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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.



Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

159 COMMENTS

  1. hey so i had a date with a girl, and the end of our date she said that she felt good and we could go out again in the future, and the next morning she blocked me on sc. That was the only form of communication we had so what should i do?

    • She shared her thoughts and feelings with you, but she decided to block you. It is possible that she changed her mind in the morning. She is no longer able or willing to maintain a relationship with you at this time. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Want!

  2. She was my best friend but today something worst happened my brother call her and his friend tried to talk with him and she get angered as she thought I was the one who was giving her number to people so what should I do know she isn’t attending my call and not replying me on messages and she blocked me on insta and Snapchat but not on Facebook and whatsapp and she also didn’t block my no so what should I do know to tell her that it’s not my fault

    • If you are able to communicate with her and you did not give out her contact information, then explain that you did not give our her information. She may choose to ignore you or not speak with you. She may realize that she was not acting in an acceptable manner. Perhaps attempt to speak with her in person, as she will see that you are sincere. Have a great day, Alijaan!

  3. Hi, 2 months ago, there’s a girl who I dated. Our mutual friends kept asking and teasing her after the date about me that made me think she’s getting really pissed off. So I purposely made a move of riling up the tension even more saying that i’ll unfriend and report her and stuff. And I did (but not the report stuff). Which made her really mad and blocked me in all communications possible. I made that move knowing it will made her cut her ties with me, which i think she wanted. I really didn’t want that. I only did that so my friends won’t bug her anymore. Which turned the wrong way seeing as she blocked me and all. I really wanted to talk to her again. What do you think i should do? I really don’t care if there’ll be a chance on dating her again as long as we can be friends again who can be civil and can be in the same room again.

    • You have chosen to treat her without respect. She may have once been interested in developing a relationship with you. She has now blocked you. Learn from this lesson for your future relationships. Do not act in a manner that would cause someone feel sad or confused. If you decide to speak with her, then explain your actions. Have a great day, Jerid!

  4. Hey ok long story short 1 year ago I had a fight with a girls boyfriend because I called her beautiful in front of him we both got suspended and when we came back to school they broke up 1 year later i apologized to her she said ok i followed her on Instagram but then she blocked me why?

    • She has blocked you for a variety of potential reasons. You communication with her may have caused her to act in this manner. There may be an influence in her life that caused her to block you. Either way, she is no longer interested in speaking with you. Determine what you want for your future without her. Share your kindness and compassion with the world. Have a great day, Elie!

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