It’s not every day that a girl will call you daddy, but when she does it may take you by surprise. Not everyone is used to hearing it being said in such a way that doesn’t mean an actual father.
Most of the time you will hear this term being said to you in a sexual way. Otherwise it would just seem a little more weird. Even weirder than it may seem to you now.
There has to be some sort of sexual tension behind it in order for it to be… Well, be not super creepy.
However, we might find ourselves wondering why she calls you daddy in a sexual way? Where does it come from? Why that word?
It isn’t something that you should rack your brain over too hard, because it is very commonly said by women. Mostly to people they know fairly well, but occasionally to a stranger or passerbyer.
Contrary to some belief, when a girl calls you daddy it doesn’t mean that she has some weird fantasy about going all the way with her actual daddy.
There is usually no family dynamic to it at all.
Instead there are a few other reasons she might like using this term with you.
It’s Her Preference
Yep, honestly there is sometimes no other reason that she says it other than she really likes the way it sounds. Maybe she saw it in a movie one day and it stuck with her. She probably thinks that it has a nice ring to it. Whether or not you like it is up to you. However, she might really want to keep using it because she has habitually been saying it for a long period of time. You can always talk to her about it if you do not like her saying it to you. There are many other pet names that she can use with you in the bedroom and outside of it. Common ones like “baby” or “honey” can be used instead, because to her they mean the same thing. Daddy is just another term of endearment to her. If this is true, she will say it publicly and privately, because to her it is not all that sexual. Just a name that she likes to call you.
She Has Been Influenced By Porn
A lot of porn uses the term daddy as a dirty word to use when two people are being intimate with one another. We don’t assume this, but there are actually a good amount of women who watch porn. It’s not just for men. There is pornography that tailors to both sexes. She could have heard the word often in porn and has now started to think that it is a sexy term to use. Porn often influences the way that we act in the bedroom. If we watch a fair amount of it, that is. There is no guarantee this is why she says the term. It depends on each unique individual and their interest in porn.
She Likes That You’re Dominant
Women will say daddy because they want to have a submissive/dominant relationship with you when it comes to doing the dirty deed. Some women like to surrender ‘power’ in the bedroom to their man. This arouses them even more. She wants you to take control when it comes to that type of stuff. This doesn’t mean that she wants you to be overly controlling outside of those private times. She could call this to you outside of the bedroom just because she finds it sexy and she wants to tease you a little bit. There are just some women who like the feeling of dominance over them. Especially when it comes to intercourse.
You’re An Actual Daddy
Do you and her have a family together? Or do you have a child of your own? She actually might be calling you daddy because that is exactly what you are. You are the father in the family and she addresses you as so. This doesn’t always mean that she is saying it towards you sexually, but it is reserved to be said by someone who has great affection for you. This is not usually said by strangers or girls you are just getting to know. It is more commonly said if you two are married or have been dating long term.
She Feels Safe With You
There are girls who like to call you daddy because they feel as if you are their protector. This does not mean that she thinks of you as an actual father figure. However, she does think that you have taken on the role of being her safeguard in any situation. She feels comfortable and taken care of when she is around you and that is what makes her want to call you daddy on a regular basis.