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What Guys Like To Hear From Girls

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You might think that men are easy-going and that they don’t really have many standards when it comes to being in a relationship.  This might be true for more men than none (who’s counting?), after all their programmed response to mostly anything is a shrug and a sly, “Whatever”. However, you would be shockingly surprised that they are simply not that easy to please. Even if it seems that way in the first place.

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When you are in a relationship with someone that you love you need to remember that the whole thing is a two way street. Like a tango, it takes two. Without the both of you participating and tending to one another’s needs there will be no healthy relationship. It would just be a crappy relationship that definitely isn’t going to go anywhere and will end before you can make it to Christmas together.

Why? Because when one partner is neglecting what the other partner needs, whether they say they need something or not, things will go south pretty quickly.

Just like you need things from him, he will also always need things from you. You need to hear certain things, right? So why wouldn’t he need to hear the same type of things?

Men are different than women, of course, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want the same things in a relationship.

Don’t worry too much if you haven’t put much thought into this before, because luckily for you it’s pretty easy to get on the right path. All you have to know is what a guy really likes to hear from his girl.

And fortunately for you we have all the information you need to absorb that knowledge right here, right now!



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Things A Guy Wants To Hear From A Girl And Why

Here are some of the important things that every guy wants to hear in a relationship, whether they admit it or not. Without these things a relationship cannot work from either side.

Gratitude

Surely you like to feel appreciated for the things that you do, right? Who doesn’t? No one wants to continue doing things for someone else when they don’t feel like their partner doesn’t become grateful. It is important to remember that a thank you goes really far. Especially when you know that your partner goes out of his way to do special things for you. What would happen if you were never shown any gratitude? You would probably call it quits, wouldn’t you? So don’t think he doesn’t feel the same way.

Support

Support is one of the most important things that you can give someone that you love. Everyone needs to feel like they have someone there for them when times are tough. When they are trying to overcome an obstacle or are facing a struggle of some sort, it is up to you to make them feel like they are not alone. When you feel alone in a relationship you start to think that there wouldn’t be any difference in your life if you were on your own! Don’t give them a reason to start thinking that. Instead be there for him whenever you can.

Equality

Just because he is a man does not mean that he doesn’t want the same things as you do. He doesn’t always want to be treated any differently. One of the worst things in the world you can do to someone you love is try to change them or ask them to do things that you wouldn’t do yourself. Men want to be treated equally as human beings just like women do in a relationship. They want to be accepted for who they are as people just like anyone else. Telling them they have to change to fit your standards will ultimately push them away from you.

Encouragement

A good partner always encourages their love to be the best that they can be. They stand behind them no matter what! Certainly encouragement is one of the crucial aspects of maintaining a healthy relationship and it is something that a guy will always like to hear. Having a partner who is dead silent when encouragement and support is needed is only going to make you start searching for someone who fills those gaps. Try not to let it get to that place. Encourage your partner when they need it.

Compliments

You might think that men don’t care about being complimented. Women tend to demand compliments to raise their self esteem. Little do most people know that men want the same thing, but they just don’t say anything about it much. However, every person in a relationship wants to be uplifted by their partner. It is needed to keep their confidence sky high. Being with someone who doesn’t make you feel confident can make it feel like your relationship is in a constant state of jeopardy.

Truth

Honesty is actually necessary no matter what when dating or in marriage. Without it the whole structure will fall apart. And it will fall apart hard. Truth is the glue that holds love together. Without it you cannot maintain a strong trust. Trust is everything when it comes to loving someone. Guys want honesty and trust just like women do. No one likes being lied to, right? Right.



Endearment

What is endearment? Endearment is showing affection of some sort to a person that you love. Well, you can show it to people that you don’t love, but you get what we’re saying here. Affection is the backbone to keeping the feeling of love in the air. It’s what makes you partner feel like you are more than just a friend.  

Things A Guy Doesn’t Want To Hear From A Girl

And just like there are things that a guy is dying hear, there are also things that guys don’t want to hear when they are dating or married to someone.

Ultimatums

No one enjoys ultimatums. They make you feel cornered and like you are disposable. The last thing that you would want to do is make the guy that you love feel that way. It puts strain on the relationship from both ends. Avoiding ultimatums is a great way to keep a relationship balanced and happy.

Double Standards

It is not fair at all for you to expect things out of your partner when you don’t expect them out of you. How do you expect to go through life putting expectations on him and becoming angry when he holds you to the same ones. You can’t. That’s just unfair in every single way. You must find a balance of equality in a relationship to make it successfully work.

Being Told What To Do

It is totally okay to ask him to do something for you. However, bossing him around all the time is a terrible thing to do. He will start feeling like he has lost any sense of power of his life. He will feel like you have taken over. And, let’s be honest, no one wants to feel that way. Everyone wants to feel equal.

Insults

Insulting your partner is not only abusive, but it is also a good way to make sure they lose all of the confidence that they have. Honestly, if you can go around insulting your partner all the time then you should not be with him. He deserves better than that. Anyone does.

Discouragement

Without encouragement to push him to do the important things in life, your man might start feeling like he has no support in his life. Discouraging him might also make him feel like you are sabotaging his road to success. Why would you want to make anyone feel that way? Especially someone that you love.

About Other Guys

Lastly on the list of things that a guy doesn’t want to hear from a girl is they don’t want to hear about other guys and how great they are. It’s okay to mention a guy once in awhile. But try not to make your guy feel like other guys are better than he is. Even if you thinking making him jealous is helpful remember that it definitely isn’t. He wants to always feel like the most important guy in your life.

Phrases That Are Always Good

Besides touching on the subjects that will make him feel good while the two of you are together, you will want to also want to realize there are some phrases every man is dying to hear from you! Of course this is situational, but taking a look below in case it ever comes up is not a bad idea at all!

“I can help pay for that.”

“I’m really proud of you.”

“How was work today?”

“Do you need anything?”

“I’ve got your back on this.”

“Thank everything that you do for us.”

“You look very handsome today.”

“I really love you for who you are.”

“I want to hear what you have to say about that.”

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