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What Does It Mean When A Girl Calls You Daddy?


It’s not every day that a girl will call you daddy, but when she does it may take you by surprise. Not everyone is used to hearing it being said in such a way that doesn’t mean an actual father.

Most of the time you will hear this term being said to you in a sexual way. Otherwise it would just seem a little more weird. Even weirder than it may seem to you now.

There has to be some sort of sexual tension behind it in order for it to be… Well, be not super creepy.

However, we might find ourselves wondering why she calls you daddy in a sexual way? Where does it come from? Why that word?

It isn’t something that you should rack your brain over too hard, because it is very commonly said by women. Mostly to people they know fairly well, but occasionally to a stranger or passerbyer.

Contrary to some belief, when a girl calls you daddy it doesn’t mean that she has some weird fantasy about going all the way with her actual daddy.

There is usually no family dynamic to it at all.

Instead there are a few other reasons she might like using this term with you.

It’s Her Preference

Yep, honestly there is sometimes no other reason that she says it other than she really likes the way it sounds. Maybe she saw it in a movie one day and it stuck with her. She probably thinks that it has a nice ring to it. Whether or not you like it is up to you. However, she might really want to keep using it because she has habitually been saying it for a long period of time. You can always talk to her about it if you do not like her saying it to you. There are many other pet names that she can use with you in the bedroom and outside of it. Common ones like “baby” or “honey” can be used instead, because to her they mean the same thing. Daddy is just another term of endearment to her. If this is true, she will say it publicly and privately, because to her it is not all that sexual. Just a name that she likes to call you.

She Has Been Influenced By Porn

A lot of porn uses the term daddy as a dirty word to use when two people are being intimate with one another. We don’t assume this, but there are actually a good amount of women who watch porn. It’s not just for men. There is pornography that tailors to both sexes. She could have heard the word often in porn and has now started to think that it is a sexy term to use. Porn often influences the way that we act in the bedroom. If we watch a fair amount of it, that is. There is no guarantee this is why she says the term. It depends on each unique individual and their interest in porn.

She Likes That You’re Dominant

Women will say daddy because they want to have a submissive/dominant relationship with you when it comes to doing the dirty deed. Some women like to surrender ‘power’ in the bedroom to their man. This arouses them even more. She wants you to take control when it comes to that type of stuff. This doesn’t mean that she wants you to be overly controlling outside of those private times. She could call this to you outside of the bedroom just because she finds it sexy and she wants to tease you a little bit. There are just some women who like the feeling of dominance over them. Especially when it comes to intercourse.

You’re An Actual Daddy

Do you and her have a family together? Or do you have a child of your own? She actually might be calling you daddy because that is exactly what you are. You are the father in the family and she addresses you as so. This doesn’t always mean that she is saying it towards you sexually, but it is reserved to be said by someone who has great affection for you. This is not usually said by strangers or girls you are just getting to know. It is more commonly said if you two are married or have been dating long term.

She Feels Safe With You

There are girls who like to call you daddy because they feel as if you are their protector. This does not mean that she thinks of you as an actual father figure. However, she does think that you have taken on the role of being her safeguard in any situation. She feels comfortable and taken care of when she is around you and that is what makes her want to call you daddy on a regular basis.


    • Look back on the situation and determine her possible meaning. Take this time to determine your thoughts and feelings regarding the situation. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Keenan!

    • It is clear that she is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Francisco!

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Faith!

  1. My wife loves calling me daddy when I spank her during intercourse. I’m proud that we have a lasting and loving mutual understanding. Especially since our relationship is tense at times.

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Max!

  2. My girl calls me daddy like one day me and her are sitting next to each other and she cuddles me and says daddy what does that mean

    • I wouldn’t read too much into it. Sometimes, people use different terms of endearment just because it is what they are used to, they like it or they just can’t think of a different option. It might not mean anything at all–she may even be doing it because she thinks that you might like it. If you don’t like being called that, talk to her and brainstorm some new pet names. Good luck, Branden!

  3. My gf calls Me daddy in the bedroom, and it’s really hot but it’s also kind of creepy, especially afterwards. What can I do?

    • Her behaviors are likely reflections of her previous relationships and of the media that she consumes. She may find it to be very attractive and her actions may have been positively received in her previous relationships. Determine what you want for your sexual relationship. You may find that you will enjoy her terms or you may feel as though you want something different. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, John!

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