There are many things that a man likes to be called. Cute is probably not one of them. The thing about being called cute is that it can mean many different things. Cute is something you call a puppy dog. Cute is also something that you call a two-year-old, which would make you think that it isn’t something you’d call someone you are hot for, but is it? There are times when cute means so much more than what you think.
Cute is a term of endearment for women. The problem is that they don’t really understand how the comment comes across to the men in their lives. To a girl, “cute” is a saying that encompasses all the things that a girl wants. If someone calls you cute, don’t assume they want to set you up with their best friend or that they are condescending. Consider these other things that cute means.
These are the 20 things that being called cute can mean she is saying
Being cute doesn’t negate attraction.In fact, sometimes it is the cornerstone of it. Most women don’t talk in terms of “hotness”, cute is not only attainable but something that is boyfriend-material.
#1 You give my stomach butterflies – Cute doesn’t mean that you aren’t “hot”. It just means that you have a boyish good look that has something more special. Girls chase the “cute” boys at recess, not the ones who can bench lift 300 pounds or workout at the gym 24/7. You are naturally just attractive without all the handwork.
#2 You are crush material – Girls always have crushes on the cute boys. They are the ones that you want to land. They can make your heart soar and have you thinking that love exists. Crushes are even better than love because they are that much more exciting and child-like, which is what makes puppy love something you never forget.
#3 You are definitely boyfriend material – Someone who is cute is definitely boyfriend material. It means that you don’t pout when you don’t get your way, you aren’t into selfies, and you aren’t interested in every girl in the room thinking you are hot. You only care about the one girl that you have your eye on.
#4 You are funny – Cute boys typically encompass the funny factor. Cute is not like “he has a good personality,” which is aka he isn’t anything to look at. It truly means that you just have a good personality and make a girl laugh. That could mean that you are hot as hell or just hot enough. But, does it really matter? If she likes you, she likes you.
#5 You can be very charming – Cute boys are very charming, hence the “cute”. They have the perfect way to say things that make it sound complimentary or at least sweet. A cute boy has a built-in charm that he doesn’t have to work at, and it doesn’t come across as slimy or sleazy.
#6 You aren’t too serious – Cute people don’t take themselves, or anything else really, too seriously. All about being casual and yourself, you aren’t afraid to look silly and make fun of yourself. You also aren’t all about handing out your resume as an explanation of “why you should date me”. Your job isn’t what defines you; it is just a job, even if you make a lot of money and are very successful.
#7 You aren’t full of yourself – Someone who is called cute doesn’t even know they are attractive or desirable. When someone calls you cute, it means that your not someone who is into themselves more than they care about someone else. You are low maintenance and not all about the “me”.
#8 You aren’t all about the posing – A cute boy doesn’t have to show how hot he is, he just is.
#9 You don’t take longer than her to get ready – There is nothing more annoying than when a guy takes longer than you do to get ready. Girls want a boy that is cute without all the prep work.
#10 You are comfortable in your own skin – A boy who is cute is comfortable in his own skin. He doesn’t have to worry about whether you like him or how to make you like him. If you do, you just do.
#11 You are a little shy mixed with a little mysterious – It isn’t that cute boys aren’t mysterious too. A bit shy, there is something reserved about them that is attractive to girls.
#12 You are real – Cute guys are real. What they say is what they mean. Mostly outgoing and gregarious, they aren’t saying things just to get in your pants or flexing to show you how muscular they are. They are just damn cute!
#13 You aren’t going to play games – When you meet a cute guy, you know that he probably isn’t into playing games. All about the sweet and innocent, he isn’t counting how many days needed before he asks you out again, or racking up his score sheet. He is just out to have a good time and enjoy time together.
#14 You are more jeans than suit and tie – You can do anything with a boy who is cute. Hit the trails for a mountain hike, or settle in at the sports bar to catch a basketball game. Cute boys are all about living in the moment and not putting on a suit and tie to impress anyone.
#15 Your smile is engaging – There is NOTHING cuter than a cute guy’s smile. A cute boy’s smile is like watching a kitten video; your heart feels like it is going to explode with joy, and, you just want to see it over and over again.
#16 You have the boy next door appeal – It isn’t just boys who want the girl next door. Girls want that cute boy who they used to be too young for but would smile at them and say “hi”.
#17 You are slightly silly – Built into cute is something called silly. That means you can laugh at yourself and that you can laugh at things that sometimes aren’t that laughable. The cute guy is the one that you want at your side during the good and bad times because they make the bad ones not so bad.
#18 You are lighthearted – Not taking anything so serious, someone cute can take something and make it no big deal. Guys who are considered hot, make everything way too intense. Girls would rather the drama free cute, trust me.
#19 You can get along with anyone – When a girl dates a cute boy, they know they don’t have to babysit. No matter where you go, a cute boy can hold his own and doesn’t need someone to hold his hand. He also doesn’t make you worry that he is going to embarrass you.
#20 She trusts you – Above all, someone who is cute is just more trustable. She doesn’t have to worry that you are going to be turned on by someone else or that you are always looking for something better than what you have. Cute boys are content to be in love with the ones who love them back.
Guys have the wrong assumption that girls are looking for the hottest guy in the room. What most women know is that the hottest guy is all about him. He is looking for the hottest girl, who won’t ever be good enough. He will spend more time looking at himself in the mirror and at the gym than trying to make his date happy, and, most likely, will play games until he can’t anymore.
A cute guy is what women are all looking for. A cute guy is just as good looking but in a “total package” type way. He doesn’t take himself, or many things, too seriously. He is honest, hardworking and he loves the woman that he is with.
Every girl grows up dreaming about the cute boy next door, so stop thinking that someone telling you, you are cute, is a bad thing and embrace it. In the end, cuteness is more than just about the way that you look. It is about being exactly what the right girl wants and then some.