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What Does It Mean When A Guy Stares At You But Doesn’t Smile?

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You might catch a guy looking at you but oddly enough, he is not reacting to your attention. Both of you hold an awkward staring contents and you cannot read or understand what is going in his head. To some extent, it might freak you out or even scare you. His blank stare has you questioning if he likes you, if does not notice what he is doing or if there is something on your face. Do not worry, we have all been there and here are a few things that he might be thinking.

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What does his stare mean?

1. You remind him of someone

We all have encountered someone who looks exactly like someone we knew. We stare at them and examine their face to see if it is the person we are thinking of.

As you know, when people see something familiar, they get lost in their own thoughts. Due to that, he might not be smiling because he is in his own little world. He could be thinking of moments that he has had with the person you remind him of.

2. He is in a deep thought

Zoning out is something done by everyone. Often times when people zone out, he or she ends up having a focal point and staring there for a good amount of time.

If you catch a guy staring at you with a blank expression on his face, there is a high chance that he is in a deep thought. Awkwardly enough, he just happened to choose your face as a focal point.

The best way to see if he was zoned out is be seeing his reaction after he snaps out of it. If he seems embraced and his face and body become more expressive, he was definitely in a deep though.

3. He is trying to be mysterious

There is always that one guy who tries to get your attention by acting like he does not care. That act is still relevant in this day and age, unfortunately.



He might just be trying to give you that mysterious vibe so you can try to pursue him. You can get a better gist of his intentions if you get to know him better.

4. You started the poker-face competition

Sometimes, we do not notice the actions we do and this can lead to strange situations. If you notice a guy staring at you with a poker-face, you could have initiated the poker-face competition.

In this type of situation, it is difficult to figure out who started it. He may have took your stare as a challenge or maybe an aggressive act so he is giving you a taste of your medicine.

5. He might like you

There are the guys who want to give off the mysterious vibe to capture your attention but then, there are the shy guys who are too afraid to react around you.

Some guys do not react or show any expression of interest because they are too shy of how it will come off. If you catch a guy staring at you without smiling and then instantly looks away, there is a high chance he is attracted to you but to shy to approach you.

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How to respond to the stare

Of course, it is difficult to know which situation you are in when judging someone’s stare. You have no clues since no reaction might come from you staring back. You are left with a big question mark but here are some ways to respond.

1. Stare back

The most obvious thing to do is stare back. It could become a staring competition but this can definitely determine what the stare means.



If one of you cracks into a smile, it could definitely lead into something. He might loosen up and make a funny face or even talk to you after. This is where you could see what his intentions are and by that, you can see if he likes you.

2. Confront him

To the fearless, confronting him could be something easy for you to do. This is not a reason to confront him aggressively though. You could joke around by saying, “Did I have something on my face before that you couldn’t tell me?”

That way, he knows that you caught him looking but it also creates an easy environment to break the ice. He notices that you did not find it weird and made the situation into a laughing matter.

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3. Break the staring contents 

If you catch a guy staring at you and he’s not smiling, another thing you can do is break him out of it. A subtle smile can definitely stop him from staring so seriously. After all, smiles are contagious. If you smile, there is a high chance he will smile back.

You can also make a silly face. He might think you are crazy but it will definitely make him snap out of his zone.

65 COMMENTS

  1. I know someone in my school who after I say something would just stare at me for Long,Like Really long periods of time!

    This Helped me a little bit!

    • Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Leletip!

  2. Thers is a tutor in my coaching centre.He always stares at me when iam writing my notes or listening to his classes.what does that mean???he stares at me by taking deep breath and when ever i looks at him by the time of staring he instanyly looks away.thera was a sent off party in my coaching institute.There was all teachers.He looked at me when ever i passes near to him and he stared at me on that day too.what does this staring means ?? Is this love???

    • It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His actions indicate that you are on his mind. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Karthika!

    • Comment:Eh I have the same situation ;-; and I seriously like this guy but he is one year younger than me ‘-‘Idk what to do.. I am just SO IN LOVE WITH HIM.. When he stares at me for long… I am like “What do u want lol” then I smile back… What does that mean..

      • Do not allow your difference in age prevent you from developing a relationship with him. If the age difference may cause legal considerations, then remain patient. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. His behaviors are indications that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Have a great day, LA!

  3. Thers is a tutor in my coaching centre.He always stares at me when iam writing my notes or listening to his classes.what does that mean???he stares at me by taking deep breath and when ever i looks at him by the time of staring he instanyly looks away.thera was a sent off party in my coaching institute.There was all teachers.He looked at me when ever i passes near to him and he stared at me on that day too.what does this staring means ?? Is this love???pls i need a reply

    • It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Determine if you believe that his relationship is viable. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

  4. Hi,this site was a little helpful but I still have questions:we’ve never talked to eachother but always when he saw me he just stare and when I saw him staring he didn’t look away,he continued!i remember a Month ago he looked at me with that poker face expression from far and his friend was showing him sth(there were some papers)and he just nodded while he was staring at me!!i did sth wrong 2day ago from that day was that because of that?and then a day after his friend was talking to him and I came there and he stared,I stared then I break the moment.then l went to the room(which was near his room)and put my bag and went downstairs.when I came upstairs his friends were about to leave(near elevator)but he was near the door of his room and staring at me again!!Please help me🙏🏻Did he just stared because I did sth wrong(a day ago I was rude to some body else and I don’t know he knows everything or not)I mean did he just stare because of my rudeness??

    • It is possible that he is confused or uncertain about his feelings toward you. It is certain that your actions have influenced his feelings toward you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Parisa!

  5. Hi,this is helpful but I still have questions:we’ve never talked to eachother but when he saw me he just stare and when I saw him staring he didn’t look away,he continued!I remember a month ago he looked at me with that poker face expression from far while his friend was showing him sth(there were papers)and he just nodded while he was staring at me.i did sth wrong 2days ago from that day,was that because of that?and then a day after his friend was talking to him and I came there he stared,I stared then I break the moment,then I went to the room(which was near his room,put my bag and went downstairs.when I went upstairs his friends were about to leave(near elevator)but he was near the door of his room staring at me again!did he just stared because I did sth wrong(a day ago I was rude to someone and I don’t know he knows everything or not)I mean did he just stare at me because of my rudeness??!

    • It is possible that he is confused or uncertain about his feelings toward you. It is certain that your actions have influenced his feelings toward you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Parisa!

  6. Hello this site was very helpful but I am still confused about this guy. He is a teacher at my school he would come to class and stare at me before he begins the lesson for about 7 secs. During the lesson he may sometimes stare at me after catching my stare then give me a expressionless yet cold umm intense stare for a prolonged period until I get intimidated to the point that I started shaking and look away. When I was sitting his test he was in front of the class giving me an intense stare I caught his stare and returned the look until I felt intimidated again and continued my test. I hear he’s a nice teacher but he confuses me. He no longer teaches me now but I sometimes see him looking at me from a distance with a more calm but open look. There were times he didn’t look at all and like he was trying to
    ignore me. Then this time came when I was walking and I saw him at the end of the corridor walking in my direction I panicked and decided to walk the lower area of the corridor. It turns out he was staring at me the whole time as I walked because he didn’t move and I wasn’t looking at him while walking. I was close to where he was standing a decided to glance there. HE WAS BENDING TOWARDS ME SIMILING WITH FOLED LIPS AND OPENED EYES. I didn’t know what to do I got scared and my eyes couldn’t stop squinting and blinking he stopped and stood and gave me a normal lòok. HE WAS PROBABLY WEIRED OUT hehe.. I continued walking after that. I am glad to say that he currently doesn’t look at me but i want to know what his confusing stares means please!

    • If your teacher is acting in an inappropriate manner, then you may find benefit in speaking with school staff. Allow thoughts of your teacher to fade. There is no reason to attempt to nourish an unprofessional relationship with your teacher. Have a great day, Christine!

  7. I volunteer at the hospital and this guy who works there is always staring everytime he passes me and when I make eye contact and stuff he doesn’t look away. I usually just make eye contact for a second or two then break it off, he also walked past me and winked at one point (he winked towards the wall, not directly at me but nobody else was there.) I kind of thought he was making fun of me because he was holding back a smile/laughter and looking down afterwards, then he pulled a straight face and stared again like intensely till he got out of sight. However, I seen him the other day and he stared again but this time gave me this half smile, I again didn’t react to it but I did look at him for a prolonged period of time when he was walking away, I thought he couldn’t see me but he was like looking back slightly and watching me as I was sort of checking him out from the corner of his eye so of course I looked away. I like him but I’m unsure if he likes me besides he is 23 & I’m 17

    • It is possible that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Caitlin!

  8. Hi I have knows guy for a long time (2 years) I have liked him for 2 years but then I stop and start again, we have science together and sits like way across the room but all I see is his head, but for the past couple days he will glance at me then go back whatever he was doing. When we pass eachother in the halls sometimes we will glance at eachother and then keep walking with our friends…what does this mean?

    • He may just be looking at you because he notices you looking at him, or someone could have mentioned your feelings to him and he is curious. It is also possible that he likes you and noticed you looking at you. Just glances are not enough to tell what is going on though. Try talking to him a bit to get a better read on what he is thinking and feeling. Good luck, Emily!

  9. Also we will talk sometimes for projects if he will say oh “Emily so smart” because I won first place in a game, this site is helpful but o am confused if we like eachother but to scared to admit it. Or I feel like he stares at me because I am to weird or because my mom teaches him?

    • It sounds like he respects you for sure, but he might also like you. Try talking to him a bit, flirt with him and see where things go. Otherwise, you may never find out if he is interested or not.

  10. There’s this guy I like and I asked him out and he rejected me and A few months later he starts to stare at me and then when I see him starring at me he does not look away he always stares at me . When I was at the microwave making my lunch in the cafeteria he was in line getting food he was starring at me . What does this mean? Can you please help me?

    • It is possible that he was not interested in developing a relationship with you months ago. His feelings for you may have changed during that time. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you at this time. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Madison!

  11. There’s this guy at my school who always stares at me with a blank expression, usually when we are both alone and walking past each other, along time ago he was staring at me with a soft smile for a long time, but I didn’t react and now he doesn’t smile anymore. Also whenever I’m in a class and he walks by, he stares right in like he’s looking for someone. And if I’m in a class he’s in he avoids me and looks in the other direction.

    • It is possible that he once felt a strong emotional connection with you. His feelings may have changed over time. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what you think is viable and appropriate. If this person reaches out to you, then share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Kaila!

  12. There’s a guy in my class who always stared at me. For past 2 years we stared at each other. We both get nervous when we see each other.He tried to get lil’ bit close but I didn’t give him a chance. I liked him a lot but I didn’t even smiled with him. I still don’t know why. After 2 years here I am seeing him again,at university. Same face, same smile but a different person. He doesn’t look at me like before. He look away and trying to show that he ignores me. But when I noticed that sometimes he looks at me when I’m not looking at his side. But not that much. What does this mean? I really wanna talk to him, at least as friends. I’m done with this ‘ignoring each other’ thing.But how can I do that when he is ignoring me!

    • It is possible that he feels a social and emotional connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Now that the two of you are in college, previous high school social requirements may have changed. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Ov!

  13. There’s a guy in my class who always stared at me. For past 2 years we stared at each other. He tried to get lil’ bit close but I didn’t give him a chance. I liked him a lot but I didn’t even smiled with him. What if he’s just playing around me? I was scared to express my feelings. After 2 years here I am seeing him again. Same face, same smile but a different person. He doesn’t look at me like before. He ignores me. We act like we’ve never seen before.But I noticed that sometimes he looks at me when I’m not looking at him. What does that mean? I’m done with this ignoring each other thing. I really wanna talk to him, at least as friends. But How can I do that when he’s ignoring me!

    • It is possible that he feels a social and emotional connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Now that the two of you are in college, previous high school social requirements may have changed. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Ov!

  14. Hi, so there’s this kinda older boy who has been staring at me for like six months now without a smile (but recently with one). Before it started he called me ‘thick’ to his friends and now I’m getting these really weird vibes like he likes me. But he has a girlfriend.

    • It is possible that he is interested in developing a physical relationship with you. He is in a relationship. Allow thoughts of this person to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what kind of person to develop a relationship with you. Have a great day, Carter!

  15. Hi, so there’s been this boy *we’re not in the same grade* and he’s been staring at me for like six months now. He always stares at me when he’s in a group of friends and ALWAYS when we cross each other’s path. Before it started, he told his friend that I was “thick”. I have this weird feeling that he likes me but he has a girlfriend. Thoughts?

    • It is possible that he is interested in developing a physical relationship with you. He is in a relationship. Allow thoughts of this person to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what kind of person to develop a relationship with you. Have a great day, Carter!

  16. I met this boy through a whatsapp group and we are in the same school. He is in the section which is opposite to mine. My bff is in his section. When i go to call her i always notice him staring at me. Like when ever he sees me he just stares at me. He never talks with me in real life, but talks with me a lot on whatsaap. Like what does this mean?

    • The two of you share a social connection. It is possible that your bff will have information or advice. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what is viable and appropriate. If you want to date this person, then attempt to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If not, then focus on your education and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Rai!

  17. Thanks I’ll try a silly face or stare back instead of looking away because smiling and confrontation hasn’t worked.

    I confronted him about it and he claims he’s staring into space which was total BS but I played along.We use to talk but all of a sudden he acted as if he didn’t see me while shuffling to look busy and looked at me after I passed by. After that he starts with the intense stares so I try to avoid his gaze. Now I think he avoids me because he’s hurt that I started avoiding him.

    I just don’t get it and wish he didn’t even look at me or that my heart didn’t skip a beat when I see him.

    • It sounds as though this person is either ignoring your, spacing out, or has a lot on his mind. Determine what you want for this relationship. Decide what actions of his are appropriate. Either continue avoiding him or speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He may find benefit in learning about how is actions influence people. Have a great day, Lily!

      • Thanks I think either ignoring or at lot on his mind, I can’t tell. But I want to talk I just wish he would start the conversation.
        Maybe it’s best I continue avoiding him if he’s ignoring me or has a lot on his plate. I don’t want to bother him.

        • It is possible that he has many influences in his life. He may be unable or unwilling to nourish a relationship at this time. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. It seems as though he would gain benefit by having time for himself. If he reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Lily!

          • Thank you for sharing your positive comment. Please feel free to share your insights in the future. Have a great day, Lily!

  18. I seriously like this guy but he is one year younger than me ‘-‘Idk what to do.. I am just SO IN LOVE WITH HIM.. When he stares at me for long… I am like “What do u want lol” then I smile … What does that mean..

    • You have determined what you want for this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will find benefits in spending additional time with him in person. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, LA!

  19. Comment:I am afraid of the future too.. my parents aren’t too supportive in these things… I just love him.. He stares at me for long and then he leaves with his friends… Whenever I talk whenever I walk past him..

    • You have determined what you want for this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will find benefits in spending additional time with him in person. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Speak with your parents about this relationship to ensure that you have approval. Have a great day, LA!

  20. In Freshman year There is this guy who wanted to ask me out but his friends helped him because I think he was shy. But he is really talkative to his friends and people but when it comes to me he seems shy. Anyways he came up to me to ask me out and I thought he was messing with me so I walked away from him. Then in sophomore year we had a class together and he sat behind me. He tried talking to me but I was nervous to talk to him because I was starting to like him. He would do the nicest things and he would listen to my conversations. One time he was staring at me while I was presenting in front of the class and I looked at him and he looked away. In that school year nothing really happened besides that. In junior year my friend told me that he was staring at me and I’ve also noticed it so I looked back and he quickly looked away. he did this a couple of times so at the end of the school year my friends helped me by giving him letters I wrote that I wanted to know why he was staring at me but he didn’t say anything about it. Sometimes he would walk with girls that were his friends and he would stare at me. Then at the end of that school year my friends helped me to get his attention so I could talk to him and I asked him if he ever liked me and I told him that I liked him back and the only thing he said was no he didn’t like me. Then in senior year we had another class together so he would stare at me again and I didn’t know about it until my friend told me. He did this a couple of times and I just don’t know why if he said he doesn’t like me. I would catch him staring at me and he didn’t look away so I looked away.But then he stared dating this girl and sometimes he would look at me while he was with her. Then I ignored him and he kinda stopped. Then after we graduated my friend helped me by asking him if he ever liked me. He thought about it and said “hmm did I ever like her” and he then said not really, no sorry. When my friend told me that I didn’t know why he thought about the question she asked. It’s been almost a year Since I last saw him at school and just the other day I saw him in public and I didn’t see him at first but I felt being stared at so I looked up and it was him. I looked back at him for a couple of seconds and he didn’t look away. Oh yeah and I forgot to mentioned that I followed him on social media in sophomore year but he didn’t follow me back. I don’t believe that he is telling the truth when he said he doesn’t like me because what about those times he tried asking me out. And I tried talking to him by messaging on Instagram but he doesn’t respond. I want to know why he’s acting like this. Did I do something wrong? Is he shy? Is he even more shy because I like him back? Why doesn’t he want to talk to me?

    • It is possible that he had developed feelings for you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. He may want to develop a relationship with someone else. Determine what you want for your future. It is possible that spending additional time with him in person will strengthen your relationship. If he is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you, then focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Flor!

  21. There is this guy who wanted to ask me out in freshman year and I walked away from him when he came up to me bc I didn’t know what he wanted. His friends helped him to make him talk to me. He’s a really nice guy and he is really talkative to his friends and to people but not to me. I don’t know if he’s shy but I tried following him on social media and he never followed me back. In sophomore year My friend saw that he was staring at me and sometimes I would see him staring that when I looked at him he looked away. I don’t know if he’s shy or something but in junior year my friends helped me by calling his name to get his attention so I could talk to him and I told him that I liked him back and I also asked him if he likes me and he said he doesn’t like me. Then he would still stare at me but when I looked at him he wouldn’t look away. Sometimes he would walk with his friends and still be staring at me. Some of his friends noticed he looked at me. Then in senior year he dated this girl and sometimes when he was with her he would stare at me. After we graduated my friend asked him if he ever liked me and he thought about it and he said “hmmm did I ever liked her” and he said not really no sorry. Then the other day I saw him out in public with his group of friends and he stared at me but I didn’t notice it until they passed by a second time. And he stared at me and I looked at him and he didn’t look away but I looked away Because I got nervous. I don’t know if he’s shy or if he really means that he doesn’t like me, but when I try to talk to him he avoids me. Is it because he’s shy? Is it because he really means he doesn’t like me? Is it because he might knows that my friends know about him and I? Or did I do something wrong?

    • He has told you that he is not interested in developing a relationship with you. His feelings for you may have changed. He may be shy and unable or unwilling to admit his feelings. However, he has explained that he is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Lo!

  22. Hey. There is this guy who’s in my maths class. He’s always asking me for help even though he knows the answers. Days passed, I started catching him staring at me and the state seemed kinda serious and deep. Somedays he would started a convo w others and then start talking to me suddenly. In holidays I texted him for homework but he left me on read. Since then I kinda moved away from him but he still wouldn’t stop staring at me and asking me for help. Some days ago I was in the same bus as him and I was looking away at something; I looked back and I caught him staring at me. I maybe thinking too much but ugh I don’t wanna like him

    • If he knows the answers and finds that he wants to ask you for help, then it is likely that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. If you want to establish a relationship, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Soul!

      • Thank you for such an amazing and quick reply :)) but I don’t know what to tell him, because he seems kinda cocky as he is in the popular group and also is very friendly with my ex crush (with whom I had a bad fight with). I don’t think he likes me, but his looks and smiles and talks confuse me

        • It is possible that he likes you. It is possible that his relationship with your ex crush may be influencing his feelings. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. You may want to allow him to reach out to you first. Have a great day, Soul!

          • Okay so I texted him and he left me on seen so quickly like I’m so offended what do I do he is going to tell everyone I’m so scared

          • It is possible that he is uncertain what to say in response. He may be with someone else who is in his life. He may have a friend or family member who is influencing his actions. Perhaps attempt to speak with him in person. This will give you an opportunity to understand his feelings. Have a great day, Soul!

  23. There’s this guy that I like he always stares at me, he doesn’t listen to his friends talking to him he just looks at me with the slightest smile and when I see him looking I look back at him and he doesn’t look away. What does this mean?

    • It sounds like he might be interested in you. The fact that he keeps looking at you seems to indicate that he wants you to know he is interested as well. Now, you just have to decide if you want to try talking to him to see what happens. Best of luck, Annebelle!

  24. There is this guy I used to like I think he liked me too but we have seen talked in a while so I decide to approach him and we talked laughing and stuff when I wasn’t looking he was staring at me and when I looked he looked in my eyes for 2 seconds then look away without smiling and didn’t look at me agian for the rest of the conversation (he wasn’t even facing me) but when I was leaving he turned and watched me leave and another time I approached he faced away from me (we didn’t really talk) then when I was getting on the bus he was watching me without smiling When I go on the bus I seen him looking at me with no expression so I waved and smiled but he only waved without smiling … I was pretty sure he liked me … no he seems so different but why does he never smile? Does he hate me ? He used to smile at me all the time

    • There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. The smile may mean something, but his lack of communication is causing you to feel confused. Determine what you want for this relationship. Perhaps attempt to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. He will be able himself and his actions. Have a great day, Wisca!

  25. There is this guy in my street and whenever we walk by each other we just stare at each other but I don’t know w hat this means

    • The two of you are aware of each other. Each of you may have various feelings regarding the other person. It is possible that he has similar questions. Determine what you want for this relationship. If you want to reach out to him, then perhaps speak with him when you see him next. Have a great day, Lem!

  26. Hi, I have a male colleague who was kinda close to me but recently we drifted apart due to some small incident between us and he told me he was feeling emotional few close to 2 months ago but recently we started picking pieces again. Just the other day as i was going to the copier room i was walking towards his desk direction and he looked up and looked straight at my direction and i looked back at him but he was not smiling and i tried to smile back abit but he still continue his intense stare at me. Can you tell me what this means cos i like him really alot.

    • Your relationship was stressed and the two of you have resumed your relationship. Your experience may be a sign of various aspects of your relationship. You may find benefit in speaking with him about your thoughts and feelings. Ensure that you give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

      • Hi, I am afraid to confide my feelings and thought to him to make things worst. Last week, another male colleague was speaking on my phone with him on some arrangement stuff as I was occupied with something else and not available to speak on the phone and later on he messaged me telling me he spoke with my husband. And i managed to clear the air and he also realized was our colleague. I do not know what this and the intense stare supposed to mean? Prior to the intense stare he made a comment while he looked for me that if i do not want him to look for me and I was caught off guard and gave him my honest reply that I do want him to look for me. I am really confused what is on his mind and what should i do.

        • You should take this time to determine what you want for your future. Decide if this relationship is viable and appropriate. If you want to develop a relationship with him and don’t want to be direct with him, then attempt to spend additional time with him in person. You may also give yourself some time to think more deeply on the subject of this relationship. Have a great day, Confused!

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