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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.

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Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

278 COMMENTS

  1. What should I do now can anyone help me. It was nearly about 3 years ago when she met me on the social media and we were best friends and then after 2 days we become good lover and we did chatting all the day, saw each other for long through live. But after 6 months she started to ignore my messages and even call, moreover she just saw my messages but whenever I asked her that you are ignoring me then she said that I am busy, she didn’t even said sorry for what she had done. And she not even tried to text her, I always sent her message at first and she hardly responded. Whenever I call her to see each other but she was already on the another call, whenever I call her she just disconnect the call from another person and then she switch off her internet to not to get any text of me and now she just blocked ne from every social media, even I had tried to reach her but still she blocked me what to do now

    • She has not apologized because she had done nothing wrong. She has been busy, and she shared that information with you. She has blocked you. Her reasons may be varied, but it is possible that you did not respect her desire to communicate less often. Learn from this relationship. Apply your knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Waheguru!

      • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Abhishek!

    • Ok here my storytelling…I like this girl like marriage kind. I message her on Facebook telling her humane works because she is social worker..guess what she responded thanks with smiley as well …one day later I message her exactly this : how long does it take social worker to do change LIGHT BULB ? I I’m guilty of copying memes quote and trying to be funny………BUT blocked when I checked out on messenger. NOW IT’S TOO EARLY JUST 2 MSG I SEND HER.

      • Your behavior was wildly inappropriate. She blocked you because you attempted to use her as a joke. Learn this lesson and do not attempt to offend other people in the future. Have a great day, Abhishek!

  2. Hey there, I’m just wondering what I do next. I’ve been recently blocked on FB by someone. I’m guessing I pushed her to doing it.
    She put up a profile picture last night, anther one of her friends said where are you. She said Europe, then I said when are you back, she replied November. Then I replied are you going anywhere else besides Germany. I didn’t realise till this morning she has done that. Was I not to mention where she was at, on FB or is it something else.
    I did leave here a few messages on messenger, that only went to sent in the past weeks.

    I’m wondering what do I do next
    Do I leave it for a while, do leave an apology message via Instagram. Saying how sorry i am or something else. I don’t have her number, so I can’t apologise her that way

    • There is no reason to attempt to apologize. She did not inform you and you were not aware. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with her. She is exploring, so give her time and space to do what she needs to do. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your thoughts and feelings with her at that time. Have a great day, John!

  3. I apologised to her via instagram. I don’t have her number.
    She accepted and thanked for the apology, however she wants me to stop messaging her for now. With a smiley face at the end of her message.

    I would like to know how long, that will be for also will she unblock me also

    • She has accepted your apology and asked for you to not reach out to her. Give her the space that she asks for. It is possible that she may reach out to you in the future if you respect her desires. Have a great day, John!

  4. Hey mate, I’ve got a question to ask you. I probably already know the answer, so here it goes.
    Very Earlier this year, like in February. i has a women that was friends with me for nearly four years. When I got blocked by her on Facebook and Instagram, plus her friends made her get a order against me. That’s least what her sister told me when she bumped into me weeks later. I haven’t contacted her since then, the order got cut In August cause she wasn’t responding to the police. To see if she wanted to extend the order. I still haven’t sent or seen her.

    The questions are.
    1. Will there ever be anything between us again, no matter how small it is, or do I have a better chance winning the jackpot then this.
    2. If I see here down the street or in a cafe, can I say hello when I walk bye or anything at all.
    Obviously I don’t force anything or follow her.

    I still think of her occasionally, plus think there i will get to see her again.
    Is this normal or am I just Ludicrous

    • Do not attempt to nourish this relationship. She may have felt that it was not necessary to reach out to the police because you had not attempted to bother her. Give her an opportunity to reach out to you. It is possible that if you reach out to her first, that it may cause her to go to the police. You may find that this relationship is no longer viable, so you should take this time to determine what you for your future without her. Have a great day, Juan!

  5. So this girl I met on an app liked me, I know she did because she admitted it later on. We talked for about 6 weeks and everything was great. About 2 weeks ago me and my friend were blocked by her. At first I thought it was some sort of test, or playing hard to get. I thought nothing of it except the fact that she wanted some space. A week passed without texting her on Snapchat and so I decided to make another Snapchat just to message her. Once I did we had this long conversation as to why she blocked me and another friend. She said she should’ve given us a warning but she was upset about a problem in her life. She said she wanted to tell me but she couldn’t. I begged her to keep me unblocked just so that I could message her later when she fixed whatever problems she might have. She kept me unblocked but didn’t say anything to me, except when I said to “keep working hard and fixing those problems.” She replied “Thank you (:” A day later I realised what I did was wrong because I made her feel bad by keeping me unblocked because I said I was gonna become an alcoholic and my grades are gonna start declining. So I apologized to her last night and I said that she could block me if she wants to, and that I was being a jerk about making her do something she doesn’t want to do just to make me happier. She then replied “Thank you for being so understanding Kegan, you’re gonna do fantastic things in life ❤” I hope whatever problems she is encountering, that she fixes them. She said she wanted to get off social media for a while and that she would tell me the problem if she could. I gave her my original Snapchat just in case she wants to talk after whatever problems she has, which I hope is the case. I feel a lot better apologizing and letting her do what she has to do, but I’m still hurting on the inside because I feel like she won’t come back, even after all the things she said to me. She admitted to having feelings for me when I was begging her to keep me unblocked, which is why the sorry sob story worked. But I felt bad for probably making it worse by making her feel bad about my life if she did block me. It was a sudden change of behavior too, so whatver problems she encountered in life must of been so tragic or something really terrible. I just hope that after she fixes the problems, she realizes that she actually misses me, but until then, I’m worried. I know I did the right thing and let her go, but I’m afraid she won’t come back.

    • Your decision to support her decisions was positive. Continue to share your kindness and compassion at all times. This clearly has brought you and her benefits, so continue to apply this positive behavior in the future. You may find that she will reach out to you in the future. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by continuing your decisions and actions. Have a great day, Kegan!

  6. A friend of mine that schools in a neighboring state came back home on holidays and gave me the phone number of one of his female colleague hoping me and her might get along and maybe get to know each other better…
    I had never meet her before
    So i couldn’t call her on phone as that would kinda feel inappropriate
    So i added her on whatsapp instead
    Then I sent her a message to which she responded but was so keen on knowing who I was and how i had gotten her phone number
    But then my friend wouldnt buy the idea of me telling her that he gave me her number
    So i decided to lie instead
    I told her i had stored a friend’s number incorrectly and that, that was how i stumbled upon her phone number
    She said “ok”
    I told her my name
    And then asked to know her name
    But then, without telling me her name, she demanded to see my photo
    So i sent it to her
    Then i told her i reside in the neighboring state not too far from her’s
    She just said “Good night” then blocked me afterwards

    She is a pretty girl
    And I’d like to know her
    Please how do i go about this

    • Do not attempt to contact her. Your behavior was inappropriate. You should not have lied to her. It is clear that she felt uncomfortable with your actions. If you are going to contact someone, then always be honest. Your friend gave you the phone number, so if your friend was not comfortable with you sharing that information, then your friend should not have given you the number. Do not attempt to reach out to her again. Learn from this lesson, and do not lie to people in the future. Have a great day, Cardio!

  7. I was talking to I girl who we mutually knew, everything I thought was going well for 2 days then she unadded me out of the blue! Why do you think this is and what should I do?
    Any help would be appreciated! Thanks

    • There may be a variety of reasons why she decided to un-add you. Regardless of her reasons, you will find benefit in not reaching out to her at this time. If she speaks with you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her at that time. For now, determine what you want for your future without this person. Have a great day, Steven!

  8. Comment:Comment:I know this girl for 6 months, she’s a good friend..We support eachother here and then..A week ago, I played a prank as stranger in her Instagram by requesting and Messaging her-used some compliment lines and asked to see my landscape photographs, after no response for 2 days I said “Dont worry better block me lol”(she blocked me there, said “Sure I’ll lol”)…After some days, I said it was me, she blocked my original account..I got confused and started apologizing her through WhatsApp..She said “leave me alone”..After few days, I apologized her again..she blocked me and unblocked, again blocked..what shall I do?? I’m concerned that I’ve offended her some way, I’m very sorry for that..is it okay to apologize in person?? Having huge pain thinking about this, or what she meant by this??

    • You have offended her. Your behaviors were strange and likely caused her to feel fear. You should not behave in that manner in the future, as it will cause people to not trust you. Do not reach out to her at this time, as she is uncertain about your behaviors. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her. Learn from this lesson, and make a decision to no longer lie or speak to friends anonymously. Have a great day, Carl!

      • Thanks a lot!! I never gonna do this.. I really liked her, one of the best person, who encouraged my career stuffs..Can’t believe I lost her..what if she doesn’t get back to me?? or shall I make it in person to feel real if she thinks my messages are bluffing?? It’s been 4 days, I’m bread and butter with this thought..I’m friends are saying me to get off and you’re not acting normal..

        • Your friends have shared their thoughts and feelings with you. You have not spoken with this girl in four days. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Spend additional time with your friends. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Carl!

  9. Well, I knew a girl and she was into me but there’s a miss understanding happened and she blocked me. I kinda realized what I did wrong and wanna text her but the problem is that she blocked me on every platform and don’t know if the blocked my contact too -i found her Facebook account as a suggestion- but don’t wanna look like a staker when I text her there. So should I take the risk and send a sms or what??

    • Do not attempt to reach out to her at this time. She has blocked you on numerous accounts. She is not interested in speaking with you. Leave this line of communication available. If she reaches out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her. For now, focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Jake!

  10. I met this girl at a service project and we talked and we clicked, she told me to put her number in my phone and told me to text her. I gave it a day or two before texting her, then I did and things seemed great. We would text for hours, and facetime for hours as well. My friend then got on my phone and started calling her rude words, which she assumed was from me. She blocked me after that. I did nothing wrong other than trust my friend with my passcode. She lives out of my state, I don’t know her social media, and have no way of contacting her. Is there any chance that I will get unblocked or no? What should I do???
    I really like this girl.

    • Your friend has permanently damaged this relationship. Your friend has chosen to harm you. Do not reach out to her in the future. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Do not allow your friend to use your phone in the future, as it is clear that your friend can not be trusted. Learn from this lesson, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, John!

  11. I work with this girl. We were friends on fb and instagram. We talked all day at work and then that was it. No outside talking. I was ok with it. Then she recently accidentally gave me food i am alergic too. She told her friend and her friend at our job told my boss as i was running to store so i dont die. When i came back she has blocked me on all social media and work chat plus acts like I dont exist now. What did u do wrong and gow do I proceed?

    • The two of you shared a strong social and emotional connection. She accidentally harmed you, and her behaviors are likely due to her feelings of embarrassment. You will see her again, so speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Forgive her actions, as she probably feels regretful of both of her behaviors. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Adam!

  12. Hey mate, i don’t know what to do next.
    9 months ago, I did something terrible to someone who I loved dearly. She blocked me on every social media page (Instagram and FB), her friends even got her to get a order on me. That fell through in August, cause she didn’t report to the cops at all.
    I haven’t contacted her at all, until yesterday morning where I sent her a happy news years message. To see if there is still hope for me to see her again she replied. Saying Happy New Year John, I’m sorry how everything went with the cops, it was out of my control.
    I sent back two messages, first saying how stocked I was that I got a message from her. How much It would mean to me if I can see or hear from her at all.
    Second one pretty much saying the same thing, plus oblivious it’s up to her to decide if she wants to see me again or unblock me on fb and Instagram.

    Will I get my wish, and she’ll reply saying yes. To allow me to see her or follow her on social media.
    Or was that a one off, Obviously it’s up to her. I just hate waiting

  13. Hey man, I messed up. Theres this girl who I went to High school with and haven’t seen her since then, but we reconnected on Social media about 3 years ago on Facebook, then she followed me on Instagram not long after. 4 months ago I posted my Snapchat ID to my Insta asking who was on there, she added me in like 30 seconds. We talked alot more on there, afew weeks ago I noticed she had removed me off Snapchat so I message her on Facebook to ask why, she claimed she was getting rid of it and I didn’t believe her. I was foolish enough to ask my friend to add her on there the next day, I woke up the day after to a screenshot saying he had been added back and snapped. I then sent her the screenshot calling her a f****** liar. She then blocked me on Instagram, and said she didn’t want people on all her platforms, said she deleted a bunch of people “because she felt like it”, she was pissed off. But then we didn’t speak for afew more hours. When I came to my senses I sent her an apology on Facebook, which she read but didn’t reply. The strange thing is she hasn’t deleted me off there. Where do I go from here? I feel as though she got cold feet and pushed me away, girls aren’t anti-relationship unless they’ve been burnt in the past.

    • Your behavior was inappropriate. She had every right to delete and block you. The two of you are no longer maintaining a relationship. It was not her uncertainty about relationships that caused her to stop communicating with you, it was your behaviors. Learn from this lesson and apply the knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, James!

  14. Hey there’s this girl who I would rarely talk too in my high school class I’m a senior and I would talk to her on the way home until I went to my bus stop by the front of the school to go home. So anyways she winked at me one day I got her Snapchat and such and messaged her every now and then for a few weeks and it was going well id say. To put it into context too she messages a lot of guys on Snapchat though but she isn’t a hoe where she will bang any guy she’s only been with one person. So the campfire happens in my area and she has to move away because her house burnt down and I was just so into her but it really didn’t seem that way to her like she just wanted to be a fuck buddy or something but she still would message me whenever I hit her up you know? I feel like I’ve been messaging her to much and now she lives 2hrs away from me but I’m still into her but she has a boyfriend or somebody she’s talking too ok. Also I’ve tried talking with her you know we would flirt sometimes but then all of a sudden she removed me off snapchat and this happened before she got a boy. So I messaged her because we’ve kind of had little problems before I feel it’s because I’m too attached to her and she knows that and doesn’t want that but I messaged her on her phone number and she says she wants to be “homies n shit not talk everyday type shit” she says to me and like I want to be with her some way or another in the future but I feel like I need to let go at some points😕. Anyways one night i called her and she didn’t answer it was the first time I ever called her I don’t know why but it was and she didn’t answer and I asked if i can call her after and she said she was with her boy. I said aw well have a good night and she said I’m sorry you too. That was it until I got drunk with my friends later that night because I was bummed out and I messaged her saying I’m sorry you aren’t with your man. She responded saying lmao n I’m sorry your getting blocked. I responded doesn’t matter to me been there done that but I think she blocked me already after I sent that like 4 minutes later. I feel like I’ve done alot of things wrong here man and give it to me straight if there’s any way I can fix this help me out bro😭. She’s honestly a good type for me but I feel like I ruined it. I can message her on Facebook but I haven’t tried yet and I also haven’t tried messaging or following her on Instagram we haven’t tried following each other or messaging on there at all. She has a private account. What should I do? I really want something with her but she’s a sophomore almost a junior

    • She has decided to block you, and this is likely due to your interactions. It is possible that there are other reasons for her behavior. It is possible that she is currently in a relationship. Do not attempt to reach out to her at this time. Learn your lesson from this relationship, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. If she reaches out to you in the future, then ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with her. Ensure that you always respect her boundaries. Have a great day, Johnny!

  15. Not sure why I’ve been blocked. I met a girl on a dating app, we exchanged numbers, texted, talked over the phone, met in person for coffee and even set up a dinner date. I sent a text the day before our date night to confirm and never got a response. I respected her space, didn’t text or call every day. Not sure why I was treated like this. I’m tempted to reach out to her through a second phone number she gave me or even the original app we met on, but at this point she’d basically stood me up. She was very responsive, then all of the sudden disappeared and felt the need to block me. What happened? Will I ever know?

    • She has decided to block you. This could have been for a wide variety of reasons. You have decided to not reach out to her, which is a reasonable decision. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere, and determine what you want for your future without her. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will bring you many benefits. Have a great day, VC!

  16. My girlfriend just recently blocked me after we had a conversation about her babysitting her friends child that has the same father as her child and letting that cause a rift in our relationship. I think she didn’t that and I think she doesn’t like to talk about serious things like that, but you can’t just ignore problems and hope they will go away. I’ve told her that she can talk to me about any problems and I want to find solutions to those problems. She justified this by calling me jealous and told me that she is use to a certain amount of control and not willing to give that up. I said I’m not trying to control you all I asked was to not let it come between us (the same thing she asked of me when it came to some of the other things that I enjoy that don’t involve her). So we eventually finished talking about it and we told each other we love each other but I forgot about one other concern that I had and decide to just ask her about it the next day since she had to go to sleep for work the next day. So the next day comes and then I asked her ” when we had our conversation last night I forgot to ask you this one last question then I won’t speak on it again. Why did you tell me that even if my friend was using or taking advantage of me if has nothing to do with you” ” it almost sounded like you thought of yourself as a single person and not my girlfriend that you were expecting me to not care about you” then she texted me ” I need a break” so then I replied ” yea I think we both need a break” then she replied ” this isn’t working” so I asked her why this isn’t working and so she never replied. So I eventually just told her that I love her and that I will always lover her no matter what happens. And left it at that. That night after work and after hours of just sitting and thinking about the entire situation I decided to apologise and ask to see how we can fix this and work on moving forward and to not give up on each other. I tried to remind her of all of the good times we had and to just see if the good outweighs the bad but she never responded. So I woke up the next morning at the same time I know she gets up which is 4 am and attempted one last time to mend and find a solution to the problem and tried to call. The phone rings but no answer and then I tried to call a second time after an hour and a half and it went straight to voicemail so I knew immediately that she blocked me. What does this mean? Is she not willing to work out problems, did I say something to her that hit home for her and that’s something shes trying to deal with that she took into our relationship, or does she completely hate me and wants nothing to do with me? I have no idea.

    • There may be many reasons for her decision to block you. There is certainly another influence in her life. She has likely informed you about concerns in your relationship. Since she has blocked you, you should allow thoughts of her to fade. Determine what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Scottie!

  17. My girlfriend blocked me when I said you didn’t
    attend my call and u switch off your phone when
    I Call you and she didn’t reply my messages
    Though she was online what just happen with
    Her….is she ignoring me

    • Your girlfriend has blocked you and given you the reason for her behavior. She is not satisfied with the way that you has treated her, so she decided to end this relationship. Determine what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If she decides to reach out to you in the future, then share your kindness and compassion with her. Have a great day, Aabeesh!

  18. So, I know this girl likes me but I went about it via social media instead of just talking to her because of nervousness. She doesnt like that ive done this virtually but she prefers me to talk in person. I can tell because when I would message her she says she feels uncomfortable messaging in this manner and hopes I understand. And I respect her wishes. I recently wrote her a letter of admiration and encouragement and said that Ive respected her wishes but I just wanted to send this last letter to her. She said the same thing that she’s uncomfortable messaging in this manner and hopes I understand. But she thanked me for the encouragement. Anyway, she ended up blocking me from IG since the page is public and I would check out her stories on there. But my account is private. She hasnt blocked or unfriend me on facebook or messanger though. I have a feeling her girlfriends are behind this because I know she’s mentioned it. I want to know since she didnt completely block me from social media, is there still interest and should i just finish what she started and unfriend her on facebook just to even it out?

    • She had explained to you numerous times that she felt uncomfortable with your messages. You then continued to message her. She was polite with you and you said that you would respect her wishes. You did not respect her wishes. She decided to block you, and has shown you that she is not interested in maintaining an online conversation with you. Do not reach out to her at this time, as she has been clear with her words and behavior about her feelings. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Bryan!

  19. Btw, Facebook messenger is where I sent her the message of encouragement and admiration fyi. But, like I said, she blocked me on Ig because her page is public and I would check out her stories like I told you. But my ig page is private.

    • She had explained to you numerous times that she felt uncomfortable with your messages. You then continued to message her. She was polite with you and you said that you would respect her wishes. You did not respect her wishes. She decided to block you, and has shown you that she is not interested in maintaining an online conversation with you. Do not reach out to her at this time, as she has been clear with her words and behavior about her feelings. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Bryan!

  20. So my ex came to me and told me that she wanted us to work things out. She even suggested couples therapy. She expressed her love for me and a desire for us to have a future. However recently she’s been going through some health issues. I have been supportive but a week ago due to my uncertainty and I guess impatience I prested her for answers about us. She blocked me on whatsapp. When I called her several times she blocked me from calling her. I finally spoke to her a couple days ago and she told me it was my behaviour that caused her to block me. I asked if she’d unblock me and she said she would consider it. Now I know I messed up and didn’t respect her boundaries but I’m wondering if she’ll ever unblock me or if it’s over for good. She hasn’t outright told me anything concerning us but I don’t want to push her further away. Can you help?

    • She has decided to block you, and she then said that it was possible that she would unblock you in the future. However, it is clear that you are no longer in a relationship with her, as she has blocked you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If she chooses to not unblock you, then you are aware that this relationship is no longer viable. Have a great day, Somers!

  21. Recent update. I recently wrote a public post on fb about my experiences with dealing with women because of my sheltered upbringing and always getting cheated on or heart broken all throughout my twenties. It was very lengthy and went in depth with what I experienced. Since she hasn’t blocked me on fb, I wasn’t sure if she read it. Needless to say, she recently unblocked me on ig a day later. I was a bit surprised. I was searching for somebody and her ig popped up again. I’m trying to figure out why she unblocked me? Because I know on ig you have to go through a process and look for the name of the person you blocked on the blocked list to unblock them. She obviously looked for my page. Do you know why she did this? Any clue?

    • If she unblocked you, then it is possible that she is interested in speaking with you. She may want to nourish a relationship with you. Determine what you believe is appropriate for the future of this relationship. You may want to speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Ensure that you give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Bryan!

  22. Hello I have met this girl through a good friend who recommended her to date me and she followed me in Instagram. I got notified and we started speaking was going really great and I told her we can meet up after payday. Arranged a the plan and everything. It was going well she was sending me paragraphs of messages and told our mutual friend she wants to meet me. Sometimes she would respond late because work was tiring her out and she always apologised which I understood because I couldn’t always reply in decent time either because of work. Two days before the date she suddenly didn’t respond and on the morning if the day I said to our friend that we haven’t yet sorted a time of the date, she said she doesn’t know what’s going on as she was not replying back to her either. My friend (her best friend) recommended me to ask her what time shall we meet as sometimes she does forget to respond (which she has done to me once and apologised) so I did it and around 6pm she finished work and said she felt tired and don’t think she she has the energy to up. Her best friend asked me what did she reply with and I told her and she said ask her “what about Tommorow?” I added a fun emoji to it, then she said she thinks I’m a nice guy but she has a lot on right now and she don’t think she can speak to someone at this moment in time. I read it and was just stumped on what to say because of the sudden change so I left it. She posted a new picture on Instagram and I liked it then about 5 mins later I said “yeh it’s fine, just stay in touch” and she blocked me! I don’t her friend and she told me she that’s unfair and she doesn’t know her friends mindset at the moment as she replied to her friends the same day aplogising as she has been tied up with work. Our friend stated she never got a chance to talk about me to her as she has been not getting back to her messages. About a half a day – day later (I didn’t check till the next day) she unblocked me as I can see I can request a follow. I don’t know what I did wrong but I don’t know why she bothered to unblock me if she didn’t want to speak.

    Now I’m in two minds to leave her alone and let our friend (my close friends girlfriend) (her best friend) handle it or to message her to ask why.

    • It seems as though she is uncertain about how to behave, and you are uncertain about what you want for your future. You may want to speak with your mutual friend about your thoughts and feelings. She may be able to give you the insight that you are seeking. Perhaps attempt to spend time with your crush and your mutual friend, as this will give the three of you a chance to have a discussion about the future. Have a great day, Axel!

  23. Hey mate how are you, um I got blocked by this women last year. In January, she came into my work.
    We talked in a positive way. She said before she left I can Message her again. We exchanged messages for a week, then she has stopped. When she wanted me to do a PT with her, but at the time I broke my thumb. So I said I can’t, she hasn’t messaged me since. I’ve just come back from NZ I was there for 28 days, I called and messaged her saying I’m back and ready to caught up or do pt’s with her. Still got nothing, I watched her play football on Sunday, she saw me. Came by me with a high five and then signed a football plus a photo with kids standing next to me.
    I should of said hello but I didn’t,
    Is there still hope with her being in my life again or not really

    • It sounds as though the two of you are interested in maintaining a relationship together, but each are uncertain about what you want. If the two of you meet in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you are serious about this relationship, then attempt to spend time with her in person. Have a great day, John!

  24. Hey mate how are you, um I got blocked by this women last year. In January, she came into my work.
    We talked in a positive way. She said before she left I can Message her again. We exchanged messages for a week, then she has stopped. When she wanted me to do a PT with her, but at the time I broke my thumb. So I said I can’t, she hasn’t messaged me since. I’ve just come back from NZ I was there for 28 days, I called and messaged her saying I’m back and ready to caught up or do pt’s with her. Still got nothing, I watched her play football on Sunday, she saw me. Came by me with a high five and then signed a football plus a photo with kids standing next to me.
    I should of said hello but I didn’t,
    Is there still hope with her being in my life again or not really
    I really hope I do

    • It sounds as though the two of you are interested in maintaining a relationship together, but each are uncertain about what you want. If the two of you meet in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you are serious about this relationship, then attempt to spend time with her in person. Have a great day, John!

  25. I have a question that is, someone blocked me on whatsapp and I even don’t know what to do next. I never said any abusing words or never offence to her and the reason behind blocking is her best friend. Her best friend is so possessive for her and she said don’t message me from now. Please tell me how should I convince her.

    • You have been blocked and you are aware of the reasons why. Since her best friend has requested that she no longer communicate with you, you will have to speak with this person about your thoughts and feelings in person. The only way to convince her is to make her understand that it is reasonable for you to maintain this relationship. You may want to speak with her best friend about your thoughts and feelings as well. Have a great day, Niket!

  26. Bro i have chatting with my crush everyday during exams i also helped her and we also became good friends but after 3 months i sometimes became little bit rude towards her but she never minds and forgives me but after that during our exams i send her large large messages she therefore gets irritated and gives short reply and also told me to send small text messages on whatsapp and after our exams also i send her large large messages then the day after our exam she came online at night and told me not to talk with her as i send large large messages then i make fun of her little bit and lastly when i commented on her ex as her ex was very rude person and previously hurted her she gets angry and blocked me…she was not that kind of girl who gets angry so quickly but how she gets angry so quickly i cant understand….will she unblock me bro in future

    • You were rude to her and you did not treat her with the respect that she deserved. Because of your behaviors, she decided to inform you of her feelings. She then blocked you. This means that she no longer is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Do not reach out to her at this time. Learn from your mistakes, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Ensure that you always share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Sandeep!

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