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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.

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Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

248 COMMENTS

  1. What should I do now can anyone help me. It was nearly about 3 years ago when she met me on the social media and we were best friends and then after 2 days we become good lover and we did chatting all the day, saw each other for long through live. But after 6 months she started to ignore my messages and even call, moreover she just saw my messages but whenever I asked her that you are ignoring me then she said that I am busy, she didn’t even said sorry for what she had done. And she not even tried to text her, I always sent her message at first and she hardly responded. Whenever I call her to see each other but she was already on the another call, whenever I call her she just disconnect the call from another person and then she switch off her internet to not to get any text of me and now she just blocked ne from every social media, even I had tried to reach her but still she blocked me what to do now

    • She has not apologized because she had done nothing wrong. She has been busy, and she shared that information with you. She has blocked you. Her reasons may be varied, but it is possible that you did not respect her desire to communicate less often. Learn from this relationship. Apply your knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Waheguru!

  2. Hey there, I’m just wondering what I do next. I’ve been recently blocked on FB by someone. I’m guessing I pushed her to doing it.
    She put up a profile picture last night, anther one of her friends said where are you. She said Europe, then I said when are you back, she replied November. Then I replied are you going anywhere else besides Germany. I didn’t realise till this morning she has done that. Was I not to mention where she was at, on FB or is it something else.
    I did leave here a few messages on messenger, that only went to sent in the past weeks.

    I’m wondering what do I do next
    Do I leave it for a while, do leave an apology message via Instagram. Saying how sorry i am or something else. I don’t have her number, so I can’t apologise her that way

    • There is no reason to attempt to apologize. She did not inform you and you were not aware. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with her. She is exploring, so give her time and space to do what she needs to do. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your thoughts and feelings with her at that time. Have a great day, John!

  3. I apologised to her via instagram. I don’t have her number.
    She accepted and thanked for the apology, however she wants me to stop messaging her for now. With a smiley face at the end of her message.

    I would like to know how long, that will be for also will she unblock me also

    • She has accepted your apology and asked for you to not reach out to her. Give her the space that she asks for. It is possible that she may reach out to you in the future if you respect her desires. Have a great day, John!

  4. Hey mate, I’ve got a question to ask you. I probably already know the answer, so here it goes.
    Very Earlier this year, like in February. i has a women that was friends with me for nearly four years. When I got blocked by her on Facebook and Instagram, plus her friends made her get a order against me. That’s least what her sister told me when she bumped into me weeks later. I haven’t contacted her since then, the order got cut In August cause she wasn’t responding to the police. To see if she wanted to extend the order. I still haven’t sent or seen her.

    The questions are.
    1. Will there ever be anything between us again, no matter how small it is, or do I have a better chance winning the jackpot then this.
    2. If I see here down the street or in a cafe, can I say hello when I walk bye or anything at all.
    Obviously I don’t force anything or follow her.

    I still think of her occasionally, plus think there i will get to see her again.
    Is this normal or am I just Ludicrous

    • Do not attempt to nourish this relationship. She may have felt that it was not necessary to reach out to the police because you had not attempted to bother her. Give her an opportunity to reach out to you. It is possible that if you reach out to her first, that it may cause her to go to the police. You may find that this relationship is no longer viable, so you should take this time to determine what you for your future without her. Have a great day, Juan!

  5. So this girl I met on an app liked me, I know she did because she admitted it later on. We talked for about 6 weeks and everything was great. About 2 weeks ago me and my friend were blocked by her. At first I thought it was some sort of test, or playing hard to get. I thought nothing of it except the fact that she wanted some space. A week passed without texting her on Snapchat and so I decided to make another Snapchat just to message her. Once I did we had this long conversation as to why she blocked me and another friend. She said she should’ve given us a warning but she was upset about a problem in her life. She said she wanted to tell me but she couldn’t. I begged her to keep me unblocked just so that I could message her later when she fixed whatever problems she might have. She kept me unblocked but didn’t say anything to me, except when I said to “keep working hard and fixing those problems.” She replied “Thank you (:” A day later I realised what I did was wrong because I made her feel bad by keeping me unblocked because I said I was gonna become an alcoholic and my grades are gonna start declining. So I apologized to her last night and I said that she could block me if she wants to, and that I was being a jerk about making her do something she doesn’t want to do just to make me happier. She then replied “Thank you for being so understanding Kegan, you’re gonna do fantastic things in life ❤” I hope whatever problems she is encountering, that she fixes them. She said she wanted to get off social media for a while and that she would tell me the problem if she could. I gave her my original Snapchat just in case she wants to talk after whatever problems she has, which I hope is the case. I feel a lot better apologizing and letting her do what she has to do, but I’m still hurting on the inside because I feel like she won’t come back, even after all the things she said to me. She admitted to having feelings for me when I was begging her to keep me unblocked, which is why the sorry sob story worked. But I felt bad for probably making it worse by making her feel bad about my life if she did block me. It was a sudden change of behavior too, so whatver problems she encountered in life must of been so tragic or something really terrible. I just hope that after she fixes the problems, she realizes that she actually misses me, but until then, I’m worried. I know I did the right thing and let her go, but I’m afraid she won’t come back.

    • Your decision to support her decisions was positive. Continue to share your kindness and compassion at all times. This clearly has brought you and her benefits, so continue to apply this positive behavior in the future. You may find that she will reach out to you in the future. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by continuing your decisions and actions. Have a great day, Kegan!

  6. A friend of mine that schools in a neighboring state came back home on holidays and gave me the phone number of one of his female colleague hoping me and her might get along and maybe get to know each other better…
    I had never meet her before
    So i couldn’t call her on phone as that would kinda feel inappropriate
    So i added her on whatsapp instead
    Then I sent her a message to which she responded but was so keen on knowing who I was and how i had gotten her phone number
    But then my friend wouldnt buy the idea of me telling her that he gave me her number
    So i decided to lie instead
    I told her i had stored a friend’s number incorrectly and that, that was how i stumbled upon her phone number
    She said “ok”
    I told her my name
    And then asked to know her name
    But then, without telling me her name, she demanded to see my photo
    So i sent it to her
    Then i told her i reside in the neighboring state not too far from her’s
    She just said “Good night” then blocked me afterwards

    She is a pretty girl
    And I’d like to know her
    Please how do i go about this

    • Do not attempt to contact her. Your behavior was inappropriate. You should not have lied to her. It is clear that she felt uncomfortable with your actions. If you are going to contact someone, then always be honest. Your friend gave you the phone number, so if your friend was not comfortable with you sharing that information, then your friend should not have given you the number. Do not attempt to reach out to her again. Learn from this lesson, and do not lie to people in the future. Have a great day, Cardio!

  7. I was talking to I girl who we mutually knew, everything I thought was going well for 2 days then she unadded me out of the blue! Why do you think this is and what should I do?
    Any help would be appreciated! Thanks

    • There may be a variety of reasons why she decided to un-add you. Regardless of her reasons, you will find benefit in not reaching out to her at this time. If she speaks with you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her at that time. For now, determine what you want for your future without this person. Have a great day, Steven!

  8. Comment:Comment:I know this girl for 6 months, she’s a good friend..We support eachother here and then..A week ago, I played a prank as stranger in her Instagram by requesting and Messaging her-used some compliment lines and asked to see my landscape photographs, after no response for 2 days I said “Dont worry better block me lol”(she blocked me there, said “Sure I’ll lol”)…After some days, I said it was me, she blocked my original account..I got confused and started apologizing her through WhatsApp..She said “leave me alone”..After few days, I apologized her again..she blocked me and unblocked, again blocked..what shall I do?? I’m concerned that I’ve offended her some way, I’m very sorry for that..is it okay to apologize in person?? Having huge pain thinking about this, or what she meant by this??

    • You have offended her. Your behaviors were strange and likely caused her to feel fear. You should not behave in that manner in the future, as it will cause people to not trust you. Do not reach out to her at this time, as she is uncertain about your behaviors. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her. Learn from this lesson, and make a decision to no longer lie or speak to friends anonymously. Have a great day, Carl!

      • Thanks a lot!! I never gonna do this.. I really liked her, one of the best person, who encouraged my career stuffs..Can’t believe I lost her..what if she doesn’t get back to me?? or shall I make it in person to feel real if she thinks my messages are bluffing?? It’s been 4 days, I’m bread and butter with this thought..I’m friends are saying me to get off and you’re not acting normal..

        • Your friends have shared their thoughts and feelings with you. You have not spoken with this girl in four days. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Spend additional time with your friends. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Carl!

  9. Well, I knew a girl and she was into me but there’s a miss understanding happened and she blocked me. I kinda realized what I did wrong and wanna text her but the problem is that she blocked me on every platform and don’t know if the blocked my contact too -i found her Facebook account as a suggestion- but don’t wanna look like a staker when I text her there. So should I take the risk and send a sms or what??

    • Do not attempt to reach out to her at this time. She has blocked you on numerous accounts. She is not interested in speaking with you. Leave this line of communication available. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her. For now, focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Jake!

  10. I met this girl at a service project and we talked and we clicked, she told me to put her number in my phone and told me to text her. I gave it a day or two before texting her, then I did and things seemed great. We would text for hours, and facetime for hours as well. My friend then got on my phone and started calling her rude words, which she assumed was from me. She blocked me after that. I did nothing wrong other than trust my friend with my passcode. She lives out of my state, I don’t know her social media, and have no way of contacting her. Is there any chance that I will get unblocked or no? What should I do???
    I really like this girl.

    • Your friend has permanently damaged this relationship. Your friend has chosen to harm you. Do not reach out to her in the future. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Do not allow your friend to use your phone in the future, as it is clear that your friend can not be trusted. Learn from this lesson, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, John!

  11. I work with this girl. We were friends on fb and instagram. We talked all day at work and then that was it. No outside talking. I was ok with it. Then she recently accidentally gave me food i am alergic too. She told her friend and her friend at our job told my boss as i was running to store so i dont die. When i came back she has blocked me on all social media and work chat plus acts like I dont exist now. What did u do wrong and gow do I proceed?

    • The two of you shared a strong social and emotional connection. She accidentally harmed you, and her behaviors are likely due to her feelings of embarrassment. You will see her again, so speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Forgive her actions, as she probably feels regretful of both of her behaviors. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Adam!

  12. Hey mate, i don’t know what to do next.
    9 months ago, I did something terrible to someone who I loved dearly. She blocked me on every social media page (Instagram and FB), her friends even got her to get a order on me. That fell through in August, cause she didn’t report to the cops at all.
    I haven’t contacted her at all, until yesterday morning where I sent her a happy news years message. To see if there is still hope for me to see her again she replied. Saying Happy New Year John, I’m sorry how everything went with the cops, it was out of my control.
    I sent back two messages, first saying how stocked I was that I got a message from her. How much It would mean to me if I can see or hear from her at all.
    Second one pretty much saying the same thing, plus oblivious it’s up to her to decide if she wants to see me again or unblock me on fb and Instagram.

    Will I get my wish, and she’ll reply saying yes. To allow me to see her or follow her on social media.
    Or was that a one off, Obviously it’s up to her. I just hate waiting

  13. Hey man, I messed up. Theres this girl who I went to High school with and haven’t seen her since then, but we reconnected on Social media about 3 years ago on Facebook, then she followed me on Instagram not long after. 4 months ago I posted my Snapchat ID to my Insta asking who was on there, she added me in like 30 seconds. We talked alot more on there, afew weeks ago I noticed she had removed me off Snapchat so I message her on Facebook to ask why, she claimed she was getting rid of it and I didn’t believe her. I was foolish enough to ask my friend to add her on there the next day, I woke up the day after to a screenshot saying he had been added back and snapped. I then sent her the screenshot calling her a f****** liar. She then blocked me on Instagram, and said she didn’t want people on all her platforms, said she deleted a bunch of people “because she felt like it”, she was pissed off. But then we didn’t speak for afew more hours. When I came to my senses I sent her an apology on Facebook, which she read but didn’t reply. The strange thing is she hasn’t deleted me off there. Where do I go from here? I feel as though she got cold feet and pushed me away, girls aren’t anti-relationship unless they’ve been burnt in the past.

    • Your behavior was inappropriate. She had every right to delete and block you. The two of you are no longer maintaining a relationship. It was not her uncertainty about relationships that caused her to stop communicating with you, it was your behaviors. Learn from this lesson and apply the knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, James!

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