‘Why would he want to do that?’
‘Am I not good enough?’
‘What does she have that I don’t?’
One thing guaranteed to make us uneasy is when we feel as though are man is not being completely loyal to us. Like when he glances, stares or even takes a peek at another woman who is, well… Who isn’t us! This can send us spiraling into our deepest thoughts concerning our worst insecurities. That is why we wonder to ourselves what our husband is possibly thinking when he looks at another woman.
There are several different reasons why your husband might be glancing at someone else. Don’t worry! Not every single reason he might be looking at someone else means that he doesn’t love you. We sometimes can’t help where our eyes follow. It’s totally normal for a guy or a girl to look at someone who isn’t there partner. Even if we don’t think that it is. It might hurt our feelings, but it is important to remember that it is a normal human reaction. Both men and women do this. Most times involuntarily.
Yes, he might think that she is good looking. We know that sounds horrible, because we like to believe that our partners only find us and no one else in this world attractive. But that is unrealistic. We all have primal instincts. So we have to face it. He might have thought she was hot! Your husband could have saw her and thought that she was attractive. This might draw his attention to her for a minute, but the moment she is out of sight his mind is going to be right back on you. It is unlikely that he was thinking about leaving you for her. So don’t take too far and get dramatic about it. When guys see a hot girl they literally have a reaction in their brain that tells them, “Hey! Look at that!” Women have the same thing.
There is also more than one reason that he might have looked. You never know, he could have been interested in an item that she was carrying or wearing that you might not have noticed. There are many times people walking are doing strange things. She might have been doing something weird that caught his attention. She could have also been on the phone and your husband might have overheard some of her conversation.
It is important to remember that none of this means that your husband isn’t committed to you. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t still love you as much as he did day one. To be honest, he probably glanced at other women from day one. You just have not always been able to catch him the act!
It’s also crucial to remember that doesn’t mean that he finds her hotter than you. He is not looking to replace you with her by any means. He also isn’t thinking about packing his bags and getting out of dodge.
So try not to beat yourself up too much about it, because it is pretty harmless most of the time.
We might think that men and women are the same. That they both are attracted to people through feeling. Unfortunately that is not true! Men don’t need to feel a strong emotional connection in order to feel attracted to the opposite sex. Men tend to find appearance the deciding factor in whether or not they are aroused by a girl. Oppositely women tend to find men attractive based on things like looks and feelings.
So when is it a problem? When does your husband looking at another woman become something extremely worrisome? It might be a problem if you notice that he is doing it at every even slightly pretty girl and his look is lingering for an extended period of time. This can be cause for concern. He might really cross a line when he actually goes and approaches the woman he looked at! That is definitely a no-no when it comes to being in a committed relationship. Flirting with her is also another on the list of things that he really should not being do. When a look becomes an action it should be a huge red flag for you. This could mean that he is not taking your commitment seriously.
It is simply disrespectful to do anything more than have a quick glance at a woman passing by. When he takes it to the max it can be devastating to you.The same could be said for you when it comes to looking at a very good looking guy! It’s okay to take a gander, but start staring and it is going to become a problem! Relationships are about sharing mutual respect. This respect is necessary to remain confident and trustworthy to maintain a healthy relationship.