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What’s the Real Meaning, When You Dream About Your Crush Over and Over?

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Each night, you fall asleep and dream about your crush over and over. In some ways, you may enjoy this. You may not get to make a move or kiss your crush in real life, but your crush is extremely loving and attentive in your dreams.

On average, people dream seven times each night. Often, you do not even realize that you are dreaming. Many people do not remember their dreams when they wake up, so they may assume that they never dream. If you normally do not remember your dreams, it can be even more surprising to dream about your crush over and over again. You may feel hopeful that your crush likes you, but this is unfortunately not something that you can determine from just your dreams.

The most simple reason why this happens is because you think about your crush a lot. Even if you don’t feel like you think about them frequently, your passion has a habit of giving specific thoughts more weight in your subconscious mind. You may try not to think about your crush, but your mind is extremely focused on the thoughts and ideas around your crush. Because of this, you are more likely to dream about him or her.

Your subconscious mind is allowed free reign when you are dreaming. Your dreams are made up of the memories, thoughts and feelings that you have every day. Sigmund Freud believed that dreams were a road to the unconscious mind. Dreams, to him, showed what you focused on or thought about. Often, the mind uses symbols and images to represent a certain desire or feeling that you have.

The most obvious reason why you dream about your crush over and over again is that you think about him or her a lot. They are a frequent fixture in your mind, so they reappear in your dream. What happens in your dream depends on how you feel about your crush during your waking life. If you do not feel like he or she likes you, then they may just be friendly in your dream. If you think that they could like you if they really gave you a chance, then you may have dreams where your crush is romantically involved with you and seems to be your date in the dream.

Unfortunately, this does not mean that your crush actually likes you. A dream can only show your own thoughts ,feelings and desires. Because of this, it would be impossible for your dream to show how your crush actually feels unless you already know how they feel. You should never just assume that your crush likes you based on a dream.

Specific Dreams Interpretations

Sometimes, people have a dream where there crush is sending them a text or handing them a letter. This type of dream tends to have a specific meaning. It generally means that you want to receive a message or sign from your crush. Most likely, it means that you want them to tell you in some way if they are interested or not. Again, this only reflects your own subconscious thoughts and desires. For you to find out how your crush feels in real life, you would have to make a move.

If something negative happens in your dream like your crush becomes injured, it shows that you care about them and are afraid that they could be hurt. If you dream that your crush leaves their girlfriend or boyfriend, this is just a sign that you want them to be single and available in real life. If your crush appears in the dream with a date, it may mean that you are afraid they could be taken or that you respect their real life relationship and do not want to make a move yet.

Death is often a sign of transformation, so you may have a dream that your crush dies. Thankfully, this does not mean that your crush will actually die in real life. Instead, it just means that you feel like a change or transformation is coming. You may hope that your relationship to your crush is transformed and you are able to actually be with them romantically.

More Dream Meanings

If you dream that you were arguing with your crush in a dream, don’t panic. Arguments often represent an internal conflict or tension. Since the argument is with your crush, you may feel internally conflicted over whether your crush likes you or not. It could show your frustration about just being friends or a desire to be more than friends.

If you dream that you are kissing your crush, it shows a desire for love and affection. This also reflects strongly on your own self-esteem because it indicates that you feel confident that your crush could like you back if he or she really gave you a chance.

Why Do You Keep Dreaming About Your Crush Over and Over Again?

Your dreams only reflect your own subconscious mind. Dreaming about your crush over and over again just means that you really want to be with your crush and have thoughts about him all of the time. What happens in the dream tends to show your own thoughts and feelings about your crush and if you think that a relationship is possible about it. If you never get to talk to your crush in real life, you may have dreams where you are finally able to talk to them and show your feelings. Telling your crush that you like him or her in a dream shows that you want to be able to do that in real life.

As for the real world, you have to be cautious about what you do. It is very easy to confuse your dream feelings with your real feelings. In addition, your dreams do not mean your crush likes you or not. The only way to find out if your crush is interested for sure is to ask them. If you think that they could be interested, make a move and see what happens. You never know—your crush could be having dreams about you as well.

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  1. Soooooooooo I have this crush on a boy, his friends already told me he doesn’t like me and that I need to get over him, I try to, but I keep having butterflies in my stomach for absolutely no reason….. I say I’m over him but when I go to bed, I keep having dreams about him even though I told myself multiple times I am over him I respect him having a boyfriend and all…….. but idk what to do……. I keep thinking about him even tho he doesn’t like me……….. I try to focus on something else, but then my mind sets right back to him………. I just don’t know what my body is doing………. I keep having weird dreams that he wants to have sex with me, and him liking me I had these dreams ever sense we first laid eyes on each other. Please tell me what I should do idk if my brain is still stuck with him or what but he does most of the signs to know if your crush likes you but idk……….

    • Your dreams are reflections of your thoughts and feelings. Unless he has given you reason to believe that he feels this way, then your dreams are your personal fantasies. His friends have explained that he does not share your feelings. Allow thoughts of him to fade. If he reaches out to you in the future, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Be sure to share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Aubree!

    • Your dreams are reflections of your social and emotional connection with your crush. Allow this dream to influence you to reach out to him. You will find benefit in spending additional time with him in person. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lily!

  2. I’m always dreaming about my crush, but this one dream I had last night was about him walking into this hallway and he kept looking at me instead of turning back. Like he always does in real life where he’s just always always looking at me and idk what to do. This one time he saw me laughing and laughing with my friends, but I wasn’t laughing at him but I could see he kept smiling n looking at me ? Well I really don’t know what to do😣

    • Your dream is about your thoughts and feelings regarding your crush. In real life, he looks at you often. This may be a reflection of his desires toward you. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Bella!

  3. I have a crush on this guy and in my dream he didn’t like me back. We went on this walking date, then after it he stopped and apologized on how he didn’t like me. Then he also made an excuse on how his dad didn’t want him dating.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your thoughts and feelings. It is certain that you are uncertain or confused about his feelings toward you. It is reasonable to assume that his parents do not want him dating at this time. Determine what you want for your future in your waking life. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Coolbeans!

  4. I just had a ‘dream’ where my ‘crush’ died. I didn’t even see him but I got called that he died, I don’t know how he died and the only thing that really happened was that I saw myself literally break down. I was so sad that I just got so weak. I had to go to the hospital but when I got there the doctors were a bit freaked out because things like this are unusual and they didn’t even get it. My mom explained to them that I am very sensitive and that someone I love just died. I was just so sad that I couldn’t even do anything except for crying.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your emotional influences and behaviors. You are aware of your strong emotional feelings. Allow this dream to influence you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will bring you many benefits in the future. Have a great day, Ramona!

  5. I have this dream about my crush everynight and even at 4am-6am she’s always there talking smiling and everywhere i go she’s still there. sometimes she’s kissing me. She’s my grade8 teacher. (Past teacher) but she’s my first crush. ‘Twas already 3years having a crush on her😪

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional relationships. The crush that you had on your teacher is normal, though it is not viable. Allow this dream to influence you to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. This will certainly bring you many benefits in the future. If there is someone in your life that you want to nourish a relationship with, then spend additional time with that person. Have a great day, Mayang!

  6. i dream my crush last night that he confessed me that he love me through via messages and my expression was shocked what does it mean?

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional desires. You may be interested in maintaining this relationship, but you are uncertain about his feelings for you. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will nourish your relationship. Have a great day, Jade!

  7. I’ve had 22 dreams about a single girl and it doesn’t make any sense. Her friends say she Doesn’t like me and it sometimes is obvious. But then she did this thing with her jacket where she hit my shoulder. I dont know why she did it. I mean shes a weird girl but that’s weird for her. I think she hates me or something. But my friends says she always looks at me. I think she’s just checking to see if I’m looking at her. Am I right about this? This all happened in real life though. But even when I knew she didn’t like me, I had 10 more dreams! Help plz.

    • You have had many dreams about this person. Her behaviors may be indications that she wants to nourish this relationship. However, her friends have informed you that she doesn’t like you. The best way to determine what the future holds is to speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Ensure that you always share your kindness and compassion. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Logan!

  8. So, I keep having a dream where my chorus class is on the bus home from a music festival we went to and, this part is really complex, the front drivers side tire of our bus blows out. My friend and I were on that side, so we didn’t fall far, but me crush was on the other side. He lands on the glass of the windows as they skid along the pavement. I grab his hand and help him to where we were. Then I realize that there are two other buses with orchestra and band from my school. I hug him as tight as I can as the buses hit ours. We end up off the road. He landed on top of me. I broke my ankle and he broke his arm. After that, he seams to be my boyfriend. Is there any reason for this? And is there another, less emotionally and physically scarring way for my inner self to get a boyfriend? That’s all my subconscious seams to think. If anyone has an idea can you please share them.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional desires. The negative aspects of your dream could be manifestations of the shows that you watch. You will find great benefit by abstaining from consuming violent and dramatic media. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. If there is someone in your life that you want to nourish a romantic relationship with, then speak with that person about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lizzi!

  9. Curious to hear what you’ll say about this one. My dreams are very nuanced. The feelings I have for my “crush” are more than just crush feelings. This dream is very recent.

    My “crush” and I were in my living room and it felt like we were about to engage in a wrestling match. We stood opposite each another, keeping space between us as we danced in a circle. The dance was just like the prancing of gazelles. The dance was effortless for both of us, and we moved in sync with each other’s steps. We floated on the air as we danced, without touching the floor. The pervasive feeling in the dream was that we were both deeply attracted to each other and my crush had finally acknowledged his deep attraction to me but was hesitant to “engage” me in any kind of touch. So we just danced around the room waiting for the other person to initiate the “combat”.

    There were at least two onlookers in the “ring”. One of them was my mom, who kept fading in and out of the scene (she died only a year ago). The onlookers were egging both of us on…coaxing us to “engage”. They each stood behind us, one behind him, one behind me. I’m the one who first moved closer to him. I danced fluidly as I moved towards him. No aggression. No struggle. When I reached him it seemed that two things happened at the same time: 1) I turned and put my back up against his chest, and 2) he draped his arms around my neck loosely in a gentle headlock–a headlock which felt like an embrace. The moment he took me in the headlock we bowed both of our heads at the same time. We danced together this way, with our heads bowed, and my back pressed against his chest. My knees felt weak. My body felt immobilized except for my dancing feet and, to an extent, my legs. I remember holding onto his forearms with my hands for support. There was a deep feeling of oneness during the whole dream. When he had me in the headlock the feelings I sensed from him were very beautiful. There was almost a nurturing quality to the emotions he was projecting as he held me in the lock. He didn’t want to hurt me but he wanted me to be his, in *every* sense of the word. He also felt slightly inferior, as though he was thinking, “I’m not much. What could I *possibly* offer you?”
    We continued to perform this floating gazelle dance together in perfect sync while holding onto each other for a while until we both disengaged and then the dream scene ended.

    • Your dream is highly detailed and open to the interpretation that you create. It is clear that you and your crush are close, and you have extremely strong feelings for him. Your relationship with your mother appeared in the dream, and her behavior in the dream could indicate that she wants you to be happy. The feelings of inferiority that you felt your crush express could be a manifestation of conversations or interactions that you had during your waking life. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings, and nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Amy!

  10. I have a crush on this girl big time and I have had a crush on her for a long time but she was dating a boy and she’s not dating anyone now but I had a dream of my friend saying she liked me and I was right beside her and I asked and she said yes she does like me and I said I like her too. Like she looks at me a lot or stares and I do the same. One of my friends said once in real life that she liked me and thought I was cute but didn’t know if she wanted to date me. I have feelings for her but I’m so shy to tell her and wanna show her interest but she knows I like her but I don’t know if she likes me back.

    • The dream shows that you wish that she would like you back, and it may also be influenced by the fact that one of your friends seems to think that she is interested in you. Unfortunately, there is no way to know from just a dream if she likes you or not. The only way to find out is to start talking to her and flirting with her in real life–see how she responds and go from there! Good luck, Cody!

    • Your friend’s dream is a reflection of their social relationship with you. It is possible that they are aware of your emotional connection with your crush. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with your crush in person. Have a great day, Hermann!

    • Your friend’s dream is a reflection of their social relationship with you. It is possible that they are aware of your emotional connection with your crush. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with your crush about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with your crush in person. Have a great day, Hermann!

  11. Hi, ive dreamt of my crush in black for the 2nd time. I have always felt a twinflame tie to him. The dreams have occurred in dark undertones and i have also had recurrent stranger men appear in black. Please help 🙂

    • Hopefully, your dreams will come true. The dreams only show what is going on in your subconscious mind, so they do not reflect what can or will happen in real life. If he is amorous toward you in the dream, it may mean that your subconscious mind feels hopeful that he could like you back if he really gave you a chance. Until you or he decides to make a move, you will never know for sure though. Best of luck, Jaze!

  12. I have multiple dreams about my crush like one where we were best friends, a couple, or strangers with a strong connection to each other, which is us in real life. He gives me multiple signs that he likes me and I panic and my heart beats too fast. I just don’t know how to make a move. He’s a really shy person and I don’t want to make uncomfortable. What should I do I’m a shy person too but only around him.

    • Your dream is a reflection of your social and emotional relationship with your crush. It is clear that you feel a strong connection with him. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kylie!

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