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What Does It Mean to Dream About a Guy You’ve Never Met?

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Dreams are strange creatures. Sometimes, you have an amazing dream of being in bed with a wonderful, gorgeous guy. In the next dream, you are running for your life as an attacker chases you along the streets. Figuring out how to interpret these dreams is not always easy. Even though dreams are a reflection of your subconscious mind, you might not always be aware of what is going on in your subconscious mind. When this happens, it takes a little extra effort to figure out what is going on in your dreams.

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We get this question regarding a number of dream situations. Some people see an unknown guy trying to attack them, or they just see an attractive stranger in their dream. In most cases, ladies want to know why the Mr. Right in their dreams is someone that they don’t know. There are many types of cases where an unknown stranger can appear in your dreams, but the most common one is in a romantic dream.

You May Not Have Mr. Right in Your Real Life

One of the most common reasons why Mr. Right is an unknown stranger in your dreams is because you don’t actually know who he is in your real life. You may want to have a romantic relationship or a sexual fling in your real life. Since you do not have someone to actually play that role in your waking life, your subconscious had to make someone up for your dream. Your mysterious stranger will most likely be replaced by a real person once you find the right guy in the real world.

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You May Want Something Else

Some women dream about a mysterious stranger when they are in a relationship. This does not mean that you want to cheat. The more likely answer is that the stranger represents something that you want in your current relationship. If you have been dating your current partner for a long time, your subconscious may just be providing you with a chance to spice things up and have a no-guilt fling.

In other cases, your subconscious is trying to give you a quality or something else that you are missing in your real life. Perhaps you feel like your significant other never pays attention to you. Your dream guy may give you just the attention you need. In other cases, you may be angry that your significant other never helps out at home. In your dream, you suddenly have a significant other who supports you and helps around the house.

When someone is angry with their significant other, they are more likely to dream about a mysterious stranger in their dream. Your subconscious is basically looking for someone new who is less stressful for you to love. Basically, your mind is trying to give you a romantic vacation while you sleep.

Is the Guy My Soulmate?

Unfortunately, this is a very common myth. For some reason, people have a bad habit of believing that they will eventually meet and marry the person in their dreams. This is highly unlikely. Your subconscious chose the stranger to play the role of your soulmate, but this does not mean that they are actually your soulmate. The guy in your dreams might not even exist.

There are certainly some cases where you run into your dream guy in real life. This is not because you are prophetic though. Most of the people and images in your dreams are actually pulled from your memory. Consciously, you might not even remember seeing the guy. He may have been on the other side of the grocery store as you checked out. He could have been the car behind you on the roadway. Whatever the case, he was in your life enough for your subconscious to remember him, but not enough for your conscious mind to recall him.

Since there is a good chance that he is real (or at least a model in a television ad), then it is always possible that you will run into him in real life. Some people even make a move and try to date the dream guy because they feel like they are supposed toā€”and there’s nothing wrong with that. At the same time, you should keep in mind that your dream guy probably is not your intended soulmate and you should make romantic decisions on compatibility instead of dreams.

If you are still uncertain about why you dreamed about a guy you’ve never met, take some time to analyze your dream. Look at the exact events and situations that unfolded in your dream. There might be a symbolic element to your dream, or the guy may represent some trait or life change that you want to have. By taking a closer look at your dreams, you can figure out exactly why your dream is happening.

 

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  1. Wow, sorry for the late reply šŸ˜£. But thanks for telling me and I do like trying to help others and it usually backfires with me getting hurt instead of them.

  2. Eight years ago I was in a bad marriage that was ending. I was miserable and had a few more months before my husband would have the money to move out of our home. I went to bed and had a dream that still today is very memorable. I can see it very clearly in my minds eye. In this dream I was returning home from grocery shopping, so I come into the room and there is this man I have had never met but yet he was very familiar to me. I felt like I knew him completely. He had a big wide smile that showed a lot of his teeth and he had brown hair. As I was talking to him about whatever happened while I was shopping he just kept smiling like I was the most precious person he knew. He leaned over and kissed me lightly on the lips. This made me stop talking and I jokingly asked him what that was for. He said I just love you, that’s it. hat is the end of the dream but I have remembered it vividly. When I was finally ready to go into my dating season I would look for him. I know that sounds crazy but I really felt led to find him. It wasn’t a deal breaker if a man wasn’t him and I dated quite a few men. After 3 years I met a man on a dating site and we hit it off right away. As I spent more time with him I got this strong feeling that he was the one in my dreams. He had the smile, he had brown hair and he was very loving. 5 years later, I am sure it was him. I still think of this dream every so often and wonder if others have had this experience. It is not something you hear about.

    • It sounds like your subconscious was trying to tell you that you should pursue the love and relationship you deserve instead of settling for a relationship that wasn’t working out anymore. You were smart enough to listen to this intuition, and it led you to a happier life. Congrats on the newfound love!

  3. That it just beautiful dear! I believe you and I’m so glad you are happy! Your subconscious knew what you needed I suppose! I am at this site bc I’m stuck in a toxic marriage that I’m seriously considering leaving. We had a particular bad argument the other day that really hurt me. I had the most wonderful dream last night where a nice looking, Brown haired and attractive but not gorgeous man approached me in a book store. He looked so nice and adoring of me as he approached and he just walked right up to me and said: “I love you”! I was stunned but thrilled and then he just walked away but I somehow knew that we would see one another again! Dreams can tell us so very much! Your outcome gives me hope so thanks for sharing! Best to you dear!šŸ’™

    • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. We always appreciate when members of our community share their insights and experiences.

  4. I had this dream last night and it was this guy who seemed about maybe four or five years older than me. Well, that’s what he looked like. He treated me like a queen and the whole dream was us spending time together like a couple that’s been together for about three years and a half still completely lovesick for eachother. Do mind I’m a teenager and this felt like a heavenly dream, I loved this feeling. But the weird thing about this dream was that my brother popped up randomly while dream guy was doing something and said that he’s from Chicago and said something about seeing him I don’t remember but I think it was good? Otherwise than that it went back to us spending time together and we often went swimming in the pool or something because I would often find myself wearing a bikini. It felt that he loved me a lot, he appreciated my scars and stretch marks from previous weight gain. He loved all of me. A note is that I was in like a dream apartment home thing. At the end of the dream he was leaving to go back to his country and I was a little confused cause we were already at his country but I didn’t mind much. His parents were at the front door waiting for him. I didn’t get a clear vision but they were really nice to me. He said he’s come back for me soon and we exchanged “I love you’s” to each other before he left. Then the dream ended. But a few weird things happened in between but those aren’t important. When I woke up I forgot his face but I remember a few things about his appearance. He had dark brownish hair, a cute smile, slight hair on his face because he seemed 17-18 years old, a broad shoulder kinda guy and seemed he worked out a little bit but not that he had pecs the size of balloons. That’s all I remember from him. His name started with either a g or j but everyone called him JoJo as a nickname. I always called him from his first name and not his nickname cause to me his name sounded amazing to me. But I forgot his face and name when I woke up so I don’t remember much. I don’t know what this means but I hope I meet this person, because it felt like the best thing on earth.

    • The appearance and behaviors of this person may be reflections of qualities that you may find attractive in a partner. Ensure that this dream guides you in a positive direction. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. It is certainly possible that this person will appear in your life in the future.

  5. I had this dream just a few hours ago about a guy between my age. im 16 and he was probably 16 or 17. I’m already in a relationship right now but it’s long distance. we have never seen each other in real life but I still grew feelings for him. In real life I always questioned if i really wanted to be with him because of the way he sometimes acts and also the fact that we cant see or touch each other. And I have also been questioning If I wanted to date a different race. He is Hispanic, I am African American. I have been thinking that maybe I wanted to date an African American Male that isn’t long distance. So I had this dream about this unknown black guy that was around 16 or 17, and he was so handsome. He was everything. We would call on the phone and talk and he would drop whatever he was doing to sneak over to where I was and be with me. At the same time I was going behind my current boyfriends back and still texting him. I felt bad but at the same time I really thought this boy was sexy and I didn’t want to drop him. So he took my virginity and we would be with each other every night. When I woke up though, I grew sad. I all of a sudden wanted to download an app to try and find someone to talk to that was close to me. Specifically him. I wanted to find him. But I still love my boyfriend and I dont want to make him upset by telling him my dreams. I didn’t download an app either. But that dream really has me questioning reality!

    • This dream is a manifestation of your social and emotional desires. The appearance and qualities of the person in your dream could be an amalgamation of aspects that you may find attractive in a partner. It is certainly possible that this person may enter your life in the future. Ensure that this dream guides you to share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life.

  6. I had this dream that like something like monsters were trying to kill humans and then I see this boy thats like wearing something yellow im assuming it was a yellow raincoat and when he looked at me I liked him right away his smile was beautiful and when he smiled at me My stomach felt like butterflies and then we talked and I wanted his insta but he didnt give it to me and said something about a dream but i ignored it. and then apparently we liked eachother and I felt in love and then I woke up and I cant find him now..but he was so cute..

    • This dream is a reflection of two different aspects of your life. First, being chased is often a manifestation of concerns or worries that you may have in your life. If you are chased in a future dream, then you should address whatever is chasing you regarding their purpose. The second part of your dream could be a sign that you are interested in nourishing a new social or emotional relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life.

  7. i once had a dream of a guy whom i have never met but was my boyfriend in the dream but i couldn’t see his face properly ……
    and also he was very popular but one day in the dream he was in coma due to some accident which i don’t even know and forgot about everything (eg :-his parents his life and especially me ) and later on he died and i was a very tragedy thing and a huge thing when he died in the dream
    what does this mean can u please help me ??

    • This dream may be a reflection of your social and emotional relationships. Death is often a symbol of change, and this person in your dream passed. It is possible that you feel that a previous relationship that you have been maintaining may have been altered in some way. The appearance of the person in your dream may provide you with insights in regarding who this dream may be about. If you have similar dreams in the future, then address whoever is in your dream regarding their purpose.

  8. i once had a dream of a guy whom i have never met but he was my boyfriend in the dream unfortunately i couldn’t see his face properly but i do remember his name and citizen
    In the dream he was very popular and loved me very much
    but while i was dreaming he got into coma due too some accident which i don’t even know and he forgot about everything based on his life (eg:- his parents , his friends and especially me )
    and later on he died due too some unknown reason and his dead also became a huge and tragedy thing in the dream

    • This dream may be a reflection of your social and emotional relationships. Death is often a symbol of change, and this person in your dream passed. It is possible that you feel that a previous relationship that you have been maintaining may have been altered in some way. The appearance of the person in your dream may provide you with insights in regarding who this dream may be about. If you have similar dreams in the future, then address whoever is in your dream regarding their purpose.

  9. Sorry to disturb you !! But I figured something out
    So the dream boyfriend initial name starts with “Y” and in the dream we use to spend alot of time in the terrace (the terrace belong to one of my close friend’s aunt but they shifted their house so anyone can get in the terrace publicly so….below the terrace there are some rent houses where anyone can hang clothes in the terrace and also the terrace has one of the most beautiful view ) so one of my friend just shifted new in the rent houses so her brother’s best friend usually visit him often (We never talk ) and he has the same skin complextion as the guy in my dream and also his initial name too starts with “Y” and he had been in a hospital or coma I don’t really know .

    • It is possible that this dream is a reflection of your relationship with your dream boyfriend. You may feel a connection with your brother’s best friend. If you feel that it would be appropriate to reach out to this person, then do so. If you have similar dreams in the future, then you may want to communicate with him in your dreams.

  10. I’m 14 and i dreamed about this handsome guy with a blonde hair or should i say a western guy, and he also has some nice style with his clothing… it looks like we are also in our teenage age when i dreamed about that guy… I think its a western guy but i can’t clearly describe his face because it’s blurry and also i don’t know where place are we because the only thing I’m focused/remember, is that we and our friends spending some fun together and sitting, there are only 5 of us are there in place.. 4 of us are sitting and 1 person is standing and i remember them… I’m sitting at the right side while this guy where on the left side and our 2 friends is in the middle talking/laughing and teasing me and him, this guy can’t stop looking at me and keep on smiling.. When i look at him, i don’t know i just felt shy and looked him back and then my dreams got all black… and then i don’t know if it’s still the same guy because the guy next into my dreams also has a blonde hair/western guy we are already look like older compare to the dream that i dreamed first and it looks like we’re already 20 above? Or something like that and it looks like we’re spending time together while looking some beautiful things that were being displayed in there and we are so sweet to each other after many minutes when i look at him i was shocked and i don’t why because when i look at him back he’s slowly losing his body parts and then boommm i wake up but still confused who’s that guy is. I really want to know him if he really exist in real life

    • This person may be a manifestation of various qualities that you find attractive in a partner. You may feel that his qualities are related to people you know or actors that you appreciate. It is possible that this person will enter into your life in the future. Ensure that this dream guides you to consider what you want for your future. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times.

  11. i dreamed about this handsome blonde haired guy or should i say a western guy, and he also has some sense of fashion.. it looks like we are also in our teenage age when i dreamed about that guy, but i can’t clearly describe his face because it’s blurry and also i don’t know where place are we because the only thing I’m focused/remember, is that we and our friends spending some fun time together and sitting, there are only 5 of us are there in place.. 4 of us are sitting and 1 person is standing. I’m sitting at the right side while this guy where on the left side and our 2 friends is in the middle talking/laughing and teasing me and him and there’s only one person standing while listening to them… this guy can’t stop starring at me and keep on smiling.. When i look at him, i don’t know i just felt shy and look away when look at him back and then my dreams got all black… and then i don’t know if it’s still the same guy because the guy next into my dreams at the same day when i dreamed that guy starring at me has also had a blonde hair/western guy we are already look like older compare to the dream that i dreamed first and it looks like we’re already 20 above? Or something like that and we’re spending some time together while looking some beautiful things that being displayed in there and we are so sweet to each other while walking and watching some displayed beautiful things and after many minutes when i look at him i was shocked because i don’t know why he’s losing some of his body parts and then boommm i wake up… but still confused who’s that guy is, because i can’t see him in my dream anymore… I really want to know him if he exist

    • This person may be a manifestation of various qualities that you find attractive in a partner. You may feel that his qualities are related to people you know or actors that you appreciate. It is possible that this person will enter into your life in the future. Ensure that this dream guides you to consider what you want for your future. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times.

  12. I had this dream last night. I sat beside a guy I ve never seen before. I was studying but was unable to concentrate. He was my tutor and ordered me to focus on my studies in a demanding tone. I sat there and studied for hours without diversion. I felt so tired so i took a nap in another room for some time. He too finished his work and while walking out of the room he stopped and just patted my shoulder in a soft way with a cute smile and walked out of the room.He thought I was in deep sleep. I got up and pretended like nothing happened.. I went to washroom to wash my face . In my mind I wanted to join him asap. So I was in a rush but I was stopped by a woman I know .. She asked me some boring questions. After I answered them I started to run….hoping that he would wait for me.. He too was actually waiting for me. Then I woke up from my dream. Can you interpret my dream. I really wish to meet this guy if I can.

    • This dream seems to be a manifestation of your focus on your studies. The woman who appeared in your dream may represent a teacher or professor. You may feel that focusing on your education will draw positive people and energy into your life. It is possible that the man from your dream will appear in the future, so focus on your academic career at this time.

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