy was chasing me and my best friend was there to comfort me and then we kissed for like 7 seconds. After the random dude disappeared I said are we a couple or do you wanna just take it slow and he said we’ll just take it slow and I didn’t mind. We were holding hands when I asked the question but we do still flirted in my dream. Idk why I asked that question it was just a kiss lol. I used to like him in 5th grade for like 3 weeks then it stopped. He is my closest guy best friend I know. We’ve been friends for 3yrs and this is the only year I’ve had dreams about him.

    • This dream may be a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. It is possible that you are interested in developing a relationship with him at this time. Look inward and determine what you want with your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Diamond!

  45. so there’s this boy in my class. i’ve thought before about what it would be like to be with him , and then last night i had a dream that we were together. i couldn’t stop thinking about it all day. but there’s already a guy in my life , we’re not together but we’re flirting. i like the guy i’m flirting with , but i think i might like the guy i dreamed about. he always shows up in my dreams , even if it’s just a random cameo. why do i keep dreaming about him ? am i in love with him or something ? i honestly just want the dreams to stop ..

    • If you are not currently in a relationship with this other person, then do not allow your feelings toward him to prevent you developing a relationship with someone else. Your conflicting emotions should be reflected upon. Take this time to determine what you want with your future. Speak directly and honestly with the people in your life about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Mackenzie!

  46. The person in my dream is someone I see everyday but plays too much of a role in my life to be a daily life thing. In my most recent dreams he is smiling or doing things that make me feel happy and safe. In real life they are like an older brother to me, and there’s a part of me that has a slight crush on him, I hope this information helps you figure out what he means to me

    • If you have a crush on this person and there is no reason for you to not develop a relationship with him, then take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Star!

  47. Love your article. I have always dream the same person regularly (every month perhaps) since 13 years ago, he passed away from automobile accident when he was 17 years old. In many of my dreams, I knew he passed away or sometimes I didn’t know he already gone. There were times when we were hanging out or just chat and most of the time, I remember the details of the dreams when I wake up. I feel good and sometimes sad when I just had dreams about him the next day. The last one I had was I was so excited to see him and he told me to come with him. We used to be very best friend and I had a crush on him. Unfortunately, a week before my birthday party he passed away. Before that, he told me that he’d help me out in my sweet seventeen party. Since then, I’m constantly dreaming about him

    • These dreams are reflections of your emotional connection with this person. Since this person has passed, you would be best served by allowing this dream to influence you in a positive direction. This will honor the memory of your friend. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Fergie!

  48. The person about whom I have been dreaming constantly has no relation with me. I mean just like other people around me, he too is one of my acquaintances. That’s why I don’t understan, why am I dreaming about such a random person ?

    • This person may be a reflection of someone who is in your life. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. There is no reason to reach out to him if you are not interested in developing a relationship with him. Have a great day, Mansi!

  49. I had 3 dreams in a raw about a guy we kinda have all classes together.. amd i barely knew his name or anything about him. And in these 3 dreams he was the one always coming to me and trying to get closer to me but i was pushing him away or even ignoring him. After that i kinda started liking him. And then i kept having the same dreams. Its rlyy confusing it got to the point where i dont like him anymore because of the amount of times o dreamt and still dream of him. It getting abit annoying and confusing and idk wut to doooo

    • These dreams are reflections of your social interactions. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself will you as well. Have a great day, Zyx!

  50. I had 3 dreams in a raw about a guy we kinda have all classes together.. and i barely knew his name or anything about him. And in these 3 dreams he was the one always coming to me and trying to get closer to me but i was pushing him away or even ignoring him. After that i kinda started liking him. And then i kept having the same dreams. Its rlyy confusing it got to the point where i dont like him anymore because of the amount of times i dreamt and still dream of him. Its getting abit annoying and confusing and idk wut to doooo

    • These dreams are reflections of your social interactions. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself will you as well. Have a great day, Zyx!

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