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What to Say When She Says “I Have a Boyfriend”

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We don’t all wear our relationship statuses on our sleeves, so it takes a little guesswork and more conversations to figure out if the person we’re talking to is already taken. For some girls, it’s hard to outright say no to a guy without making him even more adamant to pursue her (thanks for that, unrealistic rom-coms). So for them, the best response would be to say that she has a boyfriend in the hope that the guy would back off.

when a woman says she has a boyfriend

So when you’re talking to a girl and she tells you that she has a boyfriend, these responses might help.

When you really just want to be friends

In this scenario, you’re genuinely no interested in romantically pursuing her :

 

“Okay, that’s cool.” When you want to be friends (genuine friends!) with a girl, it shouldn’t matter if she has a boyfriend or not. It’s not like you’re trying to take his place, right? So when she tells you that she has a boyfriend, play it cool and still try to pursue a friendship with her. But remember, if she says this in a defensive way, it’s best to clarify that you’re not hitting on her so that she knows that you have no intentions of taking her away from her boyfriend.

“Awesome. I have a girlfriend too!” Ease her mind by telling her that you have a girlfriend. This might just be enough to clarify to her that you have no intentions of pursuing anything romantic with her. However, make sure that you make it obvious that you love your girlfriend by casually mentioning her in future conversations too. Some girls might take this response to mean that you’re mentioning your girlfriend to make it seem like you’re on the same boat if you do decide to cheat with each other.

“Oh, say hi to him for me.” Make her feel at ease that you’re not interested in her that way by directly acknowledging the presence of a boyfriend in her life. This response could be enough to ease her mind and make her realize that you’re not hitting on her in any way. Who knows, you might even suddenly become good friends with her guy!

“I’m not trying to hit on you.” For many women, saying “I have a boyfriend” is an indirect way of saying “I know you’re interested in me, but I’m not interested.” In other cases, it’s an ego-boosting move that makes her feel good when she has the option to reject a guy. To clear the air between you, make it clear that you’re not hitting on her. To further reinforce this, make sure you mention exactly why you’re talking to her such as needing her participation in a group project or just talking to her because you’re in the same class.

if a girl says she has a boyfriend is that total rejection

When you want to be more than friends

This is what you say when you’re into a girl and she tells you that she has a boyfriend:

[More : How to Get a Girl to Like You when She Has a Boyfriend]

“Oh, sorry about that. I thought you were single.” Don’t push the subject when a girl says she has a boyfriend. For many women, saying no isn’t convincing enough, especially when guys try to insist on buying her a drink. Her best bet is often to say that she has a boyfriend so that guys would just leave her alone. If you genuinely thought she was single, apologize and tell her that you thought she was single. This might help clear any future awkwardness between you two.

“Hmmm. How serious are you guys?” If you have no qualms about breaking up a seemingly happy couple, this is what you can say. However, be prepared for a response along the lines of “leave me alone!” This response gets you a 50/50 chance of getting the girl because she might genuinely be willing to have a dalliance with you or she might think you’re an immoral creep who can’t take a hint.

“I’ll leave you to it for now. But I hope you remember me when you’re single.” When you realize that there’s nothing you can do for now, you can always mention that you’re willing to wait around for her. Who knows, she might see this is a good thing because it shows how patient you are. Just remember not wait around for her like some sort of creep! Genuinely wait for her while you can, but don’t go asking for updates every week on whether or not they’ve broken up!

“I don’t mind.” Now this is a response that takes guts! When you genuinely don’t care that she has a guy and you think she might consider cheating, this response could prove to be effective. On the other hand, it’s also very likely that she won’t take kindly to your response, and thus ignore you. This would lessen your chances of ever getting with her!

Never be caught off-guard when she says she has a boyfriend by remembering these responses.

194 COMMENTS

  1. There’s this girl I met in secondary school days, I approach her and tell her that I wanted to be in serious relationship with her, she said that she don’t want to be in a relationship now unless she finish her secondary school. So after we left school, we met again and I asked her, she simply said that she don’t want to be in a relationship unless if we can be casual friends..
    I love her so much but I don’t know what to do again.. Please help me

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you twice. Do not attempt to ask her again. Share your kindness and compassion with her, and nourish a friendship with her. Her feelings are valid, as she wants to focus on her education. If you continue to press her, then you will find that she will not want to maintain a relationship with you. Have a great day, Fabulous!

    • Well… the girl is hard-type like. So it needed a strong trick that will develops her interest in having a man. My dear, just maintain this friendship with her. There is what is called platonic intimate relationship. This type of friendship is casual and deep but not romantically sticked together. Having this friendship with her brings you 75% closer of developing her interest and feelings about if you played the role well. Keeping this type of friendship with her has many things to be doing and things to avoid doing too much to avoid breaking the power needed to work on her feelings. For the summary of the ways you handle this. Though is casual friendship you are keeping with her but few atimes you tries to use some romantical tips on her like: u used to call by her name, few atimes call her pet and romantic names like baby, sweedy, or customize her name. Also, few atimes, when you both have had a nice conversation, outing or any good time spent together, try giving her some peg on her forehead, cheecks. When doing these romantic tricks, don’t show emotional seriousness on your face because seeing it on your face before the time of the trick to work on her might make her avoids you most atimes so be careful. Also, you can try to find out the things she like most. Get her those things atimes, buy special gifts like jewelry, clothes and underwears like bra and pants. The underwears you bought is a greater tool to drive her love emotion upside down though she might look uncomfortable and sound like this; oh! why must you buy underwears for me cos she is shy but inside of her she love it? Don’t ever apologize or say sorry. Just laugh and say oh that you saw them and love it and you thought it will looks good on her though you didn’t know the seizes she wears but tell her to wear it and know is it fits her seize. Job well done on this. Also, you can atimes say ” I like you”, acknowledge her intelligence and beauty. Few times, you use “I love you”. She will be able to know the changes and this will keep her wondering and thinking about you. While doing these tricks, Don’t loss your value. Make her to look for you atimes by avoid seeing her. Atimes tell her a lie that you are traveling but promised her to come back in a week or there about. The period of your absence is the real time the power of the tricks manifest. When the whole job is complete and work perfectly. To some girl, She may make you know that she has developed feelings for you, talking how good you are. But to some girls, they can’t say a word. Try to look into her eyes carefully,examine changes in it when you both stay together. Examine her body movements and emotion and know what signal it giving and take a nice shot of romantic kiss on her lips. Stubborn ones will try to forcely remove her lips, hold her head firm and insist on kissing her while you are looking inside her eye ball. Stop, if she hits you? Smile… is a nice responce. Don’t apologize, just say I love you. Easy girls will respond I love you too, but stubborn ones, will be quiet for a moment while looking into her eyes. Is a responce too that she loved you too. Just go close to her and cuddle her tight and let her know that all you wanted is to make her happy. She will feel safe and relax. If she is still dull and moody, cheer her up like baby smile for me and all that. Just go to have a drink or dinner together, Have a walk with her. On how you want it tonight, whether she sleeps with you or not is all in your hands; she is now your lover. 👍

    • My dear, go into casual relationship with her from there she will study u to know you better, if actually you are serious with her…

      • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Fabulous!

  2. Be a casual friend with her,along the line,if she really want you,she will make u more than a friend to her.am suggesting this,bcos most girls normally use casual friend to know the person they re about to accept into their lives well.

    • Thank you for sharing your support comments. It is beneficial when members of our community share their insights and experiences. Many members of our community will benefit from your thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Rotek!

  3. Hi I have this girl have been pestering long ago…have try so many ways to make her show the green light. But always insist..but one thing I notice about her is that if I distance my calling with her for like a month, then I now call her after a month she will respond politely and also she feel for me……what can I do ….and I love this girl….

    • You feel a strong emotional connection with her. Her feelings may or may not be similar to yours. Perhaps you will find benefit in attempting to spend time with her in person. This should help nourish your relationship. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Ensure that you respect her wishes and desires. Have a great day, Darey!

  4. I have girl I tell her that I love her but she told me she have a guy n I use to call her every day but one she told me not to call her again n I try to call her she didn’t pick my calls pls help me what can I do to get her

    • She has told you to not call her. You said that she has not answered your calls, and this likely is because she has told you to not call her. Respect her wishes. She is in a relationship and has asked you to not call her. Listen to her. Determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Shola!

  5. Please, there is a girl learning work along my shop,,we were not a friend before,, until when she wanted to do her birthday ,I noticed that she is one of my Facebook friend,,,so we started chatting from there I collected her number and I gave her a perfume as a birthday gift,,,, and I love the girl but I don’t know what to do,,,,

    • The two of you are nourishing a social relationship. You have stated that you love her. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Pablo!

  6. Please, there is a girl learning work along my shop,,we were not a friend before,, until when she wanted to do her birthday ,I noticed that she is one of my Facebook friend,,,so we started chatting from there I collected her number and I gave her a perfume as a birthday gift,,,, and I love the girl but I don’t know what to do,,,,

    • The two of you are nourishing a social relationship. You have stated that you love her. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Pablo!

  7. I have this girl I love,, real beautiful and nice but she has a boyfriend… Have tried everything but it seems like her feelings are unstable,, today she acts like she loves me and does d opposite tomorrow … We’re very close tho,,I even give her relationship advice… What do u think I can do to get her?

    • She has a boyfriend. Do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with her at this time. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with her. If her relationship naturally ends, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. There is no benefit to be gained in harming her current relationship. If her relationship remains strong, then focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Tobii!

  8. I once approached a girl and asked her to be my girlfriend and she told me that she is not interested in the relationship. I later got to know that she is now dating another guy. I love this girl so much but I am a guy that is really short of words as I don’t even know the kind of topics to bring up when I am around girls. What do you think I can do to get this girl back.

    • She has informed you of her feelings. She is in a relationship with someone else. Respect her wishes. Do not attempt to damage her relationship. If her relationship naturally ends, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. For now, focus your emotional energy elsewhere, and determine what you want for your future without her. Have a great day, Anon!

  9. There is this girl i meet on social media, i was like telling her i love you an she the same, just like we’re having the same fellings, according to her that she can’t sleep without me singing for her i will just try an sing for her even though i don’t know how to, just for the sake of love i have for her she will be glad an go to sleep she even ask me to come over and i said i will try. she was latter offline for like two days, the first day i saw her i was like horny where have you been for two days not seing u online, her respond shock me, that she when to Texas for a visit, i ask a boy or a girl she said a boy, who is he i ask she said her boyfriend i thought she was jocking where is he from she said spain can i see his pic an she send it to me, i ask her an u want to marry him ryt she said yes. I was like telling her that she dissapointed/ hurt me. Since then i don’t use to chart her up like before again.Pls help me what does that mean because i truely love her.

    • The two of you were not in a committed, romantic relationship. You share a strong emotional and social connection with her. Each of you care for the other person. She has decided to visit someone else. She may be nourishing a romantic relationship with him. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Justice!

    • Thank you for sharing your positive comment. It is wonderful to hear that you solved your own question. Please share your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Willie!

  10. Comment:

    There is this girl in my church I like alot but always forms for me. she gave me her number,when I call she hardly pick ,when I chat her she hardly chat. I had to ask her to tell me if she want me or not so I can move on with my findings. she can’t say yes or no. now am giving up on her though I really have d feeling of making her my wife. but am bored n get discouraged right now. what should I do?

    note: I have managed to take her out n she told me she has a distance boyfriend

    she visited my home once and that’s when d conversation really slows down

    • She has informed you that she has a boyfriend. This means that she can not maintain a romantic relationship with you. You can continue to nourish a friendship with her. Do not attempt to harm her relationship. If she is no longer satisfied in her current relationship, then she should speak with him about her thoughts and feelings. If she becomes single and reaches out to her, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Bobby!

  11. Comment:I have a girl we schooled together in primary school from class 1 to class 8,,I used to like her and even till today I always dream of her ,,I made a promise to myself that I will marry her come rain or shine,,but she blocked my phone number and went silent but she is there in facebook n whenever I message her she doesnt reply,,,she once told me that to let her serve God then she will come to think of my idea. Now what should I do ,,should I go for another chick or wait for her desicion?

    • She has decided to block you. She has informed you of her thoughts and feelings. If you care for her, then you should acknowledge that she wants to focus on her religion. Ensure that you treat everyone with the respect that they deserve. She is not interested in developing a relationship with you at this time. She has made her decision, so determine what want for your future. Have a great day, Boniface!

  12. Here come this girl we love each other but she have this ignoring attitude which make me to be doughting her if she truly love me nw, and I asked her if she still love me, she never say no all she will say is she can do without me ,this bothers me alot bcoz for a girl to say I love u but keep ignoring definitely something is wrong, pls what can I do about this

    • She has informed you of her thoughts and feelings. She does not love you and has been clear with her words. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what type of relationship you want to nourish. You may find benefit in determining what you want for your future without her. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Crackus!

  13. There ii this girl l love her so much and she do the same but when I ask her out she said I should wait till next year but u concor with her
    Later she now agree but when ever I want to kiss her kiss her more she will said no
    And and she doesn’t even want me to sex her
    Please what can I do

    • She has shared her thoughts and feelings with you. She does not want to kiss you or have sex with you. Respect her desires and do not force yourself on her. Her feelings may grow for you over time. You should determine what you want for your future. Decide what you believe is appropriate. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Oseni!

  14. Comment: I met a girl, and I approach her, but she told me that she is in serious relationship, though I told her we can be friends but how will I win her heart.

    • If she said that she is in a relationship, there is nothing that you can do about it–or, at least, nothing that you should do about it. Even if you flirted with her and got her to leave her boyfriend, you’d have to spend your whole relationship wondering if she’d just end up doing the same thing to you as well. Plus, she might start actively disliking you because you don’t respect her at all if you don’t respect her wishes. All you can do now is hold off and hope that the relationship ends sooner rather than later.

  15. There’s is this girl I hooked up from a friend through WhatsApp earlier when we meet I never asked her if she has a boyfriend or not. We were just getting to know ourselves. We always chat and laugh all day.. sometimes we call for hours. But after some months when we have been very close I called on a video call during the course I asked her if she has ever been in an serious relationship n she replied me casual saying kind of cuz I’m in a relationship. I smiled and continued to call we had fun n we still chat till now..I still call her baby ane all that.. I love her n I just wanna know if she likes me also n what step should I take..

    • Do you think it was possible that she was hinting that she is in a relationship with you? Or are you absolutely certain that she definitely meant that she is in a relationship with a different guy? If she is dating someone else, you might want to stick to being just friends until she is single–and let her know that that is the reason why you might be more distant. You may want to get some clarification though to make sure that she wasn’t just teasing about the relationship she has with you and that she is actually in a serious relationship. If she is in a serious relationship and is flirting constantly with you, that does not bode well for any relationship that she may have, so it might not be a good idea to keep things going.

  16. What of if you love the girl and don’t even know how to approach her because some guys don’t even have the courage to meet the girl they want e.g me lolz. How do we tackle these issue.

    • If she has informed you that she has a boyfriend, then do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with her. If you are attempting to be friends with her, then simply spend additional time with her. You will find benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. If you are unable to approach her, then simply live your life and catch her attention when possible. Have a great day, Ebube!

  17. I have a girlfriend and we have dated for six months and we loved each other even till today but she is now telling me she wants to alone and live a private life but she still loves me and want me to be around her

    • She has informed you of her thoughts and feelings. She wants to be friends, but is not interested in maintaining a romantic relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Give her time to herself at this time. After time passes, make a decision about what you want for your future. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere at this time, and ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Victor!

  18. Pls admin.
    There is dis girl i met earlier, i did really like her, but she told me since dating already, so i deceided to play it cool by maybe waiting for her thinking maybe one day she would come around..
    But few days into our friendship, she told me she broke up with her boyfriend.

    The problem now is she dosn’t want to have anything to do with me or any other guy ….. But i like her so much
    What should i do now?
    Should i wait for her, Or just leave her alone..??

    • She has decided to end her relationship. You seem to be aware that she is not interested in maintaining a romantic relationship with you. Do not try to push for a romantic relationship at this time. It is certainly beneficial to continue to share your kindness and compassion with her. For now, you will find benefit in focusing your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day,James!

  19. there is this girl I approached and she told me she have a boy lover, and I really love her.she told me she will think about it , more than a month now she is still telling me she has a boy friend. now I don’t really no with to do.

    • She has informed you that she is currently in a relationship. Do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with her at this time. Ensure that you continue to share your kindness and compassion with her and everyone else in your life. If her relationship naturally ends and she reaches out to you, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Sirfred!

    • Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Kenkolly!

  20. My Ex broke up with me on Easter Sunday.We was in a long distant relationship of bearly 3 months old,but i had trust issues,i became very overprotective and she felt so insecured.I wanst very understanding to her like when we first meet.I was having doubts of she seeing some other guy,abd sometimes i tell her about it.I have done so much for her,but always thinking that it will be painful for me to find out shes having an affair with some other guy,inspite of everything i have done for her ,To be honest it was shocking and painful at the same time when she broke up with me..She sent me a voice note on whatsapp saying she doesn’t think this relationship can work again.She also accused me of stalking her Online spying on her whatsapp,which was true .But i knew she told an intimate friend about me while she was at the church camp and her girlfriend told her to quit the relationship.That it was unhealthy and that if she peradventure end up hurting someone like me,that i might end up killing her.Because i have been sending her money and really taking care of her while i was away.
    The night she broke up with me,i asked her if she dont love me anymore.She said she loves me but she couldnt take the pain anymore…
    I have applied the no contact Rule ,but she called only the 2nd and the 3rd day,and has not called since then,this is the 6th day now..And it seem like the no contact isnt working anymore.
    Please Admin i want her back ,what should i do?I’m confused i still love her so much.
    Thanks

    • This relationship ended, and you made the decision to not communicate with her. She attempted to reach out to you, and that may have given you an opportunity to nourish this relationship. However, you decided to ignore her. Because of your decision, it is unlikely that she is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future without her, and take appropriate action. If she reaches out to you in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, John!

  21. I met a girl on social media we started as friends later having feelings for each other. I reside in Abuja and she keep asking us to see but i didn’t turn up due to my work for good 2years she waited for me but now she has a boyfriend and am madly in love with her. plz what can I do to win her back because we still talk . if i sent her SMS before she do reply but now she doesn’t but we do talk on phone well. I really want her back pls what can I do and still we haven’t met each other till date.

    • She is currently in a relationship. This is the reason why she is not communicating with you. She does not want to nourish a relationship with you at this time. Determine what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If she reaches out to you in the future and is single at that time, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Femi!

  22. I met a girl on social media we started as friends later having feelings for each other. I reside in Abuja and she keep asking us to see but i didn’t turn up due to my work for good 2years she waited for me but now she has a boyfriend and am madly in love with her. plz what can I do to win her back because we still talk . if i sent her SMS before she do reply but now she doesn’t but we do talk on phone well. I really want her back pls what can I do and still we haven’t met each other till date.
    The last time we talk she ask me to move on and I told her am finding it difficult because have not seen someone sweet like her and the only thing that can make me move on is if she’s married and she didn’t say anything. plz wat can i do to get her back cuz now she has a boyfriend. it all my fault because she waited for me but i didn’t show up due to my work in Abuja even till now we haven’t seen each other but we do call on phone and chat well. she told me when am back I should call her so we could see. pls Wat can I do

    • She is currently in a relationship. This is the reason why she is not communicating with you. She does not want to nourish a relationship with you at this time. Determine what you want for your future without her. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If she reaches out to you in the future and is single at that time, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, David!

  23. Comment: I met my girlfriend January this year, we met in a cab, i started a conversation with her, we chatted, I made her laugh and then before getting to our destination I requested for her mobile number and he did gave me. since then we had several calls and frequent chats on WhatsApp and sometimes Facebook, then at the middle of February after her birthday I invited her to my place and she came over, from there I spoke to her about my feelings, I noticed her body movements(her eyes were dimer than they were before, she had a stable eye contact with me and she felt relaxed sitting on the sofa) and I immediately took the opportunity to ask her out…….but she told me she just broke up in a relationship and there is a secret bounding her for going into another relationship… though she promise to get herself out of the boundary as soon as possible, then I told her I’m gonna wait for her that she should let me know once she’s out , she nodded and I released her to go home cus it’s getting dark. Since then, I occasionally call her and reduced the way I chatted with her on social medias though we used to have video calls on WhatsApp at nights but not really frequent. Not until Tuesday (30th of April) when I checked in my WhatsApp and I saw her message saying I should come over to her to a description place that we gat alot to talk about, so I did dress up and left. when I got there, she seems happy to see me and we chatted and played together then fee minutes later she told me she’s free from the boundary (oh!! really?, my intestine started dancing) , then her body movements again shows she was actually waiting for me to repeat myself ……(oh, come on!!! why won’t I) . I asked her out again and this time she gave me a YES….(At last!!!, thank you Savoir!!) Then before I left she told me she would be traveling abroad in the next Two weeks to further her education and even if she’s gonna have a break it would be after 2 years….(oh no!!!).

    what’s really bothering me now is that, how do I gat to build up a strong relationships within two weeks before she travels???
    Won’t she fall in love with someone else when she get there? since our relationship is not even up to a month it’s really easy to call it off.

    I really need an urgent answers pls, I only have a week and two days left.

    • She has informed you that she is going to travel in the next two weeks. She is interested in spending time with you, and she knows that she can not maintain a long term relationship with you at this time. This may mean that she is interested in maintaining a playful, short term relationship with you. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Strange!

  24. Comment:Comment: I met my girlfriend January this year, we met in a cab, i started a conversation with her, we chatted, I made her laugh and then before getting to our destination I requested for her mobile number and she did gave me. since then we had several calls and frequent chats on WhatsApp and sometimes Facebook, then at the middle of February after her birthday I invited her to my place and she came over, from there I spoke to her about my feelings, I noticed her body movements(her eyes were dimer than they were before, she had a stable eye contact with me and she felt relaxed sitting on the sofa) and I immediately took the opportunity to ask her out…….but she told me she just broke up in a relationship and there is a secret bounding her for going into another relationship… though she promise to get herself out of the boundary as soon as possible, then I told her I’m gonna wait for her that she should let me know once she’s out , she nodded and I released her to go home cus it’s getting dark. Since then, I occasionally call her and reduced the way I chatted with her on social medias though we used to have video calls on WhatsApp at nights but not really frequent. Not until Tuesday (30th of April) when I checked in my WhatsApp and I saw her message saying I should come over to her to a description place that we gat alot to talk about, so I did dress up and left. when I got there, she seems happy to see me and we chatted and played together then fee minutes later she told me she’s free from the boundary (oh!! really?, my intestine started dancing) , then her body movements again shows she was actually waiting for me to repeat myself ……(oh, come on!!! why won’t I) . I asked her out again and this time she gave me a YES….(At last!!!, thank you Savoir!!) Then before I left she told me she would be traveling abroad in the next Two weeks to further her education and even if she’s gonna have a break it would be after 2 years….(oh no!!!).

    what’s really bothering me now is that, how do I gat to build up a strong relationships within two weeks before she travels???
    Won’t she fall in love with someone else when she get there? since our relationship is not even up to a month it’s really easy to call it off.

    I really need an urgent answers pls, I only have a week and two days left.

    • She has informed you that she is going to travel in the next two weeks. She is interested in spending time with you, and she knows that she can not maintain a long term relationship with you at this time. This may mean that she is interested in maintaining a playful, short term relationship with you. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Strange!

    • She will know her feelings. If she feels that it would be appropriate to inform her of her thoughts, then she will do so. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. If you want to nourish this relationship by spending additional time with her, then do so. Have a great day, Smog!

  25. Comment: I met a girl not quite long, we became friends, I call her often and we chat on WhatsApp, one day I asked her out for dinner, i introduced er to my friends who work in the fastfood as my fiancee she didn’t say anything, out there after much discussion i told her my feelings for her but she said we should talk about it on WhatsApp chat, when we i got home chat her up but and she told on WhatsApp that she has a boyfriend, i tried to convince her to accept my proposal but she insist that she has a boyfriend.
    right now I’m confused i don’t know what to do because i really like this girl that i can’t sleep a whole night.
    what should I do now.

    • Your behavior was inappropriate. You lied. You embarrassed her. She is maintaining a relationship with someone else, and she has informed you of that relationship. Determine what you want for your future without her, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Learn your lesson from this relationship, and apply that knowledge to your future relationships. Have a great day, Anon!

  26. Am totally in love with a girl but she told me that she have boyfriend pls what should I do ,
    But last week I was with her ad she loves staying with me ad calling me so what next should I do pls I need ur help

    • I would avoid doing anything else for now. You have to respect the fact that she is taken–even if she were to leave him or cheat on him for you, you’d always wonder if she would just do the same thing to you later on. Plus, if you respect her, you respect her relationship. Unless she decides to end things on her own, take a step back and wait for the relationship to end without your influence. Good luck, Stanley!

    • Emotions are the feelings that you have. Beneficial emotions, such as kindness and compassion, are used to be supportive other other people and animals. Putting your energy behind these positive emotional helps the world. Have a great day, Mawuli!

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