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What Does It Mean When A Guy Blocks You?

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Guys are complicated creatures. They have a way of knocking a girl right off her feet and then leaving her cold and alone. Just when she gets used to the cold, he walks right back up and offers her a warm fire. It’s so confusing that girls are typically left with their heads spinning trying to keep up with his latest mood.

One of a guy’s favorite moves to knock a girl off balance is the cold shoulder. They like to pretend that women are the complicated ones that play mind games, but guys have an entire playbook of them and women hate mind games. Also, if a woman is thinking of giving a guy the cold shoulder, it’s normally because he did something idiotic. A guy just does it to see what happens and to force you into being the submissive one. At least that’s what it always seems like.

In order to figure out why guys decide to give a girl the cold shoulder, or block her suddenly, I went out and asked a few guys to explain their odd behavior. Hopefully this will help us to understand what is going on in their minds so that we aren’t so damn confused anymore. Here are the responses I got:

1. He got what he wanted from you and doesn’t care to see you anymore. This is well-known as the old hump ‘n dump. If a guy is only after one thing and he gets it, he has no use for you anymore. That is, unless a time comes around that he wants to get it again and then he’ll suddenly come back around.

2. He is no longer interested and doesn’t want you digging around in his business. There is normally a confrontation of some sort before this happens like a break-up, or an argument. Or maybe you know he was just cheating on your best friend and he doesn’t want that info leaking.

3. He is confused about his own emotions and is taking a break from you to figure them out. This is okay because it is better for you if he figures them out before getting you involved in any way. There is nothing worse than getting with a guy and then figuring out that he isn’t sure about his own intentions. He could also be really into you and confused about his reactions to you.

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4. He needs space and time to think. In order to have that quiet moment, he took you out of the picture. This is not necessarily a bad thing. He could be trying to figure out if he’s ready to propose, or if his head is in-line with his heart.

5. He is following bad advice to try and get you to miss him and realize your feelings for him. This is one of those mind games that men pull. Why not just ask you how you feel about him? No one really knows. But this is one of his go-to moves to have you eating out of the palm of his hand. It’s the old trick of calling you every day and then waiting you out to see if you’ll go to him.

6. He is trying to prove a point to you. Yes, it’s yet another mind game. Perhaps you disagreed with something he said and he is now trying to get the point across that if you don’t agree with him, he won’t like you. Blocking you is his way of shutting you out until you beg. Don’t beg.

7. He disagreed with you about something and doesn’t know how to talk to you about it, so he just cut off communication instead. This is pretty childish, but we have all done it in one way or another at some point. The blocking will probably only be temporary since the two of you will eventually forget about the whole disagreement.

8. He is tired of seeing your status updates about your meals, your workouts, and everything else that you are doing. Some people prefer simplicity and constant updates clog their feeds. Don’t take it personally; just shrug it off and move on.

If you get the sudden cold shoulder from a guy, at least you’ll have a few ideas about what could be causing the odd behavior. Just figure out if he’s worth it to you to go through the trouble of deciphering his reasons and getting him back. If he’s not, then just let it go and move on with your life. If you think he’s playing mind games, run in the other direction because he sucks and you don’t want to deal with that in your life. If you like him and think he’s worth it, then just ask him what’s up. It’s the easiest thing to do.

If He Likes Me Why Did He Block Me

There are many reasons why a guy might like you and still block you. If you are dating someone or seem like you might be about to date someone, he might have given up. He doesn’t want to see posts or photos of you with your potential boyfriend.



It is also entirely possible that he got tired of waiting. If he told you that he liked you more than a few weeks ago, he may have expected an answer of some sort before now. Before long, he became tired of waiting around to see if you would date him or ever like him back. Instead of remaining heartbroken forever, he has decided to move on.

There is also a chance that he is angry at you for some reason. Did you recently get into an argument? Did you do something to hurt his feelings? He may have blocked you because he is upset. He could still like you, but he just does not want to talk to you at the moment.

If a guy thinks that there is no potential relationship with you, he may block you and move on. It isn’t fair for him to wait around forever, so he may just give up and try to move on with his life.

Why Did He Block Me for No Reason

You know that you did not offend him. You never got into an argument or did anything wrong. So why did he block you for no reason? Unfortunately, you may never know the real answer to this.

While you cannot know the reason why, he does. There is no clear reason from your side of the equation, but he definitely had a reason for blocking you. He may be trying to “ghost” you, or he may have been tired of waiting for a relationship that wasn’t going to happen. Perhaps he found a new crush that he is about to start dating and didn’t want to tell you that. Whatever the case, he probably has a reason for blocking you.

If you don’t think that you did anything wrong, then you probably didn’t. Whatever his reason is, it is entirely his choice and not a reflection on you at all. His reason may be unfair, but you will never get to ask him about it now because he blocked you. If he never talked to you about the reason and just blocked you, this is a good sign that you should just move on—he either does not want a relationship or he isn’t emotionally ready for a relationship right now.

When a Guy Blocks You on WhatsApp

There are a few common reasons for why a guy might block you on WhatsApp. When a guy blocks you on WhatsApp, it generally means that he is not interested in a relationship or he is upset for some reason. If you know that you did nothing to offend him or make him angry, then take this as a sign that he does not want to pursue the relationship further and move on.

Some of the most common reasons for when a guy blocks you on WhatsApp include:

– He wanted something more from your relationship than he is currently getting.
– He has a new girlfriend or someone who he thinks is about to be his girlfriend.
– He is upset, angry or offended about something.
– He was too cowardly to tell you that he wasn’t interested anymore.
– He wanted a casual fling, but he realized that you wanted more out of the relationship.
– He is tired of messaging you for whatever reason.

Again, the one thing that you know for sure is that you should move on. Even if he gets over his reason for blocking you, blocking someone is not what emotionally mature people do in a relationship.

Why Would a Guy Block You on Facebook

The meaning behind a guy blocking you on Facebook depends a lot on your current relationship. Did you just break up? Were you just flirting a bit and he suddenly disappeared? Are you only friends?

If you just broke up, then he probably blocked you so that he no longer has to see your photos or be tempted to message you again. He wants to move on, and this is the best way that he can think of to heal and show you that it is really over.

If you are currently in a relationship, he may have blocked you because he is angry after a fight or wants to break up. He may also be afraid of where the relationship is heading. If you just started dating, he may have realized that the relationship was going to be more serious than he meant it to be, so he wants to avoid committing anymore.

If he was just a friend, then it is most likely that he was angry or he has a girlfriend who doesn’t want him to message you. It is also possible that he wanted to be more than just friends. When he realized that you were only interested in friendship, he decided to save himself the heartache and move on.

He Blocked Me on His Phone

If he blocked you on his phone, it definitely means that he does not want to talk to you again—at least, not in the near future. Before you try to figure out why he blocked you, remember to respect his boundaries. Blocking you is a clear sign that he does not want to talk, so don’t try to force him to.

A guy can block you on his phone for a number of different reasons. He may be a coward and wanted to break up without having to actually tell you. He could just be upset about something. Perhaps he realized that you only wanted friendship and decided to move on. Whatever the reason, the one thing that you know for sure is that he is done talking. For the moment, all you can do is respect his need for space and stop talking to him.

Blocking you can happen because a guy needs space. He may not want to hurt himself anymore by talking to you, or he may be afraid of hurting you by blowing up after a break up. In some cases, guys will even block someone to hurt or manipulate her. He may want to show that he has the power and make you crawl back to him. Don’t give him the satisfaction.

Why Did He Block Me on Everything?

You thought that he may have just needed space when you noticed that you were blocked on Facebook. Then, you noticed that he blocked you on everything. What does he mean by this and what should you do about it?

Whatever his reasons are, a guy clearly does not want to talk if he blocked you on everything. He went out of his way to block you on each social media account, app and phone. The best thing you can do is avoid talking to him. He clearly does not want to talk and needs his space, so respect that boundary.

If a guy blocks you on everything, it is unlikely that he wants a relationship. It may be his way of breaking things off or showing you that he doesn’t want to pursue a relationship. He could be angry at you, but he could also just be tired of talking when he doesn’t want your conversations to lead to anything. Whatever the case, his actions are a sign that you should just forget about him and move on.

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  1. His friends keep making moves on me and I got so angry or night that I called him to tell him about what had happened. He got mad that I told him. That ticked me off and I kinda went crazy on him. Told him that his friends act the way they do because he talks about me to them. He told me to delete his number. I told him I won’t be told by him what to do. He blocked me on Whatsapp but started texting me on Facebook Messenger. When I pointed that out he blocked me on Facebook as well. The next day he slept over at my place but still hasn’t unblocked me.

    • He is unwilling to treat you with the respect that you require for this relationship. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide if you believe this relationship is viable. Ensure that if this relationship continues, that he is more understanding of your needs and respectful of your desires. Have a great day, Yolanda!

  2. Hi. My boyfriend of two years and I were in a long distance relationship. We loved each other so much and We’ve never met each other in person. I wanted to move to his place. I was really serious about that. We talked on the phone 24/7. He bought me beautiful presents and we talked about future, marriage and etc .. I don’t know what happened to him..all of sudden he said: I have many problems and I can’t be responsible for you! First we need to see each other in person and find out if we can live together. But I was disagree because he changed his words. Long story short, he blocked me on every social media! It’s been 3 months since he blocked me. I talked to him one month after the break up. Ask him if we can stay in touch till I move on to his place. He said he doesn’t think about the relationship at the moment and we can stay friends! But I refused and said goodbye to him. Last week I deleted my telegram account and registered for a new account. He found out and blocked me again! Now I have three questions :1.why he still has my number? 2.why he blocked me even when I said to him it’s over? His reaction confused me. 3.we really loved each other but he has some bad relationships in the past and some economic issues at the moment. In total he’s a pessimistic person. Will he come back again and unblock me?? Have you any suggestion? Thanks for your time and help ^__^

    • His behaviors may be indications that he is unable or unwilling to maintain this relationship with you. He may feel as though this relationship is not viable, as the distance between you may have caused him to feel this way. There may be someone else in his life. Regardless of the reasons for his actions, he has decided to end this relationship with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Learn from this relationship. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Peggy!

  3. Hi my name is sarah i’ve been also in a long distance relationship my bf and I were okay no problem at all.. and then one day i met a guy when i attended event my friend invited me at first i didn’t noticed him and he’s not my type but i find him cute anyways we became friends and i can say that we have a lot in common most esp when it comes to humor and interest after chatting and talking to him a few weeks or months he confessed that he had a crush on me before since the first time he saw me and he’s telling me a lot of story he noticed every details about me at first i don’t believe him but after telling me accurate stories about me since day 1 we met i started believing on him now he’s telling me that he loves me and he can’t live without me i can’ t control my self but also fall in love with him but i keep on controlling my self because i already have a bf.. I ask him to stay away from him because i know it’s not good that i’m falling inlove with someone else while i have a bf what can i do need advice. Thank you!

    • You are in a relationship. Allow thoughts of this other person to fade. Do not attempt to harm your current partner. If you are no longer happy in your current relationship, then determine what you want for your future. Do not attempt to nourish a new relationship while you are currently maintaining one. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Sara!

  4. I initiated the break up in the first place because he refused to give me reasons for the dumb things that he has done. A week later I regretted my decision and we met up to talk and I pretty much told him all the stuff that he did that make me really angry/ upset in the relationship, he didn’t say anything but we kind of got back together. A few days later, we were talking on fb and decide we will meet the next day. Next day comes around and I suddenly saw that he blocked me on fb?! I called him once, didn’t pick up and I left it there. It has been about 5 weeks since that incident, we had no contact at all. I’m still curious why he did that and I’m deciding if I should just forgive and forget and move on…thoughts? Thank you 🙂

    • You decided to end this relationship. You attempted to rekindle the relationship. He decided to block you. His behaviors are reflections of his feelings and influences. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Chelsea!

  5. Hi im in high school and there has been a boy. he started to talk to me in the hall ways. then when days went we are in the hall so he asked me to give him a huge. after that his friends came out the class room and said is that your girlfriend. then he said yes. so in my mind i wondered what was going on. then when lunch came he asked for my imformation. i gave it to him. ever since then every time when we see each other in school he would huge me. sometimes he would text me. then a few days later we saw each other again this time we kissed. then every thing was still in. days pass on and i was at home then he texted me. he said the word “ayee” so i said “sup” after that he didnt text me back but he did read what i sent him. the next day i wanted to text him. then i looked he blocked me. so now he goes to a different school. and he didn’t text me back yet its been about 7 or 6 days. what should i do?

    • He was interested in developing a relationship with you. He is now going to a different school. He may not feel that this relationship is viable. He chosen to end this relationship in an inappropriate manner. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Take this time to determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Jeni!

  6. Hi I’m a university student. I met him at pub a month ago and then we talked .One day , I drunk and I said stupid thing with him like he playing Facebook but not answering my text messages . Thus , I texted him again and he said whatever I’m done. After that, he blocked my Instagram , my Facebook .A few days ago , he unblocked me and I met him by chance . So I say Hi to him and he said ” How are you ? and he also asked who do you with ? Why do you come here ? and then I walked away . Do you think he still wants to talk with me ?

    • He has unblocked you. He was uncertain as to why he saw you. He walked away, which may mean that he is uncomfortable. Give him an opportunity to reach out to you. Determine what you want for your future. Perhaps attempt to speak with him again. You may find benefit in allowing him to fade from your thoughts. Have a great day, Nan!

  7. I had an ex boyfriend he blocked me in all social media account, but there were really times that he used to unblocked me, then after several days i will be block then unblock again. Sometimes i am really curious that he really took an effort just to block and unblock me? For what purposes? I just cant understand.

    • His behaviors are indications that he is unable or unwilling to maintain a healthy relationship with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Determine what you want for your future without him. If he speaks to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Megan!

  8. Hi,

    Recently, a man I have been dating (who has a potentially life-threatening illness), has deleted and blocked me from all social media accounts, but still has my number (I can see my messages are going through).

    Things were going so great. He wasn’t responding as much lately but I chalked it up to him not feeling well from treatment for his illness. We literally texted the morning before he deleted me on social media.

    What could this possibly mean?

    • He has chosen to delete and block you. This may be due to a variety of reasons. If you believe this is out of character, then he may be having emotional stress. Perhaps attempt to reach out to him. He may no longer be interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Determine what you believe is appropriate. If he reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Fanny!

  9. Its been 3months since we broke up with my ex. And honestly, there were really times i miss him. Now im good in my life. And ive been chatting and dating with a guy now and it makes me feel good anyway. But i one day, i saw my ex in my dreams, i dont how i was able to dreamt about him while, i totally moved on already. I dont know what does it mean.

    • Your dreams about your ex are reflections of your previous emotional connection with him. You are in a relationship at this time, and you have developed a strong relationship with him. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy on your current partner, as this will strengthen your current relationship. Have a great day, Megan!

  10. I know a man (age 47)three months ago, he is 5yrs older than me. Since day 1 .. we chat everyday, we shared everything (hobbies, food, work, family, parents , plan trip together and plan for retirement, etc )and we were so connected, care for each other just like soulmate.
    We went for vacation and everything went well. Though we don’t have much time together when we are back (due to work /travel).. but we stay in touch everyday. Lately I know he is facing a lot of pressure with his business.. but our communication (through message) continue, caring and loving . But no sure why suddenly he stop replying my message and the next day he blocked me (call and WhatsApp)
    I’m shattered.. I miss him so much and desperately hope to hear from him. I have been think again and again but totally no clue why he do this to me. There wasn’t any argument or disagreement.. we were all good .. and supposed to go for another short trip together soon.
    Can you tell me what could be the reason that he suddenly blocked me? I can’t even think of 1 reason..

    • He has blocked you. You are aware of one possible reason, though you have not mentioned it. That indicates that your reason is likely personal, and therefore is the most likely reason. He has blocked you, so you can not confirm your thoughts. Because of this, allow your emotional connection with him to fade. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Leng!

  11. Hi I don’t know where to start because my situation is kind of complicated I have met a guy in a website dating website we have been talking for three months in the time that we were decided to Met he started in a big argument with me about I change with him I’m not honest with him but truly deep I was always honest with him when I get off from work I text him I tell him I’m off from work everything I always text him and tell him what I’m doing what I’m not doing but suddenly it was on Sunday afternoon was at work when I came back home in the afternoon at 8 PM I text him I said baby I’m home and then he just text back and said OK baby so I was waiting till he text me back but he didn’t and I fell asleep of the sofa and after 2 to 3 hours he told me good night we will talk tomorrow before I leave because he was coming on Monday for us to meet Just because he didn’t have a quick replied he text me a whole long romance text talking about I change with him I was never honest with him and said since I came from the Halloween party I’m all the time online and that’s not true , and we was keep on discuss ! Suddenly he wrote me a long ass texts and he block me everywhere on WhatsApp and Instagram ! But this guy are really interested in him and I wanna get to know him I buy me a extra sim card I put on my phone I text him he replied but his reply was kind of cold He said OK we will make a deal on July will be my birthday you can keep the sim card so that you can text me that time then we will find a way to meet so I questioned him why you don’t unblock me from my normal number his reply was if I am block you you will always wanna know what I’m doing because at that time I don’t have enough time. To replied and if I’m not replied on time you will get mad I’m working every day I’m trying to build my house and I’m not ready for stress ! But he said he was going to unblock me on Instagram but tell now he don’t do it and that place why should I do should I just leave him alone or remind him ? Juliy 2019 is a long way to wait on a guy and you’re not even going to text with him whole time I thought maybe the feeling will goes way But I guess I have to be patient because I’m not into any other guy then him!

    • His behavior are indications that he is not someone who is willing to treat you with respect. He has blocked you, which may mean that he is not taking your relationship seriously. You will find benefit in allowing this relationship to fade. Determine what you want for your future without him. You may want to attempt to nourish relationships with people that you meet in person. Please share your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Rosena!

  12. Hi sisters
    I met with medical doctor in hospital.He is plastic surgeon.im very lucky about beauty,as people mentioned im very cute natural beautiful girl without aestetic operation.He called me closer,(his excuse was showing celebrates photoshop in his laptop,but he is always looked my lips several times -not too much plump but well-shape lips i have) then he added my phone number on whatsapp. He always checked my whatsapp status even at 03.00 am ..When he shared whatsapp status i wrote some compliment , (during 2 weeks) he shares some photos on his instagram with his female patients ,female doctors and nurses.he is in unneccesary sincerity with them.(im not right at this stage of our contidion i did failure i accept that but done ) last a few days i critized him about his relation and, he dont reply. we were already silent lovers no text no calling. But he angry and blocked me yesterday.
    Okay no contact.. i trust only my beauty and cuteness
    If i keep my mouth,and no contact will he open my block?
    What can i do?please help me
    Thanks a lot

    • If he stopped replying, he might not even notice that you blocked him. I wouldn’t expect him to get back to you because he clearly took the first step in not contacting you, so it must be what he wanted at that time. Reaching out to him might not work either though, for exactly the same reason. Unless he changes his mind on his own and decides to reach out to you again. there might not be anything you can do other than hope for the best. Good luck, Surya!

  13. And the other question i wonder is he checking my whatsapp status still with an another person’s phone? (For example his brother’s phone )
    Many thanks

    • It is entirely possible that he could use someone else’s phone to check your WhatsApp status, but it is just as likely that he moved on. Whatever the case, all you can do right now is wait and hope for the best.

  14. Hii..
    I was dating a guy.
    It was a long distance relarionship and we were madly in love with each other.
    He always used to initiate contact and used to talk to me every single day. He used to call me all the time.
    But he had some issues with his family and past relationships.
    And one day we were having a normal conversation when suddenly my friends started pulling his leg. He was already in a bad mood that day so he cut the call and blocked me from everywhere.
    My friend said sorry to him and asked him to talk to me because i did nothing wrong.
    So he unblocked me and called me and told me not to worry but since he has blocked me for a small issue he thinks he is not worthy of my love and that he feels guilty that he has hurt me and doesnt want to do that to me so we break up.
    I told him that we can work things out but he said whats done is done and cant change that.
    He talked to me the whole night.
    And the next morning until he fell asleep.
    The entire time he was talking i could see that he loves me.
    But he said that in his past relationship when he gave chances to his ex ,she used to bring his mistakes back in the argument and so he doesnt want the same thing happen with.
    Initially he blocked me again because he didnt want to give me any hope.
    But i feel so hurt because we had a beautiful relationship and never had any kind of argument.
    Do you think he would unblock me again?

    • He has personal issues that he is dealing with, and those are related to his previous relationship. He likely feels embarrassed, and this has led to him blocking you again. It is likely that he cares for you. You may want to determine what you want for your future. You can speak with him again. Inform him that you do not think that he behaved inappropriately and that you will not bring this up in the future. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Annya!

  15. Basically, a guy friend of mine (we rarely talk) called me and told me about how him and his girlfriend broke up and how heartbroken he is. He explained the story and i was listening and giving advice. He told me that he didn’t trust anybody, including me. He opened up a lot and laughed a lot when we talked. He told me I made him feel better and then we ended our call to go sleep. The next day, I wanted to see if he was okay but it sent as a regular text message, so i figured his iMessage was turned off. Today, I tried calling him and it went straight to voicemail and my friend called him and he answered. That’s when I knew I was blocked. I’m assuming he’s back with his girlfriend because he isn’t the type to block someone, regardless on what they did. Maybe I did something wrong? I don’t know. I’m confused right now and I need help 🙁 I don’t want to lose him as a friend because he’s been there for me for literally everything. We rarely talk, but when I need someone he’s there. I don’t know…I’m just lost and I’m not gonna hit him up on social media because that’s pushing it a little too much. :/

    • You didn’t do anything wrong. He decided to act inappropriately. This may be because he decided to attempt to nourish his current relationship. It is unfortunate that he chose to treat you poorly. Do not attempt to reach out to him at this time. If he reaches out to you in the future, then determine what you want for your relationship at that time. Ensure that you continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Jess!

  16. Hi i have this friend. We talk everyday then suddenly i told him that i miss him. Then he responded that he is focusing in his studies blah blah. Then i told him that i just miss him as a friend. I said i was just saying that i miss him I didn’t say that i like him. And then i told him I’m just really sweet to all so dont misunderstood me. Then he block me afterwards. Do you think he likes me? Im confusing why does he block me for that?

    • He informed you that he is focusing on his studies. You reached out to him, but you may have continued a conversation that he was not interested in having. There may be many reasons for why he decided to block you. Since he did, you should not attempt to reach out to him at this time. Determine what you want for your future without him. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Simple!

  17. I was in a complicated relationship with my ex when I met this super nice guy. He knew that I was still committed but stayed with me because he said he’s really interested in me. However, since I’m still in love with the coward (my ex), I was being so cold and rude to this guy (poor him) then one day we had a little argument and I ignored him for days and when I realized that he might me the one he completely vanished, didn’t want to talk to me and he even blocked me on everything. I was able to give my apology but never heard from him again. I’m planning to surprise him on my birthday. The plan is to dine with my friend in this resto where he’s working at, he’s a chef by the way. But something is holding me back, should I go for it? What if he never wanna see me?

    • You chose to treat this person poorly, and he left as you were in a relationship. His behavior was perfectly appropriate and acceptable. It seems as though you are no longer in a relationship with your ex, so determine what you want for your future. Reach out to this other person, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Sarah!

  18. Hi. I was in a complicated relationship when I met this super nice guy. He knew I was committed but he stayed anyway. He said that he’s really into me. However, since I was still so in love with a coward (my ex), I was a complete asshole to him, I’m rude and ignores him alot (poor guy). Honestly, I kept him as a rebound. Then one day we had an argument and didn’t message him for days. Funny thing is, I realised that I misses him and thought he might be the one after all. So I apologized to this guy but never accepted it. After a few days, I learned that he blocked me on everything without a word. I don’t want to lose him so I came up with a plan. Next week is my bday and I invited my friend to have dinner with me in this resto where he’s working at, he’s a chef by the way. However, something is holding me back, should I go for it? What if he never wanted to see me?

    • You chose to treat this person poorly, and he left as you were in a relationship. His behavior was perfectly appropriate and acceptable. It seems as though you are no longer in a relationship with your ex, so determine what you want for your future. Reach out to this other person, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Sarah!

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