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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.

Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

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  1. I just shifted to new city, I installed tinder and matched with a girl.
    Here in India tinder is not really meant for just hookups
    the girl I matched has a name Maira

    we started talking a lot initially, I thought she is just another girl who will talk for day or two then will disappear but we kept talking and she started texting me more and more
    She has never met a guy before through tinder or any other dating app. So I was the first guy she was talking to through tinder and the first guy who met her.

    So here’s the thing after 3 weeks of constant texting and calls I met her, she is adorable we talked and talked it felt like there’s something between us.
    So here’s the thing she broke up with his ex 4 months back.
    and his ex his captain in army which itself his very prestigious job in here and she too will be going to join army next year
    and I’m still a student but yet we clicked
    her last relationship was of 5 years, she told him his ex is very conservative type that’s why she broke up with him
    so yeah we met we talked
    she seems happy, I was happy. it all pretty went even we made out at the end of the day
    after the date day she is going back to her hometown after 3 days
    she started texting me more start telling me that she like to talk to me and like to spend time with me and even told me we just can’t do this fwb thing often because according to her she’ll get attach.
    like she was all into me and even i like her so much
    now the day has come she board a train and via his journey to her hometown she was going to cities to travel with her course mates, we are still talking and the texting was just getting more and more.
    so on 20th April we were texting and she is in the cab all alone going to board a bus for Manali and she was like I’m missing you and then sending me pictures of herself and sending me voice notes with songs for me
    and suddenly after half an hour of my last text
    she blocked me on Whatsapp and put my no. on reject list
    I tried reaching her through my different no. she blocked that one too.
    finally I sent her a mail, because this was the last option to reach her.

    I still don’t know what went through her mind in that half an hour.

    • There are many potential reasons for her actions. Regardless of what led to her decision, she decided to block you. She is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will bring you many benefits in the future. Have a great day, Rohan!

  2. I blocked a guy I work with as I am leaving and I am in love with him. I made an argument and blamed him for something which may or may not be true but is irrelevant to be honest because I just did it to put an end to all this. We’re both in relationships. I don’t think he feels the same but he started this within me I feel by playing games. I’ve been crazy about him for nearly a year and I have gone through every emotion there is. Today I feel heartbroken but its a hopeless situation. I love him and I feel I always will and I miss him so much my heart actually aches. I blocked him on everything but I still want to speak with him but I know it will go around in circles and I’ll ruin things again, I’m half hoping he will do his best to contact me but I feel he couldn’t care less anymore. So its best to block him and try to move on even though I wish I could be with him forever. Its all one-sided though. 🙁

    • You decided to end this relationship and block him. It is clear that the two of you are no longer maintaining a relationship with each other. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will bring you many benefits in the future. Have a great day, Candice!

  3. So my case is a little bit weird. I was dating a girl for about two months – things seem to be going in a good way until one day she blocks me. I chased and begged for another chance, etc. I learned after that I should not do that to any girl. So after four months, she follows me in Instagram and we talked. Conversation was going fine, I was relax and wasn’t begging her or telling her that I miss her. Well, after I send her a funny meme she blocks me. I think she wants to see how I react because I chased her in the past. Now I’m going no contact and moving on with my life because once you show them that you don’t care about her. She comes crawling back to you like a Zombie.

    • She has blocked you twice. You are right to not attempt to maintain a relationship with her. Determine what you want for your future without her, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. This will help draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Daniel!

  4. Well I just asked a girl who is my classmate (and she is hot too) hi do you have shalom’s number (shalom is my friend) and she just blocked me + no blue tick for two days. It tore me whole apart

    • She has decided to block you. Your question was inappropriate, and the question likely confused her. She decided to block you, which means she is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you at this time. Learn your lesson from this experience, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Anon!

  5. I was was recently talking to a girl. Things were going smoothly. she was extremely interested it seems. Intimacy on the first date and what not. On down the line after a great weekend with her( at least i thought) she told me she just wants to be friends. I agreed gave it few days and she was back. she said she was just scared of her feelings for me. It shocked me. I was ready to move on and she came back. I gave it a second chance and she was then saying i didnt seem ready. I was just nervous she would leave again. she gave me time to think about it but before i could even say i want to be with her she said its best we are just friends again. This time she was saying she was still hurting over an ex. I figured i could help her get over it. She started distancing herself. I began to get extremely. ( I am extremly lonely no family or frineds just my job and goals. I really want attention from a woman at times.) After long deliberation I told her i was in love with her.( That was dumb. It felt like i was in love. It was infatuation but the feelings is still there.) She said it was something else she needed to tell me and that we would talk on the phone about it. She followed up with a luke warm definition of what love is and how she knows i am not. I simply told her i know what i feel. She started rambling on about how good of a guy i am and how i have such a bright future in front of me and the time i was spending on her was a waste of my time. She said she doesnt feel the same and to make matters worse she is still in love with an ex. Also that the longer we dont talk the more her feelings fade for me. ( I do not know where they stand its been a few days since this happened.) She blocked me from text/calls and on social media. Saying she need to distance herself from me.I dont want to contact her it just hurts she felt she needed to go so far.

    • She has decided to block you. You are aware that she still has strong feelings for her ex. You stated that you do not want to contact her. It is clear that you should not attempt to reach out to her. Determine what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Paha!

  6. So my case is very weird. I met a girl at work. We both are girls n we became super close in no time. She is married bt i guess she wsnt getting the emotional connection. We did got romantic with each other and she used to call our hang outs as Date. We have had fights too bt we always used to come bk. Now she got pregnant in Nov 2018. She has been ignoring me since Dec..We had huge fight in Jan. All of a sudden one day in March she blocked me on Fb. I asked her bt got no response. I continued giving her my support/care as i knew sje wss going through somethings and pregnancy n all. Now all of a sudden on 17th May, she blocked me on instagram n whatsapp. I was shocked and hurt. I spoke to one of her friend and she too wss shocked by her behaviour as she has never seen her act like this (they both know each other since 5 years). What im not able to understand is why block in parts? Why wait for 2 months n then block me everywhere? Im really unable to understand her behaviour. Im not sure if she blocked me willingly or had to block me due to pressure of family. I know she is on different life path but blocking me like this in parts mskes no sense to me

    • The two of you were maintaining a relationship while she was married. She then became pregnant. At that point, she likely decided that she was interested in focusing on her family. She decided to block you. Determine what you want for your future without her. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Anon!

      • Thanks. Yup…i guess its better this way and yes we did had a relation i guess cz it was not plain friendship. Im interested in only friendship with her but i guess thats not possible right now considering our history and her current situation. So i have backed off for now. i deleted her number so i dont get tempted to call/text her. Im focusing on my life. Im sure she will contact me again once she delivers. It might tk months but i know she will contact me again some day

        • It sounds as though you have made a healthy decision. If she reaches out to you in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. For now, determine what you want for your future without her, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Anon!

  7. My case is very weird. I met a girl at work and we became super close
    in no time. Im a girl too and she is married. I guess she wasnt getting the emotional attachment so we got close. We flirted and stuff and used to go on Dates n all. We have had fights but we came bk always. She got pregnant in Nov. Since Dec she has been distant. We had fight in jan bt she kept saying “I cant text/call you”. Then one random day in March she blocks me on fb. i was hurt so i asked bt got no response. I thought sh might be going through sum things n pregnancy and all and at work too things arent that great for her. So i sliently showed my support n care. I used to send her nice motivational texts n stuff. And offered my help anytime she needed. Then all of a sudden on 17th may she blocked me from instagram. I was again super hurt. i tried to talk to her but got no response. Then after 2 hours she blocks me on whatsapp. Im not sure what to think of her behaviour. I spoke to her other friend and she too was shocked as she has never seen her behave like this anytime (they know each other since 5 year). Now im not sure if its pregnancy or sumthing else, but this girl’s behaviour has completely changed. She used to be very jovial person but now she is completely opposite. She is very slient doesnt mingle around at all. Even her friend once told her that what she was before n what is now its completely opposite.

    She hasnt blocked anyone other than me. Im not sure but i feel her husband doesnt like our friendship. Im not sure if this girl started liking me more than she should and may be thats why blocked me or its just plain simple that she doesnt want this friendship anymore. She looks at me a lot of times at work(we work at same place). I have seen her getting jealous too when im with others. So im really confused and hurt by her behaviour. We were best friends and now she blocks me that too in parts. What do i do now?

    • The two of you were maintaining a relationship while she was married. She then became pregnant. At that point, she likely decided that she was interested in focusing on her family. She decided to block you. Determine what you want for your future without her. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Anon!

  8. I met a girl in my college and she was so nice to me I felt like she has crush on me,,she is cute and she hates people to talk about her,,one day she asked if I will ever like a girl like her in the future I laughed and said why not I felt like she wasn’t completely comfortable about my reaction so she blocked me for no reason and we haven’t talked for like half year now.

    • She blocked you because you launched when she asked about your feelings toward her. The two of you have not spoken a year and a half. Make a decision about what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If she reaches out to you in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Omy!

  9. Hey there, last year I got blocked last year in April. She didn’t want to hear from me at all.
    That was until I sent a happy birthday Text in December. I got a reply saying thanks John, I did the Same for New Years, she replied thanks John, happy new year to me.
    She came in my work days after, not knowing that I was there. I said her name standing meters behind her, she saw me we talked for 20 minutes. In good banter, she said I can message her again.
    We texted each other for weeks, until she wanted to do a pt for me. She’s a personal trainer, I unfortunately cut my thumb. So I couldn’t do that, I did say I can do whatever ever else’s Got no reply, I’ve seen her play football games and more texts still nothing.
    The past Saturday I saw her and her sister play local football, I said hello to her and stuff. She got annoyed of my presents near her. We talked but she didn’t say goodbye when she left.
    What do I do next or what can I do even.
    Her sister doesn’t mind me hanging around here, when I watch her play football. She also didn’t say goodbye tho
    Am I slowing getting in the good books again with either or not really

    • The two of you share a social relationship. Her behaviors are not indications that she is interested in maintaining a relationship with you at this time. It is possible that her feelings for you will grow. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Determine what you believe is viable. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, John!

  10. I was working yesterday, I saw them. Said hello to one of there friends and mum. As they were watching, I they were playing netball next door. I waved at her sister she nodded back, when they were going to leave. I stood twenty yards out, to say bye. There mum drove up to me and told me to stop it, stop harassing them. I told her I was working right next door. She told me to go, so I went.

    Now I didn’t think I was in the wrong on what I was doing, there dad was at the match last week. He had no problem with me hanging around.
    Am I doing things to fast to soon and need to slow down. Or not really, the sister hasn’t blocked me I. FB or instagram. But the one I got blocked from, didn’t want to be around me at all yesterday

    • It sounds like the mother is aware of her daughter’s feelings regarding your actions. She has informed you of her feelings and likely the feelings of her daughter. Since this person blocked you, it is clear that she is not interested in you reaching out to her. Her sister seems to be friends with you, though this may not be the time to reach out to her. Allow thoughts of the person who blocked you to fade. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times, but do not contact the person who blocked you at this time. Have a great day, John!

  11. I saw her during the lecture in the classroom… And in university also….. I texted her msg on whattapp…. She blocked me on whattapps and facebook also…… I never talked to her face to face ….. She has blocked me but still see me and smile a little bit…. I don’t know what i will do……

    Can you tell me??

    • She is probably smiling just to be polite and to hide the awkwardness she feels. If she blocked you on WhatsApp and Facebook, you can pretty much guarantee that she is not interested in you in any way. All you can do now is just move on. Best of luck, Unknown!

  12. Ok then thanks, how long do I wait for. To see if her sister, wants to be friends. Two weeks, month or more.
    Is it to late to be friends with the one who has blocked me. Oblivious I would have to wait a longer time to see if, she wants to be friends.
    Would I be able to watch them play sports again in a few weeks or it’s a no go

  13. I was an intern in a company and there was a pretty girl that I like . I spend a week over there , we spoke but not much. I was kinda feeling that she liked me. I didn’t have a chance to ask her out so I decided to follow her on Instagram and texted her. We texted briefly and I asked her out instantly . She said she didn’t have time in weekend .The following day , she followed me back and 2 days later. I said do you wanna go Latin night and do salsa .She blocked me after that message . It has been almost half a year . Do you think I should text her on another platform .

    • She blocked you half a year ago. It is possible that she is simply not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. It is possible that she will be happy if you reach out to her. Make a decision about what you feel is appropriate and viable. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If she ignores you, then you are aware of her feelings regarding your relationship. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Mustafa!

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