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What Does It Mean to Dream About a Guy You’ve Never Met?

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Dreams are strange creatures. Sometimes, you have an amazing dream of being in bed with a wonderful, gorgeous guy. In the next dream, you are running for your life as an attacker chases you along the streets. Figuring out how to interpret these dreams is not always easy. Even though dreams are a reflection of your subconscious mind, you might not always be aware of what is going on in your subconscious mind. When this happens, it takes a little extra effort to figure out what is going on in your dreams.

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We get this question regarding a number of dream situations. Some people see an unknown guy trying to attack them, or they just see an attractive stranger in their dream. In most cases, ladies want to know why the Mr. Right in their dreams is someone that they don’t know. There are many types of cases where an unknown stranger can appear in your dreams, but the most common one is in a romantic dream.

You May Not Have Mr. Right in Your Real Life

One of the most common reasons why Mr. Right is an unknown stranger in your dreams is because you don’t actually know who he is in your real life. You may want to have a romantic relationship or a sexual fling in your real life. Since you do not have someone to actually play that role in your waking life, your subconscious had to make someone up for your dream. Your mysterious stranger will most likely be replaced by a real person once you find the right guy in the real world.

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You May Want Something Else

Some women dream about a mysterious stranger when they are in a relationship. This does not mean that you want to cheat. The more likely answer is that the stranger represents something that you want in your current relationship. If you have been dating your current partner for a long time, your subconscious may just be providing you with a chance to spice things up and have a no-guilt fling.

In other cases, your subconscious is trying to give you a quality or something else that you are missing in your real life. Perhaps you feel like your significant other never pays attention to you. Your dream guy may give you just the attention you need. In other cases, you may be angry that your significant other never helps out at home. In your dream, you suddenly have a significant other who supports you and helps around the house.

When someone is angry with their significant other, they are more likely to dream about a mysterious stranger in their dream. Your subconscious is basically looking for someone new who is less stressful for you to love. Basically, your mind is trying to give you a romantic vacation while you sleep.

Is the Guy My Soulmate?

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Unfortunately, this is a very common myth. For some reason, people have a bad habit of believing that they will eventually meet and marry the person in their dreams. This is highly unlikely. Your subconscious chose the stranger to play the role of your soulmate, but this does not mean that they are actually your soulmate. The guy in your dreams might not even exist.

There are certainly some cases where you run into your dream guy in real life. This is not because you are prophetic though. Most of the people and images in your dreams are actually pulled from your memory. Consciously, you might not even remember seeing the guy. He may have been on the other side of the grocery store as you checked out. He could have been the car behind you on the roadway. Whatever the case, he was in your life enough for your subconscious to remember him, but not enough for your conscious mind to recall him.

Since there is a good chance that he is real (or at least a model in a television ad), then it is always possible that you will run into him in real life. Some people even make a move and try to date the dream guy because they feel like they are supposed to—and there’s nothing wrong with that. At the same time, you should keep in mind that your dream guy probably is not your intended soulmate and you should make romantic decisions on compatibility instead of dreams.

If you are still uncertain about why you dreamed about a guy you’ve never met, take some time to analyze your dream. Look at the exact events and situations that unfolded in your dream. There might be a symbolic element to your dream, or the guy may represent some trait or life change that you want to have. By taking a closer look at your dreams, you can figure out exactly why your dream is happening.

 

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  1. I had this dream of meeting this guy while doing a project together. I was kinda flirting with him, like he kinda want my attention. Then the other teammate came and we started discussing. It was then he put his arm around my shoulder casually. I tried to move his arm away but he grabbed my hand and I gave in and we ended up holding hands instead. I woke up right after.

    • This dream may be a reflection of various influences in your life. You may be interested in developing a new social relationship. You are aware that your current relationships or social group may prevent changes from occurring. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Melody!

  2. I had this dream of meeting this guy whom I never met while doing a project together. I was kinda flirting with him, like he kinda want my attention. Then the other teammate came and we started discussing. It was then he put his arm around my shoulder casually. I tried to move his arm away but he grabbed my hand and I gave in and we ended up holding hands instead. I woke up right after. I’ve always been single.

    • This dream may be a reflection of various influences in your life. You may be interested in developing a new social relationship. You are aware that your current relationships or social group may prevent changes from occurring. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Melody!

  3. I dream that someone stalking me and that scared me he kill my friend and he let me live and told me that he will protect me. Then after that he become so sweet to me. the I always dream him that he always cuddle me and he become my boyfriend. and I can’t see his face just his body. Is theirs any meaning of it?

    • This dream may be a reflection of various influences in your life. You will find benefit in abstaining from consuming violent and dramatic media. You may want to establish a new relationship. You may be concerned that you current relationships may suffer if you develop a new, strong emotional connection. Determine what you want for your future, and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Miya!

  4. I had a dream where i relocate to a new city for studies/ job ( dont remember). Twice in the course of the dream unknown guys threaten me that i should not even think of starting an NGO. Third time, this happens again, a 3rd guy comes to threaten me that I shouldnt dare to start an NGO, to which i stop him and tell him that once my tenure in this new city is over, I dont even plan to settle there and would like to go back to my city and starting an NGO there hasnt been on my mind.
    Later he is very polite and chivalrous. We cross paths often. Being new in the city, he accompanies me, guides me. I fall in love with him. He cares for me a lot. I am a person who dates only when i feel that the relationship can end in marriage. But here the thought of long term relationship didnt cross my mind even once. Everything just felt perfect though there was no expression of feelings from his end or mind.

    I am in a serious long distance relationship since 8 yrs. I could never feel the content, not even once in our relationship, like the one I felt in just few hours of my dream.

    I am unsure of what the dream indicates. Please help

    • Your dream is a reflection of various aspects of your life. You are not interested in starting an NGO, so the media that you consume may have manifested in this dream. It sounds as though you are interested in nourishing an emotional relationship that makes you feel secure. Determine what you want for the future of your current relationship and take appropriate action. Perhaps attempt to make a plan with your partner to live in the same home. Have a great day, Pratiksha!

  5. I had a dream that there was this cute guy I never met who wanted to my attention, he seems to be about my age maybe a bit older, and very sweet and like me childish, but still mature. He was just sitting in my closet even if it was crowded inside. He wanted me to sit by him in it.

    I wanted some help to understand why I had this kind of dream.

    • Sometimes, your mind picks an unknown stranger to be a placeholder for the kind of person you would want to meet in real life. In this case, it sounds like your subconscious mind chose this guy to play the role of boyfriend in your dream. You might not have anyone who could really play this role well in your waking life, so your subconscious mind created a dream boyfriend for you. Once you find the right guy, your mind will most likely replace the placeholder with your new, actual boyfriend.

  6. I had a dream where my sister was having a party. At the party there were a lot of attractive guys. They asked my sister and I to play a game. I did but my sister didn’t it was some sort of tag I guessed and then we started to play a game and started to become friends. Throughout the dream one guy paid special attention to me and we would talk a lot. Thing is I only knew two of the guys out of the probley ten there and I never have been in a relationship before

    • This dream may be reflection of your social and emotional influences. You may feel that your sister and you share various social interactions with each other. There may be someone in your life that you may be interested in developing a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Maria!

  7. I just had a dream about a girl whom I like but I never really met her in real life. We are super heroes along with the others. We arrived on our headquarters and the weird thing is the girl and I are in the same bedroom. The bedroom looks just like my real bedroom. We talked and I was flirting a little, while she is also flirting back. Then I woke up feeling in love with that stranger. I’m a bisexual in real life and single.

    • Your dream may be a reflection of various aspects of your life. You may be interested in developing a new social or emotional relationship. You may feel that you are working on an important project. Allow this dream to guide you to determine what you want for your future. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Marby!

  8. I dream about a guy that i have known for almost 4years. We have never personally met. The dreams always feel so real. I can feel it when we touch even after i wake up

    • Your dreams may be reflections of your strong connection with this person. The two of you have not met, so perhaps you should allow these thoughts to guide you to determine what you want for your future. Perhaps reach out to this person. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Leonita!

  9. I had this dream that I was in a relationship with a guy that I just met on tinder (but in real life I don’t really know him) , then we accidentally met and he’s with his parents, he told me about them and we went to their house, his mom is so kind to me, and my “boyfriend in my dream” is always beside me, kissing and holding me. I feel so loved that moment. I really want to know what does it mean

    • This dream may be a reflection of your desire to establish a new social and emotional relationship. The person in your dream may be a manifestation of someone else in your life. You might want to meet the family of your future partner to ensure that the relationship is viable. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Mayie!

  10. I had a dream where I was back in school after holidays, and there was this guy I casually sat next to and found out he was my boyfriend. He was the total opposite of guys I usually end up with (he was shy, nerdy, etc.) but I really liked that. We talked and I was super interested in everything he said. Shortly before I woke up, my best friend tried to talk me out of being with him and made fun of him and his looks.

    • Your subconscious mind may be trying to push you into being with a partner who is different than the type of guy you normally go for. Since your friend makes fun of him in your dream, you may feel afraid that other people will judge you or ridicule you for going for a different type of guy.

  11. In the dream, I had a crush on a guy, I can’t remember the details but he texted me saying that he likes me (I remember him sending me an old photo of him saying that we should start our relationship by here. So we talked about our old school and stuff) the next day I thought I would be nervous but I casually held hands with him and he kissed me on the cheek like we have done it million times. I remember I was too happy in the dream that when I woke up, I felt a huge thing missing in my heart.

    • This dream may be a reflection of your social and emotional desires. The person in your dream may have been a amalgamation of various people in your life. This person may exist, but you have yet to meet him. Allow this dream to guide you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Flore!

  12. I dreamt that I was fleeing a country because of oppression. It was very violent and graphic. It shook me. I am soon leaving my own country to escape from the pressures of marriage etc. But in the dream, I am escaping WITH family.

    What does it mean?

    • This dream is a reflection of various influences in your life. You are aware that you need to leave your country, but it is likely that you feel a strong relationship with many members of your family. Escape your situation. Ensure that you continue to share your kindness and compassion with the world. Establish a new life somewhere that you feel safe. Have a great day, Jen!

  13. I had a dream and it felt so real.i was happy that someone liked me and asked me out in front of other people. In my dream he was like an old friend and i felt we were close. he was just with me.then he was blonde..im asian and he looks western.. I said yes when he asked me out then i dont remember what happend next.then next image was 2 dead giraffes.hahah then chased by lions fucked up dream.i woke up so confused but happy and sad that my dr3am was over with the stranger lover.coz it felt so real.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional connections and influences. It is possible that you are interested in nourishing a romantic relationship at this time. The media that you consume may have influenced his physical appearance. Determine what you want for your future. If there is someone that you are interested in nourishing a relationship with, then speak with that person about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Jane!

  14. so before this dream i was complaining that a lot of guys are trying to get in with me and i just feel bad cause i never have feelings back and i don’t know why, some of them are drop dead gorgeous but there was just nothing. a week last i dreamt about being lost in NYC on a family holiday. i lost my mother and she wasn’t answering my calls and we were in this MASSIVE shopping centre that was all dark and had fun lights and all that. i then stubbled across this guy and he offered to help me out and his girlfriend was like “don’t touch her” and then we found my mum and i walked back with him where his girlfriend was and i was trying to convince him that his relationship was hella toxic for him and i was trying to flirt with him and everything but i FELT something and i woke up smiling! WHAT THE HECK? i’m so confused he wasn’t real and i felt a connection. and he was my type messy blonde hair, blue eyes and hella funny

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional influences and desires in your life. It is possible that you are interested in developing a new relationship. You may want to nourish a current relationship. Ensure that this dream guides you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will bring positive energy and people toward you. Have a great day, Chantal!

  15. I dreamt of a guy, a total stranger. In my dream, he was hugging me. I couldn’t see his face but I know that he has a fair complexion and not that tall. I remember how I happy I was in the dream, I felt at peace and contented. Around 9 years later, I dreamt of him again, this time I kinda saw his face already and I know that still, I haven’t met this guy (it feels like it’s the same guy) but I was so happy in my dream. Same feeling I had years ago when I dreamt of him.

    • Your dream may be a reflection of a range of social and emotional influences that you have in your life. This person may have been someone who had an influence on you in your past. He may be a reflection of someone else in your life. Determine what you want for your future. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this may help manifest this person into your life. Have a great day, Saorise!

  16. I had a dream about a guy i’ve never met or seen. I was with some friends and suddenly he pops out of nowhere, comes up to me and asks me to be his date to some sort of event (it was school related) i declined but he didn’t give up. i apologized and he said it was okay but how he wanted to go with me before he leaves because he’s from spain and gave me more reasons. I ended up saying yes although i wasn’t really up for it. We met up and were talking and after that i can’t remember much. i was able to see his face clearly and still remember it. what does this mean??

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional desires and influences. The person in your dream may be a sign that you are uncertain of what you want for the future. He may also have been a reflection of the people who are in your life. Him being from Spain may be a reflection of your travel desires. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will help manifest positive people into your life. Have a great day, Emily!

  17. So I had this dream about a random guy I never met before. We bumped into each other somewhere, I don’t know specifically where, but then later we ended up in a mall. We were walking with each other and then I started to one-finger hand hold, then I started to hold hands with him. For some reason, I enjoyed holding his hand, I felt happy, loved. We hung out with each other, he kind of acted like me, childish and funny. And what makes it interesting was the dream felt so real, I could actually feel his hand. And I was laughing and smiling afterwords. I couldn’t see his face, only his body which was weird. I remembering seeing his face in my dream, but when I woke up I couldn’t remember. I then remember seeing my crush walking around the same mall as me, hanging out with this girl. But I was still with the boy of my dreams. And for some reason my crush was copying me, and also following me. The boy of my dreams had some dirty blonde hair color, he was a bit taller than me, that’s all that I could remember.

    • Your dream is a reflection of various influences in your life. It may be a reflection of your relationship with your crush. It may be a sign that there is someone else in your life that you want to nourish a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to maintain a relationship with your crush, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If not, then ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Allison!

    • Your dream is a reflection of various influences in your life. It may be a reflection of your relationship with your crush. It may be a sign that there is someone else in your life that you want to nourish a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to maintain a relationship with your crush, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If not, then ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Allison!

  18. I had a dream that I was laying in bed with a really handsome guy and I had my hand on his face and we were starring at each other with this love in our eyes. And then later in my dream we were in the kitchen and we were goofing around and laughing and he picked me up and threw me over his shoulder and I felt so loved like that was what I need in a relationship. I’ve been single since January and I feel like no one is interested.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your desires that you have for your future relationships. You likely want to develop an intimate connection with a partner who you feel comfortable with. Allow this dream to influence you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will help manifest positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Tori!

  19. My dream was short, i was in a couch sitting down with this guy right beside me watching something in his computer, I could only see his profile and I have never seen him or meet him in real life. We didn’t talk but I knew I liked it him and had feelings for him and I was fighting myself to see if I could say something to him almost like I was to nervous to speak and start conversation or even confess.

    • The person in this dream may be a reflection of various social influences in your life. Your inability to speak in your dream may be a reflection of your social relationships. The person from this dream may have been a reflection of various people in your life. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Lili!

  20. I had a dream that as if I lost my wedding ring and when I came out of on appointment building I saw a leasing office guys whom are real in awake life and one other guy whom I don’t know standing. Those two guys from office was looking for my ring and finally found it and gave it to that guy. He than pass it to me. I hugged the office guys and hugged the stranger tighter. As if he was trying to be my hero. He was so handsome and mature looking. But he wasn’t talking. Than I turned my head and saw and ugly men as if he was same guy and asked him why you don’t talk to me? Than he said oh you want me to talk. Than the handsome guy was sitting behind me and this ugly one run to him and said see I told you she is into every guy. What does it mean ?

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional relationships. The loss of the ring may be a manifestation of your connection with your partner. The other men in your dream may be your social acquaintances. If you are in a committed relationship, then allow this dream to fade. Spend additional time with your partner, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Moh!

  21. I dreamed about a guy that I didn’t know who he was and I dreamed about him in several nights. I really don’t know what’s the meaning of my dreams but I clearly remember that the guy in my dream is so kind and it seems that he really loves me, I often remember that I was wearing a white dress and we are walking together in a plenty flowers in the path ways but after several nights I was crying about him and I don’t know why I’m crying. Can I ask if what is the meaning of my dreams? It really bothers me and it breaks my heart thinking about that guy. Please tell me, I hope you will answer.

    • The person in your dream may be a reflection of your social and emotional desires. The white dress is often a manifestation of purity. You will find benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. This will draw positive people and energy into your life. The person from your dream may appear in the future. If he does, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Hera!

  22. So, I had this dream like a week ago. I was studying at a mysterious school. I’m on my way to our house, and I saw a jeep but it’s already over loaded so I chose not to ride on it. Then there’s this mystery guy, whom I never really saw in my entire real life, and the camera focused on him. He was already on that jeepney, but he chose to get off. I didn’t know why but when I saw another jeepney that was spacious, he rode it and said to me, “Halika, ako na magbabayad.” I was confused, but rode it anyway. Then I asked him, “Do I know you?” “Yep, I’m your classmate.” “Ohh. Do you know my name?” “Yeah, you’re J. J.M.” “What’s your name?” He joked but I did not get it and I couldn’t remember it, then he said, “My name’s Renz.” He actually said his full name but I forgot it already. Then he stayed on the jeepney until we reached my street. We got off, and we started walking towards my house but then the dream ended, so basically we did not really reached our house. And I woke up at 4am, and searched for him. I was so sure that he’s an actual person, but I did not know why was I so sure. After minutes of searching and stalking, I found him. He’s an actual person. Too bad I couldn’t attach the screenshot.

    • There may be a variety of reasons why this person manifested in your dreams. You made a decision to find him. Determine if you believe it is appropriate to send him a message. This dream may be a reflection of the future. It may also be a manifestation of your unknown knowledge of this person. Have a great day, Jessica!

  23. I had a dream where I was in the park with one of my friends and a group of guys were talking to us
    Then when going to a different part of the park my friend told me that she thought a guy was hot, so when we all sat down, there wasn’t enough room for all of us to sit so I told on of the guys the plan which was to make sure that his friend sat next to my friend which meant he sat behind me so everyone else could fit the he put his arms around me and we sat there for ages. Later on in the dream we were dating and I seemed very happy. But I’ve never dated anyone in my life. What does this mean

    • Your dreams are reflections of your social relationships. You are aware that your friends may be interested in nourishing a new relationship. You may have similar feelings. Determine what you want for your future. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will bring positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Brooklyn!

  24. I dream about the guy when I’m having a relationship with him… Actually I almost saw him at the mall, but he refused to look at me when I’m just going to check his face like he totally knew me… My friend also saw him at the church… Actually, he is shock that all the characteristics I said was his characteristics! And is there a possibility he also dreamed about me after all what happened at the mall? Is there any chances I will met him in real life?

    • This dream is a reflection of your social and emotional desires. It is possible that you want to nourish a new relationship. This person may manifest in your future. Your friend may have seen this person as well. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Landerane!

  25. I had two dreams about this guy that goes to my church and like our parents know each other but we don’t really talk. But when I had both dreams, we were a dating and I felt like the happiest girl alive. He would encourage me and we would laugh together. We would do everything together like a regular couple and I have never had any dating experience in the real world but… The dream felt right and it felt so real to me. When i woke up, it was kinda weird cause i didn’t know what to feel cause I never felt that way Towards him. But yet now I want the relationship that we had in my dreams but I didn’t know what those dreams meant so…

    What does these dreams mean? And how does that connect to us?

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional connection with this person. You share similar religious beliefs. Your family likely supports the development of this relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You may strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Danny!

  26. I had weird dream about being at the beach and there’s a guy, I can’t see his face. I went in a store and he was also there, just standing and facing me from a small distance like observing what i’m doing. When I left the store, everything happen so fast and i’m the water and waves keep on coming. I don’t know how to swim but i’m not drowning and he was there, just standing by the shore and not doing anything.

    It happened twice.
    -strange man with face can’t be seen
    -beach
    -ocean waves
    -pulled in the water but not drowning

    • This dream may be a reflection of various influences in your life. The person may be a sign that you are interested in nourishing a new social and emotional relationship. The water is often a manifestation of a desire for change. Perhaps there will be benefit in taking this time to determine what you want for your future. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Juliet!

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