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  1. Helena
    February 9, 2018

    There’s this guy in my class; he’s very nice and funny, although I don’t think that he ever thought about having a relationship yet. I was in the school bus with him and I wan leaning on his shoulder. I closed my eyes and suddenly I felt him pulling an end of my hair playfully, a few times. I looked up and I saw him smiling and he asked ‘doesn’t it hurt?’ What does that supposed to mean? He’s definitely not shy, but sometimes he acted like that.

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      Web Admin
      February 9, 2018

      This action is a reflection of his emotional connection with you. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Helena!

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  2. Cerrie Bierwagen
    March 26, 2018

    A guy I have known for six years I was with him just talking and he was taking his fingers through my hair and given me a rubbing my shoulders.It really caught me off guard.

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      Web Admin
      March 27, 2018

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. His physical actions are signs of his emotional closeness and physical desires. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Cerrie!

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  3. Graceann
    April 5, 2018

    A guy that had a crush on me. While I was on lunch walk behind me and gently touch my up buns but I felt the touch shock but smile and said hi. He was already walking away. What dose that mean? Im sure it’s nothing. He is very shy also.

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      April 5, 2018

      It is possible that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. He is interested in developing a physical relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what actions you believe are appropriate. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Graceann!

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  4. SAnn
    April 11, 2018

    A guy I work with playfully put my hair into bunches and pulled me. I was in his way refusing to move. And he used this to move me out the way.
    We flirt a lot and I’m confused as to if he’s interested or not. I think the hair pulling means he is? What do you think?

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      Web Admin
      April 11, 2018

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely feels a strong social or emotional connection with you. He is attracted to you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Sann!

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  5. Nad
    April 16, 2018

    Hi!
    I’m from Argentina, so we greet with a kiss on the cheek. I do administrative work for a firm in my city. And the owners of the firm work in the same office floor than me. They have a familiar/friendly attitude towars the ones who work at that floor. Every morning they kiss on the cheek to everyone of us they encounter. But… one of the owners tends to grab mi arm and squeeze it softly with one hand, and places his other hand in the back of my head when he kiss me. He es like 41 and Im 26 (women). What do you think of that? He is a warm person but I have not see him doing it with the other girls on my office.
    Excellent article, thanks!!

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      April 16, 2018

      This person is interested in developing a physical relationship with you. His actions may not be culturally or socially acceptable. Determine what you believe is appropriate. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Decide what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Nad!

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  6. Michelle
    May 26, 2018

    Hello there!
    So lets just say I have this boy in my class in which we don’t talk that much with each other..he usually comes to my table and starts talking with one of his friends, and all of a sudden he turns towards me and pulls my hair[lightly] a few times, and just stares at me when I look up at him….
    Do you think there’s a meaning behind it?..

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      May 28, 2018

      It is likely that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He has pulled your hair, which is a behavior that may be an indication that he is physically attracted to you. Determine what you want for your future, and decide what you believe is appropriate for your relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Michelle!

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  7. Marielle
    July 3, 2018

    I’m about 12 and a random guy came up to me and touched my hair.. he’s also older than me

    Help?!

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      Web Admin
      July 4, 2018

      He might feel some paternal instinct toward you because of your age. At the same time, it is not appropriate for random guys to do this. You may want to let your parents know that you feel uncomfortable around this guy and try to avoid being around him if you can. Good luck, Marielle!

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  8. Anonymous you
    July 10, 2018

    There is this guy at work that I talk to and he usually tugs my hair very slightly (which happens to be in waves) right before he leaves and tells me I’m a distraction.

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    • Web Admin
      Web Admin
      July 11, 2018

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is attracted to you, and he may want to nourish a physical relationship with you. If he is in a relationship, then be aware of his actions. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what you believe is appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Anon!

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