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What Does It Mean When A Guy Talks To Everyone But You?

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Going out is all fun and dandy, right? Until you run into a cute guy and he doesn’t take the time out of his day to talk to you, that is! Especially if it seems like he is talking to everyone around… Except you. This can lead to hurt feelings on your end. You might even find yourself confused, disappointed and even a little bitter. And now you are here asking the question of what it means when a guy talks to everyone but you… We understand why you would want to know. Your initial thought is probably something like, ‘Man this guy must really hate me.’ Although that can be true in some situations, it isn’t the truth for every single situation there is. So don’t worry too much just yet, because there are a few different reasons as to why he might be paying attention to everybody but you. To find out what those reasons are just look below!

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The Reasons Why

He Does Not Like You: We hate to tell you this, but there is a good chance that if he is talking to everyone but you then it means that he probably does not like you. We would not be able to tell you why at all. You should think about if there is anything you have done to make him not like you? Maybe you two have fought in the past. Or you have done something that majorly weirded him out before. Not every guy is going to like you. And that is totally okay. You should not be worried if this one guy does not want to spend time talking to you. You will find someone who can’t stop talking to you and is totally worth your time! We promise! All you need is a little patience.

He Is Just Nervous: But there is also a chance that he does like you, but he just has not worked up the nerve to talk to you. You might be out of his league and he might know it. Which is why he does not want to talk to you. He is absolutely afraid of getting crushed by you. He might be scared that he won’t know what to say to you. There is a possibility that he is trying to collect more information about you before he approaches you. He might want to know what to talk about before just diving into a conversation head on. This means that he really likes you. Like he has a major crush on you. However, he is just simply too cowardly to act on it. Which might make it seem like he hates you. Try talking to him first and seeing what his reaction is. If he wants to talk to you after you approach him, you can safely say that he doesn’t dislike you.

He Has A Girlfriend: He might just be a taken man. We are sorry to say ladies, but not every man alone somewhere is single! It might just be that his girlfriend or the person that he likes is just not around at the time. But he might have some of her friends lurking around or people that are being her eyes for the night. That means that he is taking extra precaution by avoiding girls like you. He does not want word to get back to his partner that he was talking to a random girl! If you have ever been in a relationship, you probably get this!

He Is Playing Hard To Get: Haven’t you ever heard that a guy who likes you might ignore you? Well, it happens all of the time! He might be ignoring you because he knows it is going to drive you crazy. This is his way of playing the game of hard to get. Yes, we know that it is frustrating, but it happens more often than we would like to think. And, no, it doesn’t always just happen with middle schoolers. Actual adults tend to do this to. Why? We wish that we knew. But it is just something that some people still do. He might be waiting for you to chase after him. You might take this as the reason if he is sending flirtatious signals to you, but not acting on them. Like he makes a lot of eye contact with you, winks at your, etc.

He Wants You To Make The First Move: He might not be playing hard to get, yet he might be the type of guy that likes when the girl makes the first move. Some guys are just not that old fashioned anymore. He might not be the one who likes to initiate conversation with a girl. He might like when she is the one doing the initiating. Try talking to him first. He might have been waiting for you to simply say hello.

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42 COMMENTS

  1. He just seems to talk to everyone but me. Well I do talk to him but it’s not like a long conversation. He butts in to everyone else’s conversations ( including if I’m in them) but never initiates conversations with me never… Hes a nice guy and i hope he likes me back but i really cant tell. Help or advice please?

    • It is possible that he treats you differently than others because he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is unwilling or unable to develop a relationship with you at this time. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sam!

  2. I’m with my partner 3 and a half years what does it mean when he doesn’t have adult conversations with me just sits there and dosent talk and he does with everybody else???

    • This may be a sign that his feelings for you have changed. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Sarah!

  3. So There’s this guy, Jake. He’s like my brothers best friend. He and I texts online for about 3 years now everyday. When I mark the message as read and did not reply, he texts again and again until I reply. We hv a lot in common too. And we have no trouble talking about sex or porn stuff, but here’s the thing : when we see each other, it’s VERY awkward. He won’t talk to me but will talk to everyone. And when I do talk to him, he stares at the floor and answer, not meeting my gaze. However, he shares his secrets with me in text. But when I ask why is he not talking to me but everyone else , he texted me that he’s shy and that’s why he talks to only his girls and guy friends at class, btw I’m a year smaller than him. When in texting, we can talk about the most awkward stuff like relationship, porn, sex etc. but in real life, he won’t even talk to me something simple. Tho in text, he will indirectly ask me to join him and my brother for movies, but I rejected cuz my brother doesn’t like it. Please tell me what’s going on, is there something that bothers him that I don’t know? Or does he hates me?

    • It is likely that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. He feels comfortable with you and may want to develop a relationship with you. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. He may be unable to express himself in public. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Emma!

      • He had said that he’s shy, and that he only talk to girls he knows a lot, so is he not interested or trying to hide his feelings? Do you think he likes me?

        • If he is shy and speaking with you, then he likely has a strong emotional connection with you. He likely wants to develop a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Emma!

          • This guy is rude towards me. We used flirt and talk because he knew i liked him.recently, he held the door open for everyone else but let it go when i was approaching. He hangs around my area sometimes and talks to everyone including my friends, but me. He does look at me from the corner of his eye or when he walks past me.

          • It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Sadly, he is choosing to share his emotions by treating you poorly. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide what you feel is appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings or allow him to fade from your mind. Have a great day, Montiya!

  4. So there’s this guy in my bus , at the starting of the year in school we used to talk a lot , and he used to tease me a lot , but I didn’t mind , I was just happy and I always spoke to him and he did too. But as the days went by all of a sudden I felt that we were drifting apart , so I took a chance and spoke to him , and he was just like “ oh..ok” , something like that it wasn’t very clear and I was so disappointed. Like this we kept going off and on , with small conversations . Then one day we had some picnic from school and he didn’t come , so the next day I sat back of him and I grabbed his shoulder from the back and gave a big smile and asked him why he didn’t come , he didn’t say anything but he was smiling , so I thought he was enjoying it and I continued asking him why , but he just kept smiling and looking out of the window . So then I stopped, I was fricking tired of this !. I got mad , but I didn’t say anything, I just thought to myself , “ Am I the only one who still wants to be friends ?”, . From that day onwards I started avoiding him , not like he wasn’t. And I thought one day he’ll make a move , but till now we haven’t spoke a word , and the best part about this is that he’s become very close to my bus mate, who sits next to me always , and now she’s flirting with him and showing me that he’s her friend now . Are they both teaming up to make me jealous!?, or is it that he just cannot stand me ?, please give me a solution to this !, I don’t want this to go on , and now that my busmate who sits next to me has graduated, she doesn’t come in the bus anymore , but he still doesn’t talk to me !, what’s his problem ?, what do I do ?

    • It is possible that the actions of your friend and this boy have nothing to do with you. They likely have developed an emotional connection together. You will find great benefit in allowing thoughts of this boy to fade. Take this time to determine what you want for your future without him. When you think of him, allow those thoughts to influence you to treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Carol!

  5. So there’s this guy in my bus , at the starting of the year in school we used to talk a lot , and he used to tease me a lot , but I didn’t mind , I was just happy and I always spoke to him and he did too. But as the days went by all of a sudden I felt that we were drifting apart , so I took a chance and spoke to him , he was just like “ oh..ok” , something like that it wasn’t very clear and I was so disappointed. Like this we kept going off and on , with small conversations . Then one day we had some picnic from school and he didn’t come , so the next day I sat back of him and I grabbed his shoulder from the back and gave a big

    • It is possible that he was interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be uncertain or confused about his feelings toward you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Carol!

  6. so there is this guy ..we read some courses together….he seems to talk to all the other gals and guys in the class except me….i tried talking to him one day and immediately i sat on a chair close to him he stood up though he didnt know i wanted to talk to him….he acts so wierd when i see him and whenever i sit by him he jx move to another seat…..is it that he hates me soo much that he cant stand me??

    • It is possible that this person is acting in a particular way for a variety of reasons. He may be interested in nourishing a relationship with someone else. His actions may be caused by his feelings regarding you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with this person about your thoughts and feelings if you feel comfortable doing so. Have a great day, Unicuta!

  7. Alright,idk how to start this but..i guess i can say that we friends,we talk everyday,he teases me sometimes,i have sat with him 2 times but the last time he sat beside me idk i just felt like he didnt want to sit next to me,he was looking at the back to the other two girls(they are my friends) but yeah :/

    • It sounds like he could like you–I wouldn’t read too much into the last time you were around him. He could have just been having an off day or not realized how you interpreted his behavior. There is no way to know if he likes you or not, but it definitely sounds like it is possible. Keep talking to him and see where things go. Good luck, Alice!

  8. So there is this guy that goes to the same church as me, and we are both in the choir. He is very shy, and so am I, but he has seemed to start coming out of his shell to everyone except me. He is homeschooled so I can understand him not being well aquatinted with people his age. I have only talked to him once, and we didn’t even look at each other, but there will be times where I catch him looking over at me. Overall, I’m not sure what this means.

    • It is possible that he is shy and uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. He may want to develop a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to do the same as well. Have a great day, Genevieve!

  9. So there’s this local store near my house and I go there most of the time.Also there’s this guy that works there which I find attractive and I go to this shop with my brother and every time he sees us he says hi to my brother and spuds him or something and just ignores me and he knows both of us.

    There were previous Times when I went with my brother and my brother told me the guy was staring at me and looking at my butt. Furthermore, him and I have made a lot of eye contact before and he’s winked at me before,he’s spoken to me before but now he just acts like I’m not there.

    But I don’t know if it’s because he’s older than me.and if he does in front of customers it might come across as if he’s flirting with me

    Plus this guy seems like a pretty confident guy and talks to all customers and anyone except me and I don’t know why he’s doing this

    • It is certainly possible that he is attracted to you. He may speak only to your brother for a variety of reasons. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Joanna!

  10. There’s a guy at work I’ve been getting mixed signals from. I feel like he’s intimidated by me from his body language. He’s been working here for about four months and we didn’t start acknowledging the others prescense until here recently when I had to start helping him take orders in dining. We both work in a retirement facility. He’s always the one initiatiating conversation, and when we talk he doesn’t really hold eye contact, and just seems all around genuinely nervous. But when I’m in his vacinity of where he works, 9/10 times he approaches me and asks me for help when he really doesn’t need it or stops to say something that ends up being a dead end conversation. He’s approached me on a few occasions about a conversation I had with someone while he was in ear shot. For example: I came to work one day wearing a fake hair extension. Everyone was complimenting me. I mentioned it wasn’t my real hair. He approached me later asking, “so, your hair thing is fake?” His question kinda caught me off guard, but I smiled and showed him by taking it off. And that was it. Our conversations usually involve a few short exchanges and that’s it. Yet he can talk to everyone else and my co-worker, who is my best friend, just fine. It could be we both are just socially awkward to begin with, and I’m just looking too much into it. The reason I feel like he might be intimidated by me is because one time I went over to help him fold the silverware in the napkins. We didn’t talk. About a minute or so later he abruptly gets up and starts doing another task, leaving me to finish the silverware by myself and a bit nonplussed by his actions. Honestly, I’m just looking to just be friends with him, break the ice, but he’s making even that difficult.

    • It is possible that he is interested in developing a social relationship with you. He may want to learn about you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Nicole!

  11. So there was this guys who was sitting in my class and he always sit in the group behind me. Put in mind that this was a month full paid fellowship to stay in another country with 14 different nationalities. Now I always used to caught this guy starring at every class, but he used to ignore me when he aproaches me and my friend and he talks to her completely ignoring me as if I am not there with no eye contact what so ever also I see them always together and she sometimes called him my brother. When every group do a project and it’s time for my group to present he gets up from his seat to sit on my seat and focusses at me. Like what’s wrong. If he intiates a conversation with me he losses interest and just leaves me like why?. The was couple of occasion when there were to guest speaker siminar and my friend and I were looking for the best seats to reserve by just buting our bags and we were heading to the toilet. We went back and to my surprise he switched her bag with his so now he sat with me the whole siminar bitting his nails completely ignoring me. I couldn’t confront him as I wouldn’t let feel hat I was annoyed or concerned but it kept going on and on for a whole month. The last day of the fellowship I went with him and his friend to down town to buy some gifts for our family and we all went to this shop so I kept looking around for good stuff but didn’t like anything so I told them I would be standing in the front door wait for you guys to finish. I gave my back to them and was gazing at the sky then I turned around and I saw him staring at me but this time he kept eye contact and I didn’t smile I last focus and kept looking around avoiding him. I didn’t understand but at the night of all of us leaving back to our countries he came and said bye and told me that I will visit you soon. Like what the fuck why is he now talking to me. I told him you are always welcomed out of politeness and this time he was smiling at me. I didn’t understand what’s going on? Why is he doing this? And what does all that mean? Does he really like me or he really hates me? And I forgot to tell you that he is Christian and I am a Muslim. Also I was so friendly and everyone had no problem talking to me as I am very open minded.

    • The two of you shared your cultures. He may have felt that his actions were appropriate. Some of your actions may have been confusing to him as well. Determine what you want for your future. Decide if this relationship is viable. It is always beneficial to share your kindness and compassion, and there is no need to develop a relationship if you do not want to do so. Have a great day, Sara!

  12. This is gonna be weird…. So i like this guy online he is sorta popular/famous (not that famous) and he makes YouTube videos with his brother. He controls the channel the most. He replies to All his fans comments but me. Even the people with no profile picture. I have my picture up and his fans even compliment how pretty and reply to my comments but he doesn’t. If I give him a compliment about him anything I like his hair, he won’t say thank you but someone (guy/girl) would say the exact same compliment and he’ll say thank you to them. He sees my comments because they were live online once and his brother said “____ , we see your comments all the time.” So he does see them!!!! I commented on it and he skipped over me again. Its weird, im not saying anything flirty or strange.

    • It is possible that he skips over comments of other people as well. He may not be certain how to respond to you. He may respond to you in the videos. He may be uncertain that you have these concerns. Perhaps speak directly with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will find benefit in determining what you want for your future. Have a great day, Rima!

  13. There is this guy in my school with which I’ve texted a lot. We barely talked in person! It’s been a long time since we last texted. Now, he talks with all of my friends and just ignores me! This is so anoying ! I would really like to talk to him because he seems to be a nice person but he probably doesn’t wants to talk to me.

    • It is likely that he is comfortable speaking with your over text. He may not enjoy speaking with people in person. Perhaps speak with him over the phone before you speak with him in person. Share your thoughts and feelings with him. You will strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him. Have a great day, Ann!

  14. I like this guy at church,but he doesn’t even talk to me he doesn’t even greet he talks to everyone in my family and my friends but me he sometimes gives me eye contact I don’t understand what does it all mean because I am bubbly person and very sociable.

    • There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. Because both you and him are social people, it is likely that he is shy in regards to developing a relationship with you. This may mean that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you, but is unable to share his thoughts. Determine what you want for your future and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Malondy!

  15. Hi
    So there is this guy. We have some classes together. He seems talkative with many of the classmates. I sat next to him like for sometimes but had never have any single conversations.
    Then i changed my seat and i always wait to walk out from class on the last batch. But he, even though he sat somewhere closer to the door, always seemed to start to walks out whenever i‘m getting closer to his seat.
    So once our eyes met but we didn‘t talk and like compete on who gonna blink first then we‘re like avoiding each others eyes but he stands somehow always close to me.
    I know it seems like i‘m overly confidence, but just in case i just want to know if it means something 🙂

    • It is certainly possible that this person has thought about you. Your mutual behaviors are indications that you are interested in speaking with each other, but your shyness is preventing you from doing so. You will find benefit in determining what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Looks!

  16. Ok so here goes…

    There’s this guy I’ve known for quite a few years and every now and again we talk but due to distance we tend to video chat a lot. I told him I liked him which is something I would not necessarily do. He said nothing back so I didn’t mention it again. All of a sudden he stopped talking to me and I’m thinking what have I done. I know he has a busy work schedule so I’ve put it down to that. Quite possible I’m overreacting but it hurts that he’s cut me off

    • You shared your thoughts and feelings with him. There may have been a reason why he did not return his feelings with you. There may be someone in his life who has influenced his actions. He may be unable or unwilling to nourish a relationship with you. He is aware of your feelings, but he chose to stop speaking with you. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Silvia!

  17. I know this guy at university. We became friendly when I recruited him into my
    project group.

    One day during project meeting,he laughed to my jokes and once in a while stares at me and smiles while I was fussing with my friend over something.

    The next days during texts, he would’t reply to my long and various number of texts. He “read” my messages but doesn’t reply.
    He replies only to message concerning the project.
    Plus, he talks a lot to his guy friends outside but not to me.

    I don’t know what’s wrong.

    • There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. Some people do not communicate well over texts. He may feel comfortable with his male friends. He may be uncertain or confused about his feelings. He may be shy or unable to share himself with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, May!

  18. So there is this guy at work, he smiles everytime he sees me but doesnt say a word to me. Sometimes he says hi other times he just smiles. he talks to everyone around me but me. I caught him glance over at me a few times but idk if it’s because he hates me or what. im a Christian and I found out he’s a Christian too so I’m interested in talking to him but it seems like he’s not interested at all when he talks to everyone around me but me. all he does is smile and look at me.

    • His behaviors may be reflections of his desire to get to know you. If he talks to other people and not you, then he may be shy. He may be uncertain or confused about his feelings toward you. He may not know what you want with this relationship. Determine what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Jennifer!

  19. Hi.. I like a boy who is my classmate. But 1yr ago suddenly my friend are teasing us but that time we didn’t talk with each other also i didn’t like him but slowly slowly i don’t know why.. I’m liking him.. He also talked with me secretly nd me also.. When he needed help of me about studies.. Or any further helps! He Always told me. I followed him also Instagram but he didn’t follow back.. Truly say he is not following ne any sns.. We only talk on whtsapp. But now he don’t t talk with me, he is totally ignoring me.. That reason.. One month ago i blocked him on whtsapp, after 15day on Facebook he asked to me that what happened your whtapp.. You blocked me.. Then i told yes but he only said to me.. “ooo ok”.. Then i unblocked him from whtapp. But still he is ignoring me. Please give me any suggestions

    • Your reason for blocking him was unusual. This may have caused him to feel uncertain or confused about your feelings. He may no longer be interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Learn from this experience and apply this knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Manna!

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