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What Does It Mean When A Guy Makes Fun Of You?

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When girls are young, they’re always told that the boys who tease them secretly like them. “Pulling pigtails”, they call it. We always just assume that guys will grow out of that vaguely childish behavior, but women often find that when they’re older, guys will continue teasing them.

Sometimes, the pulling pigtails behavior doesn’t always mean what we’re told as kids. Women from all over are left confused and a little annoyed when men start making fun of them, even when they’re otherwise entirely pleasant. Guys who make fun of women come in a variety of flavors, with an array of reasons.

Some of them might not even know why they’re doing it. So what’s the truth? What does it really mean when a guy starts teasing and making fun of you? It’s a leftover instinct from when they were boys?

1. He likes you

This is usually what most people will tell you when you ask them why a guy who is otherwise entirely pleasant to you teases and makes fun of you. Sometimes, guys really don’t grow out of that ten year old phase of being mean to the girls they like. You’ll probably be able to tell if he likes you by the way he makes fun of you.

Is he teasing you to get you to loosen up and learn to laugh at yourself a little bit? If so, he probably doesn’t mind it when you take a few digs at him too. Playful teasing is probably the type of guy’s main form of joking and connecting with people. Don’t take it too seriously, especially if his jokes don’t come at the expense of making you feel poorly about yourself.

2. He feels threatened – or vulnerable

Guys who make fun of you can come in a variety of flavors, and one of these flavors is definitely defensive. It’s no secret that guys tend to mature emotionally a lot slower than women. When a guy likes you – you know, really likes you! – he can feel incredibly vulnerable. Guys like this tend to react to vulnerability to defensiveness.

He may feel like the only way to make himself feel like the big strong macho man he’s supposed to be is by making fun of you – which means, in the end, he’s probably going to get the opposite of what he wants. It’s no use trying to wait for this type of guy to grow up. Brush off his jokes and keep an eye out for a guy who can at least admit his feelings.

Of course, on the flip side – he might not even like you. Maybe you just really intimidate him with your looks, your accomplishments, your personality.

3. He’s just a jerk

Let’s face it – some guys make fun of women because they’re just flat out mean. You’ll probably be able to tell whether he likes you or not by the way he treats you the rest of the time. If he’s constantly making derisive statements and mean-spirited jokes, but never seems to have something nice to say, he’s probably just getting off on making you feel embarrassed or angry.

Some guys get a power trip from making women upset, and making fun of them for the way the talk, the things they like or the way they look is a sure fire way for guys to be able to exploit the kind of vulnerability that gets women fired up. In short: he’s an ass, and not worth even getting indignant over. When he figures out that he can’t rile you up, he’ll eventually get bored and either start acting like a human being, or move on.

When a guy is making fun of you, make sure you keep track of how he treats you otherwise. A guy who doesn’t have anything else to say to you other than jabs about your work, interests and personality probably isn’t harboring a secret crush on you. And likewise, a guy who just takes part in some playful teasing probably isn’t trying to get you made just for the fun of it.

Guys often have a hard time discussing their feelings, so they end up doing something like this: making fun of women and leaving women confused about what they actually want! If you’re not into it, stand your ground and confront him. You’ll either get him to fess up to why he’s actually doing it, or at the very least get him to knock it off.

115 COMMENTS

  1. So there’s this guy and he likes to make fun of me and tease me a lot but just when I say something weird or if I’m wearing a fun outfit he loves to make fun of me and when I tell him to stop he smile and say I’m sorry I’m just messing with you but when I’m serious he respect me alot and we have deep conversations all the time too

    • He either views you as a really good friend, or he likes you. It sounds like he could be interested in you romantically though and is trying to get to know you better. Now, you just have to figure out if you like him back and what you would like to do about it. Good luck, Alli!

  2. I think this guy that I like might like me…. but he is sending mixed signals. I want to tell him how I feel but every time I can’t. I like him so much I’m jelous when he talks to someone else. And when ever he teases me and goes a little too far I don’t say anything but I should cause I’m sure he would like me better if I stood up for myself

    • If he makes you uncomfortable or offends you by going too far, then definitely stand up for yourself. As for making a move, it is up to you. Since he is sending you mixed signals, there is always a risk that he will reject you. If you are brave, go for it. If not, keep taking to him and see if he makes his feelings a bit clearer. Best of luck, Confused!

  3. I used to go to a coaching institute…and a guy used to laugh at me with his friends whenever he saw me or whenever I entered the class. It wasn’t even a smile..he literally laughed.Even my friends noticed..I think he used to make fun of me but I didn’t even know him and we didn’t even ever talk so I wonder what he used to laugh about. I never understood that guy whatsoever. He was cute btw 😂

    • It is possible that he felt attracted to you. It was clear that he was immature about his actions. Allow thoughts of this person to fade. Allow the memory of his action to influence you to treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Sarah!

  4. I’ve this one crush and there’s one day he looks at me and I’m excited so i brag about it in front of my friends and I kept repeating about how handsome he is. lol. and as we’re talking, few minutes later, we found out that he’s actually walk right behind us and I’m sure that he heard everythingGGGGG. and since that day, everytime I bump into him, he kept on looking at me and sometimes tried to make me feel very shyyyy by walking veryyy near to me. what does that mean? I’m confused and shy. too.

    • It is certainly possible that he heard what was said. It is possible that he may want to develop a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Amira!

  5. There’s this guy I met in school. We always hang out because we’re classmates and seatmates. And also, I’m a fan of Kpop. When he found out that I love Kpop, he always teases me about Kpop. He said that Kpop is boring, Kpop is gay and etc. But I just laugh with him even though I’m quite annoyed. A few days after, He suddenly shows interest in Kpop. He says that my Idol is his brother even though he’s not. And he also praises my Idol alot which is quite weird and new for me. I once joked about Kpop and before the year ends, he told me that he still remembers it. I also caught him sometimes, stealing glances at me. So, without me realizing, I started to like him. He always laugh at my lame jokes even though it’s not so funny. He also compliments me, not that often but every compliments he said is so touching. He teases me with other guys. He touches me alot which is making me blush sometimes. He’s always around me. So, it was in month of december when he started acting more weird. He’s a school heart rob so many girls like him. Whenever each one confesses, he always tell me and I always act like I didn’t care becausw I don’t want him to know that I like him and I also want to avoid awkwardness between us. He always sides me with me. I have a fight with his friend and mostly, he always sides with his friend but now, he doesn’t. I confessed to him in February and he said that it’s okay but that time, I don’t have feelings for him anymore. So, I told jim that we should ignore each other for the time being and he said that it’s up to me. I didn’t even tried to take a glance on him, I don’t even talk to him even though he’s my seatmate, and I also avoid him. But, he kept talking, looking to me. After a few days, I talked to him again but our conversation wasn’t long unlike how we used to. He doesn’t reply to my messages, he always left me on seen. I felt like I was abandoned by him so I felt so heart broken. So, since we’re classmates, the president of our class wanted to have a get together or for us to gather and have fun. Like a party. So they set the date and I didn’t showed up on that day because I don’t have enough confidence to face him so I made up an excuse that I was sick. From then on, I didn’t talk to him or message him. Then, I came to a basketball game with my cousins to watch. I also didn’t expect but I saw him there, talking to my cousins. My cousins knew that I used to have a crush on him so theu kept teasing me about him since the day they found out. When my cousins saw me, they told him that I was there and I saw him quickly hides somewhere, I didn’t really payed attention to it. But after the game ends, my cousin said that he was smiling and laughing when they teased him about me. And he hided because he’s shy about me. They also heard him talking to his friend about hiding from me. My friend said that it could be possible that he have feelings for me but I denied it because I don’t want to jump to conclusions.
    I really want to confirm but I’m so so shy to ask him. And also, one time, he gave us a clue about his crush and his description fitted me, that’s what my friend told me.
    Can you give me your opinion? I really want to know. Thank you!

    • It is possible that this person wants to develop a relationship with you. It is clear that he is shy or confused. He may not want to say that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may fear rejection. You seem to want to develop a relationship with him. You may find that it will beneficial for the people in your life to support you by speaking with him. It is important that you speak directly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Seori!

  6. There’s this guy I met in school. We always hang out because we’re classmates and seatmates. And also, I’m a fan of Kpop. When he found out that I love Kpop, he always teases me about Kpop. He said that Kpop is boring, Kpop is gay and etc. But I just laugh with him even though I’m quite annoyed. A few days after, He suddenly shows interest in Kpop. He says that my Idol is his brother even though he’s not. And he also praises my Idol alot which is quite weird and new for me. I once joked about Kpop and before the year ends, he told me that he still remembers it. I also caught him sometimes, stealing glances at me. So, without me realizing, I started to like him. He always laugh at my lame jokes even though it’s not so funny. He also compliments me, not that often but every compliments he said is so touching. He teases me with other guys. He touches me alot which is making me blush sometimes. He’s always around me. So, it was in month of december when he started acting more weird. He’s a school heart rob so many girls like him. Whenever each one confesses, he always tell me and I always act like I didn’t care becausw I don’t want him to know that I like him and I also want to avoid awkwardness between us. He always sides me with me. I have a fight with his friend and mostly, he always sides with his friend but now, he doesn’t. I confessed to him in February and he said that it’s okay but that time, I don’t have feelings for him anymore. So, I told There’s this guy I met in school. We always hang out because we’re classmates and seatmates. And also, I’m a fan of Kpop. When he found out that I love Kpop, he always teases me about Kpop. He said that Kpop is boring, Kpop is gay and etc. But I just laugh with him even though I’m quite annoyed. A few days after, He suddenly shows interest in Kpop. He says that my Idol is his brother even though he’s not. And he also praises my Idol alot which is quite weird and new for me. I once joked about Kpop and before the year ends, he told me that he still remembers it. I also caught him sometimes, stealing glances at me. So, without me realizing, I started to like him. He always laugh at my lame jokes even though it’s not so funny. He also compliments me, not that often but every compliments he said is so touching. He teases me with other guys. He touches me alot which is making me blush sometimes. He’s always around me. So, it was in month of december when he started acting more weird. He’s a school heart rob so many girls like him. Whenever each one confesses, he always tell me and I always act like I didn’t care becausw I don’t want him to know that I like him and I also want to avoid awkwardness between us. He always sides me with me. I have a fight with his friend and mostly, he always sides with his friend but now, he doesn’t. I confessed to him in February and he said that it’s okay but that time, I don’t have feelings for him anymore. So, I told jim that we should ignore each other for the time being and he said that it’s up to me. I didn’t even tried to take a glance on him, I don’t even talk to him even though he’s my seatmate, and I also avoid him. But, he kept talking, looking to me. After a few days, I talked to him again but our conversation wasn’t long unlike how we used to. He doesn’t reply to my messages, he always left me on seen. I felt like I was abandoned by him so I felt so heart broken. So, since we’re classmates, the president of our class wanted to have a get together or for us to gather and have fun. Like a party. So they set the date and I didn’t showed up on that day because I don’t have enough confidence to face him so I made up an excuse that I was sick. From then on, I didn’t talk to him or message him. Then, I came to a basketball game with my cousins to watch. I also didn’t expect but I saw him there, talking to my cousins. My cousins knew that I used to have a crush on him so theu kept teasing me about him since the day they found out. When my cousins saw me, they told him that I was there and I saw him quickly hides somewhere, I didn’t really payed attention to it. But after the game ends, my cousin said that he was smiling and laughing when they teased him about me. And he hided because he’s shy about me. They also heard him talking to his friend about hiding from me. My friend said that it could be possible that he have feelings for me but I denied it because I don’t want to jump to conclusions.
    I really want to confirm but I’m so so shy to ask him. And also, one time, he gave us a clue about his crush and his description fitted me, that’s what my friend told me.
    Can you give me your opinion? I really want to know. Thank you!

    • It is possible that this person wants to develop a relationship with you. It is clear that he is shy or confused. He may not want to say that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may fear rejection. You seem to want to develop a relationship with him. You may find that it will beneficial for the people in your life to support you by speaking with him. It is important that you speak directly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Seori!

  7. There is a boy in my coaching , he always give me nicknames , he mimics the way I laugh , I caught him staring at me and rubbing his chin. There are other girls also. But he behaves like this only to me. He tries to touch me also. Does he likes me ??

    • He is likely interested in developing a relationship with you. His actions indicate that he may want to maintain a physical relationship with you. It is clear that he feels comfortable with you. Decide what actions are appropriate and what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. It will be beneficial to give him a chance to share himself as well. Have a great day, Yaya!

  8. So they was this dude who I sat next to in class and we talked and it was really nice (I think) anyway I liked him and someone told me they thought he liked me too but then I ignored him bc I’m dumb and started “talking” to him like 4 weeks later. Any way it’s about a year later and he started talking to me again but only at ski club which is 7 hours long but only saying my name when he passed me on a hill or encouraging me to go faster or join him on a black diamond. So I added him in Snapchat and we sent some photos then he got confused and stopped responding bc I didn’t send my face in photos (I think) anyway he would wink at me at school and say hi and stuff but then recently he’s been making fun of me saying oh you’ll have to be stuck with freinds name and “me” dramatically (not in front of me tho)

    • It sounds possible that he might like you, but there is no way to know for sure just yet. You might be right about the Snapchat. As for the rest, these are things that he could do if he likes you or if he just sees you as a friend. If he doesn’t realize that you might like him, then he may not even be trying to talk to you much because he thinks that there is no hope. The best thing that you could do is start talking to him a bit more. It will give him a chance to realize that you might be interested and to make a move. Best of luck!

  9. There’s this boy in my class.He always looks at me and apparently chats about me to his friends. We talk Everyday.although he acts up in front of his friends a lot by being mean to me(not all the time). And at First its bants and other times its not although when ever he knows i don’t find it funny he apologises and changes the subject. People have told me he likes me and whenever he sees me he always smiles.Im getting mixed vibes.I Thought I liked him but now i’m genuinely confused/hurt. My Ex and me were on good terms but I know he hasn’t gotten over me. This is because i’ve always caught him looking at me and speaking bout me on many occasions. Convincing boys not to ask/go out with me. The boy lets call him A. A acts” funny “whenever my ex joins the convo. Or A will bring him up. I only went out with my Ex for wayyy(3months) less than a year. And I feel awkward and weird whenever my Ex joins a group chat or a game (fortnite)ect… I just leave it. Hopefully i can get some advice.

    • His behaviors may be indications that he has an emotional connection with you. His poor behavior around his friends are signs of his insecurity, but may be signs of future behaviors. Your ex’s behavior is a sign that he may still be interested in you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with your ex about your thoughts regarding his behavior. If you want to nourish a relationship with someone, then spend additional time in person with him. Have a great day, Moo!

  10. There’s this guy who always makes fun of me and sometimes my looks and he also likes flirting sometimes I really don’t understand him but I have ever confessed to him that I have a crush on him and jealous when I see him with other girls .

    • It is possible that he has similar feelings toward you. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Since the two of you are not in a relationship at this time, he may not be aware that his behaviors may you feel jealous. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Tracey!

  11. I work at taco Bell and I have the customer who comes every now and then. First it started out as him telling me his name. Next thing we know we start joking and making fun of each other. He never know my name he called me Taco Bell Girl lol. Then I met his sister great niece plus met his dad. Proudly to say he introduced me to them. His sister loves it when I joke and make fun of him. His dad does too. He told me that I better take care of his dad too. I see him as a friend. One day he smile at me. When I first start working at taco Bell in 2017 he come to the drive Thur and will talk to me before any other woman. He will talk to me about everything.

    • He is definitely interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He may be uncertain about your feelings toward him. He may feel that you may view it to be inappropriate if he asks you out while you are at work. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Lisa!

  12. This guy and I aren’t in a relationship or nothing like that we are friends.i have my guard up!!! He joke about being rock solid hard lol

    • His joke was sexual in nature, and he may have been interested in letting you know that he is attracted to you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Lisa!

  13. I have this guy classmate and everyday he just keeps teasing me in class. Like, everything related to me he always have something to tease about. Sometimes I get really annoyed but I can’t stop him since literally everyone in my class finds it amusing, they just might get the wrong idea. Oh and I forgot to mention, he’s in a relationship.

    • His behaviors are indications of his social connection with you. However, he is currently in a relationship. Do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with him at this time. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. If his relationship naturally ends, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Trix!

  14. This boy in my class sits behind me and he always in the middle of class FROM BEHIND pokes me in my sides I jump and he says I’m sorry then starts laughing and today someone asked him if he likes me and he said no and started blushing like deep red so I’m confused also I’m pretty thick in size not butt welll my butt to but like okay I’m bigger but not by a whole lot most fat is in my thighs so imagine that an she has blue eyes and red hair so I don’t think he will like me for me but he is always so nice and kind and caring so I’m really confused 🤷‍♀️

    • His behaviors are indications that he is attracted to you. His blushing was a sign that he does have feelings for you. You seem to have a negative view of yourself, but it is clear that you are attractive to this person. Do not allow your negative feelings to influence you to be uncertain about yourself. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Speak with this person about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Bushraa!

        • Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you feel that it would be appropriate to speak with the people in your life about your thoughts and feelings, then do so. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Bushraa!

  15. There’s this guy at my job. We always flirt but sometimes we take it too far. I call him daddy but he knows I’m a virgin so he basically just tests me to see what i can handle. He’s said that he thinks I should experience other people, yet continues to call himself daddy. He says he’s worried if we did stuff I’d catch feelings (he doesn’t know I already have feelings.) He continues to be touchy and flirty. He has a serious girlfriend but if I bring her up he shrugs her off or says they’re having problems right now. I’m so confused. At one point he smacked the back of my thigh (I legit asked for it not figuratively) but you’d think he wouldn’t touch other people if he has a girlfriend. Is he just an asshole? I’m just so confused. He makes fun of my inexperience and sometimes just the things I say or do.

    • He is currently in a relationship. He is interested in cheating on his partner, and his behaviors with you are inappropriate. Inform him that his behaviors are inappropriate, as he is currently in a relationship. Determine what you want for your future at this time. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Kk!

  16. I have a guy friend. He is a volunteer worker in the church. He is touchy feely with me. He always rest his head on my shoulder, caressing my arm, positioning himself at my back then touching my shoulder then he will rest his head on my shoulder, he likes sitting beside me whenever he has a chance. But he never message me or chat me. I am always the one reaching for him.

    • His behaviors are indications that he is attracted to you. It seems that you are interested in developing a relationship with him as well. If you want him to reach out to you more often, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Inform of him of your desires, so he is aware of how you would like him to behave. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time together in person. Have a great day, Micsth!

  17. My boyfriends friend has been making fun of me ever since we got together and it just doesn’t make sense why he’d pick on me when he has his own gf and because I’ve never done anything to him

    • His behaviors are indications that he has mixed feelings regarding your relationship. He may be jealous of your boyfriend, even though he is maintaining a relationship of his own. If his behaviors become inappropriate, then speak with your partner about his actions. At this time, ignore him and focus your energy on your current partner. Have a great day, Julie!

  18. So, we talk only online which is making stuff harder to get. But he is sweet as hell to me and he is also teasing me all the time. But really all the time. I’m confused as hell now. I think he just want to teasing me and making fun of me. But not sure. He told once to me, i’m a great friend. He tells me a lot of his personal things, problems. But he always end up making fun of me and teasing me. (I have laugh) I try to tease him back, But I get always worse back lol.

    So really confusing. I think it’s just friends thing.

    • The two of you share a strong social relationship. It is possible that he is interested in nourishing your emotional relationship. He may want something more. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. If possible, nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Someone!

  19. There is this guy at my school Who used to make fun of me with the word”Squirrel”. Other guys did it too and i kinda reacted to them joking about the wird but never reacted to him because i had never spoken to him. So i basically ignored him all the time. When the guy would see me in hallway he would say the while time”the squirrel, the squirrel,the squirrel,” nonstop. And it was so annoying but i kept ignoring him. He and the other guys were joking about it because one time i and my friend had ti make a presenation in Science about rainforests and they say that i said something about the squirrel and i know that i never said that. But they say all the time that i did. And now almost all guys from the guy’s class joke about it from time to time. But he himself stopped. He doesn’t tease anymore or say anything. Just nothing. Sometimes i feel starred from him or initmitated by him like he is really pretty and the teachers say that he is really nice. But when he stopped i was so happy because it was annoying as shit. But now that people are telling me that he probably wanted to get to know me better i just want to him to start again. But also he has a girlfriend so i don’t understand. Also he has many friends that are girls so why if he wants to get to know me then why doesn’t he just Talk to me.

    • His nickname for you may have been his way of flirting with you. It is clear that you were on his mind. It is possible that he became aware that his behaviors may have caused you to feel negative, which is why he stopped. He has a girlfriend, so do not reach out to him at this time. If his relationship ends, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Girl!

  20. I’m in high school and having a problem relating to teasing. A guy in my math class always tears me and tries to make me laugh but typically with mean comments. I know for a fact I don’t like him but my friends think I do. What does this mean? Do I like him?

    • You are not interested in maintaining a relationship with him. He may be attempting to flirt with you, but his statements are mean. Inform him of your feelings, and speak with your friends about their opinion of you. Since you do not like him, you should avoid him after sharing your concerns with him. If he continues to treat you poorly, then you may want to speak with your teacher or counselor about his behaviors. Have a great day, Girl!

  21. There is this guy I meet in 5th grade we were just starting to talk but then I developed feelings for him we stopped seeing each other for a few months but then we ended up in the same high school little did I know I still had feelings for him but he started talking to me again and introducing me to his friends I panicked and acted like I didn’t know him time passed and we stopped talking for awhile I started dating someone else but I everytime I ran into him I got so nervous and turned the other way. This one time during pe I hurt my hand I was crying and eventhough we haven’t talked in a while he came up to me and asked me how I was and what happened I just told him a football hit my hand and he just laughed and thought I was making a big deal. I was still dating at the time and one day during my math class one of his friends start talking to and ask me if I’m the girl who likes his friend I panicked and said I have a boyfriend which was true but that question stuck with my I start to think maybe he liked me back why else would his friend ask that. After that we didn’t talk for a year but I was always looking for him in the hallway and wondering how he was doing. I always thought he was mad at me for acting like a didn’t know him and being such a bad friend. Later in the year my friend had a quince party and we were both part of the dance we didn’t even said hi to each other during any of the practices and we were partners imagine how akward my ex was also part of the court and for some reason I think they were laughing behind my back idk why after 3 months another friend had a quince and again we were dance partners it was still akward I once even pretended I had an injury just so he wouldn’t dance with me because of how akward it was but through the practice he started to talked more with everyone and since I was with them he was eventually talking to me too we started to get close and the hole group start to hangout every weekend it started to get easier and easier to talk to him forgetting the feelings I once had for him later I started liking one of the other guys in our group I eventually told everyone even him he started teasing me about it and once him and one more person couldn’t go to sleep and stayed up talking till 3 am spilling all our secrets and telling each other who we think is cute and all for some reason it hurt me that he never metioned me even though I mentioned him but I didn’t give much thought to it eventually the feelings of my crush went away and I realized I still liked him. I liked how he always made me laugh even when I was not in the mood and how he would tease me about being single and no one liking me wich is true lol but I would tease him back about the same thing its been like that for a few months now but we are still not super close friends anyways a school dance is coming up and the girls have to ask the guys to a dance I don’t really have any guy friends and he is one of the few I want to ask him to the dance but I don’t know if he wants to and if he is already going with someone else but I don’t want him to think I like either because I am still kinda in denial so that’s pretty much everything

    • Just ask him to the dance! You have to ask someone, so it might as well be the person you actually want to go with. You should ask him soon though because some other girl may ask him first, and you won’t get to find out if he has feelings for you. From your description, it definitely sounds possible that he could like you, so now you just have to find out how he feels. Good luck!

  22. So i was upset that he doesn’t do it anymore so i started thinking of a plan. In my english class me and my friend went outside to another Room to make a dialogue because we had to. And then two Boys from our class came to the same room. One of the boys is in my crush’s class and the other one is his friend. And they also used to say all the time squirrel when they saw me(they still do). And i thought that if i told his friend that thank god he stopped because i know he would tell him which he did and then he kinda started doing it again for 2 days or so but not like before. I was happy when he started saying the word squirrel but i was still upset about the fact that IT’s not like before. And then there was thursday which it was a bit noisy and i kept looking at him from time to time and when i was looking he was looking but he kept looking away and i had this Feeling that he wanted me to go to him and talk to him. And then as i was losing the door of my class his friend came and said to me”squirrel” and my crush did the same. And then friday came and nothing happened. I was so upset that i just Texted him on insta and told him that i was sorry that i ignored him and that i ignored him because i didn’t know what to say and that i thought that if was a bit weird that he called me like that because we never talked to each other. And i also told him that i wanted to tell him that on thursday but i didn’t have the Courage.he didn’t see the Messeage weil that’s what i thought. I went up to him on monday and he was sitting with his guy friend alone and asked him if i could talk to him and he nervously said”it’s not really the time”. I felt devestated. So the next day in the end of the second Pause i waited for him to get to english class which is in my classroom. I pretented i was waiting for my friends to come out of their classroom which they did. As he was about to come i Think HE saw me and stopped walking and waited for his friend. I saw hin alone and i went up to him and i said i know this is not the time but it is okay in the third Pause which he said no i have to go home and then i said what about tomorrow and he said i know what you texted me on insta and then i looked at him Strange because it was so loud i couldn’t hear him. He said the same thing and said everything okay with a weak smile. And then i said oh okay with a smile and then in the end i said the thing with the Nickname doesn’t other me and he said yeah yeah okay. He was responding fast and was a little nervous and at First he didn’t really make eye contact. And the way he smiled was like he was uncomfortable and scared. But i didn’t feel better. I went to the social pedagogy and told her and she was thinking of a plan until another Student came in to talk to her. Since then no signs. I avoided seeing him because i felt uncomfortable. Two days of school before the autumn holidays in the First Hour of school we all 10th graders were walking in the Mensa. Some of us had to get out and some in. He had to get in and i had to get out. He was with his friend and with my german teacher and my german teacher said something that made him Laugh. And i was walking with my friends and they said something that made me laugh. And he looked at me while i was laughing and i looked at him while i was laughing! We smiled at each other! But i looked at him while i was laughing for like 3 seconds and i looked away and i sensed that he was looking past me while i was walking. Can’t say if he was still smiling but he was looking at me. The Third Pause in the Hall as he was about to go home we were walking and i looked at him he didn’t even look at me. And i was like what is it now? And then the next day (Last day before the holidays) he was sitting with his two friends in big Hall.He was sitting in the Middle. I was walking with my friend past him i sensed he was looking at him and he was. As i was walking i looked at him for 2 seconds and he was looking at me with his dreamy Blue eyes(OMG). HE was looking at me like a cute sweet cat. That stare felt like he wanted me to go to him and talk to him. But i don’t know if this are like Clear signs. I went to the social pedagogy and told her about this and she was so happy to hear we smiled at each other. And i told her about how he didn’t look at me at the third Pause. And also about the stare. And she said that IT’s difficult cause he has a girlfriend. And that he might be unsere about me. My friend told me that he could have understood that i like him from my Text messages and is backing off because he doesn’t feel the same way i don’t Think that he is the kind of Person that would Analyse everything. Like it was just an apology. Yeah i know it was all of a sudden but still you can still apologise. And also it can’t be that because in Science our teacher was not there so we had from another teacher and we decided to Play a game. And at the time he was doing the squirrel thing alot. And during the game i had to sit next to him and i was about to go there next to him he turnen his head away from my side and he was scratiching his head. I had this Feeling he wanted to tell me something. I could feel his breath when i was there. He didn’t say a thing. It was like he was frozen. And i was like why aren’t you say anything. You habe the Chance to tease me more. And somehow when i was sitting next to him i felt a connection with him. I somehow felt physically attracred to him. Like i just wanted to grab him and Hug him for the rest of my life and never let him go. And when he stopped we were in away for 6 days in münchen us the 10th graders. And when we all 10th graders had to meet in the Hall because the teachers asked us to he would look at me from time to time. Well i would look at him First but then he would look at me but why would he even bother looking at me. And i felt really physically attracted to him at the time and still do. Well now i feel attracted to him in general. I feel like i liked him before too but unknowingly.i also ignored him because i kinda cared about his opinion about me and i didn’t want to come off as an aggressive Person. My mom thinks that he might have stopped because his girlfriend might have heard about me and might see me as a threat. Or that he might have a crush on me but doesn’t want to destroy his one year and a Half relationship because he finally found someone. I know he has a girlfriend so that’s why at First i want to just be friends with him. But when i am in a room with himi feel like i make him uncomfortable and i also get uncomfortable. IT’s like i want to be there in a room with him but also want to go away because of the uncomfort. I love him soo much!! I can’t wait to go back at school and talk to social pedagogy and her telling me the plan.

  23. And His friends say all the time that he wasn’t stopped saying squrrel. He days it all the time. At school in science lesson, in other lessons. He does it with his friends but not with me! And i am just upset! I told him IT’s okay but he doesn’t do it anymore.

  24. I am gonna write this again because of mistakes. His friends say he hasn’t stopped saying squirrel. He jokes about it all the time. At school in Science lesson, in other lessons. He jokes about it with his friends but not with me! And i am so upset about it! Like i told him IT’s okay but he still doesn’t do it. I don’t know if he is taking a break and might start again After the holidays or not but still i am upset. Also while my father was accompaning me to the bus to go to München for 6 days my crush’s father greeted my father! It was so sweet and also while he was starting to do it again i saw two Times squirrels climbing a tree near my house.

    • The two of you share a strong social connection, and it is possible that he feels that the two of you are flirting with each other. However, he has a girlfriend, so you should abstain from nourishing a romantic relationship together. It is appropriate to continue being his friend, and you should navigate your relationship in whatever manner is reasonable.

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