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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.



Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

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  1. Acutually she was indirectlly approached me to text so I was texted after 5 days I was proposed &she was rejected me& blocked me…after 10 days she was unblocked me and deleted my number from her contact after 20days she was again maintain eye contact twice but so I was texted her I got no replay after 2 months she put status on her wall to contact her indirectly but I didn’t contact at that moment.I was wished to her birthday after 2 month & she was replied me asked me still u have feelings 4 me & I told yes & she told it will never happens don’t try again so tat day I was ended chat and again after 2 month I was called & proposed her &told to think &then tell after 2 days she was rejected me and blocked me in whats app again..1 month is completed she didn’t unblocked me..I was hurted and decided i never go to disturb her…and I kne how much she was indirectly approached me…

    • She has blocked you and shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She is unable or unwilling to nourish a relationship with you. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Anamika!

  2. Initially she was maintain eye contact & Acutually she was indirectlly approached me to text so I was texted. after 5 days I was proposed &she was rejected me& blocked me…after 10 days she was unblocked me and deleted my number from her contact. after 20days she was again maintain eye contact twice. so I was texted her I got no replay.then after 2 months I was also deleted her number and exit from group.when I left she was also left group just within 24hours and she put status indirectly on her wall to contact her but I didn’t contact at that moment.I was wished her to birthday after 2 month & she was replied me & asked me still u have feelings 4 me? & I told yes & she told it will never happens don’t try again.so tat day I was ended chat and again after 2 month I was called & proposed her &told to think &then tell after 2 days she was rejected me and blocked me in whats app again..1 month is completed she didn’t unblocked me..I was hurted lot and I dnt kne y she was played with me like this much?really she gave lot of gesture..now I was decided to never go to disturb her in future at any condition…I was deleted her photos,messages,number everything…now I dnt have her single memory in ma mobile & I ‘ll try to forget as soon as possible and I ‘ll change mobile number also…

    • The two of you have determined that you are not interested in maintaining a relationship together. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional attention elsewhere. Take this time to determine what you want for your future with her. Have a great day, Anamika!

  3. We were only talking for a day but we had a great time on snapchat and she showed signs that she liked me but she was pushy for a photo and I told her i dont look good but than she said looks doesnt matter so next day (today) she was at school and i texted her 1/3 of my facr and she blocked me, she still hasnt blocked me on musically even tho i saw her online in musically I texted her and she replied with “Hey this is laci madys friend she didn’t block you bc if your looks lmao she blocked you bc her parents don’t like her talking and connecting with strangers on the internet:)” which is complete bs tbh cause she was at school.

    • It is likely that her friend shared her friend’s feelings with you. If that is the case, then she is unable to speak with you because of her parents preventing the communication. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Justin!

  4. She was maintaing a long eye contact with me initially,,,,afterward she I signal me indirectly to approach her,,,,even there is rumors as well for both of us that we like each other,,,,still I haven’t talked to her ,,,then accidentally a msg from my mobile was sent to her,,and I cleared all that from calling her and whatsapp she maintains eye contact with me and even enthusiastic as well in my presence after that so I send her msg again she doesn’t respond so I again send 1 msg daily for 3 to 4 days days based on our situation in terms of funny memes then she told to stop all this I agreed and stopped but then my and her chats one conversation was in matter of discus with my colleagues so I send a msg with full of politeness not telling all the things to other then again I send her msg to clear why and how very 1st msg sent accidentally but she have blocked me so I sent the same from phone of my frnd then her frnd called me and warned me to not contact her afterwards her frnds says sorry for her doing and still she looks towards me and now her frnds notice me a lot but still m blocked what to do

      • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She has blocked you. Her friend has asked you to not contact her. Do not contact her. She is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Focus your emotional attention elsewhere. Learn from this lesson to ensure that similar consequences happen with your future relationships. Have a great day, Rk!

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She has blocked you. Her friend has asked you to not contact her. Do not contact her. She is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Focus your emotional attention elsewhere. Learn from this lesson to ensure that similar consequences happen with your future relationships. Have a great day, Rk!

  5. I had been talking to this girl for only a few weeks we agreed to meet up for a date today. We talked the day before about it she was excited to meet me and i was her. She messaged me asking how my day was and that she was struggling though class as a joke. I told her I had just woke up and no response figured she was still in class, i messaged her asking where she wanted to eat and saw that she blocked me on instagram, unmatched me on tinder and facebook messager. Idk what i did for her to do this

    • There are a variety of potential reasons for her actions. It is likely that her feelings for you had changed. It may because of personal reasons. She may be unable or unwilling to nourish a relationship with you at this time. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Corey!

  6. So me and my friends had a stupid competition, where we would have to send girls messages on snap saying that “ if I was going to ask you out what would you say” this girl responded with “ I’m not really looking for a relationship right now” the next snap I sent her I explained why I sent that the last snap. A couple of hours later she just straight up blocks me. Help.

    • You have treated her with disrespect. She blocked you because your actions were unacceptable to her. Allow your actions to influence your future actions. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Do not attempt to harm people for your own amusement. Have a great day, Lauti!

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