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What a Woman Really Means When She Says Fine

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If you look on any Facebook page and scroll down for long enough, sooner or later, you will find a meme about what a woman means when she says fine. As the meme suggests, she most likely does not mean that she is actually “fine.” There are obvious occasions when she actually means that she is fine. Listen to her tone and watch her mannerisms. If she came in the home in a huff and threw her purse on the table, then she is probably not in a good mood.

What Does a Woman Really Mean When She Says Fine?

When women say we’re fine, it can mean a variety of things depending on the context. Often, “fine” means that we are upset or unhappy. We may not be in the right mood to share everything that is wrong or we may feel uncomfortable ruining your day as well. Yet, we still want you to ask us what is wrong and make us feel better. Thus, we say that we are “fine” with a bit of attitude so that you, theoretically, will know that we are absolutely not fine.

There are women who say they what they mean exactly and don’t bother with hints or nudges. Obviously, it is wrong to stereotype any group of people because generalizations and stereotypes are frequently wrong. With that said, you did search for this term online and you arrived at this page. My guess is that, if you had to search this question, you already suspect that the woman you are talking to right now is not fine at all.

What Can “Fine” Possibly Mean?

1. She Does Not Want to Talk About It

Whatever it was that made her upset, she is not interested in talking about it. Basically, she is saying that the problem is her, not you and she isn’t interested in sharing. At the same time, saying that she does not want to talk about it implies a part of her does want to share—otherwise, why would she have hinted that something was wrong anyways?



2. She Feels Tired

If you have ever been grumpy or tired, you could probably sympathize. Even when you are trying to be nice, your voice has an edge to it because you are too tired to make your voice sound nicer. She is the same way. She could just be a bit tired and was trying to be as nice as possible about responding. If this is the cause, let her sleep. A bubble bath or relaxing music would work wonders as well.

3. She Wants You to Comfort Her

If she says that she is fine and has had a bad day, she might not want you to ask her any questions at all. She may just want you to comfort her and make her feel better. Details may only make her go into meltdown mode. Whether she had trouble at work or failed a test at school, she may just need time to recharge and forget about it. Your entire job is to be there for her.

4. She Is Angry

Think through everything you did today. Is there anything that could have made her angry? Did you leave something on the counter? Break something of hers? Anything? Because there is a decent chance that she ids actually angry and be rude because she is upset—hopefully, she is angry at someone other than you.

5. She Is Testing You

For some reason, she wants to see if you care about her She wants to see if you will comfort her when she is down or notice her mood changes. This seems to be a dangerous game to play though because many men (and me, too) would not want to deal with the stress of being in this type of relationship.



6. She Is Hungry

This is another one that is similar to the “she is tired” reason. If you are upset or irritable, you might snap slightly. Your stomach is growling, you feel lightheaded and there is another hour until dinner can be made. No wonder she’s “fine.” If this is her problem, give the girl a snack.

7. She Has No Desire to Argue

Sometimes, she is upset, confused or thinking about something that she can’t share. She may know that it would cause an argument if she brought whatever it is up, so she is not going to say. There are two options in this scenario. In the first option, you can make her tell her what she is thinking about, and then you can deal with the argument that she already knew would happen. In the second option, you give her space, accept your win and hope that she cools down before you have to return to being in the same room again.

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