Going out is all fun and dandy, right? Until you run into a cute guy and he doesn’t take the time out of his day to talk to you, that is! Especially if it seems like he is talking to everyone around… Except you. This can lead to hurt feelings on your end. You might even find yourself confused, disappointed and even a little bitter. And now you are here asking the question of what it means when a guy talks to everyone but you… We understand why you would want to know. Your initial thought is probably something like, ‘Man this guy must really hate me.’ Although that can be true in some situations, it isn’t the truth for every single situation there is. So don’t worry too much just yet, because there are a few different reasons as to why he might be paying attention to everybody but you. To find out what those reasons are just look below!
The Reasons Why
He Does Not Like You: We hate to tell you this, but there is a good chance that if he is talking to everyone but you then it means that he probably does not like you. We would not be able to tell you why at all. You should think about if there is anything you have done to make him not like you? Maybe you two have fought in the past. Or you have done something that majorly weirded him out before. Not every guy is going to like you. And that is totally okay. You should not be worried if this one guy does not want to spend time talking to you. You will find someone who can’t stop talking to you and is totally worth your time! We promise! All you need is a little patience.
He Is Just Nervous: But there is also a chance that he does like you, but he just has not worked up the nerve to talk to you. You might be out of his league and he might know it. Which is why he does not want to talk to you. He is absolutely afraid of getting crushed by you. He might be scared that he won’t know what to say to you. There is a possibility that he is trying to collect more information about you before he approaches you. He might want to know what to talk about before just diving into a conversation head on. This means that he really likes you. Like he has a major crush on you. However, he is just simply too cowardly to act on it. Which might make it seem like he hates you. Try talking to him first and seeing what his reaction is. If he wants to talk to you after you approach him, you can safely say that he doesn’t dislike you.
He Has A Girlfriend: He might just be a taken man. We are sorry to say ladies, but not every man alone somewhere is single! It might just be that his girlfriend or the person that he likes is just not around at the time. But he might have some of her friends lurking around or people that are being her eyes for the night. That means that he is taking extra precaution by avoiding girls like you. He does not want word to get back to his partner that he was talking to a random girl! If you have ever been in a relationship, you probably get this!
He Is Playing Hard To Get: Haven’t you ever heard that a guy who likes you might ignore you? Well, it happens all of the time! He might be ignoring you because he knows it is going to drive you crazy. This is his way of playing the game of hard to get. Yes, we know that it is frustrating, but it happens more often than we would like to think. And, no, it doesn’t always just happen with middle schoolers. Actual adults tend to do this to. Why? We wish that we knew. But it is just something that some people still do. He might be waiting for you to chase after him. You might take this as the reason if he is sending flirtatious signals to you, but not acting on them. Like he makes a lot of eye contact with you, winks at your, etc.
He Wants You To Make The First Move: He might not be playing hard to get, yet he might be the type of guy that likes when the girl makes the first move. Some guys are just not that old fashioned anymore. He might not be the one who likes to initiate conversation with a girl. He might like when she is the one doing the initiating. Try talking to him first. He might have been waiting for you to simply say hello.