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What To Do When A Girl Blocks You

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A girl blocked you, huh? And now you’re left wondering what to do? No doubt that has to hurt a little. Waking up and seeing you can no longer access her content, when yesterday everything was peachy keen, definitely has a certain sting factor to it. But we are here to let you know that it’s all going to be okay. Before you start freaking out and sending her messages that you may regret, there is a few different things that you should consider.

Ask Yourself Why

Think long and hard about the past few days leading up to her blocking you. You want to put on your detective pants real quick and start by retracing your digital footprint with her. What was the last conversation you had with her like? Did she seem upset by anything? Did you say something that you maybe shouldn’t have? It’s important to consider these types of things so that you can get to the bottom of this mystery. Finding where it all stemmed from gives you the best chance and repairing the relationship between you.

You will also want to think about what platform she blocked you on.

Here’s why:

Snapchat: She may have blocked you on Snapchat because she doesn’t want you to see something she posted. Usually when someone blocks you on Snapchat it’s only temporary. They can take the block filter off anytime they’d like or leave it on as long as they want, without actually removing you from their friend list. This is usually done to certain individuals if the user feels like the content might upset them or if they are trying to keep their snaps during that time more private.

Facebook: When it comes to Facebook there are two different types of blocking mechanisms. Users have the option to block only messages from their friends, while still keeping them on their friends list. You will discover this if you have tried to message her on Messenger and your messages are denied by the autobot. Users can also choose to fully block their friends, which will not only block messages, but will also remove you from their friends list and prevent you from even finding their profiles again.

Instagram: Instagram offers the feature of removing someone from viewing your profile. She may deleted you off of here if you are leaving too many comments or if she no longer wants you viewing her content.



Phone: If she blocks you on the phone it means that you may have offended her in some way. She’s not playing around. Blocking you from texting/calling her is the worst case scenario.

Reasons She May Have Blocked You

  • You have offended her somehow: Think back- Did you say something to her that may not have been okay to say? Have you teased or taunted her recently? Did you do something to embarrass her?  These are all reasons why she may have blocked you.
  • You post content she doesn’t like: We all unfollow feeds that bother us. Maybe the two of you don’t share similar political views and she finally had enough. Maybe your content is inappropriate or reaches out to an opposite audience.
  • She’s playing hard to get: It sounds strange, but it’s entirely possible that she is playing games with you. She may want to see how you react to her blocking or removing you. She may test you to see if you will find another way to communicate with her. If so, she’s ultimately measuring how much effort you are willing to put in to talk with her. It’s not the nicest thing to do, but some girls will do it.
  • She has a boyfriend: She may be taken by someone else. Either her or her boyfriend may not like you trying to start conversation with her or liking /commenting on her stuff.  They may have felt it necessary to remove you entirely.
  • She’s just not that into you: Oftentimes women will block someone because they are simply not interested in the advances you have been making on her.

What Should You Do Next?

Now that you have had a chance to think about why she may have blocked you, it’s time to think about the next steps you can take.

  • Whatever you do, don’t be a creep: Coming on too strongly after she has blocked you will most likely just push her further away. Don’t blow up her phone if she blocks you on social.media and vice versa. Be patient.
  • Try to reach out another way: The best thing you can do is to simply reach out to her in some other way. This will be impossible if she has blocked you on every platform.  However, if she hasn’t, go ahead and write an appropriate message asking her why she felt it necessary to block you.
  • Use good grammar: Besides using proper sentence structure, try to keep the message short and to the point. Feel free to express you are hurt by her blocking you, but do not make her feel bad for it! Acting resentful is a good way of turning her off of you.
  • Make your case: Tell her that you are sorry for whatever you may have done, especially if she tells you that you’ve offended her. Give her a couple reasons as to why she should continue to keep you unblocked. However, don’t get pushy with her.

Remember the time rules: Send your message and wait. Wait up to 24 hours. If she doesn’t respond by then, it’s okay to send one more text when the day is up. If she doesn’t respond after the second message, it’s safe to say all hope is lost between the two of you.

209 COMMENTS

  1. hey so i had a date with a girl, and the end of our date she said that she felt good and we could go out again in the future, and the next morning she blocked me on sc. That was the only form of communication we had so what should i do?

    • She shared her thoughts and feelings with you, but she decided to block you. It is possible that she changed her mind in the morning. She is no longer able or willing to maintain a relationship with you at this time. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Want!

  2. She was my best friend but today something worst happened my brother call her and his friend tried to talk with him and she get angered as she thought I was the one who was giving her number to people so what should I do know she isn’t attending my call and not replying me on messages and she blocked me on insta and Snapchat but not on Facebook and whatsapp and she also didn’t block my no so what should I do know to tell her that it’s not my fault

    • If you are able to communicate with her and you did not give out her contact information, then explain that you did not give our her information. She may choose to ignore you or not speak with you. She may realize that she was not acting in an acceptable manner. Perhaps attempt to speak with her in person, as she will see that you are sincere. Have a great day, Alijaan!

  3. Hi, 2 months ago, there’s a girl who I dated. Our mutual friends kept asking and teasing her after the date about me that made me think she’s getting really pissed off. So I purposely made a move of riling up the tension even more saying that i’ll unfriend and report her and stuff. And I did (but not the report stuff). Which made her really mad and blocked me in all communications possible. I made that move knowing it will made her cut her ties with me, which i think she wanted. I really didn’t want that. I only did that so my friends won’t bug her anymore. Which turned the wrong way seeing as she blocked me and all. I really wanted to talk to her again. What do you think i should do? I really don’t care if there’ll be a chance on dating her again as long as we can be friends again who can be civil and can be in the same room again.

    • You have chosen to treat her without respect. She may have once been interested in developing a relationship with you. She has now blocked you. Learn from this lesson for your future relationships. Do not act in a manner that would cause someone feel sad or confused. If you decide to speak with her, then explain your actions. Have a great day, Jerid!

  4. Hey ok long story short 1 year ago I had a fight with a girls boyfriend because I called her beautiful in front of him we both got suspended and when we came back to school they broke up 1 year later i apologized to her she said ok i followed her on Instagram but then she blocked me why?

    • She has blocked you for a variety of potential reasons. You communication with her may have caused her to act in this manner. There may be an influence in her life that caused her to block you. Either way, she is no longer interested in speaking with you. Determine what you want for your future without her. Share your kindness and compassion with the world. Have a great day, Elie!

  5. I dated a young lady for about 3 weeks strong. Long story short, I caught her in a club with some other guy dancing and groping on her. She then flipped it back on me, calling me a stalker and creepy, when that’s NOT how it happened. She hasn’t responded to any of my texts in a few days.

    I was really feeling her. I’m scared to call because it’ll crush my heart if it turns out I’m blocked. What should I do?

    • She is not interested in developing a relationship with you. She called you a stalker. Her behaviors indicate that she is not interested in nourishing a relationship with you. She has told you that she does not want you to speak with her. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Desean!

  6. Okay, so I’m class mates with this girl for 2 years, for a year i haven’t event noticed her a lot, but recently, she talked with me a bit, and I just answered short and to the point. She opened something in my hearth or something, I clearly fell in love with her, but when I tryed messaging her on facebook or other platforms she was only seeing my messages, but not responding, I wrote some stupid messages, then she responded, and then blocked me for some reason… What do I need to do? She doesn’t even want me to be near her, she picks other groups in class, even without her friends.. what does that mean?

    • She has made it clear to you that she is not interested in developing a relationship with you at this time. She has blocked you, so do not reach out to her at this time. There are many potential reasons for her actions. There may be other influences in her life that are preventing her from nourishing a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, David!

  7. Hello I’ve been chatting online with a girl for almost a year.And we became so close at the time.but we are both studying for university entrance exam and 3 months ago we promised not to send any messages and also block each other.Because we both realized that being in such relation distract both of us from studying carefully.But I missed her so much and last week I wrote in my Bio in telegram to her saying that i want to talk to you.
    When She saw it and sent we started talking.But sth was wrong anout her.Aparrently She was mad about sth and she didn’t talk to me the way she did.we didn’t talk for 3 months and there was no conversation to search it for any anger-rising words.
    she answered everything I said in an angry way.At the end I told her stop talking to that way,if there is sth wrong,just tell me.but she said:”you are supposed to study.what are u doing here?Block me and go.if you don’t do it I will delete my accounts and never talk to you”.
    I got hurt by her word.And told her you pissed me off.And blocked Her(as she said).But tomorrow morning I saw that she deleted all her account(2 telegram,1 Whatsapp).I just have her number.I don’t know what to do or why she did this?
    Sorry it’s it’s too long 🙁

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She has decided to block you and delete her accounts. She is not interested in developing a relationship with you. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Learn from these mistakes and apply your new knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Siamak!

  8. Hello I’ve been chatting online with a girl for almost a year.And we became so close at the time.but we are both studying for university entrance exam and 3 months ago we promised not to send any messages and also block each other.Because we both realized that being in such relation distract both of us from studying carefully.But I missed her so much and last week I wrote in my Bio in telegram to her saying that i want to talk to you.
    When She saw it and sent we started talking.But sth was wrong anout her.Aparrently She was mad about sth and she didn’t talk to me the way she did.we didn’t talk for 3 months and there was no conversation to search it for any anger-rising words.
    she answered everything I said in an angry way.At the end I told her stop talking to that way,if there is sth wrong,just tell me.but she said:”you are supposed to study.what are u doing here?Block me and go.if you don’t do it I will delete my accounts and never talk to you”.
    I got hurt by her word.And told her you pissed me off.And blocked Her(as she said).But tomorrow morning I saw that she deleted all her accounts(2 telegram,1 Whatsapp).I just have her number.I don’t know what to do or why she did this?
    Sorry it’s it’s too long 🙁

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She has decided to block you and delete her accounts. She is not interested in developing a relationship with you. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Learn from these mistakes and apply your new knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Siamak!

  9. A girl come to me when i was drop her i am uber driver she did all her best to gest my number by calling the company and she contacted me the next morning telling
    Me that she liked me she like my smile and she want to talk . But after couple days chatting i felt in love with i keep asking to see her and a couple days later she block my number i cant leave her alone i dont know what to

    • She once felt a strong emotional connection with you. Something in her life may have influenced her actions. There are likely other people in her life who may have caused her to stop speaking with you. Allow thoughts of her to fade and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Ouamane!

  10. I was friends with this girl from Las Vegas for about three years now . And as the years progressed I started to get very close to her ; I met her family and they love me .

    Just this past January I told her I had feelings for her , unfortunately the feelings weren’t mutual .

    So I moved on and 4mths later I came back to Vegas . I reached out to her and her family to which everything was ignored . Her sister replied back to me and said I was welcomed back to see them anytime . So I drove to their place ( and when I got there , that girl I had feelings for was at her new boyfriends place )

    As the evening progressed ; she ran into me at her place hanging out with her sister and uncle in the living room to which she said hello but didn’t bother to even stay and chat – proceeded to get her things and went back to the boyfriends place

    Turns out – the sister told me the new boyfriend gives her drugs ( cocaine , exstacy ) and she had told me that she is attracted to guys who have this lifestyle . ( to which I’m the total opposite ; good reputation , no criminal records , good career etc) . When I saw her she didn’t even appear to be interested to talk to me and she appears to have been drinking / face was completely red …

    Another thing her sister told me is she’s been on drugs / drinking spree ever since she has been with this new bf and she’s been ignoring everyone .

    Anyway she left and I hung out with her family… the next morning I find out I am blocked and deleted from Facebook , IG …. ( which I wasn’t before I saw her )

    Thoughts ? Did I do something wrong ?

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. Her sister has shared the experiences that she is going through. It is clear that her sister wants you to her life as emotional support. Your ex is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with her family. Perhaps attempt to nourish a relationship with her sister at this time. Have a great day, Chotto!

      • I would like to continue to stay in touch with her family yes — but what made her block me all of a sudden ?!?

        For the past 4 months , it was radio silence online with the ex but I was still on her social media… once she saw me at her place hanging out with her sister and uncle , the very next day I was deleted from all her social media

        That’s why I’m confused – what made her do it

        • There may be a variety of reasons for her actions. If she deleted you after she saw you spending time with her family, then that is likely the reason. She may not want you to feel welcome with her family. She may not realize what your intentions are. She has blocked you and removed you from her life, so focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Chotto!

  11. I fucked up a relationship hard. I was friends with this girl and we escalated it to FWB. I told her I was always interested in a relationship and she kind of just said to go with it. At one point we don’t see each other for a couple of weeks I think and I missed the shit out of her which I told her. The next weekend I saw her it was great and we spent time watching a movie but when I tried to cuddle and talk about sex she told me to get a prostitute, fat girlfriend, im too bony, etc.

    My communication broke down and the next day I felt paranoid. I had no way of easily seeing her or talking to her for another week so I just texted her and in my gut I felt like I needed to get out of the relationship. I told her we should stop hanging out. Then I immediately regretted it because that was probably heartbreak and I didn’t realize it was normal to feel that way. I asked her if she was ok and I basically begged myself back in to any sort of good graces. I’ve lost my dignity and my sanity and have only annoyed the shit out of her. I said things like I will be looking for other girls, I said bye numerous times for numerous reasons but nothing ever gave me clarity/closure. I saw her another time and things felt awkward to me. I asked about sex and she said she’d rather adopt a baby than ever have sex. I knew there was nothing in it for me romantically anymore. I felt so confused and conflicted because I loved her but didn’t let her go the right way and now she just wanted to be friends.

    I tried moving on a couple of more times; I just didn’t talk to her but when she contacted me to talk I tried to keep the conversation short but she kept it up and I told her I still loved her and I could tell that was a problem because she didn’t reciprocate. I told her we shouldn’t be friends, and tried to live with blocking her for 3 weeks. Yesterday I talked to her and told her I was going to therapy and wanted to talk about things. Our time conflicted and I wouldn’t be able to see her for at least a week and man I just got hit with the same relationship emotions again. I told her I wanted a relationship. I just wanted to communicate…. I left some long messages and I think she blocked me. If she did then at least that helps me move on but I told her about the prostitute things which I should have said from the beginning. It would have caused so much less conflict. Emotionally/mentally I am wrought and feel like I need help to get normal again it fucking sucks.

    • This relationship has ended, and the two of you attempted to find closure or nourish a relationship again. For whatever reason, she decided that she was interested in blocking you and no longer interested in speaking with you. She has blocked you, and you are aware that this relationship has finalized. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Matt!

  12. Um, ok, guess I’m the only girl here. I’m actually one of the ‘sone girls who block a guy to see how he’ll respond’ . I know it sounds mean.. but I’ve always had this feeling from the start that he’s not serious with me. I’ve always felt something’s off despite his advances. I’ve felt like he’s not sure about how he feels about me. Being emotional as I am, we’ve had deep talks. But lately, there’ve been 2 little things that I felt upset. That made me feel more certain that he’s not so serious.. and so as a test, I ignored his messages on Messenger. He can still see my stuff on Messenger stories and in group chats. he can still text me or call me. We see each other at school, so he can come up and ask me what’s wrong anytime, but he doesn’t even come close to me. I know he’s shy, but shouldn’t he even try to know the reason why? So.. from a guy’s perspective, how wrong am I?

    • Thank you for sharing your perspective, as this will help other people in their current or future relationships. You are not comfortable with this relationship, so you decided to block him. He may feel confused, uncertain, or upset, but that is his personal reaction to your behaviors. He likely is not attempting to speak with you because you blocked him. This reveals his understanding of your needs. You are not wrong to behave in this way, though he may find emotional benefit from closure and an understanding of why you chose to block him. Have a great day, Anita!

  13. Hey, i’ve been blocked by my friend we have been hanging out and text a lot. Im pondering on texting her through kik but one side of me is telling me to wait and another side tells me to move on. I dont know what to do, whenever we text eachother we would text for hours and hours.
    The last thing she sent me was
    “Hey, you shall now be blocked for an undeterminable amount of time. Have a nice day~”
    I dont know if she is being playful or not. Its been almost 2 weeks since then.

    • She has blocked you. The two of you have not communicated in two weeks. It is possible that your conversation has influenced her actions. Someone else in her life may be causing her to act in this way. If she reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with her. If not, then focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with the world. Have a great day, Oscar!

  14. Also, i think the reason for her blocking me is that finals weeks are here. Im just hoping she didnt forget about me, and she would unblock me afterwards. But i still feel like i should send her a message thriugh kik and ask her a simple question like “hey, how you been?” And wait until she responds back (if she does) and go from there.

    • It is possible that she meant to temporarily block you for finals. She may have forgotten to unblock you. You are more aware of her behaviors and meanings. If you think it is appropriate to reach out to her, then do so. Have a great day, Oscar!

  15. Hello there, so two months ago, I was friends with this woman. But she unfriended me like 7 weeks ago, on mother’s day we walked past each other. We both said hello, on Friday I spotted her at my work. ( I work in a supermarket)
    I said hello, we talked for a while in good spirit. I’m just wondering if there is a chance of becoming friends with her again. Or is it fools gold to think that would happen

    • She has unfriended you, but she continues to share her polite greetings with you. It is possible that someone or some other influence in her life caused her to unfriend you. It is possible that she was busy and was uncertain that she could maintain a friendship with you. Continue to speak with her, but do not add her at this time. If she wants to nourish a relationship with you, then she will pursue it. Have a gret day, John!

      • She unfriended me cause, pushed her away with text messaging. I wanted answers on stuff, I wish I never did it.
        I’m guessing I don’t do anything at all at the moment. Like messaging on Facebook messenger

        • You are aware of the potential reason for why she decided to end this relationship with you. Learn from this lesson and apply your knowledge to your future relationships. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, John!

          • Thanks for the advice, I do want her back in my life. Is there a chance of this happening at all, plus Can I message her at all. or not really

          • She has blocked you, and through her actions she has shared her thoughts and feelings. She is unable or unwilling to maintain an emotional relationship with you. Do not attempt to reach out to her at this time. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, John!

  16. Hello! My girlfriend blocked me because she was overthinking about our relationship. Few days ago, we were just spending time together and last saturday she just gave me her out of the blue thoughts. Her thoughts where hurtful though because it involved something that is not really ‘her’. And today, she just blocked me out of the blue also. I haven’t messaged her since the complicated situation happened but I really want to fix this and I guess she just got eaten by her thoughts. Please help me. She blocked me on messenger and I guess the only way to contact her is thru twitter, instagram or the best way, thru text. Please. I really love her. We’re already turning 4 yrs. she’s too precious for me… I just wanna know how will I talk to her again after I got blocked. Thank you so much.

    • She has blocked you for a reason. However, it sounds like the two of you are still maintaining a relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Navigate this relationship carefully, as the two of you have a long history. Share your kindness and compassion with her as well. Have a great day, Gan!

  17. Hello me and my ex have been having problems the last month and when she told me she wanted a break I continue to fear of loosing her so I begged really hard for a couple days and found myself blocked on everything. This is the kind of girl to give me chance after chance and after her asking for a break I just pushed her away without knowing. How worried should I be that this is really over.

    • She shared her thoughts and feelings with you. You did not respect her needs, so she decided to block you. She is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship. Learn from this relationship to ensure that your future relationships are successful. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, John!

  18. I’m a black male who had a crush on a Palestinian/Arabian gir.me and her had a few classes together our senior year
    We talk little but bit not so much. I tried to ask her to prom but her parents said that she can’t go with a date.i then gave her a secret love letter in history class. After that, I told her I was the one who wrote it in her Instagram dm, she didn’t respond, but she read the message. Fast forward, graduation ends and I saw a beautiful picture at graduation that she posted on Instagram, so I said she looked beautiful,then she blocked me the next day. I don’t understand why she did that. Maybe I wanted to late? I’m really upset and hurt by this..any suggestions?

    • There are a wide variety of potential reasons for her actions. Her parents likely have influenced her decisions. Parents are often influenced by their social and cultural norms, and religion often plays a role in social relationships. She may have blocked you because of her parents. She may not have been interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Darrius!

  19. I’m a black male who recently had crush on a Palestinian/Arabian girl. I had a few classes with her during my Senior. We talked.but not so much. I tried to ask her for prom , but her parents said that she couldn’t go with a date, eventually. She Decided not to go, I didn’t go either. I then.wrote her a secret love letter in history class. I then told her I wrote it in her Instagram dm. She did respond, but she saw message. Fast forward, four weeks later, graduation, she posted a picture of her at graduation on Instagram, I then commented that she look beautiful, the next day she blocked me..I don’t understand why..I was prettyuch the.inly guy that was really interested in her. Plus.nevet said anything offensive.I’m really upset about this.any suggestion?

    • There are a wide variety of potential reasons for her actions. Her parents likely have influenced her decisions. Parents are often influenced by their social and cultural norms, and religion often plays a role in social relationships. She may have blocked you because of her parents. She may not have been interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of her to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Darrius!

  20. Mine is a little different … I blocked someone I’ve had a long distance relationship with / who I’ve been texting just about every day for just over 10 months. I told him I had fallen for him and he said “lol, you are not” I replied “I am” he said “nope” and didn’t text me back. I was devestated. He is going on vacation for two weeks, without me. I thought these two weeks would be the perfect time to move on. Maybe when he gets back he’ll try to text me and find that he no longer can. I just need more in my life. I deserve more. And he has a way of making me forget that I’m missing something huge from him: love, romance, vulnerability. I worry about hurting him and feel kind of cowardly for blocking him without a warning. My question to you: how do you think he’ll react? I do know in my heart this is the right thing to do, for both of us, long term. Thanks!

    • You have chosen to block him. You made this decision based on a variety of reasons. This person is likely aware that you have blocked him. This likely caused his feelings to become confused or uncertain. He may no longer be interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Either attempt to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, or allow him to fade from you life. Have a great day, Jane!

  21. Ok so I’ve been talking to this girl for about three months. We’ve known each other longer but never really got to know each other properly. We got off to a bumpy start because my friend liked her too but she chose me and he couldn’t take it. That friendship ended which I guess put some pressure on her but she didn’t really seem too bothered. In fact she was very humbled that I chose her. Anyway we both knew we liked each other but spent the next few months meeting up a lot and just getting to know each other properly. Everything seemed to be going well and eventually I asked her if she wanted to make things official. She said yes and we sealed it with a kiss – quite a few actually. Three days later she messaged me saying she wants to break up. She said she didn’t feel a ‘romantic connection’ (despite making out a lot) and said there was no spark. I was devastated and was confused for days. Eventually, after a lot of thinking I became angry with her and sent some messages I regret. We talked some more, I apologised, and after thinking there was absolutely no hope left wrote her a letter saying goodbye (cringey I know, but it meant a lot to her). We ended up talking a lot more after this and she said she might want to try things again and that maybe she didn’t give it enough of a chance. We planned to meet up but things got in the way. At this point we haven’t seen each other for about two weeks. I’ve given her plenty of space and time to think. Last night she went to a party which I was going to attend but apparently she wasn’t comfortable with that so I didn’t go. I woke up this morning to find I had been blocked on snapchat. It’s so complicated and I just don’t know what to think anymore. I like her so much it’s so hard to forget about her. Should I fight to try things again or just leave it? And at what point should I reach out to her? (Or not?)

    • The two of you attempted to establish a relationship, but the relationship was not viable. You spoke out of anger to her, and this may have caused permanent damage to the relationship. She has decided to block you, which means that she is no longer interested in attempting to nourish a relationship with you. Feel free to go to whichever party or social event that you want to go to, but don’t purposefully attempt to follow her to parties. Have a great day, Rhys!

  22. Hello, thx for all the advices but i need help . I was a friend with a girl , we had a good comunication and suddenly i couldn’t wait for her to reply ( that’s my mistake ) ; because she couldn’t reply me at school . And now she blocked me only on instagram but don’t know how to work with other s medias . She was not playin around , all i want is she accepts my pology . How can i do it so well to make this happen ? …

    • She has decided to block you. She may have felt annoyed that with your actions. She is not interested in speaking with you at this time. Give her an opportunity to determine what she feels is appropriate. Wait for her to reach out to you at this time. Determine what you believe is viable with this relationship, and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Anon!

  23. Hi

    I need you advice please.
    Actually this girl is my neighbour. One day we exchanged photos using whatsapp but we didn’t chat after that but she kept my number in her phone because i notese that she was viewing my status, so i thought she may be interested in talking to me.
    I know that she has a boyfriend and i also know that things been going bad between them.
    Anyway, i added her on snapchatt but it was shocking that she blocked me on whatsapp.

    Please i need your advice, what should i do?

    • There may be a variety of reasons for her actions. She is in a relationship, so she may not have wanted to keep you on an app. She may not have decided to block you on the other for a reason. As long as she is in a relationship, you will find benefit in not attempting to nourish a relationship with her. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Help!

  24. So basically I started to talk to this girl for 2 or 3 weeks but then suddenly she deleted all of her social media accounts except for Facebook and Instagram. I messaged her on Facebook to see what happened and she replied that she was sad about something and she wanted to be left alone. I comforted her and did we she wanted, which was to leave her alone. 1 week later she texted me on Facebook because she was wandering how I was. That escalated to us having a really good conversation, she was back to her normal self. But then she suddenly blocked me on Facebook 1 hour after that good conversation. Its been 3 days and she hasn’t unblocked me, but her Instagram is available for me to message her. I don’t know what to do. I felt we had a strong connection and I didn’t do anything wrong but she just blocked me for no reason. Can you please help me.

    • There may be a variety of reasons for her actions. Determine what you want for your future. Decide if you believe it is appropriate to reach out to her at this time. If you do, then share your kindness and compassion with you. Perhaps allow this experience to influence you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. You may find benefit in allowing this person to reach out to you in the future. Have a great day, Ayk!

  25. So basically I started to talk to this girl for 2 or 3 weeks (we would text for a really long time every day) but then suddenly she deleted all of her social media accounts except for Facebook and Instagram. I messaged her on Facebook to see what happened and she replied that she was sad about something and she wanted to be left alone. I comforted her and did we she wanted, which was to leave her alone. 1 week later she texted me on Facebook because she was wandering how I was. That escalated to us having a really good conversation, she was back to her normal self. But then she suddenly blocked me on Facebook 1 hour after that good conversation. Its been 3 days and she hasn’t unblocked me, but her Instagram is available for me to message her. I don’t know what to do. I felt we had a strong connection and I didn’t do anything wrong but she just blocked me for no reason. Can you please help me.

    • There may be a variety of reasons for her actions. Determine what you want for your future. Decide if you believe it is appropriate to reach out to her at this time. If you do, then share your kindness and compassion with you. Perhaps allow this experience to influence you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. You may find benefit in allowing this person to reach out to you in the future. Have a great day, Ayk!

  26. I messaged her on Instagram asking why she blocked me and if she was good, but 5 mins after that she blocked me on Instagram. It makes me wonder if its me or her that is to blame. I had a long hard think about it but i cant seem to find answers. Also when i mentioned she was sad before on my last post it was because her friend was fake to her, I comforted her when she was feeling down but now she is being fake to me and doesn’t seem to care how i’m doing. I don’t know what to do anymore… also thanks for responding to my last post.

    • It sounds as though she is no longer able or able to maintain a relationship with you. This may because of a variety of reasons in her life. Give her an opportunity to reach out to you. If she doesn’t, then determine what you want for your future without her. Look back on this experience and allow it to guide your future relationships. Have a great day, Ayk!

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