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What Does It Mean When A Guy Blocks You?

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Guys are complicated creatures. They have a way of knocking a girl right off her feet and then leaving her cold and alone. Just when she gets used to the cold, he walks right back up and offers her a warm fire. It’s so confusing that girls are typically left with their heads spinning trying to keep up with his latest mood.

One of a guy’s favorite moves to knock a girl off balance is the cold shoulder. They like to pretend that women are the complicated ones that play mind games, but guys have an entire playbook of them and women hate mind games. Also, if a woman is thinking of giving a guy the cold shoulder, it’s normally because he did something idiotic. A guy just does it to see what happens and to force you into being the submissive one. At least that’s what it always seems like.

In order to figure out why guys decide to give a girl the cold shoulder, or block her suddenly, I went out and asked a few guys to explain their odd behavior. Hopefully this will help us to understand what is going on in their minds so that we aren’t so damn confused anymore. Here are the responses I got:

1. He got what he wanted from you and doesn’t care to see you anymore. This is well-known as the old hump ‘n dump. If a guy is only after one thing and he gets it, he has no use for you anymore. That is, unless a time comes around that he wants to get it again and then he’ll suddenly come back around.

2. He is no longer interested and doesn’t want you digging around in his business. There is normally a confrontation of some sort before this happens like a break-up, or an argument. Or maybe you know he was just cheating on your best friend and he doesn’t want that info leaking.

3. He is confused about his own emotions and is taking a break from you to figure them out. This is okay because it is better for you if he figures them out before getting you involved in any way. There is nothing worse than getting with a guy and then figuring out that he isn’t sure about his own intentions. He could also be really into you and confused about his reactions to you.

4. He needs space and time to think. In order to have that quiet moment, he took you out of the picture. This is not necessarily a bad thing. He could be trying to figure out if he’s ready to propose, or if his head is in-line with his heart.

5. He is following bad advice to try and get you to miss him and realize your feelings for him. This is one of those mind games that men pull. Why not just ask you how you feel about him? No one really knows. But this is one of his go-to moves to have you eating out of the palm of his hand. It’s the old trick of calling you every day and then waiting you out to see if you’ll go to him.

6. He is trying to prove a point to you. Yes, it’s yet another mind game. Perhaps you disagreed with something he said and he is now trying to get the point across that if you don’t agree with him, he won’t like you. Blocking you is his way of shutting you out until you beg. Don’t beg.

7. He disagreed with you about something and doesn’t know how to talk to you about it, so he just cut off communication instead. This is pretty childish, but we have all done it in one way or another at some point. The blocking will probably only be temporary since the two of you will eventually forget about the whole disagreement.

8. He is tired of seeing your status updates about your meals, your workouts, and everything else that you are doing. Some people prefer simplicity and constant updates clog their feeds. Don’t take it personally; just shrug it off and move on.

If you get the sudden cold shoulder from a guy, at least you’ll have a few ideas about what could be causing the odd behavior. Just figure out if he’s worth it to you to go through the trouble of deciphering his reasons and getting him back. If he’s not, then just let it go and move on with your life. If you think he’s playing mind games, run in the other direction because he sucks and you don’t want to deal with that in your life. If you like him and think he’s worth it, then just ask him what’s up. It’s the easiest thing to do.

If He Likes Me Why Did He Block Me

There are many reasons why a guy might like you and still block you. If you are dating someone or seem like you might be about to date someone, he might have given up. He doesn’t want to see posts or photos of you with your potential boyfriend.

It is also entirely possible that he got tired of waiting. If he told you that he liked you more than a few weeks ago, he may have expected an answer of some sort before now. Before long, he became tired of waiting around to see if you would date him or ever like him back. Instead of remaining heartbroken forever, he has decided to move on.

There is also a chance that he is angry at you for some reason. Did you recently get into an argument? Did you do something to hurt his feelings? He may have blocked you because he is upset. He could still like you, but he just does not want to talk to you at the moment.

If a guy thinks that there is no potential relationship with you, he may block you and move on. It isn’t fair for him to wait around forever, so he may just give up and try to move on with his life.

Why Did He Block Me for No Reason

You know that you did not offend him. You never got into an argument or did anything wrong. So why did he block you for no reason? Unfortunately, you may never know the real answer to this.

While you cannot know the reason why, he does. There is no clear reason from your side of the equation, but he definitely had a reason for blocking you. He may be trying to “ghost” you, or he may have been tired of waiting for a relationship that wasn’t going to happen. Perhaps he found a new crush that he is about to start dating and didn’t want to tell you that. Whatever the case, he probably has a reason for blocking you.

If you don’t think that you did anything wrong, then you probably didn’t. Whatever his reason is, it is entirely his choice and not a reflection on you at all. His reason may be unfair, but you will never get to ask him about it now because he blocked you. If he never talked to you about the reason and just blocked you, this is a good sign that you should just move on—he either does not want a relationship or he isn’t emotionally ready for a relationship right now.

When a Guy Blocks You on WhatsApp

There are a few common reasons for why a guy might block you on WhatsApp. When a guy blocks you on WhatsApp, it generally means that he is not interested in a relationship or he is upset for some reason. If you know that you did nothing to offend him or make him angry, then take this as a sign that he does not want to pursue the relationship further and move on.

Some of the most common reasons for when a guy blocks you on WhatsApp include:

– He wanted something more from your relationship than he is currently getting.
– He has a new girlfriend or someone who he thinks is about to be his girlfriend.
– He is upset, angry or offended about something.
– He was too cowardly to tell you that he wasn’t interested anymore.
– He wanted a casual fling, but he realized that you wanted more out of the relationship.
– He is tired of messaging you for whatever reason.

Again, the one thing that you know for sure is that you should move on. Even if he gets over his reason for blocking you, blocking someone is not what emotionally mature people do in a relationship.

Why Would a Guy Block You on Facebook

The meaning behind a guy blocking you on Facebook depends a lot on your current relationship. Did you just break up? Were you just flirting a bit and he suddenly disappeared? Are you only friends?

If you just broke up, then he probably blocked you so that he no longer has to see your photos or be tempted to message you again. He wants to move on, and this is the best way that he can think of to heal and show you that it is really over.

If you are currently in a relationship, he may have blocked you because he is angry after a fight or wants to break up. He may also be afraid of where the relationship is heading. If you just started dating, he may have realized that the relationship was going to be more serious than he meant it to be, so he wants to avoid committing anymore.

If he was just a friend, then it is most likely that he was angry or he has a girlfriend who doesn’t want him to message you. It is also possible that he wanted to be more than just friends. When he realized that you were only interested in friendship, he decided to save himself the heartache and move on.

He Blocked Me on His Phone

If he blocked you on his phone, it definitely means that he does not want to talk to you again—at least, not in the near future. Before you try to figure out why he blocked you, remember to respect his boundaries. Blocking you is a clear sign that he does not want to talk, so don’t try to force him to.

A guy can block you on his phone for a number of different reasons. He may be a coward and wanted to break up without having to actually tell you. He could just be upset about something. Perhaps he realized that you only wanted friendship and decided to move on. Whatever the reason, the one thing that you know for sure is that he is done talking. For the moment, all you can do is respect his need for space and stop talking to him.

Blocking you can happen because a guy needs space. He may not want to hurt himself anymore by talking to you, or he may be afraid of hurting you by blowing up after a break up. In some cases, guys will even block someone to hurt or manipulate her. He may want to show that he has the power and make you crawl back to him. Don’t give him the satisfaction.

Why Did He Block Me on Everything?

You thought that he may have just needed space when you noticed that you were blocked on Facebook. Then, you noticed that he blocked you on everything. What does he mean by this and what should you do about it?

Whatever his reasons are, a guy clearly does not want to talk if he blocked you on everything. He went out of his way to block you on each social media account, app and phone. The best thing you can do is avoid talking to him. He clearly does not want to talk and needs his space, so respect that boundary.

If a guy blocks you on everything, it is unlikely that he wants a relationship. It may be his way of breaking things off or showing you that he doesn’t want to pursue a relationship. He could be angry at you, but he could also just be tired of talking when he doesn’t want your conversations to lead to anything. Whatever the case, his actions are a sign that you should just forget about him and move on.

448 COMMENTS

  1. Hi my story is I was going through with depression and I met this guy in tinder and his a pilot and he was looking a girl to Settle down I started talking to him and in first day of talk he send me his naked picture I told him I don’t like all that and than we use text lot and we both Started having feelings for each other he use tell me that he likes me and than we decided to meet and we started hanging out every week he was living alone And his a pilot his always away for 4 days I always used to go put dinner for him I was giving him so many things and on his free time he use to spend it with me he was not meeting any other girls and my friend took his number from my phone and this guy and my friend they was talking and later on I find out I told him that I don’t wanna talk to him anymore and than he say he won’t talk to my friend anymore now And they still use to talk but he never meet my friend my friend always ask him to meet he say no To her but I was still meeting him because when I’m with him I feel so good he make me feel so good and finally I was in love with him I told him how I feel about him and he say we still can be good friends and still we was meeting each other he use to kiss me even he had sex with me I just don’t know why I started to think he flirting With many girls I use to give him so much stress I always say bad things to him but he never say anything bad to me I treat him so bad and I went to see him at his place without telling him and he was not at home I message him he told me he went out to help his mate and I say bad things to him like I’m tried of him and don’t waste my time same day I drink a lot and I went to his house night time I don’t know what I did And same night I got accident I message him that I got accident he haven’t reply me next morning he message me he told me he doesn’t wanna meet me anymore because I always give him stress and than I told him let’s block each other’s number I thought he won’t going to block me but he did block me in whatapp I started missing him He haven’t blocked my phone number so after 8 days later I message that I wanna sit down and talk he say there is nothing to talk about and I started apologising to him and block my number without saying anything I really need help please I need to know what should I do

    • It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer each comment individually before it appears on the site, so it may sometimes take a little bit before you see a response. If you do not see it right away, you will. Thanks for commenting!

  2. I met this guy on tagged a dating site apps. We used to be a girlfriend/boyfriend. I found him he was a good guy,have respect like hes beyond perfect. We vcall and chat everyday. And one i fall inlove with him and he also. He told me he has a depression,and hes struggling about it,and he told me that he was from a 10yrs relationship and this year january the woman left him,without any information where he can find. I know the depresrion that he feels is for the 10yrs relationship. He stopped talking to me,and after a week he came back and its because i love him so i continued talking to him,until this time again this week,monday he didnt reply me only seen in my message,and seeing him online and never replied to me. The next day,i tried to call him and send him a message and then after that he blocked me in all social media.. I dont know if he would comeback again. Im willing to wait how long,. I need some advise or what you think.. Please thanks

    • I would just leave him alone for now. He may have realized that he was not ready for a relationship, or he may have discovered he was too afraid that his heart would just get broken again. After such a traumatic breakup, it could be months or longer before he feels ready to move on. If you do plan on waiting for him, expect it to potentially take a while. Good luck, Angie!

  3. I have been dating this guy for 3 months. He was everything I wanted and he said the same of me. He had been busy with work recently, so we haven’t been in contact or seen each other in a month. Few days ago, I found out he has blocked my number not only on WhatsApp, but my number from calling. I have given him space, and probably just texted once a week to check in, in which he did not respond to. He doesn’t seem like a guy who would do this. What should I do?

    • Something in his life influenced him to block you. There may have been another person in his life. Regardless of the reason, he is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you at this time. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Karlie!

  4. I was in no contact mode with my ex for 3 years – he broke up with me but never really broke up with me…so I had to guess it was over and call him to ask. That’s how low the break up was, getting past it was hard – took years but during the 3 years no contact, he constantly kept texting and would occasionally call and leave voicemails – I never replied. One day I cracked, after 3 years I texted him and we started talking – right away he was calling, messaging. He also told me he wanted to see me and he still thought about us being intimate and wanted it. After about 2/3 months randomly messaging, talking and some teasing…I was beginning to wonder if he had changed , if this was our second try…to be honest I never stopped loving him and I knew that’s where i always got caught – I cared and he always used that. Anyway, one day we got carried away, video chatted…after that, messages got less frequent but if if he did message it was straight to the point he wanted to meet in person, he wanted sex. I was considering it because I was getting drawn back. One day he texted me, I went to check it and realized he blocked me on whatsapp – I messaged on fb messenger “blocked?” He read that then I guess blocked my messages there too – I can see his profile but messages aren’t delivered. I wanted to test it, called and went straight to voicemail – he blocked me on everything. After 3 years of him trying to get me to talk to him, I relied and then outta the blue he blocks? Is it a power thing – now he’s the one not talking to me ? Is it revenge ? I don’t get it because it did hurt a little , too – I knew it was playing with fire to respond and I wish I never did but why do I feel sad about this? Will he come back around – is this thing just a game?

    • He blocked you years ago. He decided to block you again. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. If he reaches out to you in the future, then do not respond to him. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Emma!

  5. Did no contact with my ex after he ended the relationship – I did no contact for 3 years but during that 3 years, he kept texting , called occasionally , left voicemails. I ignored them all because when we broke up it was so hard on me – he had already moved on and basically started to ghost at the end. We never had a real break up, he was just way less accessible or reachable and it was just pain for me to go through. I always thought about him though, wondered if we took another shot if he would be different, if we would make it work but time went by after 3 years I was finally able to be happy, I didn’t cry every day anymore and my life – I rebuilt it and it was amazing. 3 years no replying to him and then I cracked….I messaged and he messaged right away. We talked on the phone. He told me he still thinks about us, wanted to see me but I drew the line at talking. Just texts after that, barely anything other than him reminiscing about our intimate moments, me admitting I remembered. About 3 months went by, one night we vid chatted , it turned a little intimate. After that, his messages were just straight to the point – when could he see me for real , when were we gonna hook up etc. Then barely any communication, a random text or two , a meme…then one day I texted to see if he’d reply – he did but it was very to the point, he wanted to hook up. When I went to read his message, realized I was blocked on whatsapp – sent a message on fb to say I was “confused – hot one day then blocked?” He read it and ignored message there…also blocked on his phone because calls go straight to voicemail.
    I was the one not responding as quickly or too busy for him this time ..but we were opening up that connection and he knew he was wearing me down. I don’t understand why he would block like this ? Esp after all the years of my silence and him trying …is it revenge? Just to get to me ? Why do I feel upset over it 🙁

    • He blocked you years ago. He decided to block you again. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. If he reaches out to you in the future, then do not respond to him. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Emma!

      • He didn’t block me years ago – I was ignoring him for 3 years. He continually tried to get my attention, texted, called. It’s only now after the 3 years that I responded and we talked for a couple months when it seemed like things were building up, he blocked outta the blue. 🙄 I know blocking is pretty clear I just don’t understand it in this situation. I. The 3 years I was ignoring him , he called, texted – he even emailed and called from other numbers so to get through to me only to block…why does it bug me like this? I had moved away from all these feelings about him .

        • You have moved away from your feelings toward him. It is clear that you do not want to maintain a relationship with him. If you want to change your mind, then do so. Regardless of your decision, it is always beneficial to share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Emma!

  6. I think I offended him when I asked if he a fuckboy and he unfreinded me on snapchat. The next day I asked him on Instagram about why he unfreinded me and he said he didn’t want to talk. I then told him that I didint care if he was a fuckboy . And then he said well clearly u do . I asked him if he hated me and he said no and that he just didn’t want to talk about it. He then blocked me on Instagram. Now he keeps adding me and unadds me on snapchat every week or something when I add him again . I’ve tried apologizing twice to him but he just looks at it and unadds me again . What can I do to make him talk to me again. I just want to talk to him about it .

    • There may be many reasons for his behaviors. It seems as though he is uncertain about what he wants for your relationship at this time. It is possible that he will be more willing to speak with you in person. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you or treats you poorly, then you are aware of his feelings regarding your relationship. Have a great day, Maia!

  7. What does it mean when they won’t block you? They broke off the relationship, but the three texts I’ve sent have been answered. Why don’t they block? Which means more? When they do block, or when they don’t? And not social media, he has none of it… just texting or calling..

    • Not blocking you probably doesn’t mean anything. Some people don’t care about blocking other people, especially if they aren’t especially social media or tech-savvy. I would go ahead and assume that it means the exact same thing as being blocked. Clearly, the relationship is over if they broke things off and didn’t respond to three texts. At this point, all you can do is move on and focus on healing. Good luck, KC!

  8. Thanks for the quick reply… they have responded to all three texts…. I wish they would block and not respond! It’d be much easier to close the chapter if I knew they blocked me…. off I know!

    • It sounds as though you want this person to block you. If that is the case, then you should make a decision about what you want for your future without this person. Don’t message first. If they reach out to you, then make a decision about what you want for your future. If you feel that it would be appropriate to share your thoughts and feelings at that time, then do so. Have a great day, KC!

  9. Two guys on me. The 1st is so caring, he tolerate me surprises me with gifts and never really gets annoyed with me even when am wrong, he still begs still am not attracted to him physically even with his niceness. I don’t know any other girl with him. He shows me to his friends and have met his family although He’s a taxi man and am a banker. The 2nd guys works good but too strict and aggressive. I get scared of him. Am very playful but he shuns me and act like he’s not happy around me. Am attracted to him physically but his attitude scares me. I always think he’s going to hit me if I settle with him. He’s ready to settle down asap and has several girls as options. I guess that why he’s like that. But guess what? I like him and I hate myself for that. I ignored his chat just once and he didn’t talk to me and few days later I got blocked. Whereas the first guy is doing everything in his power to earn my heart. But he’s not financially buoyant to settle down plus am not attracted to him😒😒😒😭😭 am confused kindly help

    • Your feelings are clear. The behaviors of these two men are indications of their personalities. The first man cares for you and wants to maintain a relationship with you. The second man is rude and has chosen to block you. You may want to make a decision about what you value in a partner. It is always beneficial to maintain relationships with people who treat you with respect. If you are interested in maintaining a relationship with the first man, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Zara!

  10. Thank you so much for your thoughts and help…. you are correct. I do wish they would block me. I don’t believe he will reach out to me. So if I keep reaching out to him, I’m just a fool…..I know all of these things, but it sure is still difficult to walk away……. thank you so much for this thread… and I hope that your day is amazing. It has got to be tiring for you to watch us struggle through these life issues all day every day…. thank you for responding and being a sounding board! This too shall pass, and it is just temporary….. I just keep repeating this…. take care of you too, not just us struggling heart broken confused people out here!!

    • We appreciate the opportunity to lend support and advice to those in need. We urge you to support other members of our community as well. Share your insights and experiences with those in need. You will find that other members of our community will share their supportive comments as well. Please share more of your thoughts and feeling sin the future. Have a great day, KC!

  11. I really liked this guy we started chatting on ig… It was cool and it seemed like we were liking each other…so he’s also in my university and then we started chatting on Whatsapp but he always tells me he is busy but I understood because he’s in his final year so after 2 weeks we finally met… He wanted to take pictures of me…i felt he liked me because he was being all caringn touchy so after that day I told him how much I enjoyed his company and he said he enjoyed mine too…..after that day… He stopped replying me quickly…stopped picking my calls….n snubbed me on Whatsapp…we didn’t fight or quarrel….just like that he blocked me….im so confused n I can’t stop my self from liking him… I see him often but I can’t talk to him because am scared.

    • The two of you were maintaining a relationship. For whatever reason, he made the decision to no longer speak with you. He blocked you, which is a clear sign that he is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you at this time. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Blessing!

  12. There was this guy on IG he asked me out and I said yes.. he said he loved me and wanted to marry me its a long distance relationship and by the way he told his father too about marrying me. its been probably 2months now and he kept asking for nude pics and I never sent them and I told him I felt insecure. so he didn’t mind and he said its fine, and he told me he would rather have phone sex with me then sleep with other women that come up to them at the bar during their break time . He was always checking on me every now then with me and bub, liking all my photos and vidz. We didn’t text much because he said was really busy with conference and stuff regarding his job and I said I understand cause I didn’t wanted to look all clingy to him. Then one time he asked me again to send him nude pics and I didn’t and I repeated again I said sorry but you know me I feel insecure..
    he left me on seen and I asked if he was mad and he just replied with a “nope”
    and I told him that I was thinking about deleting IG. then when I checked if he had replied or not I realised I couldn’t see our messages, I knew straight away that I was blocked ..
    I told my friend to check if was still on IG or maybe he just deleted his account and it was there…
    my friend took a screenshot and I still saw me and my baby’s picture has his profile picture and the writing on the bottom saying
    metzli spence my Queen and
    Orlando my prince charming

    my question is that why still keep my picture as his profile picture after he blocked me ?

    • During your relationship, his behaviors were inappropriate. He informed you that he was going to sleep with other women. It is clear that he is not someone that you want to maintaining a relationship with. He has blocked you, so determine what you want for your future without him. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Metzli!

  13. i was in a long distance relationship and this month, it’ll be a year anniversary but unfortunately he left on April without say anything, he didn’t explain, not even a break up words.. after 3 weeks ignorance, he blocked me finally on facebook and left whatsapp unblocking but never reply or picking the call up. he got a problem on April, because he was the only one son, he gotta fix everything happened because that problem.. he changed after that problem happened on him. we are living in different religion too but few of his family know me already and know too if we are different.. i tried to contact him with my friend’s number (this friend is a man) that living in the same country with him, he picked it up, he was at home, safe, and looking for job. i tried to contact few of his family that know me, but my messages left without reply but was seen. i tried to move on,, i tried to forget everything but i couldn’t accept it because he left me but he didn’t notice anything. i offered him a friendship but he didn’t reply. what should i do ?? thx a lot

    • For whatever reason, your ex decided to no longer communicate with you. He ended the relationship. He then decided to block you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Fab!

  14. and tbh, he was such a good person, i couldn’t even think he gonna left me like this way, because i know he was really respect me and appreciate this relationship.. this is why i couldn’t move on easily, he did the things that i never expected before, it was shocking me . but trust me, he was very kind person and for that i never realised why he left me like this way. idk why and what’s the reason

    • For whatever reason, your ex decided to no longer communicate with you. He ended the relationship. He then decided to block you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Fab!

  15. What is the reason if a guy blocks you everywhere without giving the reason? He’s not close either we r just friends n talks rarely and suddenly he just blocked me everywhere i really don’t know why. what would be the reason?

    • There may be many reasons for his behaviors. Each person chooses to behave in whatever manner that they feel appropriate for whatever reasons that they feel are important. Allow thoughts of this person to fade from your thoughts, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Zia!

  16. So i had this huge fight with a guy I was dating for two months and he said something mean. He didn’t want to apologize and was still saying everything was my fault. We then argued for about 2 weeks when we were breaking up and getting back together all the time. At the end when he said it’s over I met someone and kinda told my ex to make him angry (I know it was a stupid idea), but I new i won’t be with this new person long. It was just helping me getting over ex. Three days later, we talked with ex about possibly getting back together, but suddenly he had someone new as well. He told me when I told him I met someone, he started with her as well. But he did not want to tell me he doesn’t want me because what if it’s not gonna work out with the new girl. I told him to choose, that it’s either me or her, that I’m not gonna wait. He could so I fully end things with him. At the end he just laugh at me and I was angry. I told him to get lost and he blocked me. When i didn’t respond on that, he texted me for the last time to forget about him, that he doesn’t exist for me. We have to work together so it’s weird. But what does it mean. Is he just playing with me, I didn’t do anything wrong, I just didn’t want him to hurt me anymore. But we are collesgues, will we ever going to be friends again?

    • It sounds like he started the relationship just so that he could show he was moving on as well, but he probably was just having a rebound relationship just like you were. Judging from the break up, it seems like he took everything extremely hard and was only pretending like he didn’t care. With that said, he is definitely not interested in a relationship now, and I would be surprised if he could handle being friends anytime soon. He is nowhere close to healing from this, so it will take time before you could even consider resuming your friendship. Best of luck, Brandee!

  17. I dropped my phone in the pool and did not get my ex bf message that he sent earlier. I got a new phone that day and when a message came through it said ..”I can catch the hint I wont reach out anymore.” Since I didn’t have the #s back in my phone yet…I replied when I saw it…”New phone. Who is this?” They just replied Lol…ok…I asked again..He said “Goodbye, I don’t have time for any of your games. Gotta block you now.” I attempted to call and no answer. He texted and said.” Goodbye. Don’t call me anymore.” I still didn’t know who it was because the names were not back in my phone yet. Once I put the numbers back on my phone that evening I saw it was him. Apparently, he sent a message earlier that day saying “Hope you’re well”…I didn’t see it earlier, I saw it once messages were restored, and then my phone had water damage later in the day. I had a new phone! I had no control over that. He was the one who no longer wanted to have a relationship in the first place…I never chased him, called him or anything. I just agreed to be friends. What did I do wrong for him to go in on me like that? All he had to do was say who he was! Am I missing something?

    • He has decided to block you. He thought you were playing games with him. He did not know that you broke your phone. His response is a clear indication that he is not ready to maintain this relationship with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Confused!

  18. I was dating this guy for a couple of months. We had a lot in common and he said he really feels comfortable me with me. I was his first ever girlfriend as well. We are in our 20’s. Over time he would always tell me how much I mean to him and thank me for giving him a chance. The last week we dated he started having trust issues with me. Accusing me of ignoring him and being active on other sites. I wasn’t trying to ignore him at all. I would answer him whenever I could. I cared a lot for him and I thought he cared for me too since I met his family, how he would go out of the way for me, and we talked about things that were hard for us. The day he broke up with me I asked to meet up face to face to talk to one another. I didn’t understand what was wrong since the day before he told me I mean so much to him. He would say maybe he’ll meet up to talk but it ended up always changing. He would say tomorrow, in a week, couples days cause he was busy with work and family. Now he has me blocked on everything and I’m left unanswered why he randomly broke it off after the day before he was talking about how much he cares for me and such. What is the reason he called the relationship off and refused to meet face to face to talk about it? Why does he have me blocked and what is the best decision for me to do? I do care for him but I don’t Know if I should be with him after all of this.

    • The two of you shared a strong social relationship. Something about you relationship changed, and he made the decision to block you. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Help!

  19. Any reason why he hasn’t contacted me, even if it’s for closure? He messaged me a week ago just saying hello but then blocked my again later before I got a chance to open up the message to reply.

    • There may be many reasons for his actions. However, he has made it clear that he is not interested in maintaining a relationship at this time. It is unfortunate that he made the decision to behave in the manner that he is acting. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Help!

  20. A guy ghosted me out of nowhere and it was before we was suppose to meet I tried calling him he blocked me there too and I did the mistake of even getting a number and calling him and still no response. I feel so stupid and broken how can someone be so cruel to arrange a date and then just disappear within hours. I feel like this person was narcissistic I don’t know but it’s a terrible experience.

    • His behaviors were inappropriate. He ghosted you and blocked you. It is clear that he is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He is not the type of person that you want to nourish a relationship with. Learn from this experience, and apply this knowledge to your future relationships. You will find great benefit by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Teresa!

  21. i met this guy on tinder and we texted pretty casually. we hooked up twice and then we started exchanging pics. he was pretty busy with work a lot, but he said he liked that i texted him. a few days after hooking up the second time, i got really drunk and bombarded him with drunk texts. it was pretty embarrassing but he kept replying and told me to be safe and get sober. i don’t know why i said this but i ended up texting him “i’m driving to you right now” even though i was drunk and in bed, but that finally set him off. he said i needed to stop texting him and i asked if it was because i was too forward. he said i was more than forward and that i was harassing him. he said he was going to block my number and i should do the same. a few days later i ended up sending a long apology text via imessage at first with no response then sent one on whatsapp and got no response either. 4 months has passed and today i texted “hi, am i still blocked” he replied right away and said “Yeah, but you still come through on my computer” i replied back with, “oh” and got no response, lol. should i text him back or try again in a while?

    • The two of you shared a social relationship. He decided that he was not interested in being respectful of your relationship. He then decided to block you. He is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future without him. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Anon!

  22. My boyfriend suddenly blocked me because he told me that if i’ll tell him again that he has a woman, or if i’ll doubt again of his love, then he said, it’s better he has to block me and i told him repeatedly so, he did it. It’s been 14 days already from the day he blocked me and i tried to send him message using another account but he did not read it. When i’m looking at his profile, he is still in relationship. I am confused if this means a break up and do i need to forget and leave him anymore without a formal closure?

    • He blocked you two weeks ago. Neither of you have spoken since that time. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He likely hasn’t updated his status, because he hasn’t thought about it. The relationship has ended, so determine what you want for your future without him. Learn the lesson from your behaviors that led to the end of this relationship, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Donna!

  23. His profile is still in relationship with me until now but he didn’t talk to me. Do i need to leave him and move on?

    • He blocked you two weeks ago. Neither of you have spoken since that time. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He likely hasn’t updated his status, because he hasn’t thought about it. The relationship has ended, so determine what you want for your future without him. Learn the lesson from your behaviors that led to the end of this relationship, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Donna!

  24. I met a guy from dating apps. After our first meeting, he confessed to me that he said that he had eagerness to know me more and get serious relationship with me. And I also had the same feeling with him because he seems a good person, so I decided to say ok and we made the commitment. In the first 4 times we met, everything was all good and smooth. But, he didn’t respond my message after he said happy birthday to me. We were out of touch almost 3 months. After 3 months finally, I plucked up the courage to call him because I needed to know the truth. He answered and eventually we met again. But after that time, we continuously met and chat until 5 months later, all of sudden he blocked me on line app after I texted him. But only on Line app I have been blocking by him now. I called his number but he didn’t pick up and I texted him on iMessage but he is not responding. What does mean of this? He is trying to avoid me? Is he dating with other girl? Could you give me some advise please. Thank you

    • The two of you shared a strong social relationship. The two of you did not speak for three months. Five months after you began speaking, he made the decision to block you. This may be for a variety of reasons. Stop calling him, as he has made it clear that he is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He may be dating someone else or there may be another reason for his behaviors. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, SM!

  25. Hi, i really need your advice,, i met this guy from tinder a month ago. He is a pilot who living abroad for many years but he cameback and stay. We just met few times at the bar and we have a good time, talk for many hours together. I told him at the first time we meet, i dont looking for sex because his looks on the picture looks like fancy guy and kind of player face. But he kind of shock because he said not looking for that. He just want to meet people and he like to talk about culture etc because he living abroad and make him be more open to people. I trust him after that. Then everyday we texting a lot until Then after the second met we closer and more intimate, he gave me some advice about bad guy that i should stay away, even i ask his advice about my last love story with aguy who broke my heart. And he ask me to move on from kind of that guy. He always telling me about a good things and thats make me feel good until we felt desire inside but i try to hold it. So in the second meet we just kissing inside the car even tough he feels like can not control to touch me more but i try to hold him. After that we are still texting on instagram everyday and talk alot of things, he blew me away about the guy that i really want because i still broken heart with my last love. He try to entertain me to forget about my sadness. He show me how gentle he is and respect me as woman, he treat me very good. Until then, he made a plan want to bring to the place he really likes, the village beside of the beach. On that time i just admire him and we stay together in the same room in the hotel until ‘that’ happened. We had sex and had a good time for 2 days. I know i am stupid, finally let him to fuck me but He very good treat me and always cuddling me. After we comeback home, we still keep talking but he kind of busy for study and flight. So i am not text him that much like normally because i dont want bothering his time. But he always try to reply my message even tough i felt he not that excited like before. But i think positive he kind of stress with a lot of work and study. Until ,, few days after after had sec happened, i text him that i am worry about my periode is late 2 days already where as i always took the pills everyday for my hormonal acne. And he said its will be fine,, and i just quite after that waiting and nervous. But i text him again in the night and said its not normal bla bla bla,, until he plan if it the worst case i am pregnant he will help for abortion. Actually i dont think that much i will pregnant, i still think its just stress after my last love is broken. But then i told him its a crime if i do abortion and i will have a sin from God because killing the life someone, and i said ‘easy for your to said that because you are a man’ then after that we start had little argue. He said he dont want to have a kids, there is no plan ever to having kids. until The last i said to him ‘even if yes i am pregnant, this is not your kids,,’. I said that because i dont want he think that i beg for him for something fishy. Because i dont! I just worry if its really happend and i dont want he think i try to find the way to tricky him. then he reply me, ‘i was try to helping you(not having the kids) i taught you are more evolved. But when you throwen those last words, ‘its not your kids’ guess what? Its not my problem too,, ‘. I dont reply him again after that. But in the morning when i check again, i can not see his message anymore. He blocked my instagram,, i taught he is nice guy,, even i still not sure i am pregnant or not,, what i should to do? Is it bad if i tell that to him? Should i just let it go??

    • You met this person on Tinder, which may be an indication for why he may have behaved in this manner. Over the course of your relationship, his feelings changed. You had an argument about his irrelevant views on abortion. His behaviors are clearly inappropriate, and you are lucky that he is no longer in your life. He made the decision to block you, so allow thoughts of him to fade. Learn from this relationship, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Mira!

  26. I met this guy and we become friends and we started seeing eachother just for sex and then I started caring about him and I all of the sudden started catching feelings. He kept breaking things and coming back and I kept taking him back. But the last time we talked I asked him if he care about me he said no he guess not and he doesn’t consider me as feelings or self interest and our relationship is just sex, I had to tell him to forget about me and stop talking to me because of that. I know it’s my decision but it’s still hurt and I don’t what to think about it I’m lost

    • The two of you began this relationship based on sex. You developed feelings, but he did not. You shared yourself with him, and he informed you of how he viewed your relationship. He explained that he was only interested in sex, and you told him to no longer speak with you. You ended this relationship, so allow thoughts of him to fade and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Elena!

  27. I met someone online and he made me believe that he was in love with me over the course of a month of talking everyday. I also started to develop feelings for him. We video chatted for the first time this friday for about an hour. We had some connection issues after that so he said that we’d chat again via video later after he showered. So I said ok go shower. So he went to shower and then he never replied. The next day I see him online whenever I’m online. Whenever I go offline he goes offline. This went on for msybe half an hour or more. I don’t know if he was checking if I was online or if he thought I was stalking him on WhatsApp. At midnight I see he has no picture on whatsapp. But he still has a status. So I thought he was without network. Then I see he blocked me on instagram. And I sent him a message on whatsappp it didn’t deliver. So he blocked me. The night before we video chatted I told him that if someone isn’t interested in me that they should tell me straight up. He was serious about marriage and moving. We had such good strong conversations. I don’t even know the reason. Was it because he wasn’t interested anymore? Was it because of the whole online back and forth thing. Was it because he wanted me to say more than I did?

    • He made the decision to block you on various social media applications. The two of you spoke, and he shared his feelings with you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. If he doesn’t want to maintain a relationship with you, then allow thoughts of him to fade. Have a great day, Maitheasa!

  28. So my crush blocked me yesterday for no reason he told me would text me later and then when I came back to check he blocked me I mean before he did he told me he liked me but idk but the day before he told me he would text me later and he did but he’s leaving me on blocked but I know for sure we didn’t argue or anything

    • Your crush made the decision to block you. This may be for a variety of reasons. It is certainly possible that there were other influences in his life, which may have caused him to behave in this manner. If he reaches out to you in the future, then determine what you believe is appropriate for your relationship at that time. For now, allow thoughts of your crush to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Kelly!

  29. Hello, I’ve been dating this boy for two months. Things were amazing in the beginning but he slowly stopped talking to me. Then I found out that he got a new phone number and didn’t tell me. Then just yesterday, he blocked me on Snapchat and Instagram. I just don’t know what to do anymore, I have a string feeling his is seeing someone else.

    • The two of you dated for two months. Something in his life caused his feelings regarding your relationship to change. This may have been due to family, friends, or another stress in his life. He then made the decision to block you. He is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future without him. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Hannah!

  30. Hey it’s me kelly idk if u replied to me but I don’t see it I was the one that posted on how he told me he liked me but then blocked me a bit later even in the same day he easily cuts ppl off but he would never do that to me but then he did

    • This person has made the decision to block you. Prior to this, he informed you that he cuts people off. You also told you that he wouldn’t do that to you, but it is clear that he lied. His behaviors are clear indications that this is not the type of person that you want to maintain a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Kelly!

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