You noticed her from across the room. She looked at you, and her eyes met yours before she looked away. You didn’t think about it much at first, but then you noticed that she kept looking at you throughout the night. What does it really mean when a girl looks at you multiple times? Is she interested in you? Is something wrong with your outfit? What exactly is going on?
What Does It Really Mean When a Girl Looks at You Multiple Times?
There are generally two reasons why a girl might look at you multiple times. The first is that she is interested in you in some way. She might like you, or she might just think that you are extremely handsome. Either way, she is probably hoping that you will come over to talk to her.
The other main option is that she finds something about your look amusing. She might like your shirt, or she might find your entire look interesting. It might not be a bad thing, or she might think that you look cartoon-ish.
What Should You Do When a Girl Looks at You Multiple Times?
When a girl looks at you multiple times, it generally means that she is interested in you in some way. If you have never talked before, she might be hoping that you will try to chat her up. Your general course of action is to go talk to her. Her multiple looks are a hint that she wants you to talk to her, so go talk to her! It seems like she might like you, so talk to her if you think that you might like her back.
What If You Have Never Met Before?
If you have never met her before, the same advice still applies. Actually, it is even more likely that she is interested in you. Staring at someone or looking at them multiple times is quite forward if you have never met before. While it is not 100 percent sure, she most likely is interested in you in some way. Talk to her and see what happens.
The Meanings Behind the Stare
Multiple looks are one thing. Getting stared at is something entirely different. If she is staring at you, it can mean a number of things. If her stare seems rather blank, then you probably should not read too much into it. When someone is distracted and lost in thought, they will often stare blankly into the distance. The fact that you are in the way of her stare is just chance. If she is just daydreaming, then you will be able to tell when she finally realizes that she was staring blankly and turns away.
In other cases, the stare means something different. The best way for you to figure out what it means is to look at the rest of her behavior and mannerisms. Is she smiling? Does she blush when she notices you looking back at her? Does she give a “come hither” gaze? If she is smiling or blushes, then she is probably attracted to you and wants you to talk to her.
If her mannerisms are negative, then you should probably not assume that she is interested. If she frowns or turns away coldly, then something else is going on in her mind. She might be angry with you and wants you to know it. Someone may have told her something terrible about you that she disapproves of, so she was watching you closely. Whatever the reason, this is the type of case when you should not approach her. If she seems negative in any way, then she is probably not romantically interested in you.
Before you do anything, you have to determine exactly what her gaze means. Your main goal is to decide if it is positive or negative. If it is positive, then you won’t cause any harm by approaching her. If she seems upset or negative, then do not approach her. You might have to do some legwork to find out why she frowned while she stared, but the basic meaning is that you should not approach her.
When she smiles, blushes or seems positive, your next step is to approach her. Say hello, ask how her day is going and try to make small talk. If she seems interested in talking back and you are attracted to her, try to flirt back with her.
The main reason why a girl looks at you multiple times is because she likes you. Even if she does not know you yet, she may just find you attractive and wants to see if your personality is as good as your looks. The only way you can know where this attraction will go is by talking to her and finding out what happens.