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What’s the Real Meaning, When You Dream About Your Crush Over and Over?

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Each night, you fall asleep and dream about your crush over and over. In some ways, you may enjoy this. You may not get to make a move or kiss your crush in real life, but your crush is extremely loving and attentive in your dreams.

On average, people dream seven times each night. Often, you do not even realize that you are dreaming. Many people do not remember their dreams when they wake up, so they may assume that they never dream. If you normally do not remember your dreams, it can be even more surprising to dream about your crush over and over again. You may feel hopeful that your crush likes you, but this is unfortunately not something that you can determine from just your dreams.

The most simple reason why this happens is because you think about your crush a lot. Even if you don’t feel like you think about them frequently, your passion has a habit of giving specific thoughts more weight in your subconscious mind. You may try not to think about your crush, but your mind is extremely focused on the thoughts and ideas around your crush. Because of this, you are more likely to dream about him or her.

Your subconscious mind is allowed free reign when you are dreaming. Your dreams are made up of the memories, thoughts and feelings that you have every day. Sigmund Freud believed that dreams were a road to the unconscious mind. Dreams, to him, showed what you focused on or thought about. Often, the mind uses symbols and images to represent a certain desire or feeling that you have.

The most obvious reason why you dream about your crush over and over again is that you think about him or her a lot. They are a frequent fixture in your mind, so they reappear in your dream. What happens in your dream depends on how you feel about your crush during your waking life. If you do not feel like he or she likes you, then they may just be friendly in your dream. If you think that they could like you if they really gave you a chance, then you may have dreams where your crush is romantically involved with you and seems to be your date in the dream.

Unfortunately, this does not mean that your crush actually likes you. A dream can only show your own thoughts ,feelings and desires. Because of this, it would be impossible for your dream to show how your crush actually feels unless you already know how they feel. You should never just assume that your crush likes you based on a dream.

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Specific Dreams Interpretations

Sometimes, people have a dream where there crush is sending them a text or handing them a letter. This type of dream tends to have a specific meaning. It generally means that you want to receive a message or sign from your crush. Most likely, it means that you want them to tell you in some way if they are interested or not. Again, this only reflects your own subconscious thoughts and desires. For you to find out how your crush feels in real life, you would have to make a move.

If something negative happens in your dream like your crush becomes injured, it shows that you care about them and are afraid that they could be hurt. If you dream that your crush leaves their girlfriend or boyfriend, this is just a sign that you want them to be single and available in real life. If your crush appears in the dream with a date, it may mean that you are afraid they could be taken or that you respect their real life relationship and do not want to make a move yet.

Death is often a sign of transformation, so you may have a dream that your crush dies. Thankfully, this does not mean that your crush will actually die in real life. Instead, it just means that you feel like a change or transformation is coming. You may hope that your relationship to your crush is transformed and you are able to actually be with them romantically.

More Dream Meanings

If you dream that you were arguing with your crush in a dream, don’t panic. Arguments often represent an internal conflict or tension. Since the argument is with your crush, you may feel internally conflicted over whether your crush likes you or not. It could show your frustration about just being friends or a desire to be more than friends.

If you dream that you are kissing your crush, it shows a desire for love and affection. This also reflects strongly on your own self-esteem because it indicates that you feel confident that your crush could like you back if he or she really gave you a chance.

Why Do You Keep Dreaming About Your Crush Over and Over Again?



Your dreams only reflect your own subconscious mind. Dreaming about your crush over and over again just means that you really want to be with your crush and have thoughts about him all of the time. What happens in the dream tends to show your own thoughts and feelings about your crush and if you think that a relationship is possible about it. If you never get to talk to your crush in real life, you may have dreams where you are finally able to talk to them and show your feelings. Telling your crush that you like him or her in a dream shows that you want to be able to do that in real life.

As for the real world, you have to be cautious about what you do. It is very easy to confuse your dream feelings with your real feelings. In addition, your dreams do not mean your crush likes you or not. The only way to find out if your crush is interested for sure is to ask them. If you think that they could be interested, make a move and see what happens. You never know—your crush could be having dreams about you as well.

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    • This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with this person. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself as well. Have a great day, Crystal!

  1. I had a dream where my crush confessed to me in our primary school’s hall during a costume dance. And this is the second time I’ve had this dream.

    • This may be a reflection of your social and emotional desires. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with your crush about your thoughts and feelings. Give your crush an opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings with you as well. Have a great day, Brittney!

  2. So I went to bed at about 10pm, thinking a lot about my crush. Then I had a dream about him and woke up, but then fell asleep and had another dream about him, then woke up and this happened about 5 times and for the last two times I fell aseep into the last dream and he was injured so I hugged him and he hugged me back, tightly. then I woke up after all those dreams. it’s weird how I woke up and straight away fell asleep again back into another dream, but knew that I’d woke up those five times. Someone tell me what this means and what to do?? I don’t really get to talk to him a lot because there’s a two grade difference at school, I’m meant to be in a grade above because I’m one year younger. I really want something to happen but idk how. We keep giving eachother flirty looks and I think he’s interested but I don’t know if I wait for him to make the move or if I do??

    • It is possible that this person is interested in developing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, T!

  3. About 7 or 8 months ago, I met this guy through a friend and we started talking and we immediently caught feelings for each other. We started hanging out and eventually ended up hooking up. At the time the last thing I wanted was a relationship due to the fact that I had things going on. We agreed on not having anything serious so we were kinda friends with benefits you can say. We’d hang out constantly, and act as if we were together. I also met both his parents. Time went by and we kinda ended up falling off. I didn’t have it in me to keep people in my life anymore so I let it be. 3 months passed and he texted me asking if he could pick me up so we can hang out and I agreed. At the moment my depression got the best of me and I seemed to just push people away including him. So we stopped talking once again. With that being said, lately I’ve been thinking about him way too much. I see him in the halls a lot, he got his schedule changed and we have a class together now too. He keeps popping up in my dreams and yesterday I had a dream that we were taking each other serious and that he met my family. Does this mean anything at all?

    • Your relationship had ended, but it is clear that you still feel an emotional connection with him. If his behaviors indicate that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you, then decide what you want for your future. If you want to date him, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Be sure to give him a chance to share himself with you. Have a great day, G!

  4. we were kissing in the dream then moment later I saw him flirting with someone else, so I hurt so much! I can’t tell him I like him in real life because he is my boss and I’m scared of put my professional life in danger, and also he has a girlfriend. what can I do?

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. This relationship is neither appropriate or viable at this time. He has a partner, so allow thoughts of him to fade. Do not attempt to develop a relationship with him. If his relationship ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him. Have a great day, G!

  5. I had a dream I was waiting for my crush to come to school but he died so I was crying. After I saw him while I was look from my house’s window and I was so happy!

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with your crush. This dream is not a manifestation of the future. It is possible that you feel a secure connection with your home, and you would like your crush to share in your personal world. You want to develop a relationship with him, so share your thoughts and feelings with him. Have a great day, Cat!

  6. In my dream me and my crush were kind of fighting of why we looked at each other. Then he tried to hold my hand but then his friends came closer and they saw. He was accusing me of trying to hold his hand and then we just started fighting. What does this mean?

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection. You may feel that he has a strong social connection with his friends. You may feel that your relationship with him takes time from his friends, and vice versa. Speak with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. Spend additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Emma!

  7. Does he really like me? Is he afraid of people knowing his true feelings? We don’t talk that much now but then we did

    • It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be shy. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. His feelings for you may have changed as the two of you started speaking less. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Emma!

  8. So I push my crush on a bed and she was happy while romantic music was playing that’s the dream while My brother saw. The dream before this one there was foxy in five nights of Freddy jumpscared me. I don’t really like her and I told her how I felt since we became freainds she also sorta likes me? What does this mean

    • These dreams are reflections of your emotional and social connections. You likely want to develop a romantic and physical relationship with your crush. The person who ‘sorta likes’ you in your dream may be your knowledge that someone wants to develop a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with the people in your life about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Noob!

    • This dream is an acknowledgment of your knowledge that your crush is in a relationship. Your dream is a reflection of your beneficial behavior. Share your kindness and compassion with your crush. Do not attempt to develop a romantic relationship with him while he is in a relationship. If his relationship ends and he wants to develop a relationship with you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him. Have a great day, G!

  9. I had a dream I kissed my crush and then we were talking and I was smiling a bit and my crush was smiling too and then all of a sudden ,we were in the cafeteria with a bunch of students and I was just sitting down at a table, my crush and me were sitting at opposite sides and my crush looked high and was talking to her friends and then she motioned for me to kiss her and I kissed her for a good 3-4 minutes and everyone was just staring and my crush smiled at me still looking high👅👅 and then the dream ended and I was like ahh it felt good.👄💄💕💓💓💓💞💞💞

    • This dream is a reflection of your strong emotional connection with your crush. You want this relationship to be well known to your social group. You may want your friends to strongly approve of this relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Spend additional time with her in person. Have a great day, Daniyah!

  10. I had a crush during my college life but know I have completed my graduation and I am working. I have forgotten her, but she often comes in my dream and we speak normally. What do I do?

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional connection with your crush. You may not be interested in developing a relationship with her. Determine what you want for your future. Reach out to her and share your thoughts and feelings with her, or allow thoughts of her to fade. Have a great day, Smith!

  11. I am dreaming of my high school crush over and over again since we graduated and until now ater more than 20 years. Even when i got married and had kids i still dream of him. We were not talking in real life but we became friends in facebook but after sometime he unfriended me for whatever reason I don’t know. But the dreams still go on.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional and social connection with him. He may have felt similar feelings. He may be in a relationship and decided to unfriend you. He may be aware of your marriage and may not want to harm it. You are married, so you will find great benefit in spending additional time with your partner. Have a great day, Joan!

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection and desires with your crush. If you want to develop a relationship with your crush, then speak with that person about your thoughts and feelings. You may want to attempt to spend additional time with them as well. Have a great day, Erina!

  12. I had a dream that my crush’s best friend figured out that I liked him and told him. So, my crush went up to me and told me that he liked me too. We kissed, then we cuddled, and I woke up. My crush and I have also been looking at each other in class. Does this mean that he likes me too?

    • Unfortunately, it is impossible for a dream to show how someone else thinks or feels unless you already know how they feel. In this particular case, your dream just shows your desire for your crush to like you and care for you. You may feel confident that he could like you back if he really gave you a chance, so you dreamed that he responded positively to you. As for how he feels in real life, there is no way to know just yet.

  13. I have had a crush on a guy for 8 years who went to the same high school and college. I haven’t seen him for 2 years but suddenly I have been dreaming of him almost everyday since he got a girlfriend a year ago despite having a boyfriend myself. The dreams and the what ifs and the dreams are putting a heavy damper on forgetting him which I thought I did 2 years ago.

    • These dreams are reflections of your previous emotional connection with him. However, both of you are in relationships. Do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with him at this time. If you are in contact, then continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. Have a great day, N!

  14. I keep having dreams of my current crush. All have been quite positive. I’ve noticed that in my dreams he seems to just be following wherever I go and not talk much. I had one dream where he was much older and even had grey hair (he doesn’t in real life). In my most recent dream of him, we actually did some talking but it was just me talking excessively whilst he just listened. I remember feeling quite insecure about how much I was talking in comparison to him. I really like this guy but we don’t talk in real life

    • You feel a strong connection with this person, but you do not talk in your life. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will find great benefit in attempting to spend time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Ester!

  15. Tried to post but not sure if it went through. I keep dreaming about my crush but he doesn’t talk in them, he’s just there wherever I go, following me (not in a creepy way). I have also dreamed about him being much older than he is in real life, he had grey hair in one of them. The previous dream he was in I was just talking to him non-stop whilst he listened. What could this mean? I haven’t seen him for a while and I’m worried that I won’t actually see him again.

    • This dream is a reflection of your social and emotional connection. The creepiness of this dream is likely influenced by the negative influences in your life. The gray in your crush’s hair is likely a reflection of the desire for this relationship to continue throughout your life. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, E!

  16. I have a crush right, then I had a dream last night that I for some reason in my dream felt like he was going to be in danger and I wanted to rescue him. Can someone tell what that means and we also make a lot of eye contact in real life.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your emotional connection and desires with this person. Something in his life may have caused you to feel as though he needs support. The two of you maintain eye contact. It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, J!

  17. Hi..I want to ask about my dream that I had last night were awesome..its seems like I with my crush in relationship..We have romantic moment and enjoying with other friends including my ex inside..It makes me feel it was so real because when I wake up it gave me weird feelings you know..She smile at me and she stare at me and this is the longest dream that I ever had..So can you please give me some advice about my dream?Thanks.

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional and social desires and influences. The presence of your ex in your dream is sign that you are aware that this relationship is in the past. Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Yen!

  18. I had a dream a few days back anout my ex or crush,I don’t really know how to mention it because she’s too perfect.Last 2 years,I have fall in love with her in a camp around 5 days , and she also did fall in love with me in that 5 days.But when i confessed back in the camp in the 4th day she said to me that she already has a boyfriend.We became a good friends later on and my feelings towards her completely gone since the end of last year until the day before i had my dreams.The story of my dreams is it was a very beautiful day,it was exactly like a movie with a full detail story,she came and find me and insisted that she likes me and she kissed me and I woke up.It was around 7.30 to 8.45 i can guess. I can say that the dream was about 1 hour.That was my first time having a long time dream with her and it’s about love with her.I was shocked.So,what does it mean?

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional and social desires that you have with this person. By the sound of it, she currently has a partner. If she is in a relationship, then allow these thoughts of your crush to fade. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. If she ends this relationship and reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with her at that time. Have a great day, Lee!

  19. I have had this constantly dreaming about my highschool crush.In my dreams we both showed affection to each other eventually knowing that his wife is around with her two kids around us as well.It is seems normal although his wife saw us hugging or talking passionately.She is even smiling at me when i looked at her.

    In real life we are both married.I have not seen them for awhile.

    Could you please make an interpretation about this?Thank you very much.

    • Your dream may be a reflection of various social and emotional influences in your life. You are in a relationship and the person in your dream is a relationship. Allow these thoughts to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. This will strengthen your relationship. If someone from your past reaches out to you, then share your kindness and compassion with that person. Have a great day, Margareth!

  20. I keep dreaming of an old crush. In the dreams, we casually run into eachother and don’t seem to talk but make powerful eye contact and smiles. Then his sisters come into the picture and are having conversation with me while he just kinda stays in the background. What do you think? Thanks

    • Your dream may be a reflection of your previous social and emotional connection with your old crush. You may have been friends or acquaintances with your crush’s sisters. Allow this dream to guide you to determine what you want for your future. If you are interested in developing a relationship with someone, then reach out to that person. Have a great day, Kay!

    • This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with your crush. The water may be a sign that you feel he has a strong character. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Arjay!

  21. I had a dream that my crush asked why I like him. I told him why and he just nodded. He asked me twice. He’s shorter than me and I told him “I like you whether you are short or tall.” I forgot my bag and went to get it and he was still there waiting for me. As I was on my way back, he got thrown over water by some strangers.. I fought agains those bullies and he helped me fight them off. He later, hugged me and said, “I like you too. You are now one step closer to me (not in person but I think mentally speaking type of “me”).

    Now in real life, I asked him out, and after some hesitation, he said “no”. My friends think he likes me. My crush and I talk more now, make eye contact sometimes. Some times, he looks towards my direction.

    What would my dream mean under these circumstances?

    • He is aware of your feelings, as you had decided to ask him out. His feelings for you have grown. This dream was a reflection of your emotional connection with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. You will nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Amelia!

  22. I had a dream where my crush and I were walking home together. He asked me why I liked him. I answered him and he just nodded. We stood side by side, and he asked me “why would you like a short guy like me?” And I answered “I don’t care about your height, it’s irrelevant when it comes to me liking you.” He nodded again. I realized I forgot my backpack so I went back.. I ran as fast as I could so that I could walk with him again. He was still there waiting for me at a bridge. Then all of a sudden, I saw two girls throw him over into the water. I tackled those two girls which my crush helped me later on. We changed our clothes in different rooms, and after we came out, he looked at me then hugged me. He said “I like you too. You are one step closer to me now.” Then I woke up.

    Now in real life, I asked him out to which he thought about, then rejected. But we now talk more than we used to. My friends think that he likes me back. He looks at my direction several times.

    Under these circumstances, what would my dream mean?

    • He is aware of your feelings, as you had decided to ask him out. His feelings for you have grown. This dream was a reflection of your emotional connection with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. You will nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Amelia!

  23. I had a dream in where I was at my locker & my crush came to me & asked me “Do you like me?” since I have a bottom locker, I had to stand up & I replied “Yes.” Uncertainly, he asked “Are you sure?” twice & when he asked the second time, I said “I like you, there’s no other boy I’ll like other than you.” He grinned at me & replied “That’s good, that’s good.” Any idea as to what this can mean?
    Thank you.

    • This dream is a reflection of your social and emotional relationship with your crush. You likely want to develop a relationship with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings. Strengthen your relationship with him by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Alone!

  24. I had a dream all over and over with my crush 11 months now many times now ever when it was his birthday. And talk each other a lot but I funny cause I can see his face on my dreams. N plus I remember all the dream I had it .

    • Repetitive dreams are often signs of a strong connection with the message of the dream. Your social relationship with your crush may have caused this dream to manifest. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, C!

  25. I had a dream about my crush taking care of me when i was a bit ill . He was so kind and caring . And the day after i dreamt about him saving me from getting in trouble. He was so protective of me and i felt really safe with him .

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional relationship with your crush. He makes you feel secure and comfortable. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jane!

  26. I had a dream that me and my crush were sitting at a long table with a bunch of my friends from school and I had the feeling that’s he hated me so I asked why he was annoyed at me and he said I didn’t split the profits from some sort of event evenly so he handed me all of his money and told me to “make it even”. I said okay and then he hugged me for so long, it was the best hug I’ve ever had and in the dream my self recalled a video I watched that said how to know if someone secretly hates you (it was by Ask Kimberly) and one of the ways in the video was that they would give the worst hug in the world, and my dream self was thinking that he definitely didn’t hate me because the hug was the best I’ve ever had. It reminded me of my dads hugs, he gives the best hugs. That was all of the dream but it was the best feeling dream I’ve ever had.

    • The quality of someone’s hug is not an indication of their feelings. There are a variety of reasons for why someone’s hug may be different. Your dream is a reflection of your thoughts and feelings. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to nourish a relationship with your crush, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Raven!

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