Often times, figuring out what guys mean when they say something can be a little frustrating. After all, guys aren’t usually the type to share their feelings outright. They have a harder time saying what they mean when it comes to emotions. When they do tell you how they feel, it can be just as confusing as when they don’t!
If you’ve ever had a guy tell you that you’re a very big part of his being, you might be confused as to what exactly that entails. It sounds serious enough, but what does it all really mean? If a guy tells you this, he could mean any number of things – or, multiple things at once. Depending on who this guy is in your life, it could mean anything from deep, platonic friendship to romantic love.
1. He trusts you
When a guy tells you that you’re a big part of his being, it means that he feels like he can tell you anything. You’re a part of him as a person. He trusts you in all things. This means that he will trust you to listen to his feelings and accept him for who he is. He isn’t afraid to tell you all of his hopes, dreams, fears and choices in life. You’re probably closer to him than any of the other people in his life, even his guy friends. It’s a way of him telling you that he feels like he can trust you with anything – from his most personal feelings, to the most frivolous of things. You’re someone that he knows will never let him down.
2. You’ve made an impact on him
From the moment you stepped into his life, you’ve made a change in him. He may not have noticed it at first, but now he does and he’s letting you know. What a guy means when he says that you’re a big part of his being, is that you’re a part of his life that he can’t fathom no longer having. You’re so important to him that it feels like you’re an integral part of his being as a person. This could mean that you’re best friends, lovers or romantic partners. Whatever the type of relationship that you have together, he feels like you’ve changed him as a person – in the best way possible.
3. You’re irreplaceable
For some people, friends and people in their lives come and go. It’s easy for some people to let go of a friendship that has drifted away. But, when a guy tells you that you’re a very big part of his being, he’s letting you know that you’re not one of those people. You’re an irreplaceable part of his life. He’s letting you know that there’s never going to be anyone like you in his life, and that he doesn’t want to spend his life without you in it. Whether these feelings are romantic or not don’t matter. You’re a part of his being, and he doesn’t think that anyone else will do when it comes to being you.
4. He’s in love with you
Being a very big part of someone’s being doesn’t always have to be romantic. If you’ve ever had a sibling that you’re extremely close to, or a bestfriend that you couldn’t live without, you would understand the feeling. But, for some guys, letting someone in that close means that he’s absolutely, head over heels in love with you. Guys are hard to read sometimes, but being told that you’re a big part of a guy’s being is a good indicator that his feelings for you go past just being platonic. You’ll want to sit him down and talk with him about just what this whole thing means – but it’s a very good sign that he thinks of you as someone he would want to spend the rest of his life with.
Depending on the context of the guy in your life, being told that you’re a very big part of his being could mean multiple things. But for the most part, he usually means what he says: that you’re so important to him that he feels as if you’re a part of who he is. Your personality, your thoughts, opinions and feelings are important to helping shape him as a person.
This could mean that he trusts and respects you as a best friend, or that he’s madly, deeply in love with you. You’re someone that is so important to him that he doesn’t want to think about living without you. The best thing to do when you’re told this is to try and understand where he’s coming from, so you can accept how he feels. Guys don’t like to be vulnerable, so this will be a big thing coming from him.